Hear people knocking at my door (unannounced nor invited) and I just sit here like it's not happening?
How wrong is it to
That's so cold.lol
Posted by ElleDuMondeLibra moon, 3rd house, si senorña
Libra in your chart?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428And what's worse is I find it funny!
That's so cold.lol
Posted by GeminiamObviously, I don't eitherPosted by MohiniI've done it. People should call first. I don't like uninvited people showing up.
Hear people knocking at my door (unannounced nor invited) and I just sit here like it's not happening?
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Posted by sadpopcornSpider man, spider man, does whatever a spider can!
it's wrong but i slip out the back door. i don't have a back door more like a 3 floor jump from the side of my building.
I do it all the time. I can see them from the couch. It's like 5 feet away essentially. I just look at them and close the vertical blinds.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXRight though? When I make plans, I don't just confirm, I also let them know I'm on the way because I am respectful to others spaces.
I do that as well.
Don't show up uninvited to my house or you WILL be standing outside.
I hate when people come over to my house unannounced.
I find it incredibly rude and invasive.
I think I did this to myself.
I normally just open the door and " facilitate their needs and act as a good hostess"
But it struck my fancy to just ignore it today. I laughed audibly loud enough to hear from outside. Music blaring, the front door was even open with just the glass door locked. Im sure I was seen laughing and ignoring it. And I.do.not.care.
Enough already
Posted by QuantumHaha
I do it all the time. I can see them from the couch. It's like 5 feet away essentially. I just look at them and close the vertical blinds.
So you weren't hiding?
Posted by ElleDuMondeBefore, ive gone as far as to lie about my whereabouts. Like I'm literally in my house texting them I'm not home while they knock and wait.
lol....I do the same thing.
I also do it if someone intrudes and calls and says....I am on my way over...be there in about two minutes....
....without being invited
I can be two feet away from the door but I will pretend I am busy and wont answer til I feel lIke it.
They can wait.
I never answer texts I don't want to.
And to boot, haven't checked my voicemail in... 2 years, maybe 1? Been full since 2014 😄
Posted by tizianiCan't wait for the cake you bake when I show up at your doorstep unannounced : ) hahaaaa.
introverts smh
Posted by WynterNa, why would I hide in my own home? I acted oblivious and then cracked up despite myself!
So you weren't hiding?
Posted by MohiniI have the same policy that I do with my phone. If I am not expecting the call or don't recognize the caller, I don't answer it. I don't feel guilty at all, though.
Hear people knocking at my door (unannounced nor invited) and I just sit here like it's not happening?
Posted by LillyPetalMe either. And I think that's what makes it so funny!Posted by MohiniI have the same policy that I do with my phone. If I am not expecting the call or don't recognize the caller, I don't answer it. I don't feel guilty at all, though.
Hear people knocking at my door (unannounced nor invited) and I just sit here like it's not happening?
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Posted by ElleDuMondeAlright, share your story, spill the beans... Lol
It's only thug life if you invited them over and then pretended you weren't home.
I have not done that (except that one time) but I know a cap who was notorious with that butter.
Of course, I got my retribution in full 😄
Posted by ElleDuMondeLol, but why do that?
It's only thug life if you invited them over and then pretended you weren't home.
I have not done that (except that one time) but I know a cap who was notorious with that butter.
Of course, I got my retribution in full 😄
Posted by LillyPetalWe don't know the story. Wait for it.Posted by ElleDuMondeLol, but why do that?
It's only thug life if you invited them over and then pretended you weren't home.
I have not done that (except that one time) but I know a cap who was notorious with that butter.
Of course, I got my retribution in full 😄click to expand
Sometimes there is no explanation. We go off pure instinct and it feels good.
Posted by MohiniI thought you were referring to social phobia, I guess. But you are just being rebellious instead 🙂Posted by WynterNa, why would I hide in my own home? I acted oblivious and then cracked up despite myself!
So you weren't hiding?click to expand
Posted by WynterI see your sag sun, and raise you Aries mars lol.Posted by MohiniI thought you were referring to social phobia, I guess. But you are just being rebellious instead 🙂Posted by WynterNa, why would I hide in my own home? I acted oblivious and then cracked up despite myself!
So you weren't hiding?click to expand
I have no phobia with people. I have an issue with my down time being interrupted by people that I wouldn't throw a welcome mat out for.
I don't ask for you to come visit. They just do it. And I facilitate them. But I'm done extending my graciousness. At least for today. I'm not in the mood to play dr.Phil with them.
Posted by ElleDuMondeI don't see the connection. You, however, have done it once before, so you are better suited to answer the question. I wouldn't do that because I despise time-wasting, and I'm not social.Posted by LillyPetalI don't know, he is a pisces moon....you tell me.Posted by ElleDuMondeLol, but why do that?
It's only thug life if you invited them over and then pretended you weren't home.
I have not done that (except that one time) but I know a cap who was notorious with that butter.
Of course, I got my retribution in full 😄click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvWould it be worse if you showed up unannounced and your friend just ignored you?
I do that lol
When uninvited though
Usually this friend helps.
Usually this friend is accommodating.
But this day,she sat on her couch and tried to keep a straight face when you knocked, and lost her willpower.
I feel liberated.
Posted by ElleDuMondeI relate to not appreciating it when someone does not follow through with plans, but I don't relate to the act of mirroring the action that irritates me. I much prefer to just tell the person directly and then to not deal with them anymore if nothing changes. Perhaps it's my Pisces moon...
There is no story really, I just returned the favour once by not opening the door and the second by leaving and then claiming I forgot he was coming.
I hate when people make plans and flake....if you don't hear me when I express that and make it a habit....I will then show you how it feels.
Posted by ElleDuMondeHey, I wanted nitty gritty. So what. You did it. Bygones.Posted by LillyPetalIt was done to me first even though I was invited. I felt it was rude and I didn't feel I was heard....so, I returned the sentiment.Posted by ElleDuMondeI don't see the connection. You, however, have done it once before, so you are better suited to answer the question. I wouldn't do that because I despise time-wasting, and I'm not social.Posted by LillyPetalI don't know, he is a pisces moon....you tell me.Posted by ElleDuMondeLol, but why do that?
It's only thug life if you invited them over and then pretended you weren't home.
I have not done that (except that one time) but I know a cap who was notorious with that butter.
Of course, I got my retribution in full 😄click to expand
Got it.
Posted by MohiniThat's why I asked, to understand the motive behind the action. That's one of the things I enjoy least about social dynamics, often times, people feel entitled to your attention and time. It's rough when you are the type of person that may want to socialize, but only for a few minutes, and then may be never again in the near future.Posted by ElleDuMondeHey, I wanted nitty gritty. So what. You did it. Bygones.Posted by LillyPetalIt was done to me first even though I was invited. I felt it was rude and I didn't feel I was heard....so, I returned the sentiment.Posted by ElleDuMondeI don't see the connection. You, however, have done it once before, so you are better suited to answer the question. I wouldn't do that because I despise time-wasting, and I'm not social.Posted by LillyPetalI don't know, he is a pisces moon....you tell me.Posted by ElleDuMondeLol, but why do that?
It's only thug life if you invited them over and then pretended you weren't home.
I have not done that (except that one time) but I know a cap who was notorious with that butter.
Of course, I got my retribution in full 😄click to expand
Posted by LillyPetalOk. So it's rough for that person who seeks to be understood. But that's nobody else fault. No one else should have to sacrifice their time to facilitate their neediness.Posted by MohiniThat's why I asked, to understand the motive behind the action. That's one of the things I enjoy least about social dynamics, often times, people feel entitled to your attention and time. It's rough when you are the type of person that may want to socialize, but only for a few minutes, and then may be never again in the near future.Posted by ElleDuMondeHey, I wanted nitty gritty. So what. You did it. Bygones.Posted by LillyPetalIt was done to me first even though I was invited. I felt it was rude and I didn't feel I was heard....so, I returned the sentiment.Posted by ElleDuMondeI don't see the connection. You, however, have done it once before, so you are better suited to answer the question. I wouldn't do that because I despise time-wasting, and I'm not social.Posted by LillyPetalI don't know, he is a pisces moon....you tell me.Posted by ElleDuMondeLol, but why do that?
It's only thug life if you invited them over and then pretended you weren't home.
I have not done that (except that one time) but I know a cap who was notorious with that butter.
Of course, I got my retribution in full 😄click to expand
You go out your way to help someone and they automatically get rights to your private time? No. I'll denote time or they can find someone else to fill their void.
Posted by ElleDuMondeMaybe, I'm not fond of connecting every action to astrology, but my libra co-worker is as you describe yourself. He considers himself to be very aware and thoughtful of others, and he doesn't appreciate it when people are thoughtless because he believes people should simply be as he is: considerate. He doesn't confront them, but he does act passively aggressive.Posted by LillyPetalThen maybe it wasn't the moon at all...maybe it was the aqua venus.Posted by ElleDuMondeI relate to not appreciating it when someone does not follow through with plans, but I don't relate to the act of mirroring the action that irritates me. I much prefer to just tell the person directly and then to not deal with them anymore if nothing changes. Perhaps it's my Pisces moon...
There is no story really, I just returned the favour once by not opening the door and the second by leaving and then claiming I forgot he was coming.
I hate when people make plans and flake....if you don't hear me when I express that and make it a habit....I will then show you how it feels.
I am a scorp bloated with libra. If I try to say something that bothers me and someone doesn't bother to listen and at least acknowledge....I can be very passive aggressive.click to expand
Posted by ElleDuMondeWhy are you being defensive? I was merely making an observation about social dynamics. It had nothing to do with how you felt.Posted by LillyPetalDetach yourself.Posted by MohiniThat's why I asked, to understand the motive behind the action. That's one of the things I enjoy least about social dynamics, often times, people feel entitled to your attention and time. It's rough when you are the type of person that may want to socialize, but only for a few minutes, and then may be never again in the near future.Posted by ElleDuMondeHey, I wanted nitty gritty. So what. You did it. Bygones.Posted by LillyPetalIt was done to me first even though I was invited. I felt it was rude and I didn't feel I was heard....so, I returned the sentiment.Posted by ElleDuMondeI don't see the connection. You, however, have done it once before, so you are better suited to answer the question. I wouldn't do that because I despise time-wasting, and I'm not social.Posted by LillyPetalI don't know, he is a pisces moon....you tell me.Posted by ElleDuMondeLol, but why do that?
It's only thug life if you invited them over and then pretended you weren't home.
I have not done that (except that one time) but I know a cap who was notorious with that butter.
Of course, I got my retribution in full 😄
Nobody felt entitled.
I was invited. If someone changed their mind they could have been considerate and texted....didn't even have to call.
To be invited only to be ignored because someone wasn't feeling like being in your presence is pretty rude.click to expand
Posted by ElleDuMondeEye for an eye deal. I get it.
There is no story really, I just returned the favour once by not opening the door and the second by leaving and then claiming I forgot he was coming.
I hate when people make plans and flake....if you don't hear me when I express that and make it a habit....I will then show you how it feels.
Your intentions were right (teach a lesson) yet your heart was numb.
I can't pretend I'm a saint. But it can be humorous.
Posted by sadpopcornHahaahahaha
once though i think someone just took a dump in my house had a cab waiting for her. weird!
How much did your freaking dump cost me? I can see the argument now, " Was that shit worth it!!!" Literally
Posted by MohiniLiterally I just make eye contact and close the shades LOL.Posted by QuantumHaha
I do it all the time. I can see them from the couch. It's like 5 feet away essentially. I just look at them and close the vertical blinds.click to expand
I hate people showing up at my door.
Posted by ElleDuMondeBlech, communication is off today. I can't seem to focus on what people are saying - like I'm trying to continue a conversation I had in my sleep. Anyway, I hear you about the water sign...I've been trying to pawn off my moon for a while now.
@LillyPetal
I can assure you I wasnt being defensive.
I felt you weren't understanding so I probably overexplained.
I am a water sign...it has everything to do with how I felt.
Posted by sadpopcornHahaha, Ive done it. Buf I'll turn straight faced to them and say, "I have to shit so stop."Posted by Mohinishe was a sag! 😆Posted by sadpopcornHahaahahaha
once though i think someone just took a dump in my house had a cab waiting for her. weird!
How much did your freaking dump cost me? I can see the argument now, " Was that shit worth it!!!" Literally
she tried to play it off like oh i just saw ur bldg and had to say hi... i'll just use your bathroom real quick!click to expand
And that usually spells if out for them.
Posted by QuantumBut this is you
I do it all the time. I can see them from the couch. It's like 5 feet away essentially. I just look at them and close the vertical blinds.
*just sink back slowly*
Posted by starwarsPosted by Quantumhttp://i67.tinypic.com/dbio08.jpg<div class="bqfade">click to expand
I do it all the time. I can see them from the couch. It's like 5 feet away essentially. I just look at them and close the vertical blinds.
Those are mini blinds though.
Posted by starwarsBoom.
i only do it when someone i dislike come by otherwise i dont mind, get in and serve yourself i aint moving
Their is a hierarchy. Admittingly so.
Posted by tizianiI prefer the term "Covert Sociability"
introverts smh
Posted by HarukkaNormally, I do too. But today, I just didn't. Got a kick out of it too.
I always open the door, unless I'm crying or something ¹
Posted by MohiniScale of 1 - 10
Hear people knocking at my door (unannounced nor invited) and I just sit here like it's not happening?
0
Not wrong at all!
I just yell go the fuck away or they start up and down the porch staring through windows.
Posted by cheekyfaerieOk funny story.
Are they Jehovah's Witness? Cause if you answer the door nekkid, they never come back.
One day I got out the shower with a towel wrapped around me, I hear a knock at the door. I look out the window and see old ladies. So I answer the door.
While I try to open the door, mg big ass dof tries to escape, so while trying to pull him back, the field slipped off and I relaiezed, I was fill mooning my entire goodness to two old Jehovah witnesses.
I mooned them from cdack to crease.
In my state. I told them go have a good day and shut the door. They left paper work the next time I ventured out.
But I have mooned, a bunch of Jehovah witnesses.
Posted by LillyPetal+100Posted by ElleDuMondeI relate to not appreciating it when someone does not follow through with plans, but I don't relate to the act of mirroring the action that irritates me. I much prefer to just tell the person directly and then to not deal with them anymore if nothing changes. Perhaps it's my Pisces moon...
There is no story really, I just returned the favour once by not opening the door and the second by leaving and then claiming I forgot he was coming.
I hate when people make plans and flake....if you don't hear me when I express that and make it a habit....I will then show you how it feels.click to expand
i do it all the time to Jehovah witnesses. i took one of their pamphlets once and now they won't stop knocking
Posted by MohiniPosted by cheekyfaerieOk funny story.
Are they Jehovah's Witness? Cause if you answer the door naked, they never come back.
One day I got out the shower with a towel wrapped around me, I hear a knock at the door. I look out the window and see old ladies. So I answer the door.
While I try to open the door, mg big ass dog tries to escape, so while trying to pull him back, the towel slipped off and I relaiezed, I was full mooning my entire goodness to two old Jehovah witnesses.
I mooned them from crack to crease.
In my state. I told them go have a good day and shut the door. They left paper work the next time I ventured out.
But I have mooned, a bunch of Jehovah witnesses.
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Posted by Mohini
Hear people knocking at my door (unannounced nor invited) and I just sit here like it's not happening?
It's more wrong than right. From 1 to 10? 5,5.
I do it since I feel old for the sh1t. When I was young, I loved it when they came to visit me. Specially when I was a student.
I even listened to Jehova's witnesses. Of course because the explorer wanted to know about new things.
Posted by MohiniPosted by cheekyfaerieOk funny story.
Are they Jehovah's Witness? Cause if you answer the door nekkid, they never come back.
One day I got out the shower with a towel wrapped around me, I hear a knock at the door. I look out the window and see old ladies. So I answer the door.
While I try to open the door, mg big ass dof tries to escape, so while trying to pull him back, the field slipped off and I relaiezed, I was fill mooning my entire goodness to two old Jehovah witnesses.
I mooned them from cdack to crease.
In my state. I told them go have a good day and shut the door. They left paper work the next time I ventured out.
But I have mooned, a bunch of Jehovah witnesses.
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how funny. like in the movies.
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