I AM BACK!!!!! Help with a Taur man

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NikkiMse1978
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Hello all!
I have been seeing my Taurus since January. We were wonderful in the beginning! Date nights, flowers, cards, cooking dinner together, spending time with our kids together, talking about marrige and having more kids, cuddling, love making. I used to see him everyday (we used to workout together)

And now, I felt a change in him a couple months ago. He is not as affectionate. He does not call me or text me back as he used to. No more dinners, date nights, alone time, no more talk of wedding planning, kids, nothing.
He seems like he is withdrawing from me.
I need to know why? Or how to get him to talk to me. He used to in the beginning too. Now he is ignoring me.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!
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red flag. i messed around with a tauri and my aries bff dated a tauri hoping to marry him.

how is your sex life with him? tauri men are horndogs and i noticed that when they arent satisfied at home, they do stray.

has he talked you about his fetishes? he's got em. you have to match their level or horniness and freakiness.

i agree, talk to him immediately.

i swear tauri men can be worse than scorpio men.
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when my aries friend told me that her tauri live in bf started to become distant, i told her it was because he was up to no good and probably was using the cold spell to get her to move out without him having to be a douche about it. she eventually got kicked out. i told her that he wanted her to leave so he didnt have to use hotel rooms anymore.

one day, aries went by his house to say hello. he was outside with his shirt off walking the dog. she asked to come in and he said she couldnt. there was another girl in the house.

i guess he didnt want to pay for hotel rooms anymore.
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Posted by Ligeia
The Taurus guys I've dated did this a lot around

that 6 months-a year mark in our relationship.

They are quite infamous for their Houdini spells.

Have you tried reaching out to him and letting him

know what's up?


Problem with them they get comfortable then have a

freak out then disappear for a bit. Then come back

around with their tails between their legs. Like

nothing has happend. Here's the thing are you willing

to deal with this type of behavior from him for the

forseeable future?


You don't deserve to be ignored by the guy you care

for. Talk to him about it and if things don't change

then the ball is in your court to put up or shut up.



I got it out of him what was up....he said he didn't know if he wanted to be with me still. I told him I now needed to think about what I wanted...
And I broke it off! You cannot be with a man or anyone for that matter if they themselves do not know if they want to be with you or not. It is a lost cause!
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Posted by DMV
red flag. i messed around with a tauri and my aries bff dated a tauri hoping to marry him.

how is your sex life with him? tauri men are horndogs and i noticed that when they arent satisfied at home, they do stray.

has he talked you about his fetishes? he's got em. you have to match their level or horniness and freakiness.

i agree, talk to him immediately.

i swear tauri men can be worse than scorpio men.



DMV-I laughed out loud at this because the day I broke up with him, he had his ex at his house. He justified it by saying I told him I didn't want to speak to him anymore and he needed someone to talk to (his grandma was dying) so he called his ex. LOL.
What you said in your post was dead on!!!
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NikkiMse1978
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Posted by Theultra79
Funny, this happened with a Taurus ex of mine. Everything was fine, exact situation as you, then he withdrew. talking didn't help. He blamed it on still being traumatized over his divorce 3yrs prior. Bullshit. I cursed him out and left him alone. A month later he texts and was pissed I didn't know who he was cause I deleted his number. Lol. Asked me to go to lunch. I said no.

I don't know what to tell you. I'd probably just back off and give him plenty space. Keep ur eyes open tho.



I dropped him a week after I posted this. 🙂
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I have had 2 taurus "relationship" Heres the story of how it went:

1 taurus:


was a selfish, indugent motherfucker who only wanted sex. and when he couldn't get it. He ran home to his mom and never called me or talked to me. THe very next day i saw him flirting with another girl. Thnx for that fucking douchebag.

2 Taurus:


I met him when i had a hard time, after a breakup with a virgo. And he found me in all my misery and helped me. We have now been together for almost 2 years and i love him. its amazing cuz taurus and sagittarius is supposed to be a lost couple, but we work. I just feel so connected to him. He is always there, he always calls, always loves and always gives me sex when i want it. So its a good match.

So just be careful, for as you can see those taurus are like night and day. you never know what you'll get!