I have a few questions about A Sagittarius man

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Tauruskee on Thursday, September 15, 2016 and has 22 replies.
I've been dating a sag man for about 8months. Lately we having being going through a rough patch and we recently broke up. He said I was disrespecting are relationship ship by staying out late at night. Other than that wear a good relationship. I just want my man back
At first it was 5-6 am but I jus be with my homies a bunch of girls. No he just think no woman in a relationship should be out after those hours. He be like what am I looking for when I have man. Bad thing I meet him in a after hour. The week we broke up he was giving mix signals like a mug. I'm jus so confused. He did reveal that he had stepped out of the relationship.
Let me tell hun.... I'm a Taurus and I know exactly what you are going through. My sag and I were good until I caught him lying about talking to other woman. I cant get mad if these were women before me and you had no sexual chemistry with but he was meeting new ones and that's when we got into it. Out relationship was good for the most part up until that point. I learned they are better off as a friend than a lover. My 3 cousins and uncle are Sags and I seen how they do women and it taught me something. My sag is mad at me bc I caught him and he tried to turn it all back on me and say I was cheating. Tuh!!! I love and miss him but I don't know if I even want to put myself back in that situation of facing lies and infidelity again.
Where to begin?! 3 taurus women pissed off about sag men. Lord help me.

To the 1st Taurus, yes staying out that late is imo disrespecting him and the relationship. Disrespect breeds disrespect. He probably thinks your not serious so he stopped giving a shyt. Id let this horse go. Hes not serious about you or the relationship. Find someone whose ideals match with yours. That way you both.can hang out till the wee hours of the morning.

2nd Taurus, ive noticed that tauri women always assume a sag or almost any other man is trying to control them. I guess it comes down to trust.

3rd Taurus, i wish that you would log off for your own sanity. Misery loves company. You cant move forward if you keep allowing yourself to fall into despair. Stop reliving your pain mama. It causes us to age faster.

Either move forward and 4get the past or wash you hands and be done. Shit or get off the pot. If you miss him so damn.much go be with him!! If you cant get over it, stop reliving your pain. Close the wound for good. Your blocking future blessings.

Taurus and the whole broken record syndrome is draining.
Posted by DMV
Where to begin?! 3 taurus women pissed off about sag men. Lord help me.



3rd Taurus, i wish that you would log off for your own sanity. Misery loves company. You cant move forward if you keep allowing yourself to fall into despair. Stop reliving your pain mama. It causes us to age faster.

Either move forward and 4get the past or wash you hands and be done. Shit or get off the pot. If you miss him so damn.much go be with him!! If you cant get over it, stop reliving your pain. Close the wound for good. Your blocking future blessings.

First and foremost, you need to learn how to not be so f*^#% rude. So what if I feel the way I feel. Hell everyone had been hurt and whatever. Nobody tells you to log off and jump off the bridge when you upset about your sh*% so calm down!!! Like I said in my post I've learned I just need to be friends with Sags and mentioned how my family has showed me that most men of that sign are who they are and will never be anything more. I never block my blessings bc I know God has something better in store. But thank you for you harsh words of insight!!! ??????
I hope i was so rude that you logg off. Its for youre own good. Youll thank me later.
Idk if it was PAngel or someone else who wrote a thread about women who like to relive pain.

It was an eye opener.
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by LadyJuicy
My 3 cousins and uncle are Sags and I seen how they do women and it taught me something. My sag is mad at me bc I caught him and he tried to turn it all back on me and say I was cheating.
Such a Sag move to change the subject - shift it right onto you. You'll be defending yourself for twice as long as you accused them before you figure out what they did. They are masters of sophistry. SO many of them do cheat. The deep insecurity causes extreme jealousy and control of you on one end, especially if you're very attractive, and then, for the very same reason of insecurity they are still out playing the field behind your back, bragging to their friends about it. Not every, but so many Sag males are like this.

I have seen Sag men get obsessed over Taurus women though. They definitely desire deep loyalty, even if they cannot provide it.

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I have learned and this time apart from him has helped me see that I deserve much better bc I know it's not going to get better. Sags live for attention, hate rejection and flirt like there is no tomorrow. It's sad bc they let such good woman go bc there too fickle. Not all Sags may be bad but the ones around me are not displaying what a man should be.

Posted by DMV
I hope i was so rude that you logg off. Its for youre own good. Youll thank me later.
I won't log off but thanks!!! ??? I'll make sure to follow you on each forum and comment about my experiences with Sags just so you can enjoy me reliving my moment. ???
Posted by Tauruskee
At first it was 5-6 am but I jus be with my homies a bunch of girls. No he just think no woman in a relationship should be out after those hours. He be like what am I looking for when I have man. Bad thing I meet him in a after hour. The week we broke up he was giving mix signals like a mug. I'm jus so confused. He did reveal that he had stepped out of the relationship.
He's putting the focus on you being out too late when the real issue you all should be discussing is how he cheated.

"No woman in a relationship should be out at those hours".

How bout "No man in a relationship should be looking for new pussy".
Well there are some sag women who skip out on their man. I wouldnt say that we are all faithful and trustworthy.

Out Of the entired zodiac, id say that sag men and women are the same.

I have faith in the 3rd taurus. I mean you would used to jump on every single sag man thread just to keep reiterating your experience, hurt, and distaste for sag men. But you have seriously calmed down and seems like you have a new focus in life.

Awesome
Posted by LadyJuicy
Posted by DMV
Where to begin?! 3 taurus women pissed off about sag men. Lord help me.



3rd Taurus, i wish that you would log off for your own sanity. Misery loves company. You cant move forward if you keep allowing yourself to fall into despair. Stop reliving your pain mama. It causes us to age faster.

Either move forward and 4get the past or wash you hands and be done. Shit or get off the pot. If you miss him so damn.much go be with him!! If you cant get over it, stop reliving your pain. Close the wound for good. Your blocking future blessings.

First and foremost, you need to learn how to not be so f*^#% rude. So what if I feel the way I feel. Hell everyone had been hurt and whatever. Nobody tells you to log off and jump off the bridge when you upset about your sh*% so calm down!!! Like I said in my post I've learned I just need to be friends with Sags and mentioned how my family has showed me that most men of that sign are who they are and will never be anything more. I never block my blessings bc I know God has something better in store. But thank you for you harsh words of insight!!! ??????
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whoa... LOL having dated a Sag I am sure you know they say things more bluntly than others. There was no malice in the advice provided. sheesh High horse anyone *rolls eyes*. The only time someone can get as upset as you did over the advice given is when there is truth to the words been spoken. The old saying... if the shoe fits.

Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by DMV

3rd Taurus, i wish that you would log off for your own sanity. Misery loves company. You cant move forward if you keep allowing yourself to fall into despair. Stop reliving your pain mama. It causes us to age faster.

Either move forward and 4get the past or wash you hands and be done. Shit or get off the pot. If you miss him so damn.much go be with him!! If you cant get over it, stop reliving your pain. Close the wound for good. Your blocking future blessings.

LOL, do you know any Taurus people? This is not how they operate. They need to chew on things for a while...

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Lol @ chew.

I feel for fixed signs tho.
Posted by DMV
Well there are some sag women who skip out on their man. I wouldnt say that we are all faithful and trustworthy.

Out Of the entired zodiac, id say that sag men and women are the same.

I have faith in the 3rd taurus. I mean you would used to jump on every single sag man thread just to keep reiterating your experience, hurt, and distaste for sag men. But you have seriously calmed down and seems like you have a new focus in life.

Awesome
Thank you. I'm learning and I told you that. Lol. It's a lesson learned trust me. Never been in this position before bc my relationships always lasted years not months so that's why I'm so startled and just on these threads and be so negative. So it's s learning experience hun. ??

Posted by Redoctober2000
Posted by DMV
Taurus and the whole broken record syndrome is draining.
It certainly is draining!!

Unfortunately a lot of Taurus women are going to find that the majority (not all) of sag men are not going to mirror the same values we have in a relationship. The sag men like our moral values but can't give it themselves.

They are way too insecure. They need tooooooooo much attention and Taurus are independent. We don't have time for that...

This pairing is like oil and water.

Taurus man and sag woman work much much better...

Sag women are polar opposites!! Faithful and trustworthy honest bunch!
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So true!!!! The Taurus men are different but way more aggressive than Taurus woman just like the Sag woman are loyal and the men are just slut buckets!!!

Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by DMV

3rd Taurus, i wish that you would log off for your own sanity. Misery loves company. You cant move forward if you keep allowing yourself to fall into despair. Stop reliving your pain mama. It causes us to age faster.

Either move forward and 4get the past or wash you hands and be done. Shit or get off the pot. If you miss him so damn.much go be with him!! If you cant get over it, stop reliving your pain. Close the wound for good. Your blocking future blessings.

LOL, do you know any Taurus people? This is not how they operate. They need to chew on things for a while...

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My thing is her being a Sag of course she was sticking up for her fellow Sags and so be it. I am a lover and when I care about someone, yes I need to know what's up and need closure. So if I dwell on subjects it's bc I don't understand what is going on. Like I said I've been in years relationships not breaking up with someone in months. Plus she doesn't know the whole scoop as to why I feel the way I do but now it's understood and won't be explained anymore. Lol. I have Sag female friends and they are crazy as hell and always wanna fight and call people out without thinking words hurt. So I'm good and over it. I've learned from the whole situation and I'm moving forward. ✌?️??

Posted by LadyJuicy
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by LadyJuicy
My 3 cousins and uncle are Sags and I seen how they do women and it taught me something. My sag is mad at me bc I caught him and he tried to turn it all back on me and say I was cheating.
Such a Sag move to change the subject - shift it right onto you. You'll be defending yourself for twice as long as you accused them before you figure out what they did. They are masters of sophistry. SO many of them do cheat. The deep insecurity causes extreme jealousy and control of you on one end, especially if you're very attractive, and then, for the very same reason of insecurity they are still out playing the field behind your back, bragging to their friends about it. Not every, but so many Sag males are like this.

I have seen Sag men get obsessed over Taurus women though. They definitely desire deep loyalty, even if they cannot provide it.

I have learned and this time apart from him has helped me see that I deserve much better bc I know it's not going to get better. Sags live for attention, hate rejection and flirt like there is no tomorrow. It's sad bc they let such good woman go bc there too fickle. Not all Sags may be bad but the ones around me are not displaying what a man should be.

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And what a man should be,according to you?

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Posted by LadyJuicy
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by LadyJuicy
My 3 cousins and uncle are Sags and I seen how they do women and it taught me something. My sag is mad at me bc I caught him and he tried to turn it all back on me and say I was cheating.
Such a Sag move to change the subject - shift it right onto you. You'll be defending yourself for twice as long as you accused them before you figure out what they did. They are masters of sophistry. SO many of them do cheat. The deep insecurity causes extreme jealousy and control of you on one end, especially if you're very attractive, and then, for the very same reason of insecurity they are still out playing the field behind your back, bragging to their friends about it. Not every, but so many Sag males are like this.

I have seen Sag men get obsessed over Taurus women though. They definitely desire deep loyalty, even if they cannot provide it.

I have learned and this time apart from him has helped me see that I deserve much better bc I know it's not going to get better. Sags live for attention, hate rejection and flirt like there is no tomorrow. It's sad bc they let such good woman go bc there too fickle. Not all Sags may be bad but the ones around me are not displaying what a man should be.



And what a man should be,according to you?

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A man should be what he so call say he is!!! If you tell me your loyal, genuine, romantic and then show me that. Don't tell me your all those things and your not. That's what I mean by not displaying what a man should be.

Posted by LadyJuicy
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by DMV

3rd Taurus, i wish that you would log off for your own sanity. Misery loves company. You cant move forward if you keep allowing yourself to fall into despair. Stop reliving your pain mama. It causes us to age faster.

Either move forward and 4get the past or wash you hands and be done. Shit or get off the pot. If you miss him so damn.much go be with him!! If you cant get over it, stop reliving your pain. Close the wound for good. Your blocking future blessings.

LOL, do you know any Taurus people? This is not how they operate. They need to chew on things for a while...

My thing is her being a Sag of course she was sticking up for her fellow Sags and so be it. I am a lover and when I care about someone, yes I need to know what's up and need closure. So if I dwell on subjects it's bc I don't understand what is going on. Like I said I've been in years relationships not breaking up with someone in months. Plus she doesn't know the whole scoop as to why I feel the way I do but now it's understood and won't be explained anymore. Lol. I have Sag female friends and they are crazy as hell and always wanna fight and call people out without thinking words hurt. So I'm good and over it. I've learned from the whole situation and I'm moving forward. ✌?️??

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Actually i didnt say a word about sticking up for ne1. Please go back and re read.

What i said was to help you not turn into a broken record.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Tauruskee
At first it was 5-6 am but I jus be with my homies a bunch of girls. No he just think no woman in a relationship should be out after those hours. He be like what am I looking for when I have man. Bad thing I meet him in a after hour. The week we broke up he was giving mix signals like a mug. I'm jus so confused. He did reveal that he had stepped out of the relationship.
He's putting the focus on you being out too late when the real issue you all should be discussing is how he cheated.

"No woman in a relationship should be out at those hours".

How bout "No man in a relationship should be looking for new pussy".
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And that was my argument his was way worst then mine. Now he's all in my dreams idk wth that's about ???
Quit being nice and nail her to the wall with that patented sag honesty. She needs it. When you do it leave the passion out. Approach it like a court room. Point out her actions. Randomly don't call her. Be unpredictable as fuck. If you always have time then she knows she doesn't need to make any. Your doing the work for her. Her mom called, she left herbow at home. Make her go get it or gtfo.