Posted by Nights22
I wouldnt know. I dnt block my phone as I have nothing to hide.
Posted by Sag89
I think my scorp may be crazy
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by PurrrrHissssPosted by DazedScorp
Daddy Scorp didn't know about the Leeb though...
He found out about him by HACKING INTO HER PASSWORD PROTECTED PHONE. That is not okay.
She should have told him before...
Or blocked his number if she knew he was still trying to contact her.click to expand
Posted by aquaj
I find it a little frightening how many psychopossessive people are on this thread.
Who think hacking into a phone is not a sign of a potentially abusive partner.
Who think that one should be accountable for their exes' actions when they're asleep or made to "pay the price" (and that includes being screamed at/given 0 trust).
Who think that one should have to report all their exes to their current partner and proceed to cut all contact with said exes, even if that means changing their phone number.
I'm gonna go ahead and guess that you people are single?
Posted by risingabovethemasses
ok people it all depends on where this scorpio and saggie sun's moon and other placements are at. i am no astrology expert but if he is a Scorpio sun and a Saggie moon and his venus is also in Saggie then guess what? he would probably be a pretty good match for her. What if her moon was in Scorpio or even Taurus, Pisces and Virgo? then she would probably be a perfect match for him. granted that there are many other factors involved in what makes someone a really good match but i don't think we should discredit all Saggie and Scorpio couples altogether.
So let's not just jump to any conclusions about anything. Besides there is also such a thing as a human will and when two people really really really love and care about one another then none of this stuff like "Saggie + Scorpio = no bueno" stuff will really matter!!!
Scorpio Sun, Aqua Moon
Posted by westside
this thread is great
on one stage, you have a lady talking sense, saying the dude is crazy.
on another stage, you have a dude trying to justify the dudes crazy actions, because he himself has done them before.
and on the last stage, you have a lady promoting womans rights, because she herself has mastered the art of infidelity.
look, the race of humans can speak for a reason. it allows us to converse and be diplomatic. you've already done that, but the dude still has not accepted it. this is what astrologers mean by scorpios 'self destructive behavior', but the kick is, you are aware of their potential to do that. so OP, do you go along with it? or do you not want to deal with it all? choose wisely.
Posted by risingabovethemasses
first of all WESTSIDE I am a Scorpio sun and Aqua moon MALE... and not a WOMAN who is NOT trying to justify or promote INFIDELITY of any sort. I am in this for logic and rationale rather than distance and irritation.
Scorp Sun and Aqua Moon Male
Posted by westsidePosted by risingabovethemasses
first of all WESTSIDE I am a Scorpio sun and Aqua moon MALE... and not a WOMAN who is NOT trying to justify or promote INFIDELITY of any sort. I am in this for logic and rationale rather than distance and irritation.
Scorp Sun and Aqua Moon Male
i agree with your logic and rationale, i was not speaking of you.click to expand
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by westside
on another stage, you have a dude trying to justify the dudes crazy actions, because he himself has done them before.
You need to learn to read...
I'm not trying to justify his actions one bit.
Go back and read what I said (Which Nights kindly QFT)
The hacking was uncalled for, but the reaction was not
I want everyone here to tell me that if your S/O received a text during the middle of the night saying I want to kiss, fuck, etc. that you wouldn't be upset.
Anyone???
There are a few here who actually follow the threads that Saggy posts on DXP. Given her history, I find it very reasonable that she discloses her past boyfriends to the scorp. Saggy has quite the luandy list of history/flings/boyfriends.
She wants his trust? Be honest.click to expand
Posted by Wynter
LOL @ Ted Bundy
Posted by OceanDeepPosted by Wynter
LOL @ Ted Bundy
Serial killer or not, the man was HOT lolclick to expand
ote>Posted by DazedScorpPosted by PurrrrHissssPosted by DazedScorp
Daddy Scorp didn't know about the Leeb though...
He found out about him by HACKING INTO HER PASSWORD PROTECTED PHONE. That is not okay.
She should have told him before...
Or blocked his number if she knew he was still trying to contact her.
Posted by DazedScorp
Exs should remain in the past...
If you're still friends, that info should be made clear when you start to get serious.
If you're not friends, get rid of all contact with them.
And if you're in a serious relationship, you shouldn't be getting texts in the middle of the night from drunkin exs.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by OceanDeep
What did Sag do OR not do that would provoke him enough to start hacking stuff? Did she tell him of her past? Or has she kept so mum about it that it makes her guilty of something because no one should be that mum about their past, unless of course they are hiding something. And if they're hiding something, then that means they must be lying now. Sag isn't, Scorp believes diff. Stop and think about it.
Why is everyone attacking the scorp? Because he's a psycho Scorp?click to expand
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89
What the fuck are you talking about dazed?
I didn't do anything wrong.
I had no control over the libra texting me. I told new scorp that and he knows that now.
Exs belong in the past...
If you have an EX that you are still friends with, you should tell your new S/O before hand.click to expand
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DazedScorp
Saggy, you and every other Sag I've ever talked to (cept DMV...Bitch is real) can't admit when you've done something wrong. It's always the others fault.
Posted by Sag89
I didn't do anything wrong.
Thank you for proving my pointclick to expand
Posted by Sag89Posted by OceanDeepPosted by Wynter
LOL @ Ted Bundy
Serial killer or not, the man was HOT lol
Lol in a creepy way yes I agreeclick to expand
Posted by OceanDeepPosted by Sag89Posted by OceanDeepPosted by Wynter
LOL @ Ted Bundy
Serial killer or not, the man was HOT lol
Lol in a creepy way yes I agree
Exactly! LOL Felt like an oxymoron writing it out hahaclick to expand
Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by DazedScorpPosted by DazedScorp
Saggy, you and every other Sag I've ever talked to (cept DMV...Bitch is real) can't admit when you've done something wrong. It's always the others fault.
Posted by Sag89
I didn't do anything wrong.
Thank you for proving my point
LOL, that proves nothing. She doesn't NEED to admit to doing something wrong, because she DIDN'T. Logic isn't exactly your strong point.click to expand
Posted by DazedScorp
@westside
Read...
Posted by Nights22Posted by DazedScorp
The hacking was uncalled for, but the reaction was not.
This was the best thing said. Errrbody else just being over dramatic.click to expand
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DazedScorp
Saggy, you and every other Sag I've ever talked to (cept DMV...Bitch is real) can't admit when you've done something wrong. It's always the others fault.
Posted by Sag89
I didn't do anything wrong.
Thank you for proving my pointclick to expand
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by DazedScorp
The hacking was uncalled for, but the reaction was not
I want everyone here to tell me that if your S/O received a text during the middle of the night saying I want to kiss, fuck, etc. that you wouldn't be upset.
Anyone???
Still waiting...click to expand
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89
So you think I should of told my new scorp about an ex boyfriend I never talk to?
Yes
If there is a chance that this could happen...
My main point here Saggy, is that him hacking your phone was WRONG...
But the REACTION is understandable.
You were both drunk.
He sees a not so good text.
He gets angry.click to expand
Posted by Nemesis
wtf guys? are you all houlier than thou?
you??d all agree on being open and honest when going into a realtionship no?
or would you rather be lied to about exes?
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by Sag89
Dazed it's not okay for someone to invade boundaries no matter what the circumstance is.
Okay Saggy...
You're drunk. You see a text on Scorps phone saying "I wanna do so and so to you"...
What is your reaction?click to expand
Posted by OceanDeep
Okay, this is what I think. Again, Dazed correct me if I'm wrong.
Sag, you did nothing wrong in the sense of you have no control that Leeb randomly texts you shitfaced in the middle of the night. You can't control that. No.
On the opposite, did Scorp ever at any point know about Leeb? Did you mention his name to him at all? Described what type of relations you had of him at all?
Heres two things. This isn't judging you, this is laying out the facts. Leeb was either A) a relationship, or B) a random or not serious fuck/fling/whatever. Theres a huge difference between the two BUT the common denominator in both is that YOU and HE have some sort of a history enough for HIM to want to contact you randomly in the middle of the night shitfaced. The question is not if you still hold a flame for this guy or not, we as the readers realize you don't. BUT the question becomes this: This guy must still have something for YOU, or believes that somehow he can still get you into his bed, or wants to.
It rolls around to the fact that you are STILL friends with him on FB. This isn't about your mind, this is now about going into Scorps mind. Does that make sense? See where he's wondering wtf is going on? You say nothing is going on, this dude texts you something like that, AND you say you're not friends nor never talk then why the fuck is he texting you AND you're friends with him on FB. BUT, I would bet his flipout comes because this is the FIRST time he has found anything incrimanting against you,(meaning he's hacked and snooped before... Scorp + history of being cheated on? You can bet your bank love) but in his mind he hasn't trusted you all along, and why he flipped the fuck out so bad. He found something he hoped to God he wouldnt, but expected he would, and ultimately did. Unfortunatley for you, you must rememember this: THERE IS NO RIGHT TO YOUR PRIVACY, ONLY HIS. But if he loves you, those private things will not be held out, and if he does, it because he doesn't want to ruin things.
Now we look at Scorp who admittedly has been cheated on. Has trust issues, and yes this will be a lot of headaches in the future. What Dazed is trying to say about now, is that in order for this to start stopping NOW is the perfect time to lay it aaaalllllll out on the table. Take the risk, take the chance, etc. Your choice. But you've only smoothed this over for now
Posted by Nights22
Heres the gist of it...
ALL 3 were drunk so if Sag89 is ok letting the ex off the hook for drunk conduct than she should be a ok letting the scorp off the hook.
Sag89 should make sure the scorp knows some boundaries now tho. But at the same time needs to make sure her exes know their damn boundaries too.
Sag 89 also should stop trying to paint this new scorp to be just like her ex controlling/abusive scorp. This whole comparing shit doesnt bode well.
Soooo in conclusion... Sag89 is not a good boundary setter. Her scorp is not the best at trusting. So peraps they should talk on setting boundaries and building trust instead of one automatically assuming her new scorp is just like her old one and the other assuming she is going to cheat right under his nose.
Sag89 is a aqua venus so im sure her openness is not the best and I know she wants a certain amount of freedom but in order to get that she needs to communicate better than it seems she does and also stop letting her past drama dictate her future.
Posted by Nights22
Heres the gist of it...
ALL 3 were drunk so if Sag89 is ok letting the ex off the hook for drunk conduct than she should be a ok letting the scorp off the hook.
Sag89 should make sure the scorp knows some boundaries now tho. But at the same time needs to make sure her exes know their damn boundaries too.
Sag 89 also should stop trying to paint this new scorp to be just like her ex controlling/abusive scorp. This whole comparing shit doesnt bode well.
Soooo in conclusion... Sag89 is not a good boundary setter. Her scorp is not the best at trusting. So peraps they should talk on setting boundaries and building trust instead of one automatically assuming her new scorp is just like her old one and the other assuming she is going to cheat right under his nose.
Sag89 is a aqua venus so im sure her openness is not the best and I know she wants a certain amount of freedom but in order to get that she needs to communicate better than it seems she does and also stop letting her past drama dictate her future.
Posted by PurrrrHissss
Sag89 is NOT a psychic! How the hell is she supposed to know that some random ex is going to text her something like that? Is she supposed to change her number after the end of each relationship?
Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by OceanDeep
Oh for fuck sake. Who in the hell hasn't looked at someone's phone? And any one of you who is so surprised that a Scorp hacked into it, and then flipped out when he read it? Has no clue what its like or how they operate. Everyone come down off their high horses. No one here is perfect, and when you're in a relationship the only thing that should be private is a fucking diary. If there is nothing to hide, then who fucking cares that he hacked into the phone. But ding, ding, ding when he happens to look he finds that? Duh, then I would say "Geez, it's no fucking wonder she has her phone locked" The mind goes a million directions and anyone of you who denies it? Take a look in the mirror, you're just as psycho for believing yourself to be so high and mighty to not get it or understand any part of it. Jesus H Christ. Or, you believe you're beyond being cheated on? Then you never have. Does it make it right? No, but he's not a fucking criminal so get off of Sag89s Scorps back, and Dazeds.
And for the whole forum on this thread: Who here, and raise your hand honestly, if saw a letter from an ex and your SO was gone would not be tempted to read it? Or go through old photos? Give me a fucking break, and start digging a little deeper into your psyche people. *SMFH*
This isn't really about the fact that he hacked into her phone. His behavior AFTER they had supposedly settled the issue is what the problem is.click to expand
Posted by PurrrrHissssPosted by OceanDeepPosted by PurrrrHissss
Sag89 is NOT a psychic! How the hell is she supposed to know that some random ex is going to text her something like that? Is she supposed to change her number after the end of each relationship?
I never said she was a psychic, nor did I say she did anything wrong. In fact, if you read my first post I said it in the very, very, very first line of my novel.
What I am trying to convey is that this is HOW this happened, and why. It's going beyond ourselves, beyone our little brains, and beyond us in our own little world, and looking at it from the eyes of a drunk, and been cheated on person, and................ A Scorpio man. Like Dazed said before, she knew going in she was dating a Scorpio man. A Scorpio man. A Scorpio man. Scorpio man. A Scorpio man.
I really don't see how no one gets this............................?????????????????
Trust me, I know Scorpio men VERY well. I was with a controlling one for 6 years, and both of my parents are Scorpios. I know WHY he did what he did.click to expand
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