Hi guys , what happens when you ignore a Sagittarius woman?. We've been college best friends, and I always thought I knew her well. Recently we got a chance to reunite and I saw her on a new light. She acts arrogant, cocky, as if world owns her, my family told me she is full of herself, just watching us from a side. She's been always straight talking what is in her mind, could be tactless even in college years, I always felt protected with her because I was shy back then.
Fast forward, lot of things had been changed, I'm not a 17 year old girl anymore, but she seems staying still there..
She loved being in center of attention. We reunited with her after not seeing each other for 10 years, things changed, I changed and it seems our paths are different.
I'm trying to ignore her so the friendship will fade away naturally.. I don't have anything to talk to her now..
I was there for her when she got divorced, always supportive, but when we met again I saw totally different person.
She also hided she is here to get married. Couple months ago she wrote that she got remarried and expecting a baby.
Of course I was happy but she never told me about her plans and now she saying oh you are going to be an aunty !
WTF.
Couple people told me she is not what she wants to show..and I hate being disappointed.
I stopped contacting her, she initiated couple times, but I kept short and hoping this friendship will fade away..
I just feel somewhat empty and icy towards her..
Just thought to share this..
Thanks ✌️
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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 279 · Posts: 30768 · Topics: 647
Nowhere have you mentioned that you have sat down with her and talked about your concerns.
Why dont you just tell her to go away.
Stop being a fake friend.
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Mar 10, 2018Comments: 0 · Posts: 1045 · Topics: 9
She will possibly ask, if there's a problem. Or not care and not take it personally.
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Feb 23, 2013Comments: 22238 · Posts: 25617 · Topics: 84
You said you knew her well and that she always wanted to be the center of attention, seems like she hasn't changed. Maybe she was nervous meeting up for the first time after all those years.
Why don't you be an adult and meet up with her again and let her know that she seems different (or the same) and see if the second meeting is like the first one. She seemed to want to get out all that shes done over the years, since you guys have been apart. Doesn't seem self centered to me, just seems like she was telling you whats been happening in her life.
If you ignore her enough, she will stop responding. It's not that big of a deal, just a wasted friendship cause you don't feel like hearing about her life after all the years of not seeing her. She will be glad to kick you to the curb.
Now I'm actually wondering what "catching up" even means. smh