I'm cutting off my sag friend...

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Unregistered on Monday, July 1, 2002 and has 6 replies.
I think that enough is enough...
I have tolerated alot from her. She's highly critical and irritable all the time. She has irritated me and most of my other friends to the point that I can not stand to be around her any more. She lacks tact and social skills in a big way, and for me... a libra- that is like a slap in the face. I have lots of other sag friends whom are all very close to me... but she has given me the most trouble. I will not waste any further energy in smoothing over any b******* that she creates among our friends. She is on her on now, because she has proven over and over that she is unwilling to play nice.
...So from me- it's f*** off!!! Thank God that all Sags are not this way.
WELL I CAN UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU MEAN BUT I CAN ALMOST BELIEVE SHE IS UNHAPPY WITH A SITUATION SHE IS IN OR HAD BEEN IN AND HASN'T REALLY BEEN ABLE TO FACE HERSELF INSIDE ON WHAT SHE IS TO DO , THIS CAN CAUSE A LOT OF DISCOMFORT AND PAIN FOR HER CLOSE FRIENDS AND SHE DOES NOT REALIZE IT BECAUSE SHE IS THE ONE ANGRY, SOMETIMES IT DOES TAKE FOR YOU TO CUT HER OFF UNTIL SHE COMES TO GRIPS WITH HERSELF, SHE IS OBVIOUSLY GOING THROUGH SOMETHING AND SHE IS NOT HAPPY , NORMALLY SAGG'S ARE REALLY FUN TO BE AROUND THE ONLY TIME THEY ARE NOT IS WHEN THEY ARE FRUSTRATED AND MISERABLE , I DO NOT KNOW YOUR FRIEND BUT I WOULD GUESS IT WAS SOMETHING THAT HAD TO DO WITH HER CHILDHOOD PROBABLY ONE OR BOTH OF HER PARENTS BUT IT'S SOMETHING IN HER PAST. I GUESS YOUR WONDERING HOW I FIGURE TO KNOW SO MUCH, WELL I USED TO BE THE SAME WAY TO MY CLOSE FRIENDS BUT I HAD A LOT OF PAIN BUILT UP INSIDE ONCE I SEPARATED MYSELF FROM EVERYONE AND REALIZED WHAT I WANTED TO DO , I JOINED EVERYONE AGAIN BUT WITH A BETTER OUTLOOK AND ATTITUDE. MY BEST FRIEND IS A LIBRA AND WE HAD FALLEN OUT PLENTY OF TIMES BUT THE VALUE IN A FRIENDSHIP IS TO BE ABLE TO MAKE IT THROUGH AND MAINTAIN THE FRIENDSHIP AND WE'VE BEEN BEST FRIENDS FOR 12 YEARS
Thank you for your keen insight- I appreciate your willingness to understand me very much. You were right about the fact that she is going through alot right now, and has been for some time. Usually, we are the best of friends- we experiment with almost everything that we can, and it's also not uncommon for us to just dissappear for a few days to discover something new. That is what I really like about her- she is always willing to explore new territory- just like me
=) She does have her good points, and I'm really sad about losing her as a friend. It's just that I can not help but to be wounded by her stabs at my heart. It hurts so much- especially coming from her. Anyhoo, I'm hoping deep down that she works through whatever is bothering her, and that we'll be friends again, but if she doesn't I'm going to have to give our friendship a miss- so here's to hoping!
here here boss ~ I also have a friend who is angry and has a lot of built up sh_t in her life of 44 yrs and she has a tendancy to go off on those she loves the most. Whats that old adage "We only hurt the ones we love the best" and it is so true sometimes. I just let her cool off and come back out of her funk and she usually apologizes and we go on with life. I've been friends w/her for 22yrs~! She is my bud and always will be!
MP & BB
saggirl57
Sag females get on my nerves. Me (Leo) they are copy catters, insecure and can be very insensitive. They are always copying someone else's style . Especially us stylish leos. Yuck.
166.77.209.191 ~ ummmmmm ~ nope don't copy anyone, I have my own style , in fact I'm usually being told I have a style all my own Winking Now I don't know what you mean about us being copycatters? We have a tendancy to agree with what's going on in the moment & we do like what's new & upcoming in the world around us....Sooooo..if that makes us copycats, well then I guess everyone in the world is a copycat in one sense or another. And has for Leo's being stylish?? LOL well, I have a Leo sis & my bf's mother is a Leo and baby talk about copycatter's ~ Winking they can't go to the bathroom without someone holding their hands, or go out and have a good time all by themselves without an entourage around them to praise their "accomplishments" ~ they don't seem capable of just going off and having a good time w/just themselves. As for stylish ~ well that depends on what YOU classify as stylish ~ a persons style is their style , regardless of what others think or presume to think that style should be. Now if you want to talk about Leo ego's ~ well I think you answered that one in your post ~ Winking and then there's the ME syndrome of most all Leo's I've ever know ~ "Me Me Me, Look at ME!!!!" Leo's are I believe why they someone made the quote "Want some WHINE with that cheese"??? hehehe....I believe (ms?) Leo that you hate us so much because we are the independant, happy, optimistic, free loving creatures that we are and YOU ARE NOT....and that's something you can change if you want to ......or not. It's totally up to you ~ (or you could take a poll from your entourage and see if they agree with you, which they won't ~lol~ or will, depending on how much you have brow beat them.....Have a wonderful day!! Winking
saggirl57