Finally found a forum with the same interest for zodiac astrology. As selfish as it is, I figured my topic could be about myself. Not to brag or cry a river, but maybe to see from others to gain another perspective or some insight on my current situation. I am incredibly and utterly lonely. I just moved to the Bay Area in California from Atlanta, Georgia. It's a huge move I made on my own to live with grandparents and find a job to start my career. I do not know where to begin, as I also aspire to reinvent myself. I never liked myself and only found a few similarities I have with the stereotype that is Sagittarius. I am not really impulsive, more so reflective and I do not consider myself a social butterfly. I tend to isolate myself and I don't know why. I've dated a Gemini, Aries, and Virgo. The first two are supposedly great partners for Sags but I found Gemini detached and flip-floppy, and the Aries too pushy and overbearing. The Virgo was considerate and selfless, which I loved. But long-distance doesn't work for me so it was over after I moved. I have no friends here, so also no romantic interests. Meeting people for the most part irritates me. I think I suffer from strong susceptibility of limerence—a near-obsessive form of romantic love, soo yeah. Any advice or suggestions, I'm all ears. That is one legit sag trait: openness to feedback or criticism.
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Jul 03, 2016Comments: 0 · Posts: 432 · Topics: 20
Ok step one.
Who are you? (Who who)
Who are you?
This IS the rest to reinvent yourself but you can't run from your past. You must let everything that hurts flow throw you. When you get upset, realize you have a self, a conscience, and a soul. Look at who is feeling hurt. Who feels what way. Why they feel that way.
You are not you. You are feelings things that you can release.
What are you running from?
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Jul 03, 2016Comments: 0 · Posts: 432 · Topics: 20
What I mean is,
You have this voice inside of you.
The one reading this... you can use an old man voice, or a sweet young girl voice.. did you just do it?
*In your head use a old voice to say, "shucks"
See you did it.
That's your self.
Realize that you witness hurt, anger, dissapointment and loneliness from this far away point of view.
Why does my self feel that?
Why do I care?
What about other people? How often do we rely on others to make us feel worthy? "What do they think about me? Did I make a good impression?"
Now look at it from a stance that is outside of you, seeing this happen. It's fear.
Insecurities and fear.
So start seeing situations from a pic where you are not you, you are a person looking in.
What do you see?
Go to a open mic and sip some wine... And just walk around... And just breathe.. Away from your normal environment. You're a Sag, half beast.. As long as you remember to BALANCE the man and beast.. You're good for sure.
That's what I'm learning to do... It'll be okay.
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Jan 07, 2009Comments: 305 · Posts: 14219 · Topics: 239
" I'm all ears."
check your whole chart.
watch for Cap, Virgo and Scorpio placements. also in which houses they are.