Is he looking for fun?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Virgo_m on Tuesday, April 18, 2017 and has 28 replies.
Hi all, I just met a sag few days ago and he already saying he wants to marry me, it sounds like he is so easy could say this to any girls.. we spent those few days everyday while he was here, I felt like he wanted to spend all his time with me he even put his work behind, and he has been being sweet to me always care of my feeling.. but he just came to my country for work and now he left but he still keep texting with me and said that he love to see me again and will try to come to my country soon again, also he asked me to come with him to live together..


I would like to know that does sag men just doing this for fun or what?

What are the signs that a sag is serious about a girl?
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He just said that he will come back to me next month, I think what he is doing is crazy b/c we are far away from each other, I can't see our future
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The first day I met my Aries (Sag asc) he got right down to the nitty gritty, talking about the future, what he is aiming for and would I be happy with what he had to offer. I was mega taken aback! LOL! I also felt like damn I could be any girl sitting here. Month 4/5 I think he actually started to fall in love though. Now we are working towards our goal together as strangely enough his desires were along the same line as my own.
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I just saw you were the one posted the other thread about Sag hehe! Sorry. So also just to inform you there was alot of to and fro-ing at the beginning and "testing" to see how serious we both actually were for each other. I had no idea where it was going to lead or whether he was genuinely serious. Its the upfront-ness of it all that caught me off guard, it is certainly refreshing though (when it is genuine) Calm waters now, its been 7 months since we met.
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Posted by Virgo_m
Hi all, I just met a sag few days ago and he already saying he wants to marry me, it sounds like he is so easy could say this to any girls.. we spent those few days everyday while he was here, I felt like he wanted to spend all his time with me he even put his work behind, and he has been being sweet to me always care of my feeling.. but he just came to my country for work and now he left but he still keep texting with me and said that he love to see me again and will try to come to my country soon again, also he asked me to come with him to live together..


I would like to know that does sag men just doing this for fun or what?

What are the signs that a sag is serious about a girl?
Hi. My ex-bf was also Saggy (broke up w/him last year). David (Saggy) was already talking about living with me within a month of knowing one another. Why? Because that's his MO (motive). He lived with his ex-girlfriend in a 1980s trailer and only paid $ 300.00 a month of rent + his regular bills. David had his mom co-sign for his car payment and it was cheap $ 188.00 per month (his mom retired as a school teacher; so she had a good credit union to finance his car); David was a user as a Saggy man. I just kept listening to him and realized he was a "user". I'm not used to having a man tell me he wants to live with me within one month of being my boyfriend. I bailed when he chastised my 10 year old son. Also, Saggy men drop their fruit of the looms so fast it makes your head spin! I was tired of this pattern and have since learned that I cannot do this to myself if I want a serious relationship. Now, I just go home and take a cold shower after my date. If he's serious he will ask me out again, if not, then we both know where the door is. What I'm saying to you is be careful with this Saggy; watch him, and listen to what he tells you. He also has a "pattern".


Good luck; if this is what you want.


Hug cyber hugs!


Love,


Eva
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Posted by EvatheDiva
Posted by Virgo_m
Hi all, I just met a sag few days ago and he already saying he wants to marry me, it sounds like he is so easy could say this to any girls.. we spent those few days everyday while he was here, I felt like he wanted to spend all his time with me he even put his work behind, and he has been being sweet to me always care of my feeling.. but he just came to my country for work and now he left but he still keep texting with me and said that he love to see me again and will try to come to my country soon again, also he asked me to come with him to live together..


I would like to know that does sag men just doing this for fun or what?

What are the signs that a sag is serious about a girl?
Hi. My ex-bf was also Saggy (broke up w/him last year). David (Saggy) was already talking about living with me within a month of knowing one another. Why? Because that's his MO (motive). He lived with his ex-girlfriend in a 1980s trailer and only paid $ 300.00 a month of rent + his regular bills. David had his mom co-sign for his car payment and it was cheap $ 188.00 per month (his mom retired as a school teacher; so she had a good credit union to finance his car); David was a user as a Saggy man. I just kept listening to him and realized he was a "user". I'm not used to having a man tell me he wants to live with me within one month of being my boyfriend. I bailed when he chastised my 10 year old son. Also, Saggy men drop their fruit of the looms so fast it makes your head spin! I was tired of this pattern and have since learned that I cannot do this to myself if I want a serious relationship. Now, I just go home and take a cold shower after my date. If he's serious he will ask me out again, if not, then we both know where the door is. What I'm saying to you is be careful with this Saggy; watch him, and listen to what he tells you. He also has a "pattern".


Good luck; if this is what you want.


Hug cyber hugs!


Love,


Eva
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Hi all, I just met a sag few days ago and he already saying he wants to marry me, it sounds like he is so easy could say this to any girls.. we spent those few days everyday while he was here, I felt like he wanted to spend all his time with me he even put his work behind, and he has been being sweet to me always care of my feeling.. but he just came to my country for work and now he left but he still keep texting with me and said that he love to see me again and will try to come to my country soon again, also he asked me to come with him to live together..


I would like to know that does sag men just doing this for fun or what?

What are the signs that a sag is serious about a girl?
Hi. My ex-bf was also Saggy (broke up w/him last year). David (Saggy) was already talking about living with me within a month of knowing one another. Why? Because that's his MO (motive). He lived with his ex-girlfriend in a 1980s trailer and only paid $ 300.00 a month of rent + his regular bills. David had his mom co-sign for his car payment and it was cheap $ 188.00 per month (his mom retired as a school teacher; so she had a good credit union to finance his car); David was a user as a Saggy man. I just kept listening to him and realized he was a "user". I'm not used to having a man tell me he wants to live with me within one month of being my boyfriend. I bailed when he chastised my 10 year old son. Also, Saggy men drop their fruit of the looms so fast it makes your head spin! I was tired of this pattern and have since learned that I cannot do this to myself if I want a serious relationship. Now, I just go home and take a cold shower after my date. If he's serious he will ask me out again, if not, then we both know where the door is. What I'm saying to you is be careful with this Saggy; watch him, and listen to what he tells you. He also has a "pattern".


Good luck; if this is what you want.


Hug cyber hugs!


Love,


Eva
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Thanks Super.....I try!


Hug cyber hugs!


Love,


Eva
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thank-you all replying me!!

Hmmm... i think there is very small chance that he tries to use me, cos he is not poor he has a great career in his country and he actually invited me to go to his country but i rejected him.

i dont know should i trust him, it is unreal for me. how can someone fall that hard in a very short time?? saying want to marry me and have kids and he has been asking me lots of questions that he seems really want to know me more, also he has been texting me all the time since he left my country, even though he had to work right away so tired but still keep texting me.


is this normal for a sag man? what he acts it will fade out soon right?

i think he is just being curious of me in the initial stage that's all? he is not being serious about me right?
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I was married to one for 18 years, him saying that stuff doesn't mean much. Sags say a lot but usually for fun or to see your reaction. They bore easily and need a woman who can keep him chasing and entertained. Good luck. It can be a fun ride but it takes a lot of work.
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Posted by confusedlibra78
I was married to one for 18 years, him saying that stuff doesn't mean much. Sags say a lot but usually for fun or to see your reaction. They bore easily and need a woman who can keep him chasing and entertained. Good luck. It can be a fun ride but it takes a lot of work.
may i ask what happened at the end?



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Posted by Virgo_m
Posted by confusedlibra78
I was married to one for 18 years, him saying that stuff doesn't mean much. Sags say a lot but usually for fun or to see your reaction. They bore easily and need a woman who can keep him chasing and entertained. Good luck. It can be a fun ride but it takes a lot of work.
may i ask what happened at the end?



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We're still good friends but he was emotionally abusive and I got tired of it. I don't like mind games and constant testing. For example, he would say things and then later when I asked him why he said it, he would say he was only joking or didn't mean it.

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Posted by Virgo_m
Posted by confusedlibra78
I was married to one for 18 years, him saying that stuff doesn't mean much. Sags say a lot but usually for fun or to see your reaction. They bore easily and need a woman who can keep him chasing and entertained. Good luck. It can be a fun ride but it takes a lot of work.
may i ask what happened at the end?



We're still good friends but he was emotionally abusive and I got tired of it. I don't like mind games and constant testing. For example, he would say things and then later when I asked him why he said it, he would say he was only joking or didn't mean it.

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so he didnt cheat? the loyalty is important to me and it seems like is hard to find this on sag men?!

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Posted by confusedlibra78
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Posted by confusedlibra78
I was married to one for 18 years, him saying that stuff doesn't mean much. Sags say a lot but usually for fun or to see your reaction. They bore easily and need a woman who can keep him chasing and entertained. Good luck. It can be a fun ride but it takes a lot of work.
may i ask what happened at the end?



We're still good friends but he was emotionally abusive and I got tired of it. I don't like mind games and constant testing. For example, he would say things and then later when I asked him why he said it, he would say he was only joking or didn't mean it.



so he didnt cheat? the loyalty is important to me and it seems like is hard to find this on sag men?!

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No, surprisingly. He was very loyal. Even in the end when we weren't getting along, he accidentally emailed his journal and he wasn't cheating. That being said, he has cheated on every other girl he's dated since we broke up, even the one he says he loves and has been with for over a year. Be very careful. It takes a lot to keep them loyal.
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Posted by confusedlibra78
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Posted by confusedlibra78
I was married to one for 18 years, him saying that stuff doesn't mean much. Sags say a lot but usually for fun or to see your reaction. They bore easily and need a woman who can keep him chasing and entertained. Good luck. It can be a fun ride but it takes a lot of work.
may i ask what happened at the end?



We're still good friends but he was emotionally abusive and I got tired of it. I don't like mind games and constant testing. For example, he would say things and then later when I asked him why he said it, he would say he was only joking or didn't mean it.



so he didnt cheat? the loyalty is important to me and it seems like is hard to find this on sag men?!

No, surprisingly. He was very loyal. Even in the end when we weren't getting along, he accidentally emailed his journal and he wasn't cheating. That being said, he has cheated on every other girl he's dated since we broke up, even the one he says he loves and has been with for over a year. Be very careful. It takes a lot to keep them loyal.
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you must be very spacial to him! it sounds so tiring to keep him loyal then.... sad, he seems so interested in me i think b/c of the different culture or i joke about things around sometimes but sometimes im so quiet and i enjoy silent sometimes as well...

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I'm older than him 2 yrs and im not serious about him now just always make fun of everything whenever we talk so maybe that's why he likes me a lot? He report to me on everything and text me all the time,


now I'm thinking should I just back off.. I don't want to develop deeper with him if he is not loyal
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I see red flags here. I don't think it has to do with signs. Reminds me of my Psychopathic ex-husband. He came on really strong and fast. Told me he loved me after a few months and that he wanted to marry me and start a family right away. He was very kind, charming and asked a lot of questions. After the honeymoon phase and kids came along, he turned emotionally, verbally, financially, and psychologically abusive. Became cold, distant and withheld affection and intimacy. Made it nearly impossible to get away from him. 15 years later I'm still in court battles and trying to protect my kids. I'm not saying this will happen to you, but he barely knows you it seems. He wants to lock you in, I feel. My ex had a house and a good paying job, but he needed a family to show off to the world to prove himself. My ex was a Cancer. I'm a Cancer so I thought we were alike. He mirrored me to snag me was all.
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They all say that.
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so what are the signs that sag man in love with loyalty with someone? e.g. report everything to you,,, message you everyday,, always want to spend time with you?
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
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The first day I met my Aries (Sag asc) he got right down to the nitty gritty, talking about the future, what he is aiming for and would I be happy with what he had to offer. I was mega taken aback! LOL! I also felt like damn I could be any girl sitting here. Month 4/5 I think he actually started to fall in love though. Now we are working towards our goal together as strangely enough his desires were along the same line as my own.
Sag rising is not the same as a sag sun... Your bf is still an Aries so your advice is not necessarily based on a sag sun person...
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Just thought i'd just give some insight from a Fire point of view, since I believe they can all have a tendency to be direct and enthusiastic. Thats all smile
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I wonder any Sag man out there married over 10 years and still in love???
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I wonder any Sag man out there married over 10 years and still in love???
My father (sag) has been with his partner for almost 30 years LOL. She's a Gemini. They have 2 kids together.
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That's it? Any others good news?
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Posted by sagoya
@Nathan912


I will forever tag you for virgo - sag ??
Yes, please! But for some weird reason I didn't get notification from you, but not that's a big deal because I couldn't careless about Sagittarius Man and Virgo Woman relationship anyway lol


Just tag me with Virgo Man and Sagittarius Woman only, then I will try to help whoever side asking for help haha



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Posted by Virgo_m
Hi all, I just met a sag few days ago and he already saying he wants to marry me, it sounds like he is so easy could say this to any girls.. we spent those few days everyday while he was here, I felt like he wanted to spend all his time with me he even put his work behind, and he has been being sweet to me always care of my feeling.
...and there in lies the beginning of the end of what could be between a Sag male and a Virgo female...doubt.


I'm not trying to be mean. I'm just being straight forward in answering your question. First and foremost, we don't go around telling every woman that we want to marry them. We know exactly who and what we want in our lives and we will pursue it till the very end. He has already expressed how he feels about you. We are visionaries and he is trying to convince you head on with direct action by treating you with kindness and being consistent. Instead of thinking that he his trying to charm you and thinking he does this to all the girls...perhaps you should change your perspective and thinking if he is this kind and sweet now, how deep does that go? Trust me, the lady in our life will get a level of kindness and consideration that most don't get. People often confuse the fact that we treat most with kindness with us being loose or "giving it away." Well we dont operate by everyone's rules...but dont mistake that kindness for weakness because we will flip the script and go the other direction. So, my advice is to sit back and reciprocate but also ground him just a little. Simply tell him you dont want to move too fast...be honest with him about how you feel...he'll respect that and will try to accomodate you. Also...no games, manipulation(emotional or otherwise)...we see that coming a mile away. If you have a problem, talk to him especially if it's about your emotions. We like strong women who can make decisions and can lead and have the courage to open up to us...we'll honor that. Hence why honesty is important. But most important...be his friend...a true friend...loyal. That is the first thing we look for in a long term partner.


Lol Ive got a Virgo co worker who told me that when she met her Sag husband he said right off the bat he was going to marry her. She didnt believe him...now they're happily married and have a child together. Good luck smile


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He is younger than me 3 years and I did asked him does he has gf, well his said no, but actually I searched for his fb profile pic is with a girl and also once he tried to show me sth on his computer and I also saw a pic with the same girl on his other apps acc, I can't be 100% sure he is single. But at the same time he do asked me to follow him to his country and he sounds pretty serious...


He has been texting me everyday pretty offen since he left(a week now), but I have been keep telling him that what I want in the relationship is long run


And today he tried to tell me that he wakes up earlier now that made him felt like his schedule is closer to me now bit and then I said " but we actually still very far from each other" and then he didn't reply me all day, I wonder am I turn him off by this or he actually is a player maybe he is just cheating his gf while he is out of his country for work
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Just an update:


He has been texting me everyday since after we met(2weeks), fun, jokes, compliments, telling me how much he misses me and will come to find me soon, but since yesterday he seemed stop saying much, I never text him first but every time I reply to his text and keep it fun.


I'm just a bit worry when he changes 360... hopfully he is just busy. He replied to my msg but didnt say much like before, literally just replied to what I said
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He is totally gone, he changed 360 all of a sudden....
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