Is there such a thing as a shy Sag man?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius Men forum by Wanderer27 on Thursday, February 7, 2019 and has 23 replies.
Some sources say when a Sagittarius man likes you, he comes on really strong, pursues, texts, talks, and flirts a lot. ( I've experienced this but didn't give the guy a chance because somehow I felt like he's a player LOL). Next, other sources say, when a Sagittarius comes on really strong, it means he feels good around you, BUT when they REALLY like you, a Sagittarius will actually be pretty quiet but very sweet and attentive?

I'm kind of dealing with a quiet one right now... I don't know which source is more accurate. Anyways, please someone share your experience!
Yes
a sag guy used to come to my work almost everyday and wait for me to be free to serve him. he would order the same wrap each time and stare like a puppy. sometimes he came in to just say hello and stare awkwardly. it was really cute lol
The Sag dude I'm seeing is a lil bit of each. He'll say these real random, blunt things (fellow Sag, I get it lol)...but at the same time he loves snuggles n I've noticed the eye contact, makes me giggle how intense it can feel (to me, I'm not the best with intense emotions n shiz, I laugh things off lol)...It's been fun tho! Keeps me on my toes 😍
Yea, when the sag blurts out things, I get shocked by how non-sugar-coated it is! I haven't noticed too much eye contact; he stares at his phone but when he looks up at me, almost like a deer in headlights then he looks down on his phone really quickly ( i think he's really shy! )


Posted by CuddleBug88

The Sag dude I'm seeing is a lil bit of each. He'll say these real random, blunt things (fellow Sag, I get it lol)...but at the same time he loves snuggles n I've noticed the eye contact, makes me giggle how intense it can feel (to me, I'm not the best with intense emotions n shiz, I laugh things off lol)...It's been fun tho! Keeps me on my toes 😍

I'm not sure. But for sure most sag I've met and from friends telling me just say they want to make lots of moneyLaughing


Posted by Impulsv

Is there any IT or Engineer sag

I have never met one. I'm sure they exist. Probably a water riser
Yes, I can appear a bit shy/cold and different around girl I really like, especially if she seems distant, arrogant, and not easy going. But, if she is easy going, and I see her smiling and joking with me, and is responsive in general to me, no problem for me to express fully my side. About Sags appear like a player, also true, I mean, I have an abundance mindset, and can be very picky, cause I can...so it's hard personally for me to not lose interest quickly, I mean, after some time, it is in my nature to always look for something better and better...just the way I am, lol. I do not want to miss on something big, or whatever, do not like to feel trapped I guess, so I do not like limitations, and I love my freedom more than anything. I like the idea of great relationships, and all that, but just cannot stick to it for too long.


@Impulsv - Yes, I am an IT engineer, and my friend Sag too. xD

@GemFallOut - Yeah, you described us well. Winking
I had a short fling with a sag. He was adorable and super shy upon first meeting. His gaze was so intese and he would hold my eye contact from a ross the room, but then shyly turn away. Its hard to describe becasue the gaze was sexy and confident, but when i approaches he would be all giggly and looking down at his feet, stumbling over his words. He is the only guy ive been with where i would say he was sexy and cute (like a baby animal) at the same tine
Posted by Boots1313

I had a short fling with a sag. He was adorable and super shy upon first meeting. His gaze was so intese and he would hold my eye contact from a ross the room, but then shyly turn away. Its hard to describe becasue the gaze was sexy and confident, but when i approaches he would be all giggly and looking down at his feet, stumbling over his words. He is the only guy ive been with where i would say he was sexy and cute (like a baby animal) at the same tine
This is how I am. What happened? Why was it short?
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Posted by Boots1313

I had a short fling with a sag. He was adorable and super shy upon first meeting. His gaze was so intese and he would hold my eye contact from a ross the room, but then shyly turn away. Its hard to describe becasue the gaze was sexy and confident, but when i approaches he would be all giggly and looking down at his feet, stumbling over his words. He is the only guy ive been with where i would say he was sexy and cute (like a baby animal) at the same tine
This is how I am. What happened? Why was it short?
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Being a taurus and never dealing with a sag before, i got too intense and clingy and posessive. He ghosted. I dont balme him.

I see him from time to time, there is still a little thing there, but that ship has sailed. I havw my perfect guy for me now.

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Posted by Boots1313

I had a short fling with a sag. He was adorable and super shy upon first meeting. His gaze was so intese and he would hold my eye contact from a ross the room, but then shyly turn away. Its hard to describe becasue the gaze was sexy and confident, but when i approaches he would be all giggly and looking down at his feet, stumbling over his words. He is the only guy ive been with where i would say he was sexy and cute (like a baby animal) at the same tine
This is how I am. What happened? Why was it short?
Being a taurus and never dealing with a sag before, i got too intense and clingy and posessive. He ghosted. I dont balme him.

I see him from time to time, there is still a little thing there, but that ship has sailed. I havw my perfect guy for me now.

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Oh ok I see. Dang. That sucks.
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Posted by Boots1313

I had a short fling with a sag. He was adorable and super shy upon first meeting. His gaze was so intese and he would hold my eye contact from a ross the room, but then shyly turn away. Its hard to describe becasue the gaze was sexy and confident, but when i approaches he would be all giggly and looking down at his feet, stumbling over his words. He is the only guy ive been with where i would say he was sexy and cute (like a baby animal) at the same tine
This is how I am. What happened? Why was it short?
Being a taurus and never dealing with a sag before, i got too intense and clingy and posessive. He ghosted. I dont balme him.

I see him from time to time, there is still a little thing there, but that ship has sailed. I havw my perfect guy for me now.

Oh ok I see. Dang. That sucks.
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Yeah i have no chill. Weird thing is hes dating a taurus girl now lol.
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Posted by saggurl88

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Boots1313

I had a short fling with a sag. He was adorable and super shy upon first meeting. His gaze was so intese and he would hold my eye contact from a ross the room, but then shyly turn away. Its hard to describe becasue the gaze was sexy and confident, but when i approaches he would be all giggly and looking down at his feet, stumbling over his words. He is the only guy ive been with where i would say he was sexy and cute (like a baby animal) at the same tine
This is how I am. What happened? Why was it short?
Being a taurus and never dealing with a sag before, i got too intense and clingy and posessive. He ghosted. I dont balme him.

I see him from time to time, there is still a little thing there, but that ship has sailed. I havw my perfect guy for me now.

Oh ok I see. Dang. That sucks.


Yeah i have no chill. Weird thing is hes dating a taurus girl now lol.
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I’m currently interested in a Taurus but he’s not interested in me. So I’m leaving him alone for now. He was moving too fast for me and it freaked me out. So then he friend zoned me. Lol.


I hope he comes back around. I really liked him.


Sag are shy in general
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Posted by Boots1313

I had a short fling with a sag. He was adorable and super shy upon first meeting. His gaze was so intese and he would hold my eye contact from a ross the room, but then shyly turn away. Its hard to describe becasue the gaze was sexy and confident, but when i approaches he would be all giggly and looking down at his feet, stumbling over his words. He is the only guy ive been with where i would say he was sexy and cute (like a baby animal) at the same tine
This is how I am. What happened? Why was it short?
Being a taurus and never dealing with a sag before, i got too intense and clingy and posessive. He ghosted. I dont balme him.

I see him from time to time, there is still a little thing there, but that ship has sailed. I havw my perfect guy for me now.

Oh ok I see. Dang. That sucks.


Yeah i have no chill. Weird thing is hes dating a taurus girl now lol.
I’m currently interested in a Taurus but he’s not interested in me. So I’m leaving him alone for now. He was moving too fast for me and it freaked me out. So then he friend zoned me. Lol.


I hope he comes back around. I really liked him.
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My advice would be to approach him and let him know your interest. They love striaght fowardness. However we are intense relationship people. We want stability. Even if you as a sag are very loyal, from my expierence, taurus have a hard time trusting the flirty And outgoing socialble sag.

My bf dated a sag before me(hes a taurus also), and he just couldnt keep up with her, they had different life style s and love languages.

A good taurus x sag couple is sarah hyland and her bf i forgot his name.

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Posted by Boots1313

I had a short fling with a sag. He was adorable and super shy upon first meeting. His gaze was so intese and he would hold my eye contact from a ross the room, but then shyly turn away. Its hard to describe becasue the gaze was sexy and confident, but when i approaches he would be all giggly and looking down at his feet, stumbling over his words. He is the only guy ive been with where i would say he was sexy and cute (like a baby animal) at the same tine
This is how I am. What happened? Why was it short?
Being a taurus and never dealing with a sag before, i got too intense and clingy and posessive. He ghosted. I dont balme him.

I see him from time to time, there is still a little thing there, but that ship has sailed. I havw my perfect guy for me now.

Oh ok I see. Dang. That sucks.


Yeah i have no chill. Weird thing is hes dating a taurus girl now lol.
I’m currently interested in a Taurus but he’s not interested in me. So I’m leaving him alone for now. He was moving too fast for me and it freaked me out. So then he friend zoned me. Lol.


I hope he comes back around. I really liked him.


My advice would be to approach him and let him know your interest. They love striaght fowardness. However we are intense relationship people. We want stability. Even if you as a sag are very loyal, from my expierence, taurus have a hard time trusting the flirty And outgoing socialble sag.

My bf dated a sag before me(hes a taurus also), and he just couldnt keep up with her, they had different life style s and love languages.

A good taurus x sag couple is sarah hyland and her bf i forgot his name.

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Thanks. I’ve tried being straight forward. But I go out a lot. So he probably did lose interest. I’ll try to reach out again in a little while.
My Sag was assertive about wanting to go do things, but not flirtatious until after we had our first date. We were friends first. He did stare at me intensely though. He wasn’t looking around at anything else that’s for sure. 😂

He was SUPER attentive. More than any other sign I have been with. I’ve dated many signs from different elements, he has been the most protective without being possessive. Very sweet, shy guy before knowing where it was going. Now we flirt with each all the time and we have been together for years.
Do u have to initiate texts or does he do it normally?

Posted by Koni

They are all different so some can be shy. My boyfriend is a Sagittarius with a water moon and was shy in the beginning, but he was also very assertive and kept trying.

Honestly, the shyness and attentiveness, I almost mistook him for a virgo..


Posted by euphony

My Sag was assertive about wanting to go do things, but not flirtatious until after we had our first date. We were friends first. He did stare at me intensely though. He wasn’t looking around at anything else that’s for sure. 😂

He was SUPER attentive. More than any other sign I have been with. I’ve dated many signs from different elements, he has been the most protective without being possessive. Very sweet, shy guy before knowing where it was going. Now we flirt with each all the time and we have been together for years.

Posted by besarlalluvia

a sag guy used to come to my work almost everyday and wait for me to be free to serve him. he would order the same wrap each time and stare like a puppy. sometimes he came in to just say hello and stare awkwardly. it was really cute lol
i'm kind of like this


do Pisces women like this approach?
Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by besarlalluvia

a sag guy used to come to my work almost everyday and wait for me to be free to serve him. he would order the same wrap each time and stare like a puppy. sometimes he came in to just say hello and stare awkwardly. it was really cute lol
i'm kind of like this


do Pisces women like this approach?
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it was cute but he would have had to speak up for anything to happen. if i had initially found him attractive the excessive shyness would have put me off.


but dont take me as a generalisation on pisces
Posted by besarlalluvia

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by besarlalluvia

a sag guy used to come to my work almost everyday and wait for me to be free to serve him. he would order the same wrap each time and stare like a puppy. sometimes he came in to just say hello and stare awkwardly. it was really cute lol
i'm kind of like this


do Pisces women like this approach?
it was cute but he would have had to speak up for anything to happen. if i had initially found him attractive the excessive shyness would have put me off.


but dont take me as a generalization on pisces
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