Is this sag guy being friendly or having feelings?

Im aries. I met this sag guy at school. we are in the same major, we interned together, and we are going to work together later. (different part of co.) The way he treated me has been changing over time. In the beginning, he told me he likes the way i studied, so he always invited me to study together and take same classes. And after 1 year and half, we got closer and closer. We hang out almost every week. We talked about our goals, dreams, past. We had once intimate experience. But we never talked about this, both of us keep the things and friendship the same. I'm the type of "one of the guys", so I don't know if this sag guy treat me just like purely friendship or have more feelings?

Typical Aries female, one of the guys :p Definitely know a few that fit that mold.

I think its undeniable that he at least has something for you, since you have had an intimate experience and as you say, has been getting close to you. It's hard with us, because when we are emotionally unattached, being just friends with someone doesn't preclude us from still being intimate with them. It's just how we are. Do you have feelings for him? Also, how does he act around you?

LOL haha yeah. one of the guys.... feelings for him I don't know. but I do like his company.
Both of us are very spontaneous. when we are on the way to school, we can just turn around to somewhere get drinks or foods that fits the mood at that moment. He likes to tease me and both of us likes to make jokes. Sometimes when I'm busy with homework and forgot to text him (We almost text everyday) He complained that I was distant and said he misses me. He said he likes to do things together with me. He invited me to travel and we planned to do so. but because he used money first so couldn't make it happened. And I've met some of his best friends (grew up with him together) When he had career and life low moment, he shared his feelings with me. And I listened.

But I know sagg guy is friendly in general..... Lol cant tell

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LOL haha yeah. one of the guys.... feelings for him I don't know. but I do like his company.
Both of us are very spontaneous. when we are on the way to school, we can just turn around to somewhere get drinks or foods that fits the mood at that moment. He likes to tease me and both of us likes to make jokes. Sometimes when I'm busy with homework and forgot to text him (We almost text everyday) He complained that I was distant and said he misses me. He said he likes to do things together with me. He invited me to travel and we planned to do so. but because he used money first so couldn't make it happened. And I've met some of his best friends (grew up with him together) When he had career and life low moment, he shared his feelings with me. And I listened.

But I know sagg guy is friendly in general..... Lol cant tell

Given that he said something about forgetting to text, he definitely is interested in something more...or else he'd said nothing about it. He's probably mulling things and may be overthinking. Have you two actually talked about anything serious or where its going?

NO... I know both of us are light hearted person, so I don't know how to talk this in a less serious way lol

I have quite ego (Not sure if all Aries have this)... so i barely talk about my feelings before. But, recently he made me really mad and disappointed once. I really feel uncomfortable, so I told him. "I can't feel you are supporting me." (Homework stuff) He said sorry. He wanted to be supportive to me next time. And suddenly, he changed the way he talked to me, he's trying so hard to make me feel happy. And always asked me if he did something made me mad again. Uh... It kinda scared me. Because I thought sag is always like carefree, I'm not sure if my "unsupportive talk" scares him...

Does sag usually consider a lot before they commit? or they just had those "first sight" in love stuff? or they would want their partner having friendship based?

I think you definitely need to have a conversation with him about where this is going.

How do you feel about things going farther between you two? I have to say, the one time I was involved with an Aries girl it was extremely fast-paced, although we were also good at being friends too (even though I thought she was insane haha). I think it's clear he has feelings for you given what you said in that last post...we don't like to make the first move though, because we don't like to play unless we can win so to speak. We like sure things when it comes to our emotions. We don't mind flirting with people or getting involved with people short term if we don't have feelings for them...but when we are falling for someone, we become very cautious and can't really convince ourselves to put ourselves out there unless we see some clear signs of interest by the other person. We do have a tendency to fall "at first sight" although that can change. We are great judges of character, so we need to know someone's personality and character before we get involved heavily with them. Being that he's a long-time friend, he's had plenty of time to do that, and seemingly still wants something more.

I think you need to maybe try to make him come out with his feelings...if you want. You can flirt with him, or do things to drop hints that you might be interested. But only do that if you are. He has clearly invested a lot into you emotionally and I doubt you want to hurt him. Otherwise, if you don't want to lead him on, just try to ask him how he feels about you. Sags aren't afraid of serious conversations, especially if you mean a lot to them. In fact, they'll welcome it. So don't be afraid to do that. I know Aries females aren't maybe the best at that, but if you really want to know without leading him on unintentionally, it's really your best option.

Thanks, JustaSag. I guess I let my ego in between this. Because I also want to play unless I know I can win Lol.... I've been tried to give some hints. for example, letting him know I'm not seeing other people. I'm supporting him when he has difficulties. And I stand out of my way to support him. But, im not sure if that is enough and clear sign. Had a feeling he is not sure.

Btw, does sagg guy treat all "one of guy" female friend like this? Or is there any sign I can also read that he had more than just friend feeling to me Lol

And fast paced!!! Yes, thats definitely where we are right now. Because we are not just friends we are also working together (homework) so it can be flirting right now and suddenly change to professional serious attitude talking about stuff. And then suddenly he noticed im not happy. Then we start talking about why im not happy. Its so hard to separate all the pieces and see the sign. Lol

Ok, I think I'm going to have a conversation with him. I like his company and the situation now it's just confusing. And....As an Aries, I don't have patience for that. What kind of hints or talking can make sag feel I'm serious talking but not that type of "tie down serious". I just want to see how it goes. Because I know sometimes I'm quite upfront, I don't want to make him misunderstand and scare the heck of that Lol.