It is final

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by jru2 on Wednesday, February 25, 2009 and has 8 replies.

Signed Up: Feb 25, 2009
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My divorce is final; I am a single man.
You girls better watch out now

Well, the reason I had to delete my account was that I left some stuff on my ex's laptop last summer and forgot about it. I was looking for some file I needed to do the taxes, called her up and asked if she could look for it. She said she needed a password to get to my files on her computer ... like a dumbass I gave it to her. She found the file I needed, but then a couple hours later she called back furious. She found "something" I had written a long time ago to some girl probably. I don't even know what all she found, but she was mad ... and this is days before the final hearing for the divorce. I almost shit a brick.
Actually, I kinda thought she was over me and that she wouldn't have cared about it so much anyway. But, I was wrong, and now I feel bad letting that stuff get thrown in her face again. ...it was her decision to be nosy though, right?
lol, I would have read everything I found if it were me

Signed Up: May 21, 2006
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Damn J...this was a marriage remember, not a random girlfriend.

Signed Up: Jan 22, 2009
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oh dear...
glad you're back, J!

Sheesh.... will have to think twice about sag men. Your ex must have gotten a real hurt out of finding out the love letter.
Anyway, congrats. I remember my divorce. Even if you are single again, it feels strange to be announced that you have absolutely no past anymore with the person who was your life once.
the divorce was innitiated by me at the time.
I had a hard time thinking of marriage again although the man I was with proposed me for years and I was living with him.
I'd suggest you reconsider marriage ever.... unless you are absolutely, 100% sure that she is forever to stay. Honestly,... I would not recommend. But hey...
life is full of surprises. We have mates for each life stage.
Best to you.

Signed Up: Sep 18, 2008
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Yeah man, take it easy

Signed Up: Feb 25, 2009
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Sorry if I seem callus about the divorce ... it is just that it was something I should have done a long time ago. I see that now. Well, except I do think its better that the kids are older. I was able to build a better relation with them ... I'll always be their "dad" at least.
Thanks for the support guys.
On another note, I'm moving to Columbia, SC for work now. So, I won't have to worry about breaking up w/ the fish. Maybe I won't, I'm surprised by how much I'm gonna miss her.

Signed Up: May 21, 2006
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Good luck with the new job.
So the fish grew on ya, sweet.
Good riddens Aries chick, lol

The ladies of SC should be warned! lol

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