I've been wrong

Posted by Freetobe007
How about instead, you ask yourself what's healthy and harmonious?

Don't beat yourself up. Learn from it and move toward. Commit to not doing it again. Ask yourself why you have to be honest to benefit from that situation

Posted by Wynter
Sounds like you already know what's wrong.

But I feel there's nothing wrong with looking out for #1. Because in the end, nobody else will.

Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi

Posted by Lunabee
I feel bad. Was called out. I tried to divert it to no avail. I feel bad because I subject myself to situations that benefit me in a dishonest way.

I feel like survival is always on my mind.



What's smart and what's wrong?

Why not go to the people you've wronged and apologize to them? It's the right thing to do.

click to expand

Posted by feby
I'll say what's helped me find the balance.

I run more. I swim more. I go to the beach. I do what I enjoy more.

i focus more on things that make me feel good and less on things that don't like alcohol. It hurts me more than helps me so I limit it. like I can't go swimming Sunday morning because I drank sat night? it doesn't fit in with what drives,me and makes me happy.

Posted by feby
just from what I know about you you have a great running body and I know you have the drive and energy. just saying

Posted by feby
@lunabee do you enjoy competing? I know you like running. have you thought about joining a running club or competing in running events?

we all need an outlet and competing has helped me channel a few of my **things** into something that makes me happy plus challenges me.

Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi

Posted by Lunabee
I feel bad. Was called out. I tried to divert it to no avail. I feel bad because I subject myself to situations that benefit me in a dishonest way.

I feel like survival is always on my mind.



What's smart and what's wrong?

Why not go to the people you've wronged and apologize to them? It's the right thing to do.

click to expand

Posted by feby

Posted by Lunabee

Posted by feby
I'll say what's helped me find the balance.

I run more. I swim more. I go to the beach. I do what I enjoy more.

i focus more on things that make me feel good and less on things that don't like alcohol. It hurts me more than helps me so I limit it. like I can't go swimming Sunday morning because I drank sat night? it doesn't fit in with what drives,me and makes me happy.

Exactly!

This is exactly what I woke up feeling and did. Of course it worked, always does : )

I've struggled with drinking for a long time. It's easy to say, "I'll just stop starting now" but I've said that, lived it, feel back in it and then it creates disasters.

Currently, I feel bad/unworthy/you name it because I fight a lot with my roommate. (Her problems are her business but we are both guilty) she said I hurt those who love me most and give to people who treat me like shit. .... And she asked why. I told her I don't want to get too close to anyone and I don't know how to explain it. I am lonely but how can I be lonely and not want to be close to anyone? I think it comes down to WHO tries to get close to me, i only want certain people in my life and when I let, those people i don't want in my life, do nice things for me I feel horrid! Because I feel like I use them. I don't ask for anything but I'm given a lot.

Does any of this even make sense. ?

I question myself a lot, my motives, my actions....i do understand. like sometimes I get so tightly wound that I feel only a mutable can help me to relax lol. (does this make sense!?

and ^^ of course I'm always wondering if I make sense which I think is just the ponderings of someone searching-for-balance (like moi). its constant though. sometimes I feel like a scientist always adding a little and taking some away then stepping back like -what do you think of this way- ?

click to expand