Libra x sagg

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Librag on Tuesday, August 23, 2016 and has 50 replies.
Hey

I have been talking to this sagg dude on and off for 6 years. We havent even kissed. I have slept in his bed, feeling his boner and he didnt make a move. Just hugging. He talks to me like im his girlfriend, he gets jealous if i cant see him or if im with some other guy. He is 34 and im 29 soon. We fight like we are a couple. He always comes back... He talk about marriage and all that stuff... But he never makes a move. I know im not doing it...

Whats up with him.. Are they all like this or is he gay without knowing it. Its weird bcuz i know he is feeling me, he wanna hang out all the time, everyday,. Its like he dont have any balls seriously.
Thanks guys.

Right now we are not talking bcuz of an argument he started and couldt finish it. He didnt reply to my last text in the argument. But when he comes back im def gonna ask him. We always argue about hanging out...he will ask me 8pm what are you doing tonight well knowing i dont like to be spontanious with him. And he has been blowing me off more than once in these 6 years, just dissapearing for some days and then comes back apologising.
He just holds me.. Sweet but you know its boring after so long
We havent even kissed.
He doesnt seem shy. He is very funny, always makes me laugh. i feel he is insecure
2 years ago he had a girlfriend but lied about it to me. He sais he was single and wanted to hang out all the time. I found out he had a girlfriend after they broke up
Thanks koniuchaa. I do like him but 6 years with this makes me lose interest.
You're cool.

He likes you..

Libra's and Sag's have this weird friendship/relationship going on.. Where sometimes the sex could ruin it.. But it's like this underlying love and stuff that's there.

It's confusing because we are actually perfect for each other.. But it's like so many of this pairing goes to waste because we don't want to mess it up...


Tell him that you're ready to take it there and slowly open him up.. It'll be okay. He likes you though.
This is the pairing of subconscious feelings... We always come back to each other.
Posted by Librag
He just holds me.. Sweet but you know its boring after so long
If youre bored change things that yourself. Grab the dick and jump.on it.
I dated a libra man for awhile. We had no issues getting it on.

Get a voice libra and take control of your sexuality.
Posted by DMV
Posted by Librag
He just holds me.. Sweet but you know its boring after so long
If youre bored change things that yourself. Grab the dick and jump.on it.
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LOL, I agree. If you are bored of his behavior, then sit on his lap, and seduce him. Big Grin Hell, when I was kissing passionately with my Libra ex, she invited me at her place, and she jumped on my dick right away. Soon after we started dating...there is that chemistry between those two signs. I know that I couldn't resist to Libra's charm, so I would attack always from the start. So he sounds gay to me. Big Grin

Geez that's too long to wait.. There's no way I could wait that long... Patience is definitely your virtue.
Its been 6 years. Time to be straight up & ask him directly. It's the only way you will know because he's obviously not doing it. You will feel better once your questions are answered. Is he gay? Does he like me more than a friend? Is he just painfully shy? Good luck !
Posted by Redoctober2000
Posted by Librag
Hey

I have been talking to this sagg dude on and off for 6 years. We havent even kissed. I have slept in his bed, feeling his boner and he didnt make a move. Just hugging. He talks to me like im his girlfriend, he gets jealous if i cant see him or if im with some other guy. He is 34 and im 29 soon. We fight like we are a couple. He always comes back... He talk about marriage and all that stuff... But he never makes a move. I know im not doing it...

Whats up with him.. Are they all like this or is he gay without knowing it. Its weird bcuz i know he is feeling me, he wanna hang out all the time, everyday,. Its like he dont have any balls seriously.
6 years and people call Taurus SLOW LOL LOL that has to be a platonic friendship surely..
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Nah, he isn't slow, he is gay, or asexual. Because, if he was shy, after so many years, he would overcome that with her. I understand that there are lost cases like this, but what I don't understand is, how can she still be interested in that guy?

Libras are committed. Which is why. But even after then, a libra would lose interest. Shy sagi's I know will get over their shyness fairly quickly. He's ether gay or a virgin.
He has had relationships with other girls.. Maybe he is just not feeling me but he wanna hang out all the time and text me everyday so i dont know. I have thought about jumping him haha but i just cant, im not used to making the first move.
I do lose interest and he feels that and then he goes all in, with buying me gifts and wanna go on trips ...so im back again
Lol...and for 6 years you didn't found someone better? I just cannot believe. Find some normal Sag man, and not this gay/asexual. You're just wasting your time...
He still sounds like a virgin. Or at least behaving like one. Is he religious at all?
I personally don't know any girl who would be patient and still interested with someone like that. Many girls would lose interest after couple of dates with a wuss like that...and you are wasting years...jeez. Let him just be your friend, and find some normal person. He's 100% gay or asexual, because shyness would go away, especially because he's a Sag, and all that chemistry between those two signs...
I don't know any male virgin Sag, especially over 30...that is impossible to happen considering their nature, no matter if they are more shy or not. That fire solves the problem this way or another...
Hes not gay. Hes been getting sex elsewhere.
Maybe, maybe not. Why wouldn't he want to bang Libra, at least once? No way...his behavior tells another story. smile
Like i said we talked on and off for 6 years. I have been dating others, and so has he.

He is not religious.

I think he is gay but why would he get jealous and wanna see me all the time if he is gay. Makes no sense :/
I guess youre just going to have to make a move. Next time he comes over wear a teddy.

If he does nothing, you have your answer.

If he does something, enjoy!
Posted by Librag
Like i said we talked on and off for 6 years. I have been dating others, and so has he.

He is not religious.

I think he is gay but why would he get jealous and wanna see me all the time if he is gay. Makes no sense :/
Believe me, he's gay. I know almost identical story. The only difference is that the girl started to take his clothes off, and he was limp. She was trying to satisfy him orally, and he was still limp. And yes, she knew girls that he dated. He was avoiding intimacy so long, yet, he was jealous. So after long, he admitted that he's gay.

Some people can be asexual. Especially those heavy in air placements.
She said he had a boner though when he slept beside her.
Lol...very strange, but I still think that he's gay. Nobody can be a big pussy like that after SO long, lol.
Posted by Aquistorm
She said he had a boner though when he slept beside her.
That means nothing. Men get wood all the time. Especially when sleeping
He wants you to make a move first. If he didn't want you then you couldn't be in his bed. If he talking about marriage then he just trying to figure out if you feel the same way about marrying him. He is comfortable. I'm a Libra too and had a sagg years ago.

It's up to you now to know if you want him just the same.

But I must warn you... It ain't gonna be easy. They always chasing after whatever once they conquered someone

Posted by Librag
Like i said we talked on and off for 6 years. I have been dating others, and so has he.

He is not religious.

I think he is gay but why would he get jealous and wanna see me all the time if he is gay. Makes no sense :/
You can feel possessive over someone without wanting to fuck them.

Posted by Librag
We havent even kissed.
You've never kissed but he's talked about wanting to marry you? Sounds like a maturity issue (no offense!). Yes, communication could definitely be improved here, big time.
We had sex .. I basically jumped his d..
Posted by Librag
We had sex .. I basically jumped his d..
Was it worth the wait?
Yes it was worth it. He could go on and on.,
Posted by Librag
Hey

I have been talking to this sagg dude on and off for 6 years. We havent even kissed. I have slept in his bed, feeling his boner and he didnt make a move. Just hugging. He talks to me like im his girlfriend, he gets jealous if i cant see him or if im with some other guy. He is 34 and im 29 soon. We fight like we are a couple. He always comes back... He talk about marriage and all that stuff... But he never makes a move. I know im not doing it...

Whats up with him.. Are they all like this or is he gay without knowing it. Its weird bcuz i know he is feeling me, he wanna hang out all the time, everyday,. Its like he dont have any balls seriously.
I have a friend like this who honestly, isn't that attractive. Could it be that your guy is insecure about something?

Height, weight, size of package, finances, career?



Posted by Librag
Yes it was worth it. He could go on and on.,
Well there you go lol...

You might just bring out a different side of him. He might like that aggressiveness that comes from you sexually. I'm glad that you liked it.

Was he aggressive or passive sexually?
Sunmoonstars- he is handsome, and packed but i noticed that he wanted to keep the blanket on. He has a nice body too

Arose32- he was aggressive Big Grin
Oh my!!! 6 years??? No kissing, no sex??? What are you waiting for? Do you like this man or not? I mean it's good that you wait but you honestly think he's not getting it elsewhere? If you really like him then see what's up no use in beating around the bush. If he is a good man to you then treat him and show him. I've learned from my Sag guy that they love for a woman to lead especially in the bedroom. Take charge!!! I know how you Libra move as I was with one for damn near 9 years!!! I hope things work out for you but in the mean time..... STOP PLAYING GAMES!!!!
Posted by Librag
2 years ago he had a girlfriend but lied about it to me. He sais he was single and wanted to hang out all the time. I found out he had a girlfriend after they broke up
They hate rejection. They are very sneaky and quiet about how they do things to the point it's irritating. But if you like him just talk to him and see where his head is. I'm going through it now with mines after we argued about his infidelity and him never owning up to it. They will one day grow up and stop being whores and learn the grass is not always greener on the other side. They never realize when they have a good woman in front of them. Smh....
Librasetting- He has aqua venus. and i have libra venus .. if I post our charts could you look at it? if you want to ofc...
I noticed that since we had sex the second time he is kinda cold towards me. he doesnt contact me like before..
Posted by Librag
Librasetting- He has aqua venus. and i have libra venus .. if I post our charts could you look at it? if you want to ofc...
Makes sense..

I have Aqua Venus and I literally will have girls throw it at me and I'll downplay it... But imagine it 24,7... I get him.
Posted by Librag
I noticed that since we had sex the second time he is kinda cold towards me. he doesnt contact me like before..
Well I've done this to someone before after we had sex twice... He possibly didn't want to mess with you on a certain level. And we are known for detachment ... He might not even notice it... Idk. I'm wired the same way.
Posted by Redoctober2000
Posted by Librag
Sunmoonstars- he is handsome, and packed but i noticed that he wanted to keep the blanket on. He has a nice body too

Arose32- he was aggressive Big Grin
Oh well! Welcome to the sag "fuck club"... I'm hoping you are not looking for anything else.... You will be severely disappointed if you are
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Busy, you talked to A Sag Sun Scorpio Venus.. That's the Devils best friend right there.

The rest of us are not as bad.. You have to give us some slack.
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Posted by Koniuchaa
Posted by Librag
I noticed that since we had sex the second time he is kinda cold towards me. he doesnt contact me like before..
See?? Damned if you do and damned if you don't.

Well now we know that the timing of sex is absolutely meaningless.
It does have meaning!! It's always better to form an emotional bond and friendship first before being physical Imo. Well it works that way at least for me.

The OP's sag showed no real interest in her at all.. Not even ONE move in 6 years... Come on now....

So she takes matters into her own hands and eventually "rides his dick" twice!! What was she expecting?

As I said before, I hope it was not a relationship she was expecting. The sag is not to blame for that... Welcome to his fuck club. He's a Venus in aqua and he'll take a fuck with the OP or leave it... It does not bother him. It's a sign of detachment. One of the most detached signs in a person and I wouldn't want to have a relationship with a man like this on a long term basis.

Although the OP also has a Venus in libra which is also air. But Imo that won't make an ounce of difference. She "rode his dick" not the other way around..

Now he's calling the shots...
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Venus in aqua is bad? Tell me more please

Posted by hollyhock
The sags I know are like this...all wound up, flirting left and right, then lose interest when you gain interest. Typical.
Sags are all about the hunt. It kills the fun if the deer runs willingly into your knife...


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