met a Sag guy.I am a Scorpio..need some guidance
This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Annie56 on Wednesday, January 29, 2014 and has 13 replies.
I met him on a dating site we chatted for a few weeks, then he asked me if he could take me for lunch for my b'day which was coming up..we had a nice time and hit it off well..and he asked if he could see me again and I said yes.we had a couple of lunch dates...we went to a concert on ..then Xmas dinner and show at a local club. Our conversations just flowed, he was very talkative (thought he was a Gemini at first LOL).
All was going really well..he told me I was amazing and he felt he was falling for me.He had told me of his 2 marriages..and I was told he had a partner before me...I waited for him to mention her.
He came to my home and cooked lunch .....he was talking about taking some trips together .....and going to a stage show with him..he had gone out back for a smoke..then asked if he could use the shower as it was a humid day....after he got out he decided to go home......he called me a few times about trivial stuff that afternoon..then early in the evening he called me again and said "there is something I need to tell you I have an ex I havent told you about and she called me last night and although I love you I am in love with her and there is a chance we my get back together.. I'm sorry I thought I was ready for a r/ship, but i am not and have hurt you in the process"....him again while he was out smoking....
I couldn't talk...I was dumbfounded....so I said I have to go.....I sent a text to a Gemini ex boyfriend who is still a friend saying "I really need someone to talk to may I ring you?" he replied "yes" straight away.....of course I got the lecture of "told you he was moving too fast etc etc" My friend invited me to come camping for a week.
During the time away I had to 4 texts, a couple of missed calls and an email from the Sag guy...one text said "I miss you" my friend saw the look on my face and he said "whats up?" so I told him..he said "let it go" Next day my friend said "what's wrong ,u are too quiet"...told him "I am confused by the I miss u text"...he said "let it go u will never be able to trust him and that is not a good start...and u don't need any crap" I said "what if he is the real deal"..he said "he isn't"
Sag guy rang me NYE and said there is a chance he will never get back with the ex...he still wanted to be friends with me and cold we meet up to have a chat...Gem guy said "NO, no friends, no meeting"
All was going really well..he told me I was amazing and he felt he was falling for me.He had told me of his 2 marriages..and I was told he had a partner before me...I waited for him to mention her.
He came to my home and cooked lunch .....he was talking about taking some trips together .....and going to a stage show with him..he had gone out back for a smoke..then asked if he could use the shower as it was a humid day....after he got out he decided to go home......he called me a few times about trivial stuff that afternoon..then early in the evening he called me again and said "there is something I need to tell you I have an ex I havent told you about and she called me last night and although I love you I am in love with her and there is a chance we my get back together.. I'm sorry I thought I was ready for a r/ship, but i am not and have hurt you in the process"....him again while he was out smoking....
I couldn't talk...I was dumbfounded....so I said I have to go.....I sent a text to a Gemini ex boyfriend who is still a friend saying "I really need someone to talk to may I ring you?" he replied "yes" straight away.....of course I got the lecture of "told you he was moving too fast etc etc" My friend invited me to come camping for a week.
During the time away I had to 4 texts, a couple of missed calls and an email from the Sag guy...one text said "I miss you" my friend saw the look on my face and he said "whats up?" so I told him..he said "let it go" Next day my friend said "what's wrong ,u are too quiet"...told him "I am confused by the I miss u text"...he said "let it go u will never be able to trust him and that is not a good start...and u don't need any crap" I said "what if he is the real deal"..he said "he isn't"
Sag guy rang me NYE and said there is a chance he will never get back with the ex...he still wanted to be friends with me and cold we meet up to have a chat...Gem guy said "NO, no friends, no meeting"
We had a meeting,we talked for about 3 hours... if "she" turned up he would leave me in a heartbeat.We enjoy each others company so we will hang out and go to shows etc together as we both would like a companion to do those things with....he said we cant help whom we love. Neither of us want to move in together and we both like to have our space...we both know it could end at any time..he said if I find someone he would wish me luck and let me go..the confusing thing is he told me I am getting under his skin..he isnt sure if he likes it and feels he is falling for me. Thoughts??Advice??
His:
Sun Sagittarius
Moon Capricorn
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Sagittarius
Mars Capricorn
Mine:
Sun Scorpio
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Libra
Mars Pisces
Ascendant Libra
His:
Sun Sagittarius
Moon Capricorn
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Sagittarius
Mars Capricorn
Mine:
Sun Scorpio
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Libra
Mars Pisces
Ascendant Libra
Have you ever read The Glass Lake?
By Maeve Binchy?
Serious question.
By Maeve Binchy?
Serious question.
venus in sag men are notorious for multiple lovers/friends. friends=lovers, lovers=friends. they collect them and every plays a different role.
my advice is to hold out for what you want.
Gem guy said "NO, no friends, no meeting"
listen to this man. will you listen to your friend?
my advice is to hold out for what you want.
Gem guy said "NO, no friends, no meeting"
listen to this man. will you listen to your friend?
Sag venus can be a serious flirt. That is true.
W a cap moon? eeekk
Posted by Sag89
W a cap moon? eeekk
Posted by Montgomery
Have you ever read The Glass Lake?
By Maeve Binchy?
Serious question.
No...why??
Posted by DMV
venus in sag men are notorious for multiple lovers/friends. friends=lovers, lovers=friends. they collect them and every plays a different role.
my advice is to hold out for what you want.
Gem guy said "NO, no friends, no meeting"
listen to this man. will you listen to your friend?
Thank you...
Posted by Annie56Posted by Sag89
W a cap moon? eeekkclick to expand
I hope it works out for you Annie
Posted by Annie56Posted by Montgomery
Have you ever read The Glass Lake?
By Maeve Binchy?
Serious question.
No...why??click to expand
The premise is the same as what you said, here:
"We had a meeting,we talked for about 3 hours... if "she" turned up he would leave me in a heartbeat."
But it was the woman, who said it to the man-- she ended up marrying him and they had kids.
Then when they were older (story is told from her daughter's pov-- she was a teenager), her lover came back, and she deserted her family to be with him.
After all those years.
That's just what it made me think of-- I hope you would never, ever settle for that.
Hope it works out for you, whatever you decide.
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by Annie56Posted by Montgomery
Have you ever read The Glass Lake?
By Maeve Binchy?
Serious question.
No...why??
The premise is the same as what you said, here:
"We had a meeting,we talked for about 3 hours... if "she" turned up he would leave me in a heartbeat."
But it was the woman, who said it to the man-- she ended up marrying him and they had kids.
Then when they were older (story is told from her daughter's pov-- she was a teenager), her lover came back, and she deserted her family to be with him.
After all those years.
That's just what it made me think of-- I hope you would never, ever settle for that.
Hope it works out for you, whatever you decide.click to expand
will have to read it..or see if it is in movie form....and no I wouldnt ever do that.
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