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My sag ex-boyfriend does not find me attractive
Posted by aquasagi
I don't think it is really fair on your part to keep us victims uninformed of your true feelings. Please communicate when you start feeling suffocated and allow the person to make adjustment. He was the kind I was looking for so I fell in love instantly and I would have done anything in my power to make this work.
you had me till this paragraph...are you addressing us or him?
Posted by aquasagi
Well we had a 8 month long relationship, out of which 3 months were in person. He now tells me that after being two months into our "relationship", he had gotten bored but he never acted as such when we were together. How deceiving and down right rude!!! I was under the impression that he really misses me so I decided to stay for full 3 months for me. During this time, he took almost complete control of me (and I allowed it to happen fearing that he will change). He would call me for extensively for at least 2 hours. Then couple hours later, he would visit me and stay with me for another 4-5 hours in person. Then when he goes home, he would call me at midnight and we talk until 3am.
I don't think it is really fair on your part to keep us victims uninformed of your true feelings. Please communicate when you start feeling suffocated and allow the person to make adjustment. He was the kind I was looking for so I fell in love instantly and I would have done anything in my power to make this work.
For the last two weeks, he was trying to get back with me after my convincing (that we should give each other a shot again now that I understand more about him). He said he will come back in 1 week and that I MUST not contact him (at any cost). I didn't. He came back after 2 days and said, he didn't feel anything for me and insisted that we can be friends.
I told him that it is more painful to have him as a friend (having same feelings for him but unable to get his affection is very hurting). I have said good bye to him. It is been a week and he has not contacted me. I also don't want to contact him this time. Is there anyways, he can like me again sexually? What can I do to make him want me again?
Well, I know I have to be much older than yourself so I will say this. You cannot make a man want, love or like you. If he doesn't, he doesn't and you have to be strong enough to accept that. I'm not going to sugar coat it here. Why do you want a guy that clearly has the upper hand over you and you abide by his rules and regulations. A man that is truly into you and loves you would not put you through all of this nor would he tell you not to contact him for a week. I mean are we kids here or what? Where is your self esteem? It may be a good thing for you in the end because you need to re-evaluate your own self worth.
Ora??o de S?o Cipriano — para amarra??o
by Aurelio Martuscelli ?? 20 de mar?o de 2014
Ora??o S?o Cipriano para amarra??o— forte e poderosa, se for para o bem dos dois, que d? certo! N?o duvide ou questione os poderes de S?o Cipriano.
Ora??o de S?o Cipriano — para amarra??o
Pelos poderes de S?o Cipriano (substituir os [inicias dele] pelas inicias dele ou dela) vir?? agora atr??s de mim. Acordar?? agora pedindo para voltar. [inicias dele] vai vir de rastos, apaixonado, cheio de amor e tes?o o mais r??pido poss?_vel.
S?o Cipriano, eu terei esse poder de ele deixe de vez todas as mulheres e perca o medo de perder a liberdade em viver comigo e assuma para todos o que sente por mim.
S??O CIPRIANO, AFASTE [inicias dele] DE QUALQUER PESSOA, que me procure a todo o momento, QUE [inicias dele] RASTEJE AOS MEUS P??S, ME CUBRA DE CARINHOS NA FRENTE DE TODOS. Hoje e agora, que [inicias dele] ACORDE desejando estar ao meu lado, que [inicias dele]tenha a certeza que eu sou ?? pessoa perfeita para ele, que [inicias dele] n?o possa mais viver sem mim.
Que [inicias dele] sempre tenha a minha imagem em seu pensamento todos os momentos do seus dias. Agora com quem estiver, onde estiver ele ir?? parar; se estiver dormindo que acorde porque o pensamento e os sonhos de [inicias dele] est?o em mim. Que ao deitar tenha sonhos comigo e ao acordar pense em mim, que a todo momento dos seus dias tenha o pensamento em mim e que queira me ver, sentir meu cheiro me tocar e me ter com amor.
Que o [inicias dele] queira abra?ar-me, beijar-me, cuidar de mim, proteger-me, amar-me de verdade nas vinte quatro horas do seu dia, fazendo assim com que [inicias dele] me ame a cada dia mais e que sinta prazer s?_ de me ver. S?o Cipriano fa?a [inicias dele] sentir por mim um desejo fora do normal como nunca sentiu por outra pessoa e nunca sentir??. Que [inicias dele] tenha prazer apenas comigo, que tenha tes?o somente por mim e que seu corpo s?_ a mim perten?a.
Que [inicias dele]s?_ tenha paz se estiver comigo. Agrade?o por estar trabalhando em meu favor e vou divulgar seu nome, S?o Cipriano, em troca de amansar [inicias dele] e traz?-lo de volta para mim apaixonado, carinhoso, devotado, dedicado, fiel e cheio de desejos aos meus bra?os, falando sempre a verdade e para que assuma o nosso amor e volte para mim o r??pido poss?_vel.
Que [inicias dele] se sinta orgulhoso de dizer a todos que sou A MULHER DE SUA VI
by Aurelio Martuscelli ?? 20 de mar?o de 2014
Ora??o S?o Cipriano para amarra??o— forte e poderosa, se for para o bem dos dois, que d? certo! N?o duvide ou questione os poderes de S?o Cipriano.
Ora??o de S?o Cipriano — para amarra??o
Pelos poderes de S?o Cipriano (substituir os [inicias dele] pelas inicias dele ou dela) vir?? agora atr??s de mim. Acordar?? agora pedindo para voltar. [inicias dele] vai vir de rastos, apaixonado, cheio de amor e tes?o o mais r??pido poss?_vel.
S?o Cipriano, eu terei esse poder de ele deixe de vez todas as mulheres e perca o medo de perder a liberdade em viver comigo e assuma para todos o que sente por mim.
S??O CIPRIANO, AFASTE [inicias dele] DE QUALQUER PESSOA, que me procure a todo o momento, QUE [inicias dele] RASTEJE AOS MEUS P??S, ME CUBRA DE CARINHOS NA FRENTE DE TODOS. Hoje e agora, que [inicias dele] ACORDE desejando estar ao meu lado, que [inicias dele]tenha a certeza que eu sou ?? pessoa perfeita para ele, que [inicias dele] n?o possa mais viver sem mim.
Que [inicias dele] sempre tenha a minha imagem em seu pensamento todos os momentos do seus dias. Agora com quem estiver, onde estiver ele ir?? parar; se estiver dormindo que acorde porque o pensamento e os sonhos de [inicias dele] est?o em mim. Que ao deitar tenha sonhos comigo e ao acordar pense em mim, que a todo momento dos seus dias tenha o pensamento em mim e que queira me ver, sentir meu cheiro me tocar e me ter com amor.
Que o [inicias dele] queira abra?ar-me, beijar-me, cuidar de mim, proteger-me, amar-me de verdade nas vinte quatro horas do seu dia, fazendo assim com que [inicias dele] me ame a cada dia mais e que sinta prazer s?_ de me ver. S?o Cipriano fa?a [inicias dele] sentir por mim um desejo fora do normal como nunca sentiu por outra pessoa e nunca sentir??. Que [inicias dele] tenha prazer apenas comigo, que tenha tes?o somente por mim e que seu corpo s?_ a mim perten?a.
Que [inicias dele]s?_ tenha paz se estiver comigo. Agrade?o por estar trabalhando em meu favor e vou divulgar seu nome, S?o Cipriano, em troca de amansar [inicias dele] e traz?-lo de volta para mim apaixonado, carinhoso, devotado, dedicado, fiel e cheio de desejos aos meus bra?os, falando sempre a verdade e para que assuma o nosso amor e volte para mim o r??pido poss?_vel.
Que [inicias dele] se sinta orgulhoso de dizer a todos que sou A MULHER DE SUA VI
Ora??o de S?o Cipriano — para amarra??o
by Aurelio Martuscelli ?? 20 de mar?o de 2014
Ora??o S?o Cipriano para amarra??o— forte e poderosa, se for para o bem dos dois, que d? certo! N?o duvide ou questione os poderes de S?o Cipriano.
Ora??o de S?o Cipriano — para amarra??o
Pelos poderes de S?o Cipriano (substituir os [inicias dele] pelas inicias dele ou dela) vir?? agora atr??s de mim. Acordar?? agora pedindo para voltar. [inicias dele] vai vir de rastos, apaixonado, cheio de amor e tes?o o mais r??pido poss?_vel.
S?o Cipriano, eu terei esse poder de ele deixe de vez todas as mulheres e perca o medo de perder a liberdade em viver comigo e assuma para todos o que sente por mim.
S??O CIPRIANO, AFASTE [inicias dele] DE QUALQUER PESSOA, que me procure a todo o momento, QUE [inicias dele] RASTEJE AOS MEUS P??S, ME CUBRA DE CARINHOS NA FRENTE DE TODOS. Hoje e agora, que [inicias dele] ACORDE desejando estar ao meu lado, que [inicias dele]tenha a certeza que eu sou ?? pessoa perfeita para ele, que [inicias dele] n?o possa mais viver sem mim.
Que [inicias dele] sempre tenha a minha imagem em seu pensamento todos os momentos do seus dias. Agora com quem estiver, onde estiver ele ir?? parar; se estiver dormindo que acorde porque o pensamento e os sonhos de [inicias dele] est?o em mim. Que ao deitar tenha sonhos comigo e ao acordar pense em mim, que a todo momento dos seus dias tenha o pensamento em mim e que queira me ver, sentir meu cheiro me tocar e me ter com amor.
Que o [inicias dele] queira abra?ar-me, beijar-me, cuidar de mim, proteger-me, amar-me de verdade nas vinte quatro horas do seu dia, fazendo assim com que [inicias dele] me ame a cada dia mais e que sinta prazer s?_ de me ver. S?o Cipriano fa?a [inicias dele] sentir por mim um desejo fora do normal como nunca sentiu por outra pessoa e nunca sentir??. Que [inicias dele] tenha prazer apenas comigo, que tenha tes?o somente por mim e que seu corpo s?_ a mim perten?a.
Que [inicias dele]s?_ tenha paz se estiver comigo. Agrade?o por estar trabalhando em meu favor e vou divulgar seu nome, S?o Cipriano, em troca de amansar [inicias dele] e traz?-lo de volta para mim apaixonado, carinhoso, devotado, dedicado, fiel e cheio de desejos aos meus bra?os, falando sempre a verdade e para que assuma o nosso amor e volte para mim o r??pido poss?_vel.
Que [inicias dele] se sinta orgulhoso de dizer a todos que sou A MULHER DE SUA VI
by Aurelio Martuscelli ?? 20 de mar?o de 2014
Ora??o S?o Cipriano para amarra??o— forte e poderosa, se for para o bem dos dois, que d? certo! N?o duvide ou questione os poderes de S?o Cipriano.
Ora??o de S?o Cipriano — para amarra??o
Pelos poderes de S?o Cipriano (substituir os [inicias dele] pelas inicias dele ou dela) vir?? agora atr??s de mim. Acordar?? agora pedindo para voltar. [inicias dele] vai vir de rastos, apaixonado, cheio de amor e tes?o o mais r??pido poss?_vel.
S?o Cipriano, eu terei esse poder de ele deixe de vez todas as mulheres e perca o medo de perder a liberdade em viver comigo e assuma para todos o que sente por mim.
S??O CIPRIANO, AFASTE [inicias dele] DE QUALQUER PESSOA, que me procure a todo o momento, QUE [inicias dele] RASTEJE AOS MEUS P??S, ME CUBRA DE CARINHOS NA FRENTE DE TODOS. Hoje e agora, que [inicias dele] ACORDE desejando estar ao meu lado, que [inicias dele]tenha a certeza que eu sou ?? pessoa perfeita para ele, que [inicias dele] n?o possa mais viver sem mim.
Que [inicias dele] sempre tenha a minha imagem em seu pensamento todos os momentos do seus dias. Agora com quem estiver, onde estiver ele ir?? parar; se estiver dormindo que acorde porque o pensamento e os sonhos de [inicias dele] est?o em mim. Que ao deitar tenha sonhos comigo e ao acordar pense em mim, que a todo momento dos seus dias tenha o pensamento em mim e que queira me ver, sentir meu cheiro me tocar e me ter com amor.
Que o [inicias dele] queira abra?ar-me, beijar-me, cuidar de mim, proteger-me, amar-me de verdade nas vinte quatro horas do seu dia, fazendo assim com que [inicias dele] me ame a cada dia mais e que sinta prazer s?_ de me ver. S?o Cipriano fa?a [inicias dele] sentir por mim um desejo fora do normal como nunca sentiu por outra pessoa e nunca sentir??. Que [inicias dele] tenha prazer apenas comigo, que tenha tes?o somente por mim e que seu corpo s?_ a mim perten?a.
Que [inicias dele]s?_ tenha paz se estiver comigo. Agrade?o por estar trabalhando em meu favor e vou divulgar seu nome, S?o Cipriano, em troca de amansar [inicias dele] e traz?-lo de volta para mim apaixonado, carinhoso, devotado, dedicado, fiel e cheio de desejos aos meus bra?os, falando sempre a verdade e para que assuma o nosso amor e volte para mim o r??pido poss?_vel.
Que [inicias dele] se sinta orgulhoso de dizer a todos que sou A MULHER DE SUA VI
Que [inicias dele] se sinta orgulhoso de dizer a todos que sou A MULHER DE SUA VIDA que jamais tenha vergonha de mim. Que a minha vontade seja a dele tamb?m e que sinta uma imensa felicidade sempre que estiver comigo e jamais queira de mim se separar. Que eu e [inicias dele] possamos viver em paz e unidos pelo amor.
VOU DIVULGAR SEU NOME S??O CIPRIANO EM TROCA DESTE PEDIDO. Pe?o isso aos poderes de S?o Cipriano E DAS TRES MALHAS PRETAS QUE VIGIAM S??O CIPRIANO, QUE ASSIM SEJA, ASSIM SER? E ASSIM EST? FEITO.
PUBLICA IMEDIATAMENTE E TER?S UMA SURPRESA
VOU DIVULGAR SEU NOME S??O CIPRIANO EM TROCA DESTE PEDIDO. Pe?o isso aos poderes de S?o Cipriano E DAS TRES MALHAS PRETAS QUE VIGIAM S??O CIPRIANO, QUE ASSIM SEJA, ASSIM SER? E ASSIM EST? FEITO.
PUBLICA IMEDIATAMENTE E TER?S UMA SURPRESA
Posted by Rabbit
Not really going to bother reading much more than the title...because the title gives me all the info I need; if he's you EX why do you care if he thinks you're attractive or not?
seriously, who cares
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay
Posted by tizianiPosted by DMVPosted by aquasagi
I don't think it is really fair on your part to keep us victims uninformed of your true feelings. Please communicate when you start feeling suffocated and allow the person to make adjustment. He was the kind I was looking for so I fell in love instantly and I would have done anything in my power to make this work.
you had me till this paragraph...are you addressing us or him?
/dead @ this "breaking the fourth wall" momentclick to expand
Total deadpool style
Posted by aquavita2
Or am I underestimating mister Brad pitty?
I think Brad and Angelina picked each other based on their level of attractiveness, which seem to be fairly equal IMO
People seem to match themselves up pretty well, if given a choice
Posted by RainDancer88
Out of curiosity, why do you think it's important for him to want you sexually?
Perhaps he wants more than sex and desires a more intellectual connection? ...
I think it's important to mention that you are deserving of love regardless of how you are treated. ...
Actually it is clear why she wants him to like her for sexual communication too. I'd want the same too.
You are right. He may want more intellectual pulses. Or perspective for change and exploration.
I think Brad Pitt joined AJ because:
1. she is fun to be with, as Gemini. She has lots of crazy ideas.
2. she was all about having children in the house
3. they both are Cats (1963 and 1975) so they feel at home with each other. Cat::homebase.
Being fat is no go for Sags (not because of beauty rules but) just because it shows how little MOTION is ranged in your interest scale.
Posted by tiziani
Do you do readings? You're like an endless well of thought and information. It's very impressive.
No, no readings. Just talk the little I know. To enjoy debates or check what Astrology can bring.
-- apprecites the compliment very much.
Posted by aquavita2
... Contradict yourslef in tour explain action ... have children and stay home how does that go along with having crazy ideas ? ...
Questions regarding contradictions should be passed to God. Why does he/she put a Sag Sun inside of a Cat? Extrovert embedded in the Introvert! Outgoing but home lazy?
This is why life is so hard. You are made up of different interests and talents. People master life as good as they can. But not better than that.
When they met she had already a son. That was a sexy window to new worlds. Sag got seduced.
"A sag man can put a woman down like no other for her looks."
How accurate can we isolate that motive from the sum of further reasons he may have had?
As far as I know, OP was good-looking enough for the start.
How accurate can we isolate that motive from the sum of further reasons he may have had?
As far as I know, OP was good-looking enough for the start.
Posted by aquavita2
... Also if she was not prettier than Jennifer he would not have left jennifer...
I tend not to use "conjunctives" in serious debates. If at all for joking.
It is difficult enough to figure out "what really happend".
How can we tell "what would happen"?
You are brave.
Is this thread now officially about pity and co?
"a sag man is very physical too and some sag women "
That's right.
And if he is hot 4/10 then he knows he can neither get a JA nor an AJ.
That's right.
And if he is hot 4/10 then he knows he can neither get a JA nor an AJ.
Posted by tizianiPosted by DwellingOnMovePosted by RainDancer88
Out of curiosity, why do you think it's important for him to want you sexually?
Perhaps he wants more than sex and desires a more intellectual connection? ...
I think it's important to mention that you are deserving of love regardless of how you are treated. ...
Actually it is clear why she wants him to like her for sexual communication too. I'd want the same too.
You are right. He may want more intellectual pulses. Or perspective for change and exploration.
I think Brad Pitt joined AJ because:
1. she is fun to be with, as Gemini. She has lots of crazy ideas.
2. she was all about having children in the house
3. they both are Cats (1963 and 1975) so they feel at home with each other. Cat::homebase.
Being fat is no go for Sags (not because of beauty rules but) just because it shows how little MOTION is ranged in your interest scale.
I concur.
Do you do readings? You're like an endless well of thought and information. It's very impressive.click to expand
Damn quoting.
Dwelling dont ever stop learning. Your brain is intriguing.
Dwelling dont ever stop learning. Your brain is intriguing.
Posted by DMV
Damn quoting.
Dwelling dont ever stop learning. Your brain is intriguing.
thank you, how nice to hear this.
Posted by aquavita2
Frank Sinatra was from from a 10 but yet he had the 10 available gardner.
Ava Gardner?
Posted by DMVPosted by aquasagi
I don't think it is really fair on your part to keep us victims uninformed of your true feelings. Please communicate when you start feeling suffocated and allow the person to make adjustment. He was the kind I was looking for so I fell in love instantly and I would have done anything in my power to make this work.
you had me till this paragraph...are you addressing us or him?click to expand
Well in this particular sentence, I am addressing all Sagittarius.It is more of an advice. I feel that this is one trait which is common among most (if not all) sags. I have come to this conclusion based on the traits of my sag ex-boyfriend and my research about Sagittarius men. If Sagittarius let their partner know when they start to get suffocated, it would save their relationship.
Just to add more clarifications.
Why I want him?
I have never had a guy this close to my ideal. He is good looking, tall, bearish, slim, attentive lover, passionate, with bigger/stronger hands and bone structure. He is truly a hopeless romantic. After my intense prayers to God, He gifted me this guy with exact physical features that I asked for. I took that to be a sign from God that he is a match made in heaven for me.
He played with that desire of mine since sagees are very good at analyzing people. He lied to me that he was also was looking for a person like me. He made me believe that he really loves me with showering all this attention and time on me. No one could have suspected him for why would a guy wastes his time on one girl (being a player) for that long if his intention was to make sex. I feel that he did have some feelings for me otherwise he wouldn't call this relationship (or breakup of one) since you only break up relationships not sexual unions.
He made a lot of promises about our future and I believed him. He deeply hurt me. I did everything wrong that I was not supposed to do post-breakup. I cried, convinced, pleaded, made a deal and so forth but none of that worked. Although, he became regretful of hurting me and started becoming more honest with his future partners.
I know that Sagittarius men, in particular, love the chase. I talked to another Sagi guy who told me he hates those women who come after him (like he feels disgusted). Another example; one day my ex (after breakup) texted me. I was trying to play cool and hard to get (since he used to be the first one to end the conversation). I told him that I was with a friend having lunch and shared my friend's pic (who is also handsome). My ex went into competitive mode. Couple of days later he told me, that he saw me in his dreams that I was walking across him with my new very handsome boyfriend. Then few days later, he was trying to woo me back (lol) but the stupid me just admitted that I still want him and would like him to come back. After listening to that my ex went back to his usual mode which is showing disinterest in me and still holding on to the break up thing.
Why I want him?
I have never had a guy this close to my ideal. He is good looking, tall, bearish, slim, attentive lover, passionate, with bigger/stronger hands and bone structure. He is truly a hopeless romantic. After my intense prayers to God, He gifted me this guy with exact physical features that I asked for. I took that to be a sign from God that he is a match made in heaven for me.
He played with that desire of mine since sagees are very good at analyzing people. He lied to me that he was also was looking for a person like me. He made me believe that he really loves me with showering all this attention and time on me. No one could have suspected him for why would a guy wastes his time on one girl (being a player) for that long if his intention was to make sex. I feel that he did have some feelings for me otherwise he wouldn't call this relationship (or breakup of one) since you only break up relationships not sexual unions.
He made a lot of promises about our future and I believed him. He deeply hurt me. I did everything wrong that I was not supposed to do post-breakup. I cried, convinced, pleaded, made a deal and so forth but none of that worked. Although, he became regretful of hurting me and started becoming more honest with his future partners.
I know that Sagittarius men, in particular, love the chase. I talked to another Sagi guy who told me he hates those women who come after him (like he feels disgusted). Another example; one day my ex (after breakup) texted me. I was trying to play cool and hard to get (since he used to be the first one to end the conversation). I told him that I was with a friend having lunch and shared my friend's pic (who is also handsome). My ex went into competitive mode. Couple of days later he told me, that he saw me in his dreams that I was walking across him with my new very handsome boyfriend. Then few days later, he was trying to woo me back (lol) but the stupid me just admitted that I still want him and would like him to come back. After listening to that my ex went back to his usual mode which is showing disinterest in me and still holding on to the break up thing.
So I am trying to use this "chase" thing to get him back eventually. Now that I have accepted the break up (95% ) and am not feeling as needy, I feel that I can still get him back if I play hard to get. First thing I need to do is work on myself. Invent the new me. Feel good about the break up and feel that this is not the end of the world (although it is hard to believe).
I think we can make people love or like us if we understand them. First you have to be their type and have all the traits he/she is seeking in a partner. Although I don't know my ex that well (since he is too clever to reveal anything about himself), I still know a few things to get him attracted to me physically. It is the other things that I need to understand such as personality, intelligence etc. These questions are specifically directed to Sags (but other can also chip in their opinions):
1) When you say you want your partner to be "independant"? What do you exactly mean? Mine didn't want me to expect any "love messages" or daily skype chats. I wouldn't mind if he was not cheating on me and giving his date my share of love. I also wouldn't mind if he wants to have his "me" time but I do expect him to return after that period is over (which hopefully will not be too long)
2) When you say you get bored with the same routine? Can you advice on how your partner can break that boredom for you? Give me examples from your own life. What made you feel suffocated in your previous relationship?
3) You guys are big on freedom. How does your freedom get violated? Again examples from your experience.
4) I am an intelligent person. I know that aquarius and sagittarius have a complementary relationship meaning through each other strengths, they can be a great team. They both are spontaneous, freedom lover, don't like routines, friendly, kind-hearted and so forth. What else is it that you look for in your partner's personality? May be I need to work on in that area.
5) If you are two sags in a relationship, I would love to hear about why you like each other and how you guys fulfill each others need for freedom, variety, independance.
6) This might be too much to ask: How to keep you on your toes? 🙂 How to keep the chase game going and for how long? Once you have him, how to keep him in your relationship.
I think we can make people love or like us if we understand them. First you have to be their type and have all the traits he/she is seeking in a partner. Although I don't know my ex that well (since he is too clever to reveal anything about himself), I still know a few things to get him attracted to me physically. It is the other things that I need to understand such as personality, intelligence etc. These questions are specifically directed to Sags (but other can also chip in their opinions):
1) When you say you want your partner to be "independant"? What do you exactly mean? Mine didn't want me to expect any "love messages" or daily skype chats. I wouldn't mind if he was not cheating on me and giving his date my share of love. I also wouldn't mind if he wants to have his "me" time but I do expect him to return after that period is over (which hopefully will not be too long)
2) When you say you get bored with the same routine? Can you advice on how your partner can break that boredom for you? Give me examples from your own life. What made you feel suffocated in your previous relationship?
3) You guys are big on freedom. How does your freedom get violated? Again examples from your experience.
4) I am an intelligent person. I know that aquarius and sagittarius have a complementary relationship meaning through each other strengths, they can be a great team. They both are spontaneous, freedom lover, don't like routines, friendly, kind-hearted and so forth. What else is it that you look for in your partner's personality? May be I need to work on in that area.
5) If you are two sags in a relationship, I would love to hear about why you like each other and how you guys fulfill each others need for freedom, variety, independance.
6) This might be too much to ask: How to keep you on your toes? 🙂 How to keep the chase game going and for how long? Once you have him, how to keep him in your relationship.
"I took that to be a sign from God that he is a match made in heaven for me."
When my ideal match (Leo-Cc-cusp fire monkey) left me I did not open any thread on the Internet. I accepted it as it was. He was 10/10 and deserved a 10/10 girl. I'm not that kind of girl who would cage a lion.
Also I left the past behind me and never thought about the details of what about me could have been disgusting him.
One year later I had a good-looking Taurus Bull by my side.
Sometimes we kids do not get what we wish.
When my ideal match (Leo-Cc-cusp fire monkey) left me I did not open any thread on the Internet. I accepted it as it was. He was 10/10 and deserved a 10/10 girl. I'm not that kind of girl who would cage a lion.
Also I left the past behind me and never thought about the details of what about me could have been disgusting him.
One year later I had a good-looking Taurus Bull by my side.
Sometimes we kids do not get what we wish.
Well that is the right thing to do. I don't consider mine to be the end of the world. The improvements would make me a more desirable person physically and otherwise to any one. Knowing about sags, can help me with my future sag partners.
I, being an aqua, does like to reflect on things (analyze them) and learn from the past. In being a better person, I am not going to compromise my own crucial values.
Just curious, they say you find love unexpectedly when you are not looking for love. I had found him when I was looking for love and found him online. What is your take on finding love?
I, being an aqua, does like to reflect on things (analyze them) and learn from the past. In being a better person, I am not going to compromise my own crucial values.
Just curious, they say you find love unexpectedly when you are not looking for love. I had found him when I was looking for love and found him online. What is your take on finding love?
Well I am pretty and his type. My sag ex had told me, he likes to move from "relationships" to relationships. His relationships don't last for too long and when he feels his freedom is at stake he leaves but that sucker never tells me where he looses his sense of freedom. Neither are other sags on this list being more explicit about themselves. Sags are not good communicators. They don't make you feel that they are bothered by you.
They rather call it sexual adventures and they give their 100% to it. He said for all his partners he felt the same level of "romance/attachment" as he felt for me. He loves the fact that he gets to experience variety. Luckily for him, he is a chic magnet and gets his dates without even searching for them. His popularity spreads from word of mouth.
So when I say "he doesn't find me attractive" , doesn't mean that I have an ugly face. Although, I am not the prettiest out there. The problem is once he had you enough (3 months in person), he doesn't want to come back to you. I believe that if I make some positive changes (looks, confidence, new hobbies/interests) he might come back few months or even a year down the road.
They rather call it sexual adventures and they give their 100% to it. He said for all his partners he felt the same level of "romance/attachment" as he felt for me. He loves the fact that he gets to experience variety. Luckily for him, he is a chic magnet and gets his dates without even searching for them. His popularity spreads from word of mouth.
So when I say "he doesn't find me attractive" , doesn't mean that I have an ugly face. Although, I am not the prettiest out there. The problem is once he had you enough (3 months in person), he doesn't want to come back to you. I believe that if I make some positive changes (looks, confidence, new hobbies/interests) he might come back few months or even a year down the road.
Posted by aquasagi
... 4) I am an intelligent Person...
I agree totally. I read your texts and they are almost flawless.
Yet I don't know how to keep him. I don't know him.
It is easy to assume that you are already ok in those departments:
Independence, no routine addicted, freedom lover etc.
Also you need to check whether other planets in your chart violate this Aqua qualities.
We adore Aquas because they are innovative and positive. As well as their big circle of friends.
But my Aqua gf has moon in cancer. She would want to share all her off time with me. And she is bossy.
My Aqua friend forgets my phone number. He does not mail me; he just invade me on Messenger if I'm online. Then again he has moon in Leo.
So it all differs from case to case.
Look, the guy I mentioned earlier had a gf after me. And he left her after six months.
One year after our breakup he told my siblings he wanted to see me. We met (there was no makeup though). He said he was unhappy with that gir cause she started calling him "darling".
Can you get it? A cancer-Leo cusp was frustrated why he was called darling.
Why did the girl use "darling"? Because she felt that way. She thought their relationship was good. In the first six months.
This is how we people mismatch each other.
And my Leo boy was not a player. A few years later he married a 10/10 and has now children with her.
One year after our breakup he told my siblings he wanted to see me. We met (there was no makeup though). He said he was unhappy with that gir cause she started calling him "darling".
Can you get it? A cancer-Leo cusp was frustrated why he was called darling.
Why did the girl use "darling"? Because she felt that way. She thought their relationship was good. In the first six months.
This is how we people mismatch each other.
And my Leo boy was not a player. A few years later he married a 10/10 and has now children with her.
Posted by aquasagi
... I believe that if I make some positive changes (looks, confidence, new hobbies/interests) he might come back few months or even a year down the road.
I'd even say if he comes back he'll stay longer.
I like Aqua and Gemini because they have ideas, they are living the life, they are exploring too, so I think I have a gurantee of seeing new things through their windows if my own is dull or opens to a blind alley.
Indeed exploring is more important to us than freedom. If an Aqua takes me to a world journey, I won't complain why we are together 24x7.
Posted by aquasagi
Well I am pretty and his type. My sag ex had told me, he likes to move from "relationships" to relationships. His relationships don't last for too long and when he feels his freedom is at stake he leaves but that sucker never tells me where he looses his sense of freedom. Neither are other sags on this list being more explicit about themselves. Sags are not good communicators. They don't make you feel that they are bothered by you.
They rather call it sexual adventures and they give their 100% to it. He said for all his partners he felt the same level of "romance/attachment" as he felt for me. He loves the fact that he gets to experience variety. Luckily for him, he is a chic magnet and gets his dates without even searching for them. His popularity spreads from word of mouth.
So when I say "he doesn't find me attractive" , doesn't mean that I have an ugly face. Although, I am not the prettiest out there. The problem is once he had you enough (3 months in person), he doesn't want to come back to you. I believe that if I make some positive changes (looks, confidence, new hobbies/interests) he might come back few months or even a year down the road.
I'm afraid your heart's gonna break.
Be strong kid.
Posted by aquasagi
Well we had a 8 month long relationship, out of which 3 months were in person. He now tells me that after being two months into our "relationship", he had gotten bored but he never acted as such when we were together. How deceiving and down right rude!!! I was under the impression that he really misses me so I decided to stay for full 3 months for me. During this time, he took almost complete control of me (and I allowed it to happen fearing that he will change). He would call me for extensively for at least 2 hours. Then couple hours later, he would visit me and stay with me for another 4-5 hours in person. Then when he goes home, he would call me at midnight and we talk until 3am.
I don't think it is really fair on your part to keep us victims uninformed of your true feelings. Please communicate when you start feeling suffocated and allow the person to make adjustment. He was the kind I was looking for so I fell in love instantly and I would have done anything in my power to make this work.
For the last two weeks, he was trying to get back with me after my convincing (that we should give each other a shot again now that I understand more about him). He said he will come back in 1 week and that I MUST not contact him (at any cost). I didn't. He came back after 2 days and said, he didn't feel anything for me and insisted that we can be friends.
I told him that it is more painful to have him as a friend (having same feelings for him but unable to get his affection is very hurting). I have said good bye to him. It is been a week and he has not contacted me. I also don't want to contact him this time. Is there anyways, he can like me again sexually? What can I do to make him want me again?
Speaking for him, because I am the female version, He DID tell you he didn't feel anything for you anymore. It was no game just the truth. You should glad that he was brave enough to be completely honest with you. Some men lure you on just for the sake of "controlling" a woman.
He probably liked you in the beginning, but after time goes on, we tend to see people for who they really are. Maybe he didn't like some aspect about you after he started to get to know you, there is nothing wrong with that.
Honestly, it seems like you idealized him with rose colored glasses. "he took almost complete control of me" .....how in the hell can someone take contr
Hi guys,
I am back after a long hiatus with some updates. A lot happened between my last thread and this one. My relationship with my "ex" sag is tumultuous. We are in a very unique situation. I have already explained the history, that is why I chose this thread.
During this period I had him back (hurray) but lost him quickly. He one day got so impressed with my gesture of genuine care that he felt he did not want to loose me so he thought he should give our relationship a second chance. The problem was that he didn't reveal his true intentions and didn't clear things up exactly how he wants to have the relationship. He just figured that he can manipulate the situation in his favor, keep me as his girl friend and still have flings on the side. So I broke it off as he came off as a player (and he made no effort to correct that or speak in his defence). Later I regretted. From this point on, I admit, I started being a jerk. I kept making mistakes after mistakes. If I had accepted him the way he was, and allowed him to return to me at his will, ignored his flings and accepted the status-quo, things would have improved. I just couldn't tolerate his flings and all his attention to go away to them instead of me. Anyways, we broke up, then re-contacted (as friends), fought again (because he plainly rudely insulted me), then month later I came back, we fought again (he insulted me solely because I pushed him and was expecting too much). I finally realized my mistake.
So Yesterday, I proposed him an option of "open relationship". He had told me during our time of connection that he has feelings for me but not as much as I do for him and he was willing to help resolve the matter between us. I admitted, whole heartedly, my feelings to him. I repeated what he said a couple months ago that "We never actually broke up in the real sense of the term". He has admitted that he has not completely gotten over me although he is not as obsessive about me as before (which is understandable). We were in a "Power Struggle" phase which has only started to settle. I told him I want our "bond" (you can't even use the word "relationship" with sags, they balk off at it. At least mine does) to be stronger and we will work on growing this bond. I told him I accept that sex is important for you and I am willing to ignore that. I asked him to ignore my mistakes as well. He has asked me to not contact him. He will come back after two weeks.
Now my challenge is to not have any f
I am back after a long hiatus with some updates. A lot happened between my last thread and this one. My relationship with my "ex" sag is tumultuous. We are in a very unique situation. I have already explained the history, that is why I chose this thread.
During this period I had him back (hurray) but lost him quickly. He one day got so impressed with my gesture of genuine care that he felt he did not want to loose me so he thought he should give our relationship a second chance. The problem was that he didn't reveal his true intentions and didn't clear things up exactly how he wants to have the relationship. He just figured that he can manipulate the situation in his favor, keep me as his girl friend and still have flings on the side. So I broke it off as he came off as a player (and he made no effort to correct that or speak in his defence). Later I regretted. From this point on, I admit, I started being a jerk. I kept making mistakes after mistakes. If I had accepted him the way he was, and allowed him to return to me at his will, ignored his flings and accepted the status-quo, things would have improved. I just couldn't tolerate his flings and all his attention to go away to them instead of me. Anyways, we broke up, then re-contacted (as friends), fought again (because he plainly rudely insulted me), then month later I came back, we fought again (he insulted me solely because I pushed him and was expecting too much). I finally realized my mistake.
So Yesterday, I proposed him an option of "open relationship". He had told me during our time of connection that he has feelings for me but not as much as I do for him and he was willing to help resolve the matter between us. I admitted, whole heartedly, my feelings to him. I repeated what he said a couple months ago that "We never actually broke up in the real sense of the term". He has admitted that he has not completely gotten over me although he is not as obsessive about me as before (which is understandable). We were in a "Power Struggle" phase which has only started to settle. I told him I want our "bond" (you can't even use the word "relationship" with sags, they balk off at it. At least mine does) to be stronger and we will work on growing this bond. I told him I accept that sex is important for you and I am willing to ignore that. I asked him to ignore my mistakes as well. He has asked me to not contact him. He will come back after two weeks.
Now my challenge is to not have any f
Posted by aquasagi
Hi guys,
My message got truncated. Here is the last paragraph.
Now my challenge is to not have any fight with him. I don't know what will tick him off next time. I am going to have to be very very very careful and extremely patient with him. I want him at any cost. There is NO way I will let others take him without me fighting for him. He IS the one I have always waited for. I am now planning to be in the same city as him. I want to be the one that he himself decides that he wants to keep. He has tons of suitors. I have a lot of competition and my challenge would be to keep his attention and interest in me. I have to provide him what others are unable to provide. At this point, I don't know what it is. One good guess is SEX. I want to give him the best sexual experience. Please tell me about the toys that work best or other tricks. Boys do let me know your fantasies.
I want to give him the best time and FREEDOM. He left his old boyfriend because of that. I feel lucky that he is even willing to come this far for me.
you think we are guys and I thought you were a girl.
Do it if you can't leave it.
Do it if you can't leave it.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
you think we are guys and I thought you were a girl.
Do it if you can't leave it.
Heh. And He never once corrected any assumptions that he was female.
Okay, I am a male but I chose a female persona because it matches my situation. My ex is a bisexual man. I don't know his history (as he never shares anything about him easily), but he said he started engaging in gay sex innumerably after we met. And he sure did (I have gleaned this information from his true statements that he sometimes makes when he is in a mood). He is a very hot masculine male who LOVES sex and he used to handle me like the way I always wanted (and never had experienced it before). My role was of a woman. I realized that with him my inner femininity comes out more strongly. He often commented how feminine I am. I am not at all swishy and look masculine myself. Therefore, I wanted to have an opinion about how a woman might chase a sag man because in effect our relationship was just that: man and woman.
Posted by aquasagi
...From this point on, I admit, I started being a jerk. I kept making mistakes after mistakes. If I had accepted him the way he was, and allowed him to return to me at his will, ignored his flings and accepted the status quo, things would have improved....I pushed him and was expecting too much. I finally realized my mistake.
So Yesterday, I proposed him an option of "open relationship"....I want our "bond" to be stronger and we will work on growing this bond. I told him I accept that sex is important for you and I am willing to ignore that. I asked him to ignore my mistakes as well. He has asked me to not contact him. He will come back after two weeks...
What the many f*cks am I reading?
....and it continues to go downhill.
Last month I started an open relationship with him where he was allowed to have sex but will not let anyone love him. He sort of broke his promise when he was talking fondly about one of his sex-partners. I felt that he should have shunned this friendship as it had the potential to develop into something more. He didn't break that relation and broke my heart. So I ended my open with him. That was in April. I avoided him for a good one month. One day I read my and his may horoscope. It was predicted for me that my ex-lover will come back in my life b/w May 18- June 11. His was that "Saggis seem to be well contended with short term relations but soon you ma develop a craving for true love!!! You are a bit impulsive and rash in temperament. This creates a barrier for you in being a part of long term relations. Try to control your mood swings and you will see yourself settled with a pious soul very soon"
That prompted me to contact him. I felt that I have a small window of opportunity here otherwise he will find someone else. I am now in his country and had our first romantic night. It was successfull because he was able to be intimate with me. He kissed me hugged me, loved me (although work needs to be done). I call it success because he wasn't even willing to touch me when he told me over the phone but last night. Not only he called me that I look much sexier than before.
I have already told him about why I am here.
Guys give me your suggestion as to how should I move now?
That prompted me to contact him. I felt that I have a small window of opportunity here otherwise he will find someone else. I am now in his country and had our first romantic night. It was successfull because he was able to be intimate with me. He kissed me hugged me, loved me (although work needs to be done). I call it success because he wasn't even willing to touch me when he told me over the phone but last night. Not only he called me that I look much sexier than before.
I have already told him about why I am here.
Guys give me your suggestion as to how should I move now?
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