Posted by MaggieJean
Hi everyone, this is my first post. Please be gentle!
I'm an older Scorpio woman who participates in the same sport as a younger Sagittarius man. He is really good and often teaches our classes. I've known him for about a year. He's very shy and doesn't say much to anyone. On one occasion he flashed me a look and I thought, "Hmmm, there was something in that look - what's he trying to communicate?" After one particular sports event, we all had our arms linked and I felt, again, that there was something meaningful in the way he was holding my arm - you know how you can feel someone's intent? Then he was away for a couple of months as he had to have a bone op.
When he came back, something had shifted between us - we would have little exchanges and he was happy to see me. He started to laugh a lot more and open up and even show off a little on the sports field, which he never did previously.
A couple of weeks ago, we started to stare at one another. I kept catching him staring at my face and mostly quite deeply into my eyes. We kinda couldn't look away. We have group socials and he comes to those really well groomed (previously he just wore jeans and kinda didn't seem to care) and sits near me and just LISTENS to everything I say to people. As I mentioned, he's not big on talking, though I know he has a good sense of humour because he laughs at jokes, etc. (especially mine).
The thing is, guys...I'm older plus I'm married...
Posted by MaggieJean
And WHY would a young Sagittarius guy be interested in an older married woman, anyway?? He seems like a pretty old soul, very patient with all the team members who are struggling, especially the beginners...loves to help everyone...very kind. Yet almost never says a word to anyone, quite literally. So shy.
Posted by PhoenixRising
^^^I stopped reading here. And here I was all excited....
Posted by MaggieJean
And WHY would a young Sagittarius guy be interested in an older married woman, anyway?? He seems like a pretty old soul, very patient with all the team members who are struggling, especially the beginners...loves to help everyone...very kind. Yet almost never says a word to anyone, quite literally. So shy.
Posted by MaggieJean
I guess I'm just trying to figure out what to do. Should I talk to him about this? Ignore it? Should I bring my husband along to practice?! I don't want to hurt this guy. I'm feeling very miserable because I like him a lot. I don't want to do anything wrong.
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