problem with aries bff
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ok some time ago, i saw my aries bff sit on the lap of someone i was messing around with. he didnt seem like he was interested in her flirting but i was definitely hurt by it. i saw it but didnt cause a scene, but i wanted to. as i was walking past them, she touched his head and thats when he removed her hand and got up to get her off his lap.
fast forward to last night. its halloween and im dressed up. aries bff is dressed up like a naughty school girl. and i walk into the room to use the bathroom. i past her on the way to the bathroom. i come out the bathroom is prancing in front of the same guy in her short skirt and low cut shirt. she trying to dance on him and for him but he isnt really into it. im just standing behind her in utter amazement. especially with her boyfriend right outisde. the guy gets up, as im assuming to make some space in between her and him, he turns around, sees me, has a "i just seen a ghost" look on his face. and sits back down.
i walked away very upset but i dont make scenes. i dont fault him, but i do fault her. she knows the full story between me and this guy. this is the second time.
fast forward to last night. its halloween and im dressed up. aries bff is dressed up like a naughty school girl. and i walk into the room to use the bathroom. i past her on the way to the bathroom. i come out the bathroom is prancing in front of the same guy in her short skirt and low cut shirt. she trying to dance on him and for him but he isnt really into it. im just standing behind her in utter amazement. especially with her boyfriend right outisde. the guy gets up, as im assuming to make some space in between her and him, he turns around, sees me, has a "i just seen a ghost" look on his face. and sits back down.
i walked away very upset but i dont make scenes. i dont fault him, but i do fault her. she knows the full story between me and this guy. this is the second time.
afterwards, i left and she texted me because she noticed that i wasnt "myself." i ignored both texts and just kept re-living the soft porn dance.
yeah there was another time when she was hugged up with him taking pictures. i did say something to her then but it doesnt seem to have done any good.
thanks beccy
Posted by DMV
afterwards, i left and she texted me because she noticed that i wasnt "myself."
Lmao.
@DMV I remember when you posted about her sitting on his lap, then taking pics together after that nasty split. I said then she is a no good whore and I'll say it again. That bitch knew what he was to you and could care less. With all the men she could've flirted with, it had to be him? Really? You said then, now that she has a BF she might chill out. The BF hasn't chilled out her jealousy and need for competition with you.
She's no good. Maybe if she wants to compete, she might flirt with some random guy looking at you. It still sucks ass, but whatever. But this? With the Scorp? Hell no! I don't care how much of a hangout partner she is, she doesn't mean you well. Honestly, that is why I have one really close female friend (who is very religious and married lol) and one chick I consider "cool". Everyone else I call a friend is a man. And besides my Leo ex from 13 years ago, I've never had anything sexual with any of them. They are true friends. Chicks have too much bull like this involved with them.
Girl I'm so mad for you. You should tell that bitch off, then put her in Siberia. She's a hater O
She's no good. Maybe if she wants to compete, she might flirt with some random guy looking at you. It still sucks ass, but whatever. But this? With the Scorp? Hell no! I don't care how much of a hangout partner she is, she doesn't mean you well. Honestly, that is why I have one really close female friend (who is very religious and married lol) and one chick I consider "cool". Everyone else I call a friend is a man. And besides my Leo ex from 13 years ago, I've never had anything sexual with any of them. They are true friends. Chicks have too much bull like this involved with them.
Girl I'm so mad for you. You should tell that bitch off, then put her in Siberia. She's a hater O
ugh.
i hate this.
i hate this.
Oooh I'm steaming the more I think about your BFF.
Two really good GF's of mine cut me off because of their husbands. First, they never wanted to hang out with me without them. Corny, but whatever. But I would dress differently when I knew their man was coming. I'd try to tone it down (for me lol), because I really cared about their feelings and didn't want to stir up trouble. One GF insisted on bringing him to a waterpark. I mean I had to wear a bathing suit so WTF? I never heard from her again after that. I called her to say happy birthday, and she text me back "Thanks". And I literally said nothing more than hi to him and bye to him all day at the park. I kept her between us all day. With my other GF, she caught her husband staring at me, but I was cleaning up her kitchen so I wouldn't make eye contact because I could feel him looking. I made plans to come see her when he was working on a Saturday the next week. I bought presents for her kids and everything. The bitch wouldn't answer her phone when I called and wouldn't return my messages. I was friends with her for about 3 years. It broke my heart
I couldn't believe she'd do that to me without even an explanation. At least cuss me out! Let me defend myself and cuss you out. Smh.
I tried to be a real friend, and almost treated their men rudely to keep distance. That is what a true friend does. I couldn't imagine doing what this Aries slut did. This bitch is gonna give him a lap dance and what not? Oh hell no! Mama, she doesn't mean you well. A real friend would never act that way. NEVER!!
Two really good GF's of mine cut me off because of their husbands. First, they never wanted to hang out with me without them. Corny, but whatever. But I would dress differently when I knew their man was coming. I'd try to tone it down (for me lol), because I really cared about their feelings and didn't want to stir up trouble. One GF insisted on bringing him to a waterpark. I mean I had to wear a bathing suit so WTF? I never heard from her again after that. I called her to say happy birthday, and she text me back "Thanks". And I literally said nothing more than hi to him and bye to him all day at the park. I kept her between us all day. With my other GF, she caught her husband staring at me, but I was cleaning up her kitchen so I wouldn't make eye contact because I could feel him looking. I made plans to come see her when he was working on a Saturday the next week. I bought presents for her kids and everything. The bitch wouldn't answer her phone when I called and wouldn't return my messages. I was friends with her for about 3 years. It broke my heart
I couldn't believe she'd do that to me without even an explanation. At least cuss me out! Let me defend myself and cuss you out. Smh. I tried to be a real friend, and almost treated their men rudely to keep distance. That is what a true friend does. I couldn't imagine doing what this Aries slut did. This bitch is gonna give him a lap dance and what not? Oh hell no! Mama, she doesn't mean you well. A real friend would never act that way. NEVER!!
interesting i have also "turned it down" out of respect for other girls' bf. i cant throw stones bec i sleep with a guy whose attached to someone else. i rationalize this situation because i dont know the girl, still it doesnt excuse what im doing.
maybe im just getting my just desserts.
however, if i expect that if i talk to her about it and how much it bothers me, i expect her to respect that. when it comes to my friends' boyfriends, i am a bitch to them on purpose. i want them to think im rude. its for their own good. im not blind and they are good looking but i dont ever want to tell a girl that i slept with your man.
her ex aries bf and me are friends. out of respect for her, i asked her if she minded that i still talk to him despite him being a douche to her. she said no and that whatever goes on between her and him is between them. however, i still keep the line with her ex. she wants to be friends with everyone, including you know who. i have no problem with anyone being friends, but respect the line.
he clearly wasnt into it but she kept going in hopes to sway him into dancing with her.
maybe im just getting my just desserts.
however, if i expect that if i talk to her about it and how much it bothers me, i expect her to respect that. when it comes to my friends' boyfriends, i am a bitch to them on purpose. i want them to think im rude. its for their own good. im not blind and they are good looking but i dont ever want to tell a girl that i slept with your man.
her ex aries bf and me are friends. out of respect for her, i asked her if she minded that i still talk to him despite him being a douche to her. she said no and that whatever goes on between her and him is between them. however, i still keep the line with her ex. she wants to be friends with everyone, including you know who. i have no problem with anyone being friends, but respect the line.
he clearly wasnt into it but she kept going in hopes to sway him into dancing with her.
I had this aries friend for a while.
Her dad owned a huge lumber company and she had money out the wazooo.
She was chronic alcoholic who was totally controlling.
She was funny as hell though.
She convinced this guy she was hanging for a bit with to give us the keys to his car and apartment while he went out of town. ( she didn't even fuck him btw )
He did and she threw a bunch of parties there and had random guys sleeping over there all the time. Than she crashed his car when she was drunk.
I than got a bf ( virgo) and started spending less time with her. Just a little less. She flipped out telling me I need to come back and dump him lol
Fire girls.
One of my best saggie friends deals now and she has two phones and everything lol she made 700 the other night and she calls it her "fun money" so than that night we went and spent a bunch at bars and got shitty.
Haha ah, life.
Her dad owned a huge lumber company and she had money out the wazooo.
She was chronic alcoholic who was totally controlling.
She was funny as hell though.
She convinced this guy she was hanging for a bit with to give us the keys to his car and apartment while he went out of town. ( she didn't even fuck him btw )
He did and she threw a bunch of parties there and had random guys sleeping over there all the time. Than she crashed his car when she was drunk.
I than got a bf ( virgo) and started spending less time with her. Just a little less. She flipped out telling me I need to come back and dump him lol
Fire girls.
One of my best saggie friends deals now and she has two phones and everything lol she made 700 the other night and she calls it her "fun money" so than that night we went and spent a bunch at bars and got shitty.
Haha ah, life.
Sorry it kept messing up my posts
Posted by DMV
ugh.
i hate this.
Don't it's life fake bitches will always fuck with you it gets to the point where you understand the scheme of things and roll with the usual shit. Emotions are useless. -.-
Posted by Sagittarius89
One of my best saggie friends deals now and she has two phones and everything lol she made 700 the other night and she calls it her "fun money" so than that night we went and spent a bunch at bars and got shitty.
Haha ah, life.
I agree with this message
hmmm....
*watches the thread*
*watches the thread*
ugh. time for a new bff.
Posted by Wynter
ugh. time for a new bff.
lol yeah no kidding
^
i just thought about it and some of the women that have been the cattiest and bitchiest to me in my life have been aries women...
Ah come on guys, don't be haters. Aries people can get annoying, but it's usually their confidence that makes them as such. I actually admire them for their brazen ways. A lot of girls are probably jealous of them
For DMV
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the fact that this keeps happening is not sitting well with me. i ignored all her calls yesterday. she came over to my house for a football party along with some other people and i was just seething. i felt faker than fake to have her even in my house. i was distant with her.
the thing is, ive watched her with other men, even her own boyfriend and she doesnt flirt with them like she flirted with you know who. when she flirts with him, its has an underlying motive. its like malicious almost. with other guys including her boyfriend, she will give them a hug, laugh her and there, give pounds...treat them like good buddies, her own boyfriend seems like he's just another guy. but with him, shes feelin up on his shoulders, touching his head, dancing in front of him, hovering over him, urging him to dance with her. it really gets under my skin. i know he doesnt belong to me, but still. he is someone that i loved and cared for deeply. to see my best friend trying to coax someone that i loved into giving her some attention so she can feel better about herself is...fucking pathetic and enrages me.
the thing is, ive watched her with other men, even her own boyfriend and she doesnt flirt with them like she flirted with you know who. when she flirts with him, its has an underlying motive. its like malicious almost. with other guys including her boyfriend, she will give them a hug, laugh her and there, give pounds...treat them like good buddies, her own boyfriend seems like he's just another guy. but with him, shes feelin up on his shoulders, touching his head, dancing in front of him, hovering over him, urging him to dance with her. it really gets under my skin. i know he doesnt belong to me, but still. he is someone that i loved and cared for deeply. to see my best friend trying to coax someone that i loved into giving her some attention so she can feel better about herself is...fucking pathetic and enrages me.
i am not hating on all aries. shes actually the 1st aries that ive had this issue with. i think aries people have alot going for themselves, who doesnt? but this particular aries is on the highway to the danger zone.
there is only so much i can take, till i just blow a gasket.
there is only so much i can take, till i just blow a gasket.
Posted by beccyPosted by happykitsune
Ah come on guys, don't be haters. Aries people can get annoying, but it's usually their confidence that makes them as such. I actually admire them for their brazen ways. A lot of girls are probably jealous of them
are you actually too fucking stupid to read?
DMV is hurt! she thought it was her FRIEND!
and now shut the fuck up if you can't relate to this, no one wants to fucking hear what you "admire" about them.click to expand
Yeah Happy. There are definitely exceptions to every rule. We all know astrology isn't foolproof. But that bitch was way out of line, and she hurt DMV's feelings. They're besties. I know I wouldn't want to hear about how about how Aries women get hated on, when my BFF just tried to stab me in the back...AGAIN. Bad timing mama.
Posted by DMV
i am not hating on all aries. shes actually the 1st aries that ive had this issue with. i think aries people have alot going for themselves, who doesnt? but this particular aries is on the highway to the danger zone.
there is only so much i can take, till i just blow a gasket.
Yeah girl. Why didn't you snatch her ass up by her collar, bra strap, whatever was handy l and confront that bitch? Put her phony backstabbing ass on blast! She's too close to play off. That's your BFF. That bitch has to get it straight and hear it raw.
i tell you what else she did.
i was sick one morning, barely moving. she called me on happenstance and i told her i was on the way to the hospital. she dropped what she was doing, left her boyfriend, to sit with me in the hospital for hours. picked up my prescriptions for me. brought me food/drink.
i have thing where someone does something nice for me, i feel indebted to them for a long time. LONG time. unfortunately, speaking from a womans perspective, you could do all the nice things in the world to me day after day, but touch my man and that erases all the good deeds.
i was sick one morning, barely moving. she called me on happenstance and i told her i was on the way to the hospital. she dropped what she was doing, left her boyfriend, to sit with me in the hospital for hours. picked up my prescriptions for me. brought me food/drink.
i have thing where someone does something nice for me, i feel indebted to them for a long time. LONG time. unfortunately, speaking from a womans perspective, you could do all the nice things in the world to me day after day, but touch my man and that erases all the good deeds.
Posted by DMV
i am not hating on all aries. shes actually the 1st aries that ive had this issue with. i think aries people have alot going for themselves, who doesnt? but this particular aries is on the highway to the danger zone.
there is only so much i can take, till i just blow a gasket.
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Posted by MebsPosted by DMV
i am not hating on all aries. shes actually the 1st aries that ive had this issue with. i think aries people have alot going for themselves, who doesnt? but this particular aries is on the highway to the danger zone.
there is only so much i can take, till i just blow a gasket.
Yeah girl. Why didn't you snatch her ass up by her collar, bra strap, whatever was handy l and confront that bitch? Put her phony backstabbing ass on blast! She's too close to play off. That's your BFF. That bitch has to get it straight and hear it raw.click to expand
your right Mebs. im a coward when it comes to speaking up to people who i am vulnerable towards. if i dont give a shit about you, i can speak my mind. when i do give a shit, im mute.
i will speak up, but it will take some time to get my thoughts together.
@DMV I feel ya. For me it's anything subversive. Say something slick about what I'm wearing, flirt with someone I like, be catty, any of those things and I'm pushing you away. Like I don't mind a straight out joke. But some slick sideways shit and I'm either going to call you out on it or I'm axing you.
Posted by DMVPosted by MebsPosted by DMV
i am not hating on all aries. shes actually the 1st aries that ive had this issue with. i think aries people have alot going for themselves, who doesnt? but this particular aries is on the highway to the danger zone.
there is only so much i can take, till i just blow a gasket.
Yeah girl. Why didn't you snatch her ass up by her collar, bra strap, whatever was handy l and confront that bitch? Put her phony backstabbing ass on blast! She's too close to play off. That's your BFF. That bitch has to get it straight and hear it raw.
your right Mebs. im a coward when it comes to speaking up to people who i am vulnerable towards. if i dont give a shit about you, i can speak my mind. when i do give a shit, im mute.
i will speak up, but it will take some time to get my thoughts together.click to expand
Ok. I'm the opposite. If I don't care I'm like...meh. I'll bark on them when they get on my nerves one too many times. If I care, I'm like RAWWRR what the hell!!!!
Whats your moon?
plus, i cannot talk about shyt when other people wants to talk about it. i have to talk when im done thinking and ready. the more people ask to talk about it, the less i want to talk. if pushed, i say all kinds of shit and i lose it.
plus, i cannot talk about shyt when other people wants to talk about it. i have to talk when im done thinking and ready. the more people ask to talk about it, the less i want to talk. if pushed, i say all kinds of shit and i lose it.
Aqua moon. Sag in Mars and merc :0
Posted by Mebs
Aqua moon. Sag in Mars and merc :0
yeah uve got fire in your communication style . i got this passive aggressive water
I noticed a lack of girl code in Aries chicks years ago but I wasn't close enough to any to make a solid conclusion.
Sorry DMV,
Sorry DMV,
My sister's bff was an Aries all through high school onward...until she gave my sister's ex boyfriend head. :/
This was one of my sister's first serious boyfriends, they dated over a year (at that age, it's eternity.)
My sister was still hanging out with him...she was just being a weirdo Aqua and being indecisive (I think she was bored, and he was a really sweet Leo who was too available to her)
They were all hanging out the night it happened!
I actually walked in on them...I was so shocked.
Her excuse to my sister was, "you're not dating anymore...you broke up"
:O whore
This was one of my sister's first serious boyfriends, they dated over a year (at that age, it's eternity.)
My sister was still hanging out with him...she was just being a weirdo Aqua and being indecisive (I think she was bored, and he was a really sweet Leo who was too available to her)
They were all hanging out the night it happened!
I actually walked in on them...I was so shocked.
Her excuse to my sister was, "you're not dating anymore...you broke up"
:O whore
@Bri,
i honestly believe that if given the chance, she would make a move. that would def be a snatch up moment.
i even think my aries bff would use the same excuse "you guys arent together" or "im sorry, i was just having fun."
go have fun with someone else. why would u want to have fun with THIS particular person. oh, heres an idea....go have fun with your own boyfriend. hes standing in the corner looking lonely.
i honestly believe that if given the chance, she would make a move. that would def be a snatch up moment.
i even think my aries bff would use the same excuse "you guys arent together" or "im sorry, i was just having fun."
go have fun with someone else. why would u want to have fun with THIS particular person. oh, heres an idea....go have fun with your own boyfriend. hes standing in the corner looking lonely.
Yeah I really don't understand the mindset...
I know it puts you in a bad position though because nobody wants to fight with their bff and especially not over something seemingly so petty, like a guy, who come and go all the time...but in this case it's not even about the guy, not even a little...she's your girl, she should know better!
Sorry you have to deal with this. :/
If she's not gonna take you seriously and consider how you feel then she needs to go bye-bye. You don't need people like that in your life.
I know it puts you in a bad position though because nobody wants to fight with their bff and especially not over something seemingly so petty, like a guy, who come and go all the time...but in this case it's not even about the guy, not even a little...she's your girl, she should know better!
Sorry you have to deal with this. :/
If she's not gonna take you seriously and consider how you feel then she needs to go bye-bye. You don't need people like that in your life.
If I fail at everything else in life I will die happy knowing I treated my friends right.
Probably aqua venus/sag sun talking ;P
Probably aqua venus/sag sun talking ;P
Posted by DazedScorp
Ugh....
Aries women = boner
Ok! This post made me sooo mad I have to put my two sense in. My first instinct was to drop kick that bitch because she does not mean you any good! Like you saggs I stay the hell away from a woman's man cuz they already think you want them and the man dont act any better! And her helping you out when you were sick... well hell thats what aries do. They dont give a damn who you are their friend or foe they help your ass when you need it! So that got me to thinking about my aries mom who would tell me I was fat all the time.... until I lit into that ass and told her because she is unhappy in her own life and she's fucking with me to make herself feel better. IDK? But she hasnt said anything to me rude or crazy or out the way since that day....
Now my heart softens as I think about shit....and I think of my mother. She doesnt think worth a fuck sometimes about her actions or what comes out of her mouth. Honestly I dont think her intentions are never to hurt me and she just want her daughters to be shit brick houses.
With that said your girl is probably thinking she can have fun with your scorp cuz you've moved on. And if you been sharing the business she probably really does want a taste one way or another. that can be physically or mentally.
Needless to say you still need to set that ass straight. and not with not diplomatic conversation. You need to go crazy the fuck off, let her know how you FEEL and that you mean business cuz that seems to be the ONLY way that an Aries understand shit! And if she cares anything for you she will understand and be mindful of her ways.
It was some fucked up shit and I would drop a chic in a heartbeat for that but some reason I know that damn aries is just fucking up and needs to be guided.
I know women probably talk shit about my moms....
I almost forgot the most important part of that story.... while my mom was calling me fat. My sister thought that she wanted to screw her husband....needless to say when that came out mom clean up her act cuz this ways not the peytons family. I think it really hurt her feelings that her daughter believed that about her....smdh
Sorry for the long crazy post. I dont know any sagg girl but I know alot of aries and they just get a kick out of the wrong kind a shit....but your signs sound sorta alike.... maybe not w/the OPP but doin and sayin shit without thinking???
Now my heart softens as I think about shit....and I think of my mother. She doesnt think worth a fuck sometimes about her actions or what comes out of her mouth. Honestly I dont think her intentions are never to hurt me and she just want her daughters to be shit brick houses.
With that said your girl is probably thinking she can have fun with your scorp cuz you've moved on. And if you been sharing the business she probably really does want a taste one way or another. that can be physically or mentally.
Needless to say you still need to set that ass straight. and not with not diplomatic conversation. You need to go crazy the fuck off, let her know how you FEEL and that you mean business cuz that seems to be the ONLY way that an Aries understand shit! And if she cares anything for you she will understand and be mindful of her ways.
It was some fucked up shit and I would drop a chic in a heartbeat for that but some reason I know that damn aries is just fucking up and needs to be guided.
I know women probably talk shit about my moms....
I almost forgot the most important part of that story.... while my mom was calling me fat. My sister thought that she wanted to screw her husband....needless to say when that came out mom clean up her act cuz this ways not the peytons family. I think it really hurt her feelings that her daughter believed that about her....smdh
Sorry for the long crazy post. I dont know any sagg girl but I know alot of aries and they just get a kick out of the wrong kind a shit....but your signs sound sorta alike.... maybe not w/the OPP but doin and sayin shit without thinking???
I remember offering a gal a word of caution and her flying off the silly-ditz handle telling me that she "could fck who she wanted whenever she wanted! Sometimes 4 times a day!"
She didn't like being told what's up. It's amazing how this same girl was also complaining about her best friend
schmoozin' it up with her latest fling. I thought to myself, you know..., that was kinda strange and hypocritical.
Really, it doesn't matter because if she can fck whoever and whenever she wants, then she should expect karma to
come around fck her guy. And for all she knows, her guy probably didn't give a fck about her or her best friend either.
It's sad. It really is. But that's what she gets with that kind of attitude. I saw it comin' and it came and went.
She was mad, she was hurt, she was duped. I told her hey... you might give what I said earlier some consideration before getting revenge, think about what you might learn from the consequences that fouled up hypocritical attitude of yours got you into." She's a bit proud... will she listen???? Doubt it. Damn thing is that doesn't matter if I am old enough to be her daddy and have been around the block a few more times, let alone around the country... sheesh.... She might need a very seriously brutal physical/emotional/psycological/mental beating to pull her flighty head out of her ass before someone leaves her anonymous carcass in a ditch along the highway.
She didn't like being told what's up. It's amazing how this same girl was also complaining about her best friend
schmoozin' it up with her latest fling. I thought to myself, you know..., that was kinda strange and hypocritical.
Really, it doesn't matter because if she can fck whoever and whenever she wants, then she should expect karma to
come around fck her guy. And for all she knows, her guy probably didn't give a fck about her or her best friend either.
It's sad. It really is. But that's what she gets with that kind of attitude. I saw it comin' and it came and went.
She was mad, she was hurt, she was duped. I told her hey... you might give what I said earlier some consideration before getting revenge, think about what you might learn from the consequences that fouled up hypocritical attitude of yours got you into." She's a bit proud... will she listen???? Doubt it. Damn thing is that doesn't matter if I am old enough to be her daddy and have been around the block a few more times, let alone around the country... sheesh.... She might need a very seriously brutal physical/emotional/psycological/mental beating to pull her flighty head out of her ass before someone leaves her anonymous carcass in a ditch along the highway.
Posted by MrFirebird
I remember offering a gal a word of caution and her flying off the silly-ditz handle telling me that she "could fck who she wanted whenever she wanted! Sometimes 4 times a day!"
She didn't like being told what's up. It's amazing how this same girl was also complaining about her best friend
schmoozin' it up with her latest fling. I thought to myself, you know..., that was kinda strange and hypocritical.
Really, it doesn't matter because if she can fck whoever and whenever she wants, then she should expect karma to
come around fck her guy. And for all she knows, her guy probably didn't give a fck about her or her best friend either.
It's sad. It really is. But that's what she gets with that kind of attitude. I saw it comin' and it came and went.
She was mad, she was hurt, she was duped. I told her hey... you might give what I said earlier some consideration before getting revenge, think about what you might learn from the consequences that fouled up hypocritical attitude of yours got you into." She's a bit proud... will she listen???? Doubt it. Damn thing is that doesn't matter if I am old enough to be her daddy and have been around the block a few more times, let alone around the country... sheesh.... She might need a very seriously brutal physical/emotional/psycological/mental beating to pull her flighty head out of her ass before someone leaves her anonymous carcass in a ditch along the highway.
come again?
Posted by She Devil
Ok! This post made me sooo mad I have to put my two sense in. My first instinct was to drop kick that bitch because she does not mean you any good! Like you saggs I stay the hell away from a woman's man cuz they already think you want them and the man dont act any better! And her helping you out when you were sick... well hell thats what aries do. They dont give a damn who you are their friend or foe they help your ass when you need it! So that got me to thinking about my aries mom who would tell me I was fat all the time.... until I lit into that ass and told her because she is unhappy in her own life and she's fucking with me to make herself feel better. IDK? But she hasnt said anything to me rude or crazy or out the way since that day....
Now my heart softens as I think about shit....and I think of my mother. She doesnt think worth a fuck sometimes about her actions or what comes out of her mouth. Honestly I dont think her intentions are never to hurt me and she just want her daughters to be shit brick houses.
With that said your girl is probably thinking she can have fun with your scorp cuz you've moved on. And if you been sharing the business she probably really does want a taste one way or another. that can be physically or mentally.
Needless to say you still need to set that ass straight. and not with not diplomatic conversation. You need to go crazy the fuck off, let her know how you FEEL and that you mean business cuz that seems to be the ONLY way that an Aries understand shit! And if she cares anything for you she will understand and be mindful of her ways.
It was some fucked up shit and I would drop a chic in a heartbeat for that but some reason I know that damn aries is just fucking up and needs to be guided.
I know women probably talk shit about my moms....
I almost forgot the most important part of that story.... while my mom was calling me fat. My sister thought that she wanted to screw her husband....needless to say when that came out mom clean up her act cuz this ways not the peytons family. I think it really hurt her feelings that her daughter believed that about her....smdh
Sorry for the long crazy post. I dont know any sagg girl but I know alot of aries and they just get a kick out of the wrong kind a shit....but your signs sound sorta alike.... maybe not w/the OPP but doin and sayin shit without thinking???
shit, i got cut off.
i was saying that i was talking to my pisces friend last night who is a mutual friend. she doesnt know the full history but it didnt matter to her. if u have feelings for someone, u have feelings for them. if thats your best friend, thats your best friend. there should be boundaries. she said i should also talk to her.
i just feel like going off on her. my fear is that she will take this as a challenge and go full force. u know how aries do, they take everything as a challenge and dont like being told that they cant do something.
i was saying that i was talking to my pisces friend last night who is a mutual friend. she doesnt know the full history but it didnt matter to her. if u have feelings for someone, u have feelings for them. if thats your best friend, thats your best friend. there should be boundaries. she said i should also talk to her.
i just feel like going off on her. my fear is that she will take this as a challenge and go full force. u know how aries do, they take everything as a challenge and dont like being told that they cant do something.
Posted by DMVPosted by MrFirebird
I remember offering a gal a word of caution and her flying off the silly-ditz handle telling me that she "could fck who she wanted whenever she wanted! Sometimes 4 times a day!"
She didn't like being told what's up. It's amazing how this same girl was also complaining about her best friend
schmoozin' it up with her latest fling. I thought to myself, you know..., that was kinda strange and hypocritical.
Really, it doesn't matter because if she can fck whoever and whenever she wants, then she should expect karma to
come around fck her guy. And for all she knows, her guy probably didn't give a fck about her or her best friend either.
It's sad. It really is. But that's what she gets with that kind of attitude. I saw it comin' and it came and went.
She was mad, she was hurt, she was duped. I told her hey... you might give what I said earlier some consideration before getting revenge, think about what you might learn from the consequences that fouled up hypocritical attitude of yours got you into." She's a bit proud... will she listen???? Doubt it. Damn thing is that doesn't matter if I am old enough to be her daddy and have been around the block a few more times, let alone around the country... sheesh.... She might need a very seriously brutal physical/emotional/psycological/mental beating to pull her flighty head out of her ass before someone leaves her anonymous carcass in a ditch along the highway.
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what does that even mean?
what girl r u talking about?
what girl r u talking about?
Posted by DMV
what does that even mean?
what girl r u talking about?
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un huh, like i thought....
simmer down grandpa
simmer down grandpa
Posted by DMV
the fact that this keeps happening is not sitting well with me.
The fact that it keeps happening is due to you letting it ... you go on and on about this happening to you, when in reality, it's happening BECAUSE of you deciding to ignore standing up.
Every time she does something, you turn away ... and then bitch about it, as if it's not your fault.
It is your fault .... that it keeps happening.
I don't pity you .. I only pity victims.
And then you continue to call her bff .... I guess so you can get more pity
Posted by P-AngelPosted by DMV
the fact that this keeps happening is not sitting well with me.
The fact that it keeps happening is due to you letting it ... you go on and on about this happening to you, when in reality, it's happening BECAUSE of you deciding to ignore standing up.
Every time she does something, you turn away ... and then bitch about it, as if it's not your fault.
It is your fault .... that it keeps happening.
I don't pity you .. I only pity victims.
And then you continue to call her bff .... I guess so you can get more pityclick to expand
no, you missed the part where i did address one incident with her.
you are right in that it will keep happening unless i get serious about it and address it with a firm hand.
however, what i am starting to believe is that people are going to do them regardless of what i say. so the best thing would be to make a clean break.
despite her setbacks, she is my bff. if i look like a fool for calling her that then i will play that role. i still love her, its just that i dont like her. i dont want to be anyone's frenemy, id rather just go back to being bar friends.
thanks for reading.
Posted by DMV
shit, i got cut off.
i was saying that i was talking to my pisces friend last night who is a mutual friend. she doesnt know the full history but it didnt matter to her. if u have feelings for someone, u have feelings for them. if thats your best friend, thats your best friend. there should be boundaries. she said i should also talk to her.
i just feel like going off on her. my fear is that she will take this as a challenge and go full force. u know how aries do, they take everything as a challenge and dont like being told that they cant do something.
No no no. You're looking at this from a fearful perspective. Not tobe crass, but fuck that bitch. She's taking advantage of your easy going nature . She thinks you're afraid already. Put that shit to rest and go at her HARD. Put her on blast. And the point to your tirade won't be, "Bitch don't touch my man. ". It'll be, "bitch be a fucking real friend or get the fuck outta my life!". Screw the man bullshit. That's just a symptom of the disease. The disease is her jealousy, selfishness, and competitiveness. It's about friends don't hurt friends. Period. Put it out there. And let me tell you something. If you scream on her and she doesn't take it the right way, ax her monkey ass. I guarantee, once she's out of your circle, he won't look so tasty anymore. Once she sees you're not afraid to lay it out there, she won't feel that urge the same way because she LIKED you squirming yet not saying anything. It made her feel badass.
Put her on blast hard. Ax her if she can't respect the truth. Then watch the wind blow out of her sails, because you've taken her power away. Take the powe from that bitch. You can do it, because you're the one that gave it to her.
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