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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 289 · Posts: 30828 · Topics: 650
A true gem and role model.
I find it so romantic and tragic that she never got over Miles Davis and never wanted to fall in love again after him.
Ride off into the sunset
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Aqua and scorpio moon......
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Mar 24, 2019Comments: 5156 · Posts: 10595 · Topics: 282
being with opposition is often a bad idea
i think my gem aunt was deeply hurt when things fell apart with her sag ex
of all her bfs, i really thought she'd marry him
now i think she's just settling
edit: by bad i mean emotionally-taxing
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though being too similar can be even more of a chore. and i mean in ways even beyond emotional labor and taxation. like i've noticed with capricorn, i feel like our similar goals/values might be the core of the connection. but even if we have good intentions towards each other, not much push and pulll goes on- little movement.
the same habit of giving each other space. if one of us doesn't break this 'virtue', i imagine this stretching for weeks. hiding problems, trying to fix it ourselves. being distant when we don't feel stable. trying to meet each other half-way materially. you feel more betrayed when you're so similar yet somehow- it's more of an effort?
compared to making something work with someone so different from you.
the expectation ain't high, so there's only the promise of either a delightful surprise or no love lost. riskier long-term (emotional taxation) but easier to discard short-term.
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She actually said it in her last interview.