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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1234 · Topics: 79
So I have this Sagittarius friend...who is very sexy and whom I like,,,But every time I dont do something he wants me to do, he stops talking to me for a minute,,,he lives out a state, and wanted me to come see him once, but I couldnt,so he got mad and didnt talk me for awhile (ignoring my emails,etc)..Then finally he arose again..to only get mad because I didnt do something else he wanted me too..(ignoring me again)..I know he'll be back around..I was just wondering if being "spoiled" is a Sag trait? or what is this all about..
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Jan 15, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 124 · Topics: 15
weird i could admit i am the very same way. I will stop talking to a person fast over them not doing what I want.... Dont judge.
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May 31, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 274 · Topics: 20
haha...i can be the same way too unfortunately.
softy--i do that sometimes. i like things done the way i like them. but i HATE bieng like that. i wish i was more carefree about that kind of stuff as a Sag. sometimes if things don't go my way i pull away or try to push that person away. definitely a defense mechanism. but...i hate being like that. for me, the best thing someone could do to help me out in that situation is to acknowledge that they aren't doing what i want or say "i totally see your way, but this is the way i'd like to do it."....but say it NICELY. just so i know they are looking at both sides of the fence.
yes, we are spoiled. we are used to getting things we want and how we want it.
don't give in to everything, be your own person, but please be patient with us. after a while, we start to feel horrible and make up for it. good luck!
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Jan 15, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 124 · Topics: 15
Yeah. if someone words it good for me im so flexible but dont tell me "no". A simple "yeah, i see your view but i think if we try it this way we....." works wonders