Sag and Capricorn men

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Unregistered on Wednesday, October 24, 2001 and has 7 replies.
I'm a Sadge female and can't figure out much about dating a 50 year old never married Capricorn male. I know all the books say it's not a match but I have a lot of earth signs in my chart. My dilemma is finding more about how they are in relationships. He doesn't reveal much about himself but seems to want to know everything about me. There is nothing on the Cappy board so I guess they aren't interested in astrology. (Too practical?)
I am not sure about the lack of interest in Astrology...my favorite astrologer was Capricorn...
I do think that they tend to be somewhat reserved about themselves personally...but, I am sure you will get him to talk more about himself with your charm...
Give it some time and see what happens...
I wish you the best!
Star
I was married to a Cap and with all the charm and power we sags have I couldn't get my Cappie to open up...he just couldn't. If you want to know more about my relationship with my earthy cap see my postings in the relationships board. In there also is postings from my new friend and his relationship with his virgo wife another earth sign. I am convinced that earth and fire do not mix well at all in love. They both end up feeling profoundly unloved.
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I had a relationship with a Cap but it has taken him many years for him to trust me enough to tell me his most inner and personal feelings. As for us we are much better as friends than boy/girlfriend. But that is what works for us. I would say give him time and if he trusts you he will open up.
For the last post, is that you Laurie?
Take it easy and have a wonderful day.
Mt_Moonshine
Well they are different- I have been with my cap for 6 years. I am also a sag female. Caps like to talk - once he gets to know you better-he will open up. The way I got mine to was with a bottle of crown! When they know that you will not use anything to hurt them-they will open up. Caps usually take along time to decide what they are going to reveal. I got my guy to talk about his childhood and I talked about mine. He really opened up after I ripped into him and told me talk or I walk. now the man won't shut up- also from out i have found out most cap men at hot weather - love cool. Just me your self and don't talk the silence. Good luck - the cap men are the best. I know I will never leave mine. He is the love of my life.
Thanks everyone, I'm the original poster and I have to say I learned that my Cappy man had a big drinking problem and a self-destructive one at that - said he still drinks and drives after having two prior DUI's. My heart went out to him for all the pain he's enduring from his bottled up feelings, but I had to move on. He's a really sweet guy.
Capricorns are shy, private workaholics. Only Virgos can understand that.