sag and their exs...
This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by JURR on Wednesday, March 23, 2016 and has 14 replies.
I was in a relationship with a sag for 3years, we had a good relationship up until the end. We ended on difficult terms and he moved to the other side of the world. This was 2 years ago, since then we have had 0 contact, we blocked each other from any way of contact.
He was pretty upset/angry with me and I'm sure he held a grudge for quite a while. My question is do you think he still holds this grudge now, after 2years?
The reason I ask is because he recently returned to our home town, I'm currently not in the country but I return for the summer. I've seen pictures on fb of him with my friends. Obviously we will cross paths and I don't know what to expect.
How would you be in this situation?
He was pretty upset/angry with me and I'm sure he held a grudge for quite a while. My question is do you think he still holds this grudge now, after 2years?
The reason I ask is because he recently returned to our home town, I'm currently not in the country but I return for the summer. I've seen pictures on fb of him with my friends. Obviously we will cross paths and I don't know what to expect.
How would you be in this situation?
Posted by Harukaa
I will tell you .. I'm not good with them
I have a few exs, no one of them I want to see or talk to... even the one I still have feeling for .
Part of me thinks that this would be easier, if we just avoided each other.
Then part of me thinks we should be more mature than that and attempt to be civil.
Yes, you should be more mature. You don't have to remind him that you hurt him years ago, by continuing to hurt his ego.
Posted by Undine
Yes, you should be more mature. You don't have to remind him that you hurt him years ago, by continuing to hurt his ego.
If he wants to be civil I have no problem with that, I just don't know if that's what he wants... I'm unsure if he will still be holding a grudge.
Saggies hold a grudge. It's not by YOUR time, but by THEIRS. If he doesn't come to you; then let him go. If he does, then he still care.
Eva
Eva
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Sags aren't normally grudge holders. They are probably the most care free and optimistic sign in all of the zodiac. I've never known a Sag to hold onto a grudge for very long. Most things they get over fairly quickly unless you did something extremely fucked up.
I think after 2 years he's most likely over whatever happened. Plus he's a male Sag and they're the least likely to hold onto grudges.
I can't imagine him holding that much of a grudge. But about one year ago I helped him out with money, indirectly... his friends we're asking people for money and I gave quite a lot and I never got a thank you, so it made me think he is still angry.
If the sag has any scorpio in their chart, just keep it movin
Posted by DMV
If the sag has any scorpio in their chart, just keep it movin
I can't remember his chart. Only that he is Virgo moon like me.
Posted by AriesLady8Posted by JURRPosted by DMV
If the sag has any scorpio in their chart, just keep it movin
I can't remember his chart. Only that he is Virgo moon like me.
Why did you break up? And what's your sign?click to expand
Its complicated but basically we hurt each other and then decided to fix it, but for me it was too tiring and I guess I couldn't put in that much energy to fix it, so I decided enough is enough and broke it off. He hated me for not trying.
I'm Aries
Eeeehhhhh yes I imagine he does.
But one has to ask what type of grudge is it?
One can carry anger and hatred.. One can carry sadness and hurt... One can always ask WHY DIDNT YOU TRY.
Sometimes a sag is real good at hiding that which bothers them the most.. cuts deep... but you'll never know it so it doesn't really matter.
But one has to ask what type of grudge is it?
One can carry anger and hatred.. One can carry sadness and hurt... One can always ask WHY DIDNT YOU TRY.
Sometimes a sag is real good at hiding that which bothers them the most.. cuts deep... but you'll never know it so it doesn't really matter.
I just don't know how to approach the situation. We will see each other regularly over the summer if he's hanging out with my friends, that's evident. So we're going to have to be civil otherwise it will be really awkward... but if he's still angry at me, it's gonna make it pretty fuckin hard.
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He might have "forgiven" you but it might never be the same.
An ex Aries good friend hurt me badly and I have never been friends with him again. He's tried multiple times in the last 3 years, but I can't.
An ex Aries good friend hurt me badly and I have never been friends with him again. He's tried multiple times in the last 3 years, but I can't.
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I'm civil with him fyi, so don't worry about that.
Posted by libraqueen
How do you know if he's single?
I don't. It doesn't matter either way.
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