Sag Female dating a Libra Male...

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Shellyd238 on Thursday, May 10, 2018 and has 37 replies.
...And I'm bored! (I tried to post this once before but I think it posted in the main Astrology forum so I'm sorry if this posted in the Sag forum twice)

I need some advice here because I need him to be more confident and assertive to keep my interest, and he's just not...


We have great talks when we are in person, but he texts me things like "it's raining, stay dry today" Which is sweet, but also tedious.


Does anyone ave experience with Libra guys?

Naw girl,

They bored me to death too gurl.

Like watching paint dry.

I like Cardi B and Offset but I think he is growing bored with her

Posted by Gnu
I have a Libra buddy who's like that. I want to try new experiences which I get from my sag friend. With Libran hangout it's always dinner and then a movie. Don't try to suggest anything new because you can almost see the scales going back and forth. Accept him as he is or find someone else. My bud won't or can't change. Everything is conventional with him and he won't do something for fear of looking foolish.


Eeeek, I'm not sure that'll work for me, I need some adventure and excitement, and a guy that can "handle" my fire.

I'm considering trying to prod him with a few pointed/saucy questions to see how he reacts to them. but to be honest, at this point, it's more of an attempt to relieve my boredom! I figure he'll either rise to the challenge and show my another side of him that he's been hiding, or he'll freak out and disappear. at this point i'd be OK with either outcome! Big Grin
Posted by tiziani
Just ask him not to text you that stuff and spend more time in person.
I already tried. I explained that I'm not a person that likes to text all day every day, and that I prefer to just use texting for making plans to go do things...It hasn't changed anything.

But it's not just about the texting, even when we are together I have to lead the conversations, and come up with things to talk about. I'm determined not to do the perusing with him though, which means we'll probably just be going on coffee dates and holding hands for the rest of our lives! Well, until I die of boredom anyway...

I'm really hoping that sometime soon, he will open up and be a little more exciting.
I guess I just don’t understand why you’d bother if he’s so boring ?

Why not just find someone who you find more interesting and set my dude free?
I’m married to a Libra btw and he’s the most interesting person I’ve ever known and every other guy I tried to date in between bored me

If you’re not compatible, you’re not compatible. Why bother forcing it? Life’s too short. Move on before you waste anymore of each other’s time
Posted by brianafay
I guess I just don’t understand why you’d bother if he’s so boring ?

Why not just find someone who you find more interesting and set my dude free?
That's the unfortunate mentality of the dating game these days. "Don't bother trying to put in any effort or understand people, just drop that person, and find someone else." ...I'm not a fan....I would not have started dating him if I didn't see potential there, I'm just not sure if trying to push him to open up a little is a good idea with a Libra or not.

I mean, what else can I do when we are talking and I ask him a question about himself, and he gives a short answer and doesn't even ask me the question back? Or if I briefly mention something about myself and he doesn't even ask one follow up question to find out more? What do I do with that?? It feels more like general chit chat with my local barista, then getting to know the guy I'm dating.

You say you married a Libra, well you should have some useful advice then right? If dump him is all you got, I'm a little confused about why you married one...

It almost feels like he likes the idea of going on dates, being seen on a date, and probably telling his friends that he's dating someone, more than he's actually interested in the person he's dating. if that makes sense...

Because we were walking around and he asked to hold my hand (which I personally find to be a sweaty uncomfortable thing with someone I don't really know yet) but I agreed, because it's not all about me right? So why would he want to hold the hand of someone that he won't even try to get to know?

I'm just trying to understand this!
Posted by Shellyd238
Posted by brianafay
I guess I just don’t understand why you’d bother if he’s so boring ?



Why not just find someone who you find more interesting and set my dude free?


That's the unfortunate mentality of the dating game these days. "Don't bother trying to put in any effort or understand people, just drop that person, and find someone else." ...I'm not a fan....I would not have started dating him if I didn't see potential there, I'm just not sure if trying to push him to open up a little is a good idea with a Libra or not.
I mean, what else can I do when we are talking and I ask him a question about himself, and he gives a short answer and doesn't even ask me the question back? Or if I briefly mention something about myself and he doesn't even ask one follow up question to find out more? What do I do with that?? It feels more like general chit chat with my local barista, then getting to know the guy I'm dating.
You say you married a Libra, well you should have some useful advice then right? If dump him is all you got, I'm a little confused about why you married one...
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Listen normally I’m the one preaching that people need to put in more effort, etc - I dated my Libra for 14 years before he finally married my ass and we’ve been through hell and back.

But that’s just it - when two people are invested in each other and it’s clear there’s something there, but they just have issues they need to work through and grow together, it seems obvious to give advice like that ...

But to me, finding someone “tedious” and “boring” (especially so early on) isn’t an issue you can just work through. It would be you forcing something that’s not there

Sounds like a trap 🤷🏼‍♀️

Getting to know someone should be the most exciting part of the relationship. You get bored later when mundane everyday life takes over.

But hey youre the only one who really knows if it’s worth it or not. If you want to stick it out and hope he gets more exciting - more power to you! I’m just a stranger on the Internet, I don’t know either of you.

You guys are just dating right? How long has it been? If he texts you stuff like that and you don't like it, just ignore it and text back when you have something to say. You don't have to answer every time. You already told him it was annoying but he may not know which part is annoying since he's a communicating sign lol

Plan an activity for you guys that will be fun. Take the lead. I was never attracted to Libras either. I have plenty of Libra in my chart. They just aren't mysterious enough for me lol

They are too sweet too, not enough machoness. I gravitate towards sweet assholesLaughing
Posted by saggurl88
You guys are just dating right? How long has it been? If he texts you stuff like that and you don't like it, just ignore it and text back when you have something to say. You don't have to answer every time. You already told him it was annoying but he may not know which part is annoying since he's a communicating sign lol
Plan an activity for you guys that will be fun. Take the lead. I was never attracted to Libras either. I have plenty of Libra in my chart. They just aren't mysterious enough for me lol
They are too sweet too, not enough machoness. I gravitate towards sweet assholes

I wouldn't be too certain of that, It all comes down to placements.
Posted by saggurl88
You guys are just dating right? How long has it been? If he texts you stuff like that and you don't like it, just ignore it and text back when you have something to say. You don't have to answer every time. You already told him it was annoying but he may not know which part is annoying since he's a communicating sign lol
Plan an activity for you guys that will be fun. Take the lead. I was never attracted to Libras either. I have plenty of Libra in my chart. They just aren't mysterious enough for me lol
They are too sweet too, not enough machoness. I gravitate towards sweet assholes
That's the thing, I like more assertive guys too, and I get the feeling he wants me to take the lead which is a bit of a turn off. He is very sweet, so I feel really bad every time he texts me something like, "have a good day", and all I can think is that I wish he would instead ask me my opinion about something, that might lead to an interesting conversation.

We've been talking for maybe a month. we've been on 4 dates, but they were all daytime coffee dates(all his idea), and the last one was on Wednesday, when we got icecream together. I feel like we're high school virgins or something! lol

I'm just trying to get some idea of what other people have experienced with Libras, whether this is all I can expect form him going forward, or if libra's are one of those signs that have another side to them... Based on the comments so far, it's not looking good...


Posted by Shellyd238
Posted by saggurl88
You guys are just dating right? How long has it been? If he texts you stuff like that and you don't like it, just ignore it and text back when you have something to say. You don't have to answer every time. You already told him it was annoying but he may not know which part is annoying since he's a communicating sign lol

Plan an activity for you guys that will be fun. Take the lead. I was never attracted to Libras either. I have plenty of Libra in my chart. They just aren't mysterious enough for me lol

They are too sweet too, not enough machoness. I gravitate towards sweet markers


That's the thing, I like more assertive guys too, and I get the feeling he wants me to take the lead which is a bit of a turn off. He is very sweet, so I feel really bad every time he texts me something like, "have a good day", and all I can think is that I wish he would instead ask me my opinion about something, that might lead to an interesting conversation.
We've been talking for maybe a month. we've been on 4 dates, but they were all daytime coffee dates(all his idea), and the last one was on Wednesday, when we got icecream together. I feel like we're high school virgins or something! lol
I'm just trying to get some idea of what other people have experienced with Libras, whether this is all I can expect form him going forward, or if libra's are one of those signs that have another side to them... Based on the comments so far, it's not looking good...

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He is my male version 😬 Brunch/lunches, daytime outings, not too much risk until after 6 months. This is how we do serious rs. Different preference/ diff maturity levels?

Ive met a mature Sag who is on the same pace too. He said this: "It's better to be at the bottom of a ladder you want to climb than to be at the top of a ladder you don't want to be on." ~i cant agree more
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Posted by Gnu
I have a Libra buddy who's like that. I want to try new experiences which I get from my sag friend. With Libran hangout it's always dinner and then a movie. Don't try to suggest anything new because you can almost see the scales going back and forth. Accept him as he is or find someone else. My bud won't or can't change. Everything is conventional with him and he won't do something for fear of looking foolish.



Eeeek, I'm not sure that'll work for me, I need some adventure and excitement, and a guy that can "handle" my fire.
I'm considering trying to prod him with a few pointed/saucy questions to see how he reacts to them. but to be honest, at this point, it's more of an attempt to relieve my boredom! I figure he'll either rise to the challenge and show my another side of him that he's been hiding, or he'll freak out and disappear. at this point i'd be OK with either outcome! click to expand
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lol what kind of saucy questions?
Posted by Shellyd238
...And I'm bored! (I tried to post this once before but I think it posted in the main Astrology forum so I'm sorry if this posted in the Sag forum twice)
I need some advice here because I need him to be more confident and assertive to keep my interest, and he's just not...

We have great talks when we are in person, but he texts me things like "it's raining, stay dry today" Which is sweet, but also tedious.

Does anyone ave experience with Libra guys?

I wouldn't bother if i was you, Libra im sorry dont get along with one of us. Once their lies start coming out and their head games, you will sorely feel it. They like the drama and cause conflict. I know they say they dont but they do! lol.

I read motives quite well and i've not been wrong about one of those in 18 years Big Grin
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Posted by Shellyd238
...And I'm bored! (I tried to post this once before but I think it posted in the main Astrology forum so I'm sorry if this posted in the Sag forum twice)

I need some advice here because I need him to be more confident and assertive to keep my interest, and he's just not...


We have great talks when we are in person, but he texts me things like "it's raining, stay dry today" Which is sweet, but also tedious.


Does anyone ave experience with Libra guys?



I wouldn't bother if i was you, Libra im sorry dont get along with one of us. Once their lies start coming out and their head games, you will sorely feel it. They like the drama and cause conflict. I know they say they dont but they do! lol.
I read motives quite well and i've not been wrong about one of those in 18 years click to expand
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lol u dated 6 libra men from what little u wrote..

i notice libra men love sag women alot and u have libra moon .... so that's why u date them too.
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Naw girl,

They bored me to death too gurl.

Like watching paint dry.

I like Cardi B and Offset but I think he is growing bored with her



Offset cheated on her.. that might explain why.. lol click to expand
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omg!!

Laughingjesus.

I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex
Posted by dewiklaessen26
I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex
um but are u not libra dominant?


u still have that energy and it's strong.


and good thing too, cause otherwise firey men wont bother.

they not interested in earth and water. so u gotta have those fire/air element.
He won't change......accept him as he is or move on ▶️▶️▶️▶️
Try a fire sign man

More Oooooooooooomppphhhh 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Posted by MyStarsShine
Try a fire sign man
More Oooooooooooomppphhhh 🔥🔥🔥🔥


fiery men are the best.

well mine is fiery/water but i love them alot.



i'd get bored with too much air.
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Posted by dewiklaessen26
I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex


um but are u not libra dominant?

u still have that energy and it's strong.

and good thing too, cause otherwise firey men wont bother.
they not interested in earth and water. so u gotta have those fire/air element. click to expand
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I don't feel like i am libra dominant i am not superficial i don't beat around the bush i am not passive at all i am also not the peacemaker i am more earth/fire dominant i do not care about luxury also not passive aggressive in bed. Sagittarius is 20% in my chart and 17 % Virgo i looked it up again my 3 dominant signs are Virgo,Sagittariu, Aquarius
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Posted by dewiklaessen26
I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex



um but are u not libra dominant?


u still have that energy and it's strong.


and good thing too, cause otherwise firey men wont bother.

they not interested in earth and water. so u gotta have those fire/air element. click to expand


I don't feel like i am libra dominant i am not superficial i don't beat around the bush i am not passive at all i am also not the peacemaker i am more earth/fire dominant i do not care about luxury also not passive aggressive in bed. Sagittarius is 20% in my chart and 17 % Virgo i looked it up again my 3 dominant signs are Virgo,Sagittariu, Aquarius click to expand
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lmao TongueLaughing

ohhh so now it's aquarius instead of libra dom.

where's ur aquarius coming from Tongue


well good for u btw...


sag men's top 3 is aqua women in marriage statistics and the LEAST likely to divorce.


for libra woman/libra dom their top 3 is libra, and NOT sag.



https://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-statistics-to-show-marriages-between-astrology-sun-signs


for sag men it's ARIES & Aqua women who they love best .....out of the 3 fire signs, they like aries.

and out of the 3 air signs it's aqua


(it's general but it is a good ref)
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Posted by dewiklaessen26
I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex



um but are u not libra dominant?


u still have that energy and it's strong.


and good thing too, cause otherwise firey men wont bother.

they not interested in earth and water. so u gotta have those fire/air element. click to expand



I don't feel like i am libra dominant i am not superficial i don't beat around the bush i am not passive at all i am also not the peacemaker i am more earth/fire dominant i do not care about luxury also not passive aggressive in bed. Sagittarius is 20% in my chart and 17 % Virgo i looked it up again my 3 dominant signs are Virgo,Sagittariu, Aquarius click to expand


lmao
ohhh so now it's aquarius instead of libra dom.
where's ur aquarius coming from

well good for u btw...

sag men's top 3 is aqua women in marriage statistics and the LEAST likely to divorce.

for libra woman/libra dom their top 3 is libra, and NOT sag.

https://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-statistics-to-show-marriages-between-astrology-sun-signs

for sag men it's ARIES & Aqua women who they love best .....out of the 3 fire signs, they like aries.
and out of the 3 air signs it's aqua

(it's general but it is a good ref) click to expand
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I actually a lot Aquarius with Sagg that were divorced they both had a water venus

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I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex



um but are u not libra dominant?


u still have that energy and it's strong.


and good thing too, cause otherwise firey men wont bother.

they not interested in earth and water. so u gotta have those fire/air element. click to expand



I don't feel like i am libra dominant i am not superficial i don't beat around the bush i am not passive at all i am also not the peacemaker i am more earth/fire dominant i do not care about luxury also not passive aggressive in bed. Sagittarius is 20% in my chart and 17 % Virgo i looked it up again my 3 dominant signs are Virgo,Sagittariu, Aquarius click to expand




lmao

ohhh so now it's aquarius instead of libra dom.

where's ur aquarius coming from


well good for u btw...


sag men's top 3 is aqua women in marriage statistics and the LEAST likely to divorce.


for libra woman/libra dom their top 3 is libra, and NOT sag.



https://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-statistics-to-show-marriages-between-astrology-sun-signs


for sag men it's ARIES & Aqua women who they love best .....out of the 3 fire signs, they like aries.
and out of the 3 air signs it's aqua


(it's general but it is a good ref) click to expand


I actually a lot Aquarius with Sagg that were divorced they both had a water venus
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hahaha sit ur ass down gurrrllll

virgo girl not even in the running.

sag with scorpio and cancer placements usually go for watery women

and u are not even married.



Tongue But virgo women get with sag men with capricorn and libra placements. and that lasts longer. Tongue

ie, Sophia Loren and her Sag man. (capricorn moon)

Beyonce and Jay z (libra moon)
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I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex



um but are u not libra dominant?


u still have that energy and it's strong.


and good thing too, cause otherwise firey men wont bother.

they not interested in earth and water. so u gotta have those fire/air element. click to expand



I don't feel like i am libra dominant i am not superficial i don't beat around the bush i am not passive at all i am also not the peacemaker i am more earth/fire dominant i do not care about luxury also not passive aggressive in bed. Sagittarius is 20% in my chart and 17 % Virgo i looked it up again my 3 dominant signs are Virgo,Sagittariu, Aquarius click to expand




lmao

ohhh so now it's aquarius instead of libra dom.

where's ur aquarius coming from


well good for u btw...


sag men's top 3 is aqua women in marriage statistics and the LEAST likely to divorce.


for libra woman/libra dom their top 3 is libra, and NOT sag.



https://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-statistics-to-show-marriages-between-astrology-sun-signs


for sag men it's ARIES & Aqua women who they love best .....out of the 3 fire signs, they like aries.
and out of the 3 air signs it's aqua


(it's general but it is a good ref) click to expand



I actually a lot Aquarius with Sagg that were divorced they both had a water venus

click to expand


hahaha sit ur ass down gurrrllll
virgo girl not even in the running.
sag with scorpio and cancer placements usually go for watery women
and u are not even married.


But virgo women get with sag men with capricorn and libra placements. and that lasts longer.
ie, Sophia Loren and her Sag man. (capricorn moon)
Beyonce and Jay z (libra moon) click to expand
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I tend to always attract fire signs with water placements to be honest being married means nothing it's about being able to stay in a marriage being married is just on paper doesn't mean the relationship will last but that's how i think about it that's why i never have to marry i rather buy a ring and go in vacation and celebrate it my sagg thinks the same about it
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I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex



um but are u not libra dominant?


u still have that energy and it's strong.


and good thing too, cause otherwise firey men wont bother.

they not interested in earth and water. so u gotta have those fire/air element. click to expand



I don't feel like i am libra dominant i am not superficial i don't beat around the bush i am not passive at all i am also not the peacemaker i am more earth/fire dominant i do not care about luxury also not passive aggressive in bed. Sagittarius is 20% in my chart and 17 % Virgo i looked it up again my 3 dominant signs are Virgo,Sagittariu, Aquarius click to expand




lmao

ohhh so now it's aquarius instead of libra dom.

where's ur aquarius coming from


well good for u btw...


sag men's top 3 is aqua women in marriage statistics and the LEAST likely to divorce.


for libra woman/libra dom their top 3 is libra, and NOT sag.



https://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-statistics-to-show-marriages-between-astrology-sun-signs


for sag men it's ARIES & Aqua women who they love best .....out of the 3 fire signs, they like aries.
and out of the 3 air signs it's aqua


(it's general but it is a good ref) click to expand



I actually a lot Aquarius with Sagg that were divorced they both had a water venus

click to expand




hahaha sit ur ass down gurrrllll

virgo girl not even in the running.

sag with scorpio and cancer placements usually go for watery women

and u are not even married.




But virgo women get with sag men with capricorn and libra placements. and that lasts longer.

ie, Sophia Loren and her Sag man. (capricorn moon)

Beyonce and Jay z (libra moon) click to expand


I tend to always attract fire signs with water placements to be honest being married means nothing it's about being able to stay in a marriage being married is just on paper doesn't mean the relationship will last but that's how i think about it that's why i never have to marry i rather buy a ring and go in vacation and celebrate it my sagg thinks the same about it click to expand
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are u sure u're an 8th houser??

cause it's ALL or nothing.
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Posted by dewiklaessen26
I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex



um but are u not libra dominant?


u still have that energy and it's strong.


and good thing too, cause otherwise firey men wont bother.

they not interested in earth and water. so u gotta have those fire/air element. click to expand



I don't feel like i am libra dominant i am not superficial i don't beat around the bush i am not passive at all i am also not the peacemaker i am more earth/fire dominant i do not care about luxury also not passive aggressive in bed. Sagittarius is 20% in my chart and 17 % Virgo i looked it up again my 3 dominant signs are Virgo,Sagittariu, Aquarius click to expand




lmao

ohhh so now it's aquarius instead of libra dom.

where's ur aquarius coming from


well good for u btw...


sag men's top 3 is aqua women in marriage statistics and the LEAST likely to divorce.


for libra woman/libra dom their top 3 is libra, and NOT sag.



https://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-statistics-to-show-marriages-between-astrology-sun-signs


for sag men it's ARIES & Aqua women who they love best .....out of the 3 fire signs, they like aries.
and out of the 3 air signs it's aqua


(it's general but it is a good ref) click to expand



I actually a lot Aquarius with Sagg that were divorced they both had a water venus

click to expand




hahaha sit ur ass down gurrrllll

virgo girl not even in the running.

sag with scorpio and cancer placements usually go for watery women

and u are not even married.




But virgo women get with sag men with capricorn and libra placements. and that lasts longer.

ie, Sophia Loren and her Sag man. (capricorn moon)

Beyonce and Jay z (libra moon) click to expand



I tend to always attract fire signs with water placements to be honest being married means nothing it's about being able to stay in a marriage being married is just on paper doesn't mean the relationship will last but that's how i think about it that's why i never have to marry i rather buy a ring and go in vacation and celebrate it my sagg thinks the same about it click to expand


are u sure u're an 8th houser??
cause it's ALL or nothing. click to expand
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Well one website says yes the other says my venus is in the 9th house and i have a stellium in the 9th house i honestly don't know
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I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex



um but are u not libra dominant?


u still have that energy and it's strong.


and good thing too, cause otherwise firey men wont bother.

they not interested in earth and water. so u gotta have those fire/air element. click to expand



I don't feel like i am libra dominant i am not superficial i don't beat around the bush i am not passive at all i am also not the peacemaker i am more earth/fire dominant i do not care about luxury also not passive aggressive in bed. Sagittarius is 20% in my chart and 17 % Virgo i looked it up again my 3 dominant signs are Virgo,Sagittariu, Aquarius click to expand




lmao

ohhh so now it's aquarius instead of libra dom.

where's ur aquarius coming from


well good for u btw...


sag men's top 3 is aqua women in marriage statistics and the LEAST likely to divorce.


for libra woman/libra dom their top 3 is libra, and NOT sag.



https://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-statistics-to-show-marriages-between-astrology-sun-signs


for sag men it's ARIES & Aqua women who they love best .....out of the 3 fire signs, they like aries.
and out of the 3 air signs it's aqua


(it's general but it is a good ref) click to expand



I actually a lot Aquarius with Sagg that were divorced they both had a water venus

click to expand




hahaha sit ur ass down gurrrllll

virgo girl not even in the running.

sag with scorpio and cancer placements usually go for watery women

and u are not even married.




But virgo women get with sag men with capricorn and libra placements. and that lasts longer.

ie, Sophia Loren and her Sag man. (capricorn moon)

Beyonce and Jay z (libra moon) click to expand



I tend to always attract fire signs with water placements to be honest being married means nothing it's about being able to stay in a marriage being married is just on paper doesn't mean the relationship will last but that's how i think about it that's why i never have to marry i rather buy a ring and go in vacation and celebrate it my sagg thinks the same about it click to expand


are u sure u're an 8th houser??
cause it's ALL or nothing. click to expand
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astrotheme says i have a stellium in the 1st house and my dominant houses are my 1st,9th and 8th but there i only have 3 planets in my 9th house and jupiter and venus in the 8th house astro.com says i have a 9th house stellium sun,mars,venus,jupiter,mercury and my dominant houses are my 9th ,2th and 1st i honestly don't really know
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I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex



um but are u not libra dominant?


u still have that energy and it's strong.


and good thing too, cause otherwise firey men wont bother.

they not interested in earth and water. so u gotta have those fire/air element. click to expand



I don't feel like i am libra dominant i am not superficial i don't beat around the bush i am not passive at all i am also not the peacemaker i am more earth/fire dominant i do not care about luxury also not passive aggressive in bed. Sagittarius is 20% in my chart and 17 % Virgo i looked it up again my 3 dominant signs are Virgo,Sagittariu, Aquarius click to expand




lmao

ohhh so now it's aquarius instead of libra dom.

where's ur aquarius coming from


well good for u btw...


sag men's top 3 is aqua women in marriage statistics and the LEAST likely to divorce.


for libra woman/libra dom their top 3 is libra, and NOT sag.



https://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-statistics-to-show-marriages-between-astrology-sun-signs


for sag men it's ARIES & Aqua women who they love best .....out of the 3 fire signs, they like aries.
and out of the 3 air signs it's aqua


(it's general but it is a good ref) click to expand



I actually a lot Aquarius with Sagg that were divorced they both had a water venus

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hahaha sit ur ass down gurrrllll

virgo girl not even in the running.

sag with scorpio and cancer placements usually go for watery women

and u are not even married.




But virgo women get with sag men with capricorn and libra placements. and that lasts longer.

ie, Sophia Loren and her Sag man. (capricorn moon)

Beyonce and Jay z (libra moon) click to expand



I tend to always attract fire signs with water placements to be honest being married means nothing it's about being able to stay in a marriage being married is just on paper doesn't mean the relationship will last but that's how i think about it that's why i never have to marry i rather buy a ring and go in vacation and celebrate it my sagg thinks the same about it click to expand




are u sure u're an 8th houser??

cause it's ALL or nothing. click to expand

Well one website says yes the other says my venus is in the 9th house and i have a stellium in the 9th house i honestly don't know click to expand
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lol

u so libra u can't make up ur mind xD
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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by dewiklaessen26
I always hear they make such a great couple except that libra females are boring in bed etc and never wanna have sex



um but are u not libra dominant?


u still have that energy and it's strong.


and good thing too, cause otherwise firey men wont bother.

they not interested in earth and water. so u gotta have those fire/air element. click to expand



I don't feel like i am libra dominant i am not superficial i don't beat around the bush i am not passive at all i am also not the peacemaker i am more earth/fire dominant i do not care about luxury also not passive aggressive in bed. Sagittarius is 20% in my chart and 17 % Virgo i looked it up again my 3 dominant signs are Virgo,Sagittariu, Aquarius click to expand




lmao

ohhh so now it's aquarius instead of libra dom.

where's ur aquarius coming from


well good for u btw...


sag men's top 3 is aqua women in marriage statistics and the LEAST likely to divorce.


for libra woman/libra dom their top 3 is libra, and NOT sag.



https://www.quora.com/Are-there-any-statistics-to-show-marriages-between-astrology-sun-signs


for sag men it's ARIES & Aqua women who they love best .....out of the 3 fire signs, they like aries.
and out of the 3 air signs it's aqua


(it's general but it is a good ref) click to expand



I actually a lot Aquarius with Sagg that were divorced they both had a water venus

click to expand




hahaha sit ur ass down gurrrllll

virgo girl not even in the running.

sag with scorpio and cancer placements usually go for watery women

and u are not even married.




But virgo women get with sag men with capricorn and libra placements. and that lasts longer.

ie, Sophia Loren and her Sag man. (capricorn moon)

Beyonce and Jay z (libra moon) click to expand



I tend to always attract fire signs with water placements to be honest being married means nothing it's about being able to stay in a marriage being married is just on paper doesn't mean the relationship will last but that's how i think about it that's why i never have to marry i rather buy a ring and go in vacation and celebrate it my sagg thinks the same about it click to expand




are u sure u're an 8th houser??

cause it's ALL or nothing. click to expand

Well one website says yes the other says my venus is in the 9th house and i have a stellium in the 9th house i honestly don't know click to expand


lol
u so libra u can't make up ur mind xD click to expand
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I can hahaha i know what i want always my sagg has several planets in the 7th house and he has libra/aries intercepted he can't make up his mind lol

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Posted by Shellyd238
...And I'm bored! (I tried to post this once before but I think it posted in the main Astrology forum so I'm sorry if this posted in the Sag forum twice)

I need some advice here because I need him to be more confident and assertive to keep my interest, and he's just not...


We have great talks when we are in person, but he texts me things like "it's raining, stay dry today" Which is sweet, but also tedious.


Does anyone ave experience with Libra guys?


As a Libra I'd sat I don't get adventurous with anyone, gotta know u first to start making good memories with u. How long have u two been together? click to expand
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We've only been dating about a month.

I'd be ok with someone who needs to get to know me before he opens up, I'm a lil like that too, but the problem seems to be that he hasn't made much effort to actually get to know me. He will ask me to go out, but I have to constantly find things to ask him about, and depending on the topic he will sometimes give me pretty short answers, like he'd rather not give me too many details, so it's hard to come up with follow up questions. and he doesn't really ask me many questions about me, which basically leaves me feeling like we are just making idol chit chat, not really getting to know each other. Which also means that I feel no chemistry between us at all at this point.

I hate small talk, and I find having to be dominant and assertive a turn off. So now I'm just looking for the right time to let him know that I'm not feeling this.

I thought Id just leave this last comment here for any future Sagis looking for info about Libra guys.
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Posted by Shellyd238
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Posted by Shellyd238
...And I'm bored! (I tried to post this once before but I think it posted in the main Astrology forum so I'm sorry if this posted in the Sag forum twice)

I need some advice here because I need him to be more confident and assertive to keep my interest, and he's just not...


We have great talks when we are in person, but he texts me things like "it's raining, stay dry today" Which is sweet, but also tedious.


Does anyone ave experience with Libra guys?



As a Libra I'd sat I don't get adventurous with anyone, gotta know u first to start making good memories with u. How long have u two been together? click to expand



We've only been dating about a month.

I'd be ok with someone who needs to get to know me before he opens up, I'm a lil like that too, but the problem seems to be that he hasn't made much effort to actually get to know me. He will ask me to go out, but I have to constantly find things to ask him about, and depending on the topic he will sometimes give me pretty short answers, like he'd rather not give me too many details, so it's hard to come up with follow up questions. and he doesn't really ask me many questions about me, which basically leaves me feeling like we are just making idol chit chat, not really getting to know each other. Which also means that I feel no chemistry between us at all at this point.

I hate small talk, and I find having to be dominant and assertive a turn off. So now I'm just looking for the right time to let him know that I'm not feeling this.

I thought Id just leave this last comment here for any future Sagis looking for info about Libra guys. click to expand

A month is really a short time for a Libra to open up, I think he's just trying to test the waters, and he also probably feels like there's no chemistry but does not want to make a decision on leaving yet! My advice is to show ur independence side and talk about ur adventures and how much you'd love to share new adventures and new things with someone special, and go out on dates with him to get to know him more be curious about him if he does not open up and start doing more things together then its ur call to move on or not. Yes one last thing Libras need their space and time to recharge so allow him to breathe once in a while. click to expand
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HAHA i do nothing but let him breathe! he's the one that texts me in the morning with the same "have a good day at work" and at night with "how was your day at work?" that's it. almost every day. I've already gone through all the usual conversation starters with him, and at this point I feel like if he wants to initiate a conversation with me, why doesn't he find something else to talk about? and if he can't think of anything else that he wants to know about me, then why is he still texting me? I think I already said this but I really feel like he's more interested in the status of dating someone, then in actually connecting with me.

I'm a Libra and my first husband was a Libra man. He was anything but boring. A total extrovert, the life of every party, whined and dined me like crazy and showered me with gifts. The only thing that drove me crazy and to divorce was his extreme jealousy of any man who came within 5 feet of me. I've never met a Libra who didn't know how converse on a wide variety of topics. We love to party and my best female friends who I party with are always Sags and Aries. Your Libra guy sounds lukewarm about you and since you've only been seeing him a month it should be easy for you to let him go and find someone you are more compatible with. He is probably bored also.
Posted by Shellyd238
...And I'm bored! (I tried to post this once before but I think it posted in the main Astrology forum so I'm sorry if this posted in the Sag forum twice)
I need some advice here because I need him to be more confident and assertive to keep my interest, and he's just not...

We have great talks when we are in person, but he texts me things like "it's raining, stay dry today" Which is sweet, but also tedious.

Does anyone ave experience with Libra guys?



16yrs and almost 3yrs with another

They do bore you eventually to a point where you pull your hair out!

They speak of the same crap work work work or what ever it is they are all into.

You gotta keep the convos good and lead if you want it to work other wise find a new match
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Naw girl,

They bored me to death too gurl.

Like watching paint dry.

I like Cardi B and Offset but I think he is growing bored with her

His birthday is the day before mine lol