Sagg101
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Sag girls and break ups
Hey im not a Sag, but maybe i can cheer you up. I think maybe he should stuck it out, & you guys could have worked together & fix things. It seems to me that he just wanted be by himself & do his own thing. If he valued you as his gf, he wouldn't have just up & left like that. 1st thing you have to realise is, that it's not your fault he couldn't handle your love. He obviously got issues that he got to deal with. Don't punish yourself for someones elses mistakes. If this guy is ment to be in your life, it will prosper. I say think with your heart not your feelings. Whatever you heart tells you, go with it & stand by it. I'm sorry this happened. But remember, you didn't cause it to happen. Here's a *HUG* mrs.Saggi 🙂. I hope you feel better
If all else fails, pray about it & leave it in God hands. I'm sure you got a wonderful soul
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Hey im not a Sag, but maybe i can cheer you up. I think maybe he should stuck it out, & you guys could have worked together & fix things. It seems to me that he just wanted be by himself & do his own thing. If he valued you as his gf, he wouldn't have just up & left like that. 1st thing you have to realise is, that it's not your fault he couldn't handle your love. He obviously got issues that he got to deal with. Don't punish yourself for someones elses mistakes. If this guy is ment to be in your life, it will prosper. I say think with your heart not your feelings. Whatever you heart tells you, go with it & stand by it. I'm sorry this happened. But remember, you didn't cause it to happen. Here's a *HUG* mrs.Saggi 🙂. I hope you feel better
We talked about sticking it out but he made up his mind and i don't even blame him. He's got so much that he needs to work on right now and so this relationship all just landed at the wrong time. Its been a long time coming to be honest and a drunken argument last night settled things so I can't help but think this was my fault. I've had problems with alcohol before so I'm so deep in regret right now.
I'm staying optimistic however. I've got my glass of wine (although I'm wearing his jumper) and holding on to our beautiful friendship. Who knows this might actually be a good thing! I've learnt so much from him.
I received that virtual hug and it was so warm and comforting 🙂 You've put a smile on my face through the midst of all this. I know I'll be fine soon 🙂 Thank you
No problem! 🙂. Yes, you'll be just fine. I'm glad i could put a smile on your face too. You Saggi's are strong & graceful people. Nothing can destroy you
I went through the same thing with a libra female.
Trust me, as you move forward, youll leave this sitiation and the pain behind. It doesnt seem like it but thats because the break up is new. But one day youll finally see things for what they were and youll know its not your fault. Despite how you feel, you did your best. That is nothing to be ashamed of and its not that it wasnt good enough. He just wasnt ready to receive it for whatever reason. That is squarely on him and has nothing to do with you or speaks to the beautiful person you are. Dont exist on what couldve been...then you wouldnt be living! Remember the good times but dont long for them. Heal yourself. If he returns, youll be much stronger and wiser and wont need him.
Good luck!
Trust me, as you move forward, youll leave this sitiation and the pain behind. It doesnt seem like it but thats because the break up is new. But one day youll finally see things for what they were and youll know its not your fault. Despite how you feel, you did your best. That is nothing to be ashamed of and its not that it wasnt good enough. He just wasnt ready to receive it for whatever reason. That is squarely on him and has nothing to do with you or speaks to the beautiful person you are. Dont exist on what couldve been...then you wouldnt be living! Remember the good times but dont long for them. Heal yourself. If he returns, youll be much stronger and wiser and wont need him.
Good luck!
Thats so funny. You're relationship sounds like a lot like mine with my libra. It never picked up. But we have been always there for each other as friends.
There was a period of time where he broke my heart. We didn't speak for months. He than came around telling me he loved me and wanted to be with me a few times after that.
It just was something I was afraid to go there with. I don't know why. I guess in a way I felt it would ruin our friendship and we'd never know each other in that special way anymore if we became boyfriend and girlfriend.
I actually almost moved in with him (as friends ) a few months back when I was looking for a place he offered lol
Time will heal or at least something will change
There was a period of time where he broke my heart. We didn't speak for months. He than came around telling me he loved me and wanted to be with me a few times after that.
It just was something I was afraid to go there with. I don't know why. I guess in a way I felt it would ruin our friendship and we'd never know each other in that special way anymore if we became boyfriend and girlfriend.
I actually almost moved in with him (as friends ) a few months back when I was looking for a place he offered lol
Time will heal or at least something will change
My friend is a sagittarius. When she was 19, she fell really hard for a guy and ended up in a 6 year relationship with him. Towards the end of the relationship, she was not quite herself. No longer happy/bubbly, she was super depressed.
One day, she was wandering around the street, in the rain, on valentine's day. Her boyfriend had recently broken up with her and she was feeling pretty sad. She decided to walk into a nearby music store. As she was browsing through the aisles, she picked up a CD. She was undecided on whether to purchase the CD or not, so she put it back down. When she did this, a guy reached over and took the CD. She told him that she was about to buy the CD. He said in response, "But you put it down....so it's mine now?". They argued for a bit, but eventually they started talking and they hung out for a while. As soon as she got home, she told me everything. He was a very nice, down to earth guy who was in business and worked for a company. After that, they met up almost every day.
Eventually, she found out that he didn't work for a company. He was the co-owner of a company. At the age of 17, he left France and moved to the US. He started off working for a company. Over time, he worked his way up and became the co-owner of his own company at the age of 24. Initially, she was afraid to get involved because she just got out of her 6 year relationship. But, she decided to give it a shot and 2 years later, they are in a very happy relationship. They go on trips together and travel everywhere. He encouraged her to pursue her career in real estate and currently she is focusing on opening her own business. She tells me all the time how lucky and happy she is. They are getting married next year and later this month, they are traveling to Europe together.
She occasionally talks to her ex boyfriend as friends. She says that she will always care for him as a friend and they seem to be on good terms with one another. But, she is so much happier now than she ever was. She's back to her old happy/bubbly self again.
Looking back, it's crazy to think how much of a difference a single rainy valentine's day can make. But you never know what could happen today, tomorrow, etc. Life may surprise you. Things may be tough for now, but it won't stay that way forever. I hope this helped a little and I wish you all the best! Keep your head up! 🙂
One day, she was wandering around the street, in the rain, on valentine's day. Her boyfriend had recently broken up with her and she was feeling pretty sad. She decided to walk into a nearby music store. As she was browsing through the aisles, she picked up a CD. She was undecided on whether to purchase the CD or not, so she put it back down. When she did this, a guy reached over and took the CD. She told him that she was about to buy the CD. He said in response, "But you put it down....so it's mine now?". They argued for a bit, but eventually they started talking and they hung out for a while. As soon as she got home, she told me everything. He was a very nice, down to earth guy who was in business and worked for a company. After that, they met up almost every day.
Eventually, she found out that he didn't work for a company. He was the co-owner of a company. At the age of 17, he left France and moved to the US. He started off working for a company. Over time, he worked his way up and became the co-owner of his own company at the age of 24. Initially, she was afraid to get involved because she just got out of her 6 year relationship. But, she decided to give it a shot and 2 years later, they are in a very happy relationship. They go on trips together and travel everywhere. He encouraged her to pursue her career in real estate and currently she is focusing on opening her own business. She tells me all the time how lucky and happy she is. They are getting married next year and later this month, they are traveling to Europe together.
She occasionally talks to her ex boyfriend as friends. She says that she will always care for him as a friend and they seem to be on good terms with one another. But, she is so much happier now than she ever was. She's back to her old happy/bubbly self again.
Looking back, it's crazy to think how much of a difference a single rainy valentine's day can make. But you never know what could happen today, tomorrow, etc. Life may surprise you. Things may be tough for now, but it won't stay that way forever. I hope this helped a little and I wish you all the best! Keep your head up! 🙂
Thank you! He is a Taurus!
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