Posted by Nataliaaa
He's 34 and he claims "to be taking care of his mom" because she's got diabetes (not in a bad condition, he doesn't even take care of her, really, kinda the opposite).
The tricky part here is that I previously had a relationship with this guy and the mom was just cruel to me ( as if I was stealing his boy). Of course I left this relationship for good, and he's just a good friend now. But from what he's told me he's incapable of leaving this dynamic and start a serious relationship with any woman.
I wonder why is his mom doing this to him? like having a Sag in a cage is like the worst thing you can do. She's a leo btw.
Posted by NotmyrealnameThe father is gone and his older brother has his own family
That sounds really tough. Is he an only child? No father figure to help? There’s not a huge amount you can do really, it’s his drama to deal with... but a Sagittarius is a Sagittarius, probably the best sign for him to have in this situation, they usually find a way to escape when they need to.
Posted by RooSagicornOMG sounds like the same dynamic! it seems that he's willing to stay there and not fly.
Are you sure it’s Sag in a cage? It sounds more like enabling. Maybe it’s he who will not fly?
I have a friend whose 30 something son lives with her. He takes care of her but it’s not really necessary - yes and no. But she would prefer he have his own life. He has severe social anxiety and is extremely stubborn.. she tries to encourage.
She’s a Leo btw 😂😂
Posted by saggurl88No I lived with them for a while, and I left this dynamic.
You think maybe it's an excuse to get out of seeing you? You Scorpios can be draining and demanding of someones time. But you won't go against his mother or at least what he says about her.
Ever think he could just be lying?
Posted by RooSagicornPosted by NataliaaaYeah I know lol. She likes the side effect of him helping her maybe a little too much. Ironically I have the opposite with my son. He is a Leo and I’m a Sag. He is 23 & still at home maturing slowly. I’m more a guiding you & hoping you find your way type so he doesn’t end up that way. He is making progress but it’s slow. I keep threatening to kick him out cuz he needs to fly. Lol but what I don’t want is his unmotivated self to end up in a gutter. He almost moved out last month but it fell through.. Ah being a mom is tough sometimes. My little Scorpio is totally opposite. 🤷♀️Posted by RooSagicornOMG sounds like the same dynamic! it seems that he's willing to stay there and not fly.
Are you sure it’s Sag in a cage? It sounds more like enabling. Maybe it’s he who will not fly?
I have a friend whose 30 something son lives with her. He takes care of her but it’s not really necessary - yes and no. But she would prefer he have his own life. He has severe social anxiety and is extremely stubborn.. she tries to encourage.
She’s a Leo btw 😂😂
The thing about leos is that when you're with them sometimes is overwhelming but when leave them, you kinda miss their shine and warmness. Double weapon. 😂click to expand
Posted by NataliaaaWhat do you mean hard on Scorpios and I wouldn't know? I've been with a Scorpio before. I was just asking a question. I didn't realize that you lived with them and had first hand experience in the situation with his mother.Posted by saggurl88No I lived with them for a while, and I left this dynamic.
You think maybe it's an excuse to get out of seeing you? You Scorpios can be draining and demanding of someones time. But you won't go against his mother or at least what he says about her.
Ever think he could just be lying?
hahaha why is everybody so hard on scorpios anyway? but you wouldn't know, would you? you are a Venus in Scorpio yourself lolclick to expand
Posted by tctaapThat sounds super awful! I'm glad you left. Sometimes it's hard with family because sometimes you have to choose between living your own life or living your parent's, brother's, etc. What's your sister's sun sign?
My unstable mother was a Leo and she was the same way - she wanted to be the center of attention, and wanted us kids to take care of her. She wanted us to brush her hair and cook her meals and clean the house and buy her stuff and take her places. Yet she was a mean spirited person. She tried everything she could and my older sister ended up staying. I ran as fast as I could as soon as I could LOL.
Posted by Nataliaaawe are both Taurus but she has Pisces Moon and I have Cap Moon - big difference - oh me and my sister had some fights as she thought that we should take care of her just because she was our mother - I told her I don't let anyone else treat me that way; I'm not letting her treat me that way just because she's my motherPosted by tctaapThat sounds super awful! I'm glad you left. Sometimes it's hard with family because sometimes you have to choose between living your own life or living your parent's, brother's, etc. What's your sister's sun sign?
My unstable mother was a Leo and she was the same way - she wanted to be the center of attention, and wanted us kids to take care of her. She wanted us to brush her hair and cook her meals and clean the house and buy her stuff and take her places. Yet she was a mean spirited person. She tried everything she could and my older sister ended up staying. I ran as fast as I could as soon as I could LOL.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by NataliaaaWhat do you mean hard on Scorpios and I wouldn't know? I've been with a Scorpio before. I was just asking a question. I didn't realize that you lived with them and had first hand experience in the situation with his mother.Posted by saggurl88No I lived with them for a while, and I left this dynamic.
You think maybe it's an excuse to get out of seeing you? You Scorpios can be draining and demanding of someones time. But you won't go against his mother or at least what he says about her.
Ever think he could just be lying?
hahaha why is everybody so hard on scorpios anyway? but you wouldn't know, would you? you are a Venus in Scorpio yourself lol
I genuinely was wondering if he was just trying not to hurt your feeling by using her as an excuse.click to expand
Posted by NataliaaaOh I get it. Yeah having Scorpio in my chart helps some. I get Scorpios pretty well and the manipulation doesn’t work on me. I can see it coming a mile away. It’s wasted effort 🤣🤣🤣Posted by saggurl88Posted by NataliaaaWhat do you mean hard on Scorpios and I wouldn't know? I've been with a Scorpio before. I was just asking a question. I didn't realize that you lived with them and had first hand experience in the situation with his mother.Posted by saggurl88No I lived with them for a while, and I left this dynamic.
You think maybe it's an excuse to get out of seeing you? You Scorpios can be draining and demanding of someones time. But you won't go against his mother or at least what he says about her.
Ever think he could just be lying?
hahaha why is everybody so hard on scorpios anyway? but you wouldn't know, would you? you are a Venus in Scorpio yourself lol
I genuinely was wondering if he was just trying not to hurt your feeling by using her as an excuse.
It means that sometimes people are just weird about scorpios with all that manipulation and apprehension and stuff, of course I've been there being a Scorp stellium myself hehe but we're not all like that!
And having your Venus there makes you understand a lot of that energy in yourself, especially if you're a woman.
haha I didn't explain myself enough, sorry ! :·)click to expand