Sag. man and Libra woman..whatcha thinks

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by librabra on Friday, February 8, 2008 and has 12 replies.
Ok, I have been married to a Sag. now for 8 years. YES 8 years =D The first few years were kinda rocky roadish and he was all infatuated with me. NOW its just the opposite ..so I'm like WHAT IS GOING ON !!!
He is 4 years younger than I am and when I met him ...I just knew he was the one when I was in his arms. And we have been through some hard stuff but we seem to not be able to live without wach other. When I am around him..I'm always wanting him and he has kinda calmed down ..but I am starting to get worse.
Doe anyone know if this is in Libra and Sags charts?? HELP!!!
Talking about infatuation... how old are you, librabra? (hope you don't mind me asking)
Laughing I'm 32 =D
and no I don't mind you asking..
BTW I'm a pretty in your face person..so ask me anything you want EXCEPT MY STREET ADDRESS!! HAHA
It gets worse when you reach the 40s
Laughing How can this get any worse..REALLY THOUGH!!! HAHA
The operative word is 'companion' since he believes that man by nature is not desigened to be monogamous. The person he wants in life is some one he trusts and cares for (love is not in the picture) ... suave, sophesticated and very articulate... IMPECABLE .. and her early forties.
(love is not in the picture)
I'm sorry he has no control over this though. It sounds like he is scared of "real" love. I guess b/c a woman would hold such power of him.
AHHH love ...the stakes are so high at times..but LIBRA is willing to go down with the ship =) Thats prob. the worst part about my sign...
with sags it is more of a mindset that anything else.. you change the frame and they act differently.

Yes, this is true. His friends have a lot of influence over him but not to the point where he would do anything crazy..
AHH *HITS HEAD* his friends and the need to be with Sad
This is a crazy issue going on right now..but as we are getting closer ..I'm strarting to become more possessive..jealous of his friends. I'm not sure why I'm getting this way either and it completely sucks. ANy suggestions??
All I can suggest is that you cannot keep him captured from the sound of it. I think you may need to come up with a huge amount of patience and understanding. It's best if he can roam around you than in other territory.

*living* with and being married to are in fact to me two separate things. The fact he was not married to libra shouts out a lot esp. after 8 years. Theres no way I would be living with this man and by now he not marry me ( call me old fashioned) but my watch doesn't work like that lol.
So for this combo there is no real commitment. However, in my case I have a husband. And no lol, he does not visit other women..my god I would would go ape!!
I completely trust him... the issue is with me I think.
In fact, we talked about this last night. I get jealous if he wants to spend time with anyone but me. I know it sounds crazy but its something that has just recently occured and I'm not really sure why. But maybe its a stage...
LOL we even did that catch me test the other night..

Yup! I can't believe myself sometimes. I think that driving my car is sexy. I check out men in their sexy cars. Does that sound normal?
Umm actually ...yes =)
lol
I think that driving my car is sexy
Esp. if you drive a *sexy* car *wink
relation with asked him to marry her. I made a comment saying 'oh oh... wrong thing to say to a sag...'.
Yea..I would have never asked my Sag. to marry me..but I was thinking how it would be from the 1st date. That is just how libra thinks :MARRIAGE:: haha
I love it when some one gets jealous once in a while.. but living with someone who can get jealous of friends or internet chat or something else.. it is very trying. I mean VERY trying.
Yea, the other night I held my Sag. tight which for some reason he likes but is not a invade your space type guy lol I pick on him about it..because I love being as close as I can get to him. But anyway, we actually talked about this jealousy issue and he said he was flattered. But then I told him I didn't really "like" feeling this way. So I need to work on me... its not him ..its me being stupid I guess haha
I think is a stage in marriage or something b/c I have never felt like this before. And yes, when I get close to him its like fireworks going off that can't stop. VERY strong physical, mental, and everything else attraction... I really can't explain it, but theres no getting around that feeling and its extremely hard to control too. Kinda sucks!! HAHA
Well...ok for along time I pushed him away b/c of how I felt. And, well maybe now its reversed for some reason.
I know of only one libra/sag couple.. sag woman and libra man actually. and they were the very best as it can get. Libra man was so proud of her, and loved to listen to her and they both had this "ne sais quoi" that you can feel, made for eachother type.
He died of a heart attack in his forties.. she is just trying to collect herself. till this day I have no courage to talk to her abt him... they were a world apart.
How incredibly sad =*(
If I lost my Sag. I would be soo lost forever.... I can't even think about it.

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