She doesnt compliment me at all..im her 21 year old daughter..when I tell her hey mom what do you think of my pic..she look at it and doesn't respond..she always say my friends are ugly and I shouldn't walk with them..sometimes I feel she is poor and wealthy racist.you know what I mean ?..she always says she is from big family and always says my father is an asshole redneck man and you guys grew up to be like him..why is she like that ?..she has no love for her family..us
sag mom is bothering me


Put her chart up here, if you want.
I have no idea about charts but she was born on December 14,1964

Posted by lololala
I have no idea about charts but she was born on December 14,1964
Do you know where she was born and at what time?
That will make the houses accurate.
If not, here's what I got:
Aries Moon, Cap Mercury, Scorp Venus.
Pluto, Uranus and Mars are all conjunct in Virgo... and all three square her sun in Sag.
It would be interesting if you had the time she was born-- the Sun also squares Chiron
(in Pisces), but again-- we don't know what house.
Sun square Chiron
The harsher contacts can bring out rage, anger and frustration stemming
from a lack of self-worth or a blow to the ego. It can be hard for the
individual to express their inner needs, ideas, and emotions when Chiron
is adversely affected in transits.... If the natal Chiron has stressful
aspects, they can find that the years before mid-life are difficult, that
they have to struggle to assert themselves. There can be frustration and
resentment related to their position in life.

Da fuck is all this coddling?
she probably wants you to move your redneck ass out her house and get your own life. She wants you to be an adult but you too busy begging for compliments on a picture.
she probably wants you to move your redneck ass out her house and get your own life. She wants you to be an adult but you too busy begging for compliments on a picture.

Posted by KVZZMIR11
OP...
You are 21, your mother doesn't owe you shit!
Get off your ass and stand on your own 2 feet.
omg +1
You probably give her a headache with all this foolishness.

Posted by NemesisPosted by lololala
She doesnt compliment me at all..im her 21 year old daughter..when I tell her hey mom what do you think of my pic..she look at it and doesn't respond..she always say my friends are ugly and I shouldn't walk with them..sometimes I feel she is poor and wealthy racist.you know what I mean ?..she always says she is from big family and always says my father is an asshole redneck man and you guys grew up to be like him..why is she like that ?..she has no love for her family..us
count your blessings you did not have a capricorn mother.
was not breast-fed or pampered. here take the bottle and hurry up, mama has an appointment in 10....
by the time i entered school i was basically a grown up. and had to bring home the bacon. it's a hard life. buckle up and be prepared.click to expand
Damn ... polar opposite of a Cap dad.
What is her moon?
*curious*

Posted by Montgomery
Pluto, Uranus and Mars are all conjunct in Virgo... and all three square her sun in Sag.
I know someone with this. She's very hard on herself, and negative. But she doesn't have issues with other people, just herself.

She's one of the nicest people I've ever met, actually 🙂
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by lololala
I have no idea about charts but she was born on December 14,1964
Do you know where she was born and at what time?
That will make the houses accurate.
If not, here's what I got:
Aries Moon, Cap Mercury, Scorp Venus.
Pluto, Uranus and Mars are all conjunct in Virgo... and all three square her sun in Sag.
It would be interesting if you had the time she was born-- the Sun also squares Chiron
(in Pisces), but again-- we don't know what house.
Sun square Chiron
The harsher contacts can bring out rage, anger and frustration stemming
from a lack of self-worth or a blow to the ego. It can be hard for the
individual to express their inner needs, ideas, and emotions when Chiron
is adversely affected in transits.... If the natal Chiron has stressful
aspects, they can find that the years before mid-life are difficult, that
they have to struggle to assert themselves. There can be frustration and
resentment related to their position in life.
click to expand
I actually dont wanna say where she was born for privacy reasons lol..but I didnt know she has an aries part..I hate aries..now I understood..its in her sign
Posted by CuriousramPosted by lololala
She doesnt compliment me at all..im her 21 year old daughter..when I tell her hey mom what do you think of my pic..she look at it and doesn't respond..she always say my friends are ugly and I shouldn't walk with them..sometimes I feel she is poor and wealthy racist.you know what I mean ?..she always says she is from big family and always says my father is an asshole redneck man and you guys grew up to be like him..why is she like that ?..she has no love for her family..us
Lol sounds like my sga mom... expect the redneck thingclick to expand
High five bro im not alone at this
Posted by feby
Yeah sounds like the sag grandma in my life. Very critical of others and very judge-y on looks and appearances. Always has something to say and very needy and demanding.
She means well though....her saving grace.
my grand ma was like that too.(her mom)..but she was a scorpio
Posted by starlover
Good info Monty xx
Aries moon, not the most mature emotionally, Scorpio Venus (in fall), if not aware of or worked on can be revengeful and spiteful. These two planets are quincunx which means they are not in harmonious aspect to each other or don't *get each other* ~ they will fight each other
What sign are you (((lolo)))?
Im scorpio I feel like we dont like the same things at all
Posted by KVZZMIR11
OP...
You are 21, your mother doesn't owe you shit!
In my country we dont get outside the house until we marry or old enough like 35 or 40 to live on our own..so im stucked in the house with her..im the one who if someone hate will go away and never come back
Get off your ass and stand on your own 2 feet.
Posted by DMV
Da fuck is all this coddling?
she probably wants you to move your redneck ass out her house and get your own life. She wants you to be an adult but you too busy begging for compliments on a picture.
so you stucked with the picture part..its like she hate my look and who I am...I cant move my ass until I marry
Posted by jeannegreyPosted by lololala
She doesnt compliment me at all..im her 21 year old daughter..when I tell her hey mom what do you think of my pic..she look at it and doesn't respond..she always say my friends are ugly and I shouldn't walk with them..sometimes I feel she is poor and wealthy racist.you know what I mean ?..she always says she is from big family and always says my father is an asshole redneck man and you guys grew up to be like him..why is she like that ?..she has no love for her family..us
My mother is like this. It used to KILL me inside. I have never once heard anything nice about myself from her. But then as I got older I realized she also didn't think anything positive about herself either. At some point I realized that her lack of empathy and emotional closeness with me had NOTHING TO DO with me, but everything to do with her and how she is with herself and everyone else. I decided I wasn't going to take it personally (as hard as that is, since she is my mom after all) and that I wasn't going to be like her either. I am sorry you have to deal with this. Our parents should be our biggest lights in the sky, encouraging us and loving us??_ being there for us and raising us up, not down. But, if she can't do it, its not because of you. Remember that, all those issues came long before you ever were born.
click to expand
I guess you are right..but she loves herself endlessly and always brag about how beautiful and feminine she is when she was young..over bragging..but yeah I had to deal with it she has a good sidea too but I was wondering if all sag women ate like that
Posted by DwellingOnMovePosted by lololala
..she always says she is from big family and always says my father is an asshole redneck man and you guys grew up to be like him..
My mom was Aries/Taurus cusp with Mars in Cancer. She was most of the time an angel. But when she was angry (bursts predicted for cancerian Mars) her behavior was like your mother's. She 'd tell how my father came from a poor family, had no affection and my elder brother would be a copy of him, a cruel man without affection.click to expand
aries are fking crazy they always brag..I have 2 aries friends who have this issue too..bragging is in their sign..mom has an aries moon
Posted by starloverPosted by KVZZMIR11
OP...
You are 21, your mother doesn't owe you shit!
Get off your ass and stand on your own 2 feet.
Parenting is for life, not for just a few years lol
A parent owes the person she brought into the world love, respect and nurturing.click to expand
Thats what im saying dude..thanks
Posted by NemesisPosted by lololala
She doesnt compliment me at all..im her 21 year old daughter..when I tell her hey mom what do you think of my pic..she look at it and doesn't respond..she always say my friends are ugly and I shouldn't walk with them..sometimes I feel she is poor and wealthy racist.you know what I mean ?..she always says she is from big family and always says my father is an asshole redneck man and you guys grew up to be like him..why is she like that ?..she has no love for her family..us
count your blessings you did not have a capricorn mother.
was not breast-fed or pampered. here take the bottle and hurry up, mama has an appointment in 10....
by the time i entered school i was basically a grown up. and had to bring home the bacon. it's a hard life. buckle up and be prepared.click to expand
Im sorry for you dude..I had a capricorn bf and I know what r u talking about

Posted by lololala
I guess you are right..but she loves herself endlessly and always brag about how beautiful and feminine she is when she was young..over bragging..but yeah I had to deal with it she has a good sidea too but I was wondering if all sag women ate like that
Yanno, I've read other complaints from water signs about their Sag mom...how she acted more like a sister than a mother
I guess it would seem that way

Posted by starloverPosted by KVZZMIR11
OP...
You are 21, your mother doesn't owe you shit!
Get off your ass and stand on your own 2 feet.
Parenting is for life, not for just a few years lol
A parent owes the person she brought into the world love, respect and nurturing.click to expand
+1

Posted by KVZZMIR11
How old is your mother, mid-late 50s?
Your mother has come of an age where she requires her child to show her some gratitude, or at least reduce her stress.
You are GIVING her stress!
This is not good.
I agree.
though not sure if she gets the point. teeny.

yesterday I watched the movie "Georgia Rules".
The daughter was most of the time mad at her mother.
Then again she had to face that she had missed what was going wrong with her own daughter's life. For years.
The daughter was most of the time mad at her mother.
Then again she had to face that she had missed what was going wrong with her own daughter's life. For years.

If I remember right, your family is middle eastern in origin. I had a middle eastern friend who's mom was like this in many ways (a virgo, though). Her parents grew up over seas, so they had a lot of old world thinking. They treated her with more disdain because they had a girl first, when they wanted a son first, made a huge deal about her brothers when they finally had boys. Her mom and her used to get into actual cat fights, complete with scratching each other. It was a far cry from how I was raised. So, maybe culture has something to do with it, not just her sign.

I wonder that raising little Scorpios must be tough, your either gonna get a happy little Scorp, or a totally angsty one.
Raising an angsty Scorpio child like lololalala will probably leave Sag mom wondering where she went wrong, not that anyones at fault of course...but there it is
Raising an angsty Scorpio child like lololalala will probably leave Sag mom wondering where she went wrong, not that anyones at fault of course...but there it is

I agree about culture as well
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