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Posted by FUM
SagChick -- to me, yes there is. To him .. all I know is he kept bouncing back. Eventhough I refused to meet him for 2 years... his insisting emails didn't stop. He used to email me few times a week. This can't be only about the chase, i think, could it?

Posted by Sag89
I think both signs see commitment different. That is what I have come to decided. And it's really hard.

Posted by SagChick411Posted by FUM
SagChick -- to me, yes there is. To him .. all I know is he kept bouncing back. Eventhough I refused to meet him for 2 years... his insisting emails didn't stop. He used to email me few times a week. This can't be only about the chase, i think, could it?
I don't think it's just about the 'chase' atal. He clearly likes you but maybe isn't taking how you feel about him seriously? Sags love to joke around and stuff so if you two have got great banter anyway and then you tell him how you feel he may think you're just saying it.
Sagis generally (from what I know) don't really talk of 'real' feelings. I guess the men are worse in that way as they try and protect themselves by making everything lighthearted. It can come across as not being serious (ESPECIALLY to a Scorp who takes everything seriously more or less)
From my experience there is NO way a Sag man will chase for that long if he genuinely didn't have deeper feelings for you.click to expand



Posted by FUM
my Aries daughter explained to me. She said, he is laughing at my emotions for how I react is funny to him.
hm.
could this be true?


Posted by DMV
ive considered bodily harm many times, but they would make me take my weave out in jail. NO DEAL!

Posted by SagChick411Posted by FUM
SagChick -- to me, yes there is. To him .. all I know is he kept bouncing back. Eventhough I refused to meet him for 2 years... his insisting emails didn't stop. He used to email me few times a week. This can't be only about the chase, i think, could it?
I don't think it's just about the 'chase' atal. He clearly likes you but maybe isn't taking how you feel about him seriously? Sags love to joke around and stuff so if you two have got great banter anyway and then you tell him how you feel he may think you're just saying it.
Sagis generally (from what I know) don't really talk of 'real' feelings. I guess the men are worse in that way as they try and protect themselves by making everything lighthearted. It can come across as not being serious (ESPECIALLY to a Scorp who takes everything seriously more or less)
From my experience there is NO way a Sag man will chase for that long if he genuinely didn't have deeper feelings for you.click to expand






Posted by clunkclickeverytrip
But you, little cat lady are right, both these signs are so so sensitive !! They need nurture, watering daily and preening...the occasional pruning and lots ove love and light ! Maybe even a cool and breezy air to blow away those cobbywebs !

Posted by luckystar007Posted by clunkclickeverytrip
But you, little cat lady are right, both these signs are so so sensitive !! They need nurture, watering daily and preening...the occasional pruning and lots ove love and light ! Maybe even a cool and breezy air to blow away those cobbywebs !
You are such a sweet-talker 😉
But not BOTH signs.......just Scorps are super sensitive & controlling!!! Sags don't need that kind of "nurture" as you said... we just need space & freedom above all!!! And Sags are happiest people in this world because we are the most "optimistic" out of 12 signs 🙂click to expand


Posted by everevolvingepithet
Are you subtly saying you have a complaint, miss ?
Libras are the judge judy's of the zodiac. Please ire away if you do so wish 🙂

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I guess it helps to shine a light on such subjects though, it gives an insight or look-in to the fascinating world of the Saggy mind.
🙂

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by luckystar007Posted by clunkclickeverytrip
But you, little cat lady are right, both these signs are so so sensitive !! They need nurture, watering daily and preening...the occasional pruning and lots ove love and light ! Maybe even a cool and breezy air to blow away those cobbywebs !
You are such a sweet-talker 😉
But not BOTH signs.......just Scorps are super sensitive & controlling!!! Sags don't need that kind of "nurture" as you said... we just need space & freedom above all!!! And Sags are happiest people in this world because we are the most "optimistic" out of 12 signs 🙂
I think Mr.Clunk Click was right and you saggy's can be quite sensitive...I'm just adding my diplomatic non-judgement Libran opinion to the proceedings here. 🙂click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by luckystar007Posted by clunkclickeverytrip
But you, little cat lady are right, both these signs are so so sensitive !! They need nurture, watering daily and preening...the occasional pruning and lots ove love and light ! Maybe even a cool and breezy air to blow away those cobbywebs !
You are such a sweet-talker 😉
But not BOTH signs.......just Scorps are super sensitive & controlling!!! Sags don't need that kind of "nurture" as you said... we just need space & freedom above all!!! And Sags are happiest people in this world because we are the most "optimistic" out of 12 signs 🙂
I think Mr.Clunk Click was right and you saggy's can be quite sensitive...I'm just adding my diplomatic non-judgement Libran opinion to the proceedings here. 🙂click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Stop what ?
That guy was being insightful, even in the midst of his plight (see the Leo board).

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Stop what ?
That guy was being insightful, even in the midst of his plight (see the Leo board).


Posted by LigeiaPosted by SagChick411Posted by FUM
SagChick -- to me, yes there is. To him .. all I know is he kept bouncing back. Eventhough I refused to meet him for 2 years... his insisting emails didn't stop. He used to email me few times a week. This can't be only about the chase, i think, could it?
I don't think it's just about the 'chase' atal. He clearly likes you but maybe isn't taking how you feel about him seriously? Sags love to joke around and stuff so if you two have got great banter anyway and then you tell him how you feel he may think you're just saying it.
Sagis generally (from what I know) don't really talk of 'real' feelings. I guess the men are worse in that way as they try and protect themselves by making everything lighthearted. It can come across as not being serious (ESPECIALLY to a Scorp who takes everything seriously more or less)
From my experience there is NO way a Sag man will chase for that long if he genuinely didn't have deeper feelings for you.
Let's be real here, 5 years is nothing but
TIME! Doesn't give any weight to their
"relationship" clearly, because they haven't
progressed at all to anything "substantial".
And Fum is unhappy and in the dark. It seems
like he deals with her when he's having a lull
period in his life. And she's been more than
willing to comply.
@ Fum
You're story with this Sag has some holes and
I'm just not getting what the hell is going
on with you two smh,lol.click to expand

Posted by EISREGEN
sags and scorpios are just not made for each other...... or... are they?
I don't know. All I know is that we all are gonna end up in hell....
(but the sex is too good, isn't it? 😄)

Posted by DMV
DAMMIT FUM!
are we living identical lives—? i relate to alot of what you said. one word. MISUNDERSTANDINGS!
just when you think youve figured each other out BAM ZOOM POW right in the kisser. square one? naw, never that. your progressing, just at a slow pace. ive mentioned to a few other people, you must be willing to take the road less traveled and try a new approach... eh?
as a frightful scorpio moon dealing with an unstable and intimidating scorpio man, he is undoubtedly my equal. but that doesnt mean i like his stankin ass all the time. ive considered bodily harm many times, but they would make me take my weave out in jail. NO DEAL!
anyways. i find him to be intimidating at times. such a 8 ball. do i talk to him? do i not? what do i talk to him about? am i just another girl whose completely wrapped up in him. im probably not the only one trying to be the only one (thanks Drake). but i promised myself, that i would be the one to give him the best ride of his life, for worse or better. lets see how crazy this mofo can really get. i want tears dammit! plus maybe something else...
you stated yourself, you cant turn away. so why should you? damn you Drake and your catchy ass verses...YOLO..you only live once.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I guess it helps to shine a light on such subjects though, it gives an insight or look-in to the fascinating world of the Saggy mind. 🙂

Posted by brianafay
Scorps are just so serious and sensitive sometimes....oy veyyyy
I feel like there's just a disconnect...we're not in sync.
We think you're funny when you're not trying to be...you don't know how to take us half the time...think we "play too much."
*shrugs*

Posted by luckystar007Posted by everevolvingepithet
Stop what ?
That guy was being insightful, even in the midst of his plight (see the Leo board).
Just came back...look like you want to continue...—
I don't know who is "that guy"...because I don't care who he is......at all!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just say what I think......one of Sag's nature... Plus, I talk to people "equally"...no matter who they are.......just another nature of Sags... 🙂
You are lucky to learn all such "great natures" of Sags from Sag board... welcome here 😉click to expand

Posted by FUM
Thank you so much for your input, everyone! 😄
I see most of you agreed on Sag & Scorpio having a different perspective to commitment. Where are the differences?
To me 'commitment' is just being interested in one person. I wouldn't want anyone else to come closer to me (physically). That would include a 'casual' relation to which I can feel committed to. Which happened with this SAG and me. Also some other Sag man in the past. And I would make sure NOT to give out any 'false' body language to anyone who would show interest in me. Let's say, if the guy would openly, that is 'verbally' show interest in me, then I would tell him I am seeing someone else or I'm with someone.
Although, I must say... eventhough I wouldn't flirt with someone else either, I have been mistaken for flirting in the past. Which I didn't... it was more like a battle of the wits, but the Virgo guy thought I was interested in him.
So anyway. What's the difference when you say Sagittarius type of 'commitment'?

Posted by FUMPosted by DMV
DAMMIT FUM!
are we living identical lives—? i relate to alot of what you said. one word. MISUNDERSTANDINGS!
just when you think youve figured each other out BAM ZOOM POW right in the kisser. square one? naw, never that. your progressing, just at a slow pace. ive mentioned to a few other people, you must be willing to take the road less traveled and try a new approach... eh?
as a frightful scorpio moon dealing with an unstable and intimidating scorpio man, he is undoubtedly my equal. but that doesnt mean i like his stankin ass all the time. ive considered bodily harm many times, but they would make me take my weave out in jail. NO DEAL!
anyways. i find him to be intimidating at times. such a 8 ball. do i talk to him? do i not? what do i talk to him about? am i just another girl whose completely wrapped up in him. im probably not the only one trying to be the only one (thanks Drake). but i promised myself, that i would be the one to give him the best ride of his life, for worse or better. lets see how crazy this mofo can really get. i want tears dammit! plus maybe something else...
you stated yourself, you cant turn away. so why should you? damn you Drake and your catchy ass verses...YOLO..you only live once.
HAH! 😄
this is painful and funny at the same time.
The last time he blocked me off FB, I think he was jealous thinking I went with someone to a trip. He always asks questions in a nonchalant way, but suddenly he turned quiet. Blocked me. Then wrote me some business-like email of why he removed me from FB... some lame excuse like 'I'm outsourcing my FB', kinda lame one.
Then 2 weeks later he came around, I told him that I resent being deleted and blocked like that. He said, 'who cares.. it's just a social media and not to be trusted anyway'.
then I bombarded him with long and emotional emails. If he wants to deal with me, then deal in a realistic way. LOL
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Posted by FUM
Perhaps ...
i'm just adventure to him.
I'm a forbidden fruit. I don't fit the norm, so it must be exciting.

Posted by FUMPosted by everevolvingepithet
I guess it helps to shine a light on such subjects though, it gives an insight or look-in to the fascinating world of the Saggy mind. 🙂
true. Saggies are fascinating 😄click to expand

Posted by EISREGEN
scorpios are the best fucks in the world.
just saying.
damn,
besides of that they are just nuts.
whateva. I love it.
com'on baby manipulate me a little, cry a little,
make me go insane a little
and then fuck me all night long
😄 😄 😄


Posted by DMVPosted by FUM
Perhaps ...
i'm just adventure to him.
I'm a forbidden fruit. I don't fit the norm, so it must be exciting.
you very well could be an adventure to him. sag men are easy, imo. you have to give them rules EARLY on. if you dont, they will treat you anyway they feel and youll be stuck waiting for the phone to ring. tell him straight up what you want and it he wants differently. there ya go. but you have to mean it and follow thru!
i need this kind of tough love all the time to keep me from messing around with dudes and continually taking them for granted. i havent found one guy, even the scorp, who will put the brakes on me and mean it. many of tried, none have been sucessful. i always resort back unless there are severe consequences, then i laugh in there face and ask them "who run this?"click to expand


Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by luckystar007Posted by clunkclickeverytrip
But you, little cat lady are right, both these signs are so so sensitive !! They need nurture, watering daily and preening...the occasional pruning and lots ove love and light ! Maybe even a cool and breezy air to blow away those cobbywebs !
You are such a sweet-talker 😉
But not BOTH signs.......just Scorps are super sensitive & controlling!!! Sags don't need that kind of "nurture" as you said... we just need space & freedom above all!!! And Sags are happiest people in this world because we are the most "optimistic" out of 12 signs 🙂
I think Mr.Clunk Click was right and you saggy's can be quite sensitiveclick to expand

Posted by EISREGEN
scorpios are the best fucks in the world.
just saying.
damn,
besides of that they are just nuts.
whateva. I love it.
com'on baby manipulate me a little, cry a little,
make me go insane a little
and then fuck me all night long
😄 😄 😄
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I will call him 'MY Sag man'. He is not, but it is almost getting to 5 years of a mysterious relationship we are both anticipating. The chemistry is undeniable. But do we talk the same language?
He wants sex. I want friendship first.
I DON'T WANT casual sex!
Doesn't this seem clear within ONE sentence of what we want from each other?
He doesn't give me what I want.
I don't give him what he wants.
We both are stuck in a wheel train like the movie "Groundhog Day"!
The same repeats and repeats and repeats... There are different little scenarios each time. Each time, I hope he understands me. We get close. He makes an effort. But oh why do we end up with same result— He says something that pisses me off. I feel misunderstood. Then we get this period of silence. Each time I think, "IT IS OVER NOW!". But then it starts again. We both are stuck in the wheels of time. Same Day... with love for each other, that we cannot express.