Sag women help me

This topic was created in the Sagittarius Women forum by Coby on Friday, July 28, 2017 and has 20 replies.
Are there any of you sag women who have a mate but also have someone on the side?
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Posted by lionspark
my friend did. she had a bf-long distance and someone just for sex (fwbs)

fwb knew about her bf, bf didn't know about the fwb.
Ok I'm actually the fwbs in this case. However I have prior history with her and she has a boyfriend she only sees weekly. She and I talk all the time. Wakes me up every morning to talk and sometimes up late talking. She talks mostly but I chime in when I find something to say. She tells me she loves me and I know what position I play however it's a bit hard to not want more. However I personally don't know if I could even be with her full-time. I guess what I want to know is, our friendship is rather strong in such a short period. We haven't spoke in over 10 years prior to this recent connection. She gets in her feelings if I date someone else cause I made it clear I'm exploring a poly life style and believe it's something that can be satisfying for me. But the way she's in constant contact and almost seems like she feels obligated to call or talk and I reassure her she's not when she apologizes for not calling me. I don't sweat her but she's on my mind heavy. Help me out lol
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Ok I totally didn't put in what I wanted to ask so, what do you believe she could be doing by all this Invested time and attention?
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No.

I'm no dirtbag
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my friend did. she had a bf-long distance and someone just for sex (fwbs)

fwb knew about her bf, bf didn't know about the fwb.
Ok I'm actually the fwbs in this case. However I have prior history with her and she has a boyfriend she only sees weekly. She and I talk all the time. Wakes me up every morning to talk and sometimes up late talking. She talks mostly but I chime in when I find something to say. She tells me she loves me and I know what position I play however it's a bit hard to not want more. However I personally don't know if I could even be with her full-time. I guess what I want to know is, our friendship is rather strong in such a short period. We haven't spoke in over 10 years prior to this recent connection. She gets in her feelings if I date someone else cause I made it clear I'm exploring a poly life style and believe it's something that can be satisfying for me. But the way she's in constant contact and almost seems like she feels obligated to call or talk and I reassure her she's not when she apologizes for not calling me. I don't sweat her but she's on my mind heavy. Help me out lol
it sounds like you really care about her, but from her pov she might not want more because she has a bf. does her bf know about you by any chance? being the other man..does not really help your situation.

also what is your sign?

if we're forgetting about the morals. just date who you want to, because technically you two are not together together. fwb does not chain you to one person, like a relationship would

I've known a lot of sags and most gave the time and attention just because they're good friends, treat you the way they want to be treated etc.

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I'm a Gemini and our chemistry is hella strong and I understand she said she has no expectations with anyone she just goes with the flow but our flow always ends in us hooking up whether sexually or casually. I'm not against what she's doing because she's not in love with him. She's not married to him and frankly they have less but at the end of it all she claims him. So I understand he's priority but she would compare us a lot and say how I'm able to understand her and make it known that I make it a priority to get to know someone I do care for. I ask questions and I have gotten her small gifts. I do that for anyone I care for.
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Posted by TheSagLady_
Go with the flow is my way of saying: "i like you but i dont want to put any label now because i can freak out and it's just too much pressure.. but dont you dare talk to another woman! ?"
Possessive much? ??? Gemini don't typically like that type of situation however I just enjoy her that much that I don't give a fuck who she's with, I still get some of her time. I don't feel at all there's a rush I just can't get enough of her... ugh it's too much lmao
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Posted by lionspark
my friend did. she had a bf-long distance and someone just for sex (fwbs)

fwb knew about her bf, bf didn't know about the fwb.
Ok I'm actually the fwbs in this case. However I have prior history with her and she has a boyfriend she only sees weekly. She and I talk all the time. Wakes me up every morning to talk and sometimes up late talking. She talks mostly but I chime in when I find something to say. She tells me she loves me and I know what position I play however it's a bit hard to not want more. However I personally don't know if I could even be with her full-time. I guess what I want to know is, our friendship is rather strong in such a short period. We haven't spoke in over 10 years prior to this recent connection. She gets in her feelings if I date someone else cause I made it clear I'm exploring a poly life style and believe it's something that can be satisfying for me. But the way she's in constant contact and almost seems like she feels obligated to call or talk and I reassure her she's not when she apologizes for not calling me. I don't sweat her but she's on my mind heavy. Help me out lol


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Actually I was in her head for 10+ years. I ended up walking away back then. And here she came almost 3months ago looking for me. Now I'd say she's in my head lol but I'm working on not getting super attached.

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my friend did. she had a bf-long distance and someone just for sex (fwbs)

fwb knew about her bf, bf didn't know about the fwb.
Ok I'm actually the fwbs in this case. However I have prior history with her and she has a boyfriend she only sees weekly. She and I talk all the time. Wakes me up every morning to talk and sometimes up late talking. She talks mostly but I chime in when I find something to say. She tells me she loves me and I know what position I play however it's a bit hard to not want more. However I personally don't know if I could even be with her full-time. I guess what I want to know is, our friendship is rather strong in such a short period. We haven't spoke in over 10 years prior to this recent connection. She gets in her feelings if I date someone else cause I made it clear I'm exploring a poly life style and believe it's something that can be satisfying for me. But the way she's in constant contact and almost seems like she feels obligated to call or talk and I reassure her she's not when she apologizes for not calling me. I don't sweat her but she's on my mind heavy. Help me out lol
it sounds like you really care about her, but from her pov she might not want more because she has a bf. does her bf know about you by any chance? being the other man..does not really help your situation.

also what is your sign?

if we're forgetting about the morals. just date who you want to, because technically you two are not together together. fwb does not chain you to one person, like a relationship would

I've known a lot of sags and most gave the time and attention just because they're good friends, treat you the way they want to be treated etc.

I'm a Gemini and our chemistry is hella strong and I understand she said she has no expectations with anyone she just goes with the flow but our flow always ends in us hooking up whether sexually or casually. I'm not against what she's doing because she's not in love with him. She's not married to him and frankly they have less but at the end of it all she claims him. So I understand he's priority but she would compare us a lot and say how I'm able to understand her and make it known that I make it a priority to get to know someone I do care for. I ask questions and I have gotten her small gifts. I do that for anyone I care for.
Don't get too atached emotionally. IMO your relationship is the real one since it's more legit and there's sex

If I were you I'd just go with the flow and enjoy the real love, even if it's temporary
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I totally feel you. I am checking myself and taking time not to call or text. I just found myself recently feeling like I am getting too attached to her. I really love this woman and we are even more close than I could ever imagine. I love the friendship we have more than anything. I'm trying to pace myself and I offer my company when she needs it. We have plans to chill with her boss and then we are going to a festival up in NYC at the end of august. She's excited for that to spend the whole day with me.

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Go with the flow is my way of saying: "i like you but i dont want to put any label now because i can freak out and it's just too much pressure.. but dont you dare talk to another woman! ?"
Possessive much? ??? Gemini don't typically like that type of situation however I just enjoy her that much that I don't give a fuck who she's with, I still get some of her time. I don't feel at all there's a rush I just can't get enough of her... ugh it's too much lmao


Yaaaa i dont blame you.. the magnetic pull between a sag and a gem is just tooo much ??

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It really is. It's like super easy like grilled cheese easy. ??? we just melt together so perfectly. She actually makes me want to be better as a person.

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slut indeed.

until she leaves bf,

feelings are false.
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I would never fall for someone if Im the person they are cheating on their bf with.

If shes cheating on him, the same will happen to me when I get in a relationship with her.

If I even caught a hint of a cheater catching the feels when we're bumping, I'm outta town the next second.

Bottom line if you're not happy in a relationship, communicate the problem. If problem isnt being worked on or something that could not be fixed if communicated, then leave.

I'm almost thankful I've gone through the most hellish traumatic personal experiences during the times I was single.

It taught me to be independent and not lean on anyone except genuine friends.

I always have a one foot out the door mentality if I am being treated unjustly like crap. But then again I have a moon and mars in sagittarius Winking

But life is too short to stay reeking of bullsh-t.

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I would never fall for someone if Im the person they are cheating on their bf with.

If shes cheating on him, the same will happen to me when I get in a relationship with her.

If I even caught a hint of a cheater catching the feels when we're bumping, I'm outta town the next second.

Bottom line if you're not happy in a relationship, communicate the problem. If problem isnt being worked on or something that could not be fixed if communicated, then leave.

I'm almost thankful I've gone through the most hellish traumatic personal experiences during the times I was single.

It taught me to be independent and not lean on anyone except genuine friends.

I always have a one foot out the door mentality if I am being treated unjustly like crap. But then again I have a moon and mars in sagittarius Winking

But life is too short to stay reeking of bullsh-t.

To be completely honest I know it's wrong, I just feel like I'm open to possibilities. I typically close myself off to shit like this and wouldn't entertain it. It just all happened so effortlessly. I know I can't really trust it completely but if in the end we just remain friends I want that. She's a beautiful person and I just want to be around to see her grow and evolve.
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my friend did. she had a bf-long distance and someone just for sex (fwbs)

fwb knew about her bf, bf didn't know about the fwb.
Ok I'm actually the fwbs in this case. However I have prior history with her and she has a boyfriend she only sees weekly. She and I talk all the time. Wakes me up every morning to talk and sometimes up late talking. She talks mostly but I chime in when I find something to say. She tells me she loves me and I know what position I play however it's a bit hard to not want more. However I personally don't know if I could even be with her full-time. I guess what I want to know is, our friendship is rather strong in such a short period. We haven't spoke in over 10 years prior to this recent connection. She gets in her feelings if I date someone else cause I made it clear I'm exploring a poly life style and believe it's something that can be satisfying for me. But the way she's in constant contact and almost seems like she feels obligated to call or talk and I reassure her she's not when she apologizes for not calling me. I don't sweat her but she's on my mind heavy. Help me out lol


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my friend did. she had a bf-long distance and someone just for sex (fwbs)

fwb knew about her bf, bf didn't know about the fwb.
Ok I'm actually the fwbs in this case. However I have prior history with her and she has a boyfriend she only sees weekly. She and I talk all the time. Wakes me up every morning to talk and sometimes up late talking. She talks mostly but I chime in when I find something to say. She tells me she loves me and I know what position I play however it's a bit hard to not want more. However I personally don't know if I could even be with her full-time. I guess what I want to know is, our friendship is rather strong in such a short period. We haven't spoke in over 10 years prior to this recent connection. She gets in her feelings if I date someone else cause I made it clear I'm exploring a poly life style and believe it's something that can be satisfying for me. But the way she's in constant contact and almost seems like she feels obligated to call or talk and I reassure her she's not when she apologizes for not calling me. I don't sweat her but she's on my mind heavy. Help me out lol


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What more can I say? I love this woman. She and I were so much younger when we first dated and I never gotten to the point of love back then or didn't recognize that feeling coming from someone other than my parents. But this time around even as a side piece I know what we share is love. She randomly sent a text one night saying she loves me. I freaked because it was only a few weeks that we reconnected. Then after a while I realized it's not a bad thing for someone to love me however she stated it being as a friend at first then later admitted it's more than friend love which I knew. I told her and tell her I love her. Our connection is real and it was real back then. But being grown and having more to connect on we have so much in common and our friendship aside from anything romantic is dope. I love going to her for advice. She changed somethings about me that I'm thankful for. But at any rate I told her that I'm interested in having a poly life style . I like the idea of being able to date more than 2 people openly. Us geminis get bored way too easy. Idk if that's a concern but I know she ain't feeling the idea of me fucking with any other women. I can give into what she thinks because then I'll be limited when I don't want to be. She's similar in wanting to do what she wishes.

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my friend did. she had a bf-long distance and someone just for sex (fwbs)

fwb knew about her bf, bf didn't know about the fwb.
Ok I'm actually the fwbs in this case. However I have prior history with her and she has a boyfriend she only sees weekly. She and I talk all the time. Wakes me up every morning to talk and sometimes up late talking. She talks mostly but I chime in when I find something to say. She tells me she loves me and I know what position I play however it's a bit hard to not want more. However I personally don't know if I could even be with her full-time. I guess what I want to know is, our friendship is rather strong in such a short period. We haven't spoke in over 10 years prior to this recent connection. She gets in her feelings if I date someone else cause I made it clear I'm exploring a poly life style and believe it's something that can be satisfying for me. But the way she's in constant contact and almost seems like she feels obligated to call or talk and I reassure her she's not when she apologizes for not calling me. I don't sweat her but she's on my mind heavy. Help me out lol


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What more can I say? I love this woman. She and I were so much younger when we first dated and I never gotten to the point of love back then or didn't recognize that feeling coming from someone other than my parents. But this time around even as a side piece I know what we share is love. She randomly sent a text one night saying she loves me. I freaked because it was only a few weeks that we reconnected. Then after a while I realized it's not a bad thing for someone to love me however she stated it being as a friend at first then later admitted it's more than friend love which I knew. I told her and tell her I love her. Our connection is real and it was real back then. But being grown and having more to connect on we have so much in common and our friendship aside from anything romantic is dope. I love going to her for advice. She changed somethings about me that I'm thankful for. But at any rate I told her that I'm interested in having a poly life style . I like the idea of being able to date more than 2 people openly. Us geminis get bored way too easy. Idk if that's a concern but I know she ain't feeling the idea of me fucking with any other women. I can give into what she thinks because then I'll be limited when I don't want to be. She's similar in wanting to do what she wishes.

How can anyone will be ok with their lovers fking with someone else ?

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I'm logical and if she's gotta man I can still do me regardless lol. That's just my logic. If I can't claim you then yes I am single. I carry myself as such. But still feel drawn only to her. I found this meme that says "Sagittarius and Gemini have a connection that is out of this world. When they fall in love there is no falling out of it!" I truly believe that in the connection part and I can't seem me losing real feelings for me. I might have to suppress or front if and when she decides to marry him. But I just know our chemistry hasn't lost a thing.

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my friend did. she had a bf-long distance and someone just for sex (fwbs)

fwb knew about her bf, bf didn't know about the fwb.
Ok I'm actually the fwbs in this case. However I have prior history with her and she has a boyfriend she only sees weekly. She and I talk all the time. Wakes me up every morning to talk and sometimes up late talking. She talks mostly but I chime in when I find something to say. She tells me she loves me and I know what position I play however it's a bit hard to not want more. However I personally don't know if I could even be with her full-time. I guess what I want to know is, our friendship is rather strong in such a short period. We haven't spoke in over 10 years prior to this recent connection. She gets in her feelings if I date someone else cause I made it clear I'm exploring a poly life style and believe it's something that can be satisfying for me. But the way she's in constant contact and almost seems like she feels obligated to call or talk and I reassure her she's not when she apologizes for not calling me. I don't sweat her but she's on my mind heavy. Help me out lol


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What more can I say? I love this woman. She and I were so much younger when we first dated and I never gotten to the point of love back then or didn't recognize that feeling coming from someone other than my parents. But this time around even as a side piece I know what we share is love. She randomly sent a text one night saying she loves me. I freaked because it was only a few weeks that we reconnected. Then after a while I realized it's not a bad thing for someone to love me however she stated it being as a friend at first then later admitted it's more than friend love which I knew. I told her and tell her I love her. Our connection is real and it was real back then. But being grown and having more to connect on we have so much in common and our friendship aside from anything romantic is dope. I love going to her for advice. She changed somethings about me that I'm thankful for. But at any rate I told her that I'm interested in having a poly life style . I like the idea of being able to date more than 2 people openly. Us geminis get bored way too easy. Idk if that's a concern but I know she ain't feeling the idea of me fucking with any other women. I can give into what she thinks because then I'll be limited when I don't want to be. She's similar in wanting to do what she wishes.

How can anyone will be ok with their lovers fking with someone else ?



I'm logical and if she's gotta man I can still do me regardless lol. That's just my logic. If I can't claim you then yes I am single. I carry myself as such. But still feel drawn only to her. I found this meme that says "Sagittarius and Gemini have a connection that is out of this world. When they fall in love there is no falling out of it!" I truly believe that in the connection part and I can't seem me losing real feelings for me. I might have to suppress or front if and when she decides to marry him. But I just know our chemistry hasn't lost a thing.

What is her man sign?

She love you not him, I know this because I been there, and in my mind I always choose my gem over the other man -but the gemini didn't know about it...I think it will hurt him if he just know.

So u wanna go with other women but she refuse that, when she still with the other man ?? ?

Maybe you need to talk to her about what she really want ?

A lot of times, I don't know what I want...

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Wow u sound like her lol she doesn't really know what she wants. When we first reconnected and she would talk about him she seemed so underwhelmed. I questioned her about if she was in love and said she's not. She said she's never been in love. From what I studied on Sagittarius women they aren't the type to go backwards. They keep it moving. And we are even more close than before. Idk her mans sign. But she's said he's a simple dude. There's no spontaneity with him. He does the dinner, movies, chillan. Her and I have went out to dinner for my birthday, danced the night away in a reggae club, had a workout date on FaceTime lol, actually spent 4th of July together without the intentions, I came to her crib after I worked and spend the night. We got plans at the end of the month to go to NYC and her bosses house for a game night. We love having fun. I can't be bored. We always find something to do when together. She told me on July 4th she could stay all night in my car with me just making out ? Mannnnnn I know she got it bad for me. her circumstances really suck. But it's her choice and I totally get that.

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my friend did. she had a bf-long distance and someone just for sex (fwbs)

fwb knew about her bf, bf didn't know about the fwb.
Ok I'm actually the fwbs in this case. However I have prior history with her and she has a boyfriend she only sees weekly. She and I talk all the time. Wakes me up every morning to talk and sometimes up late talking. She talks mostly but I chime in when I find something to say. She tells me she loves me and I know what position I play however it's a bit hard to not want more. However I personally don't know if I could even be with her full-time. I guess what I want to know is, our friendship is rather strong in such a short period. We haven't spoke in over 10 years prior to this recent connection. She gets in her feelings if I date someone else cause I made it clear I'm exploring a poly life style and believe it's something that can be satisfying for me. But the way she's in constant contact and almost seems like she feels obligated to call or talk and I reassure her she's not when she apologizes for not calling me. I don't sweat her but she's on my mind heavy. Help me out lol


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What more can I say? I love this woman. She and I were so much younger when we first dated and I never gotten to the point of love back then or didn't recognize that feeling coming from someone other than my parents. But this time around even as a side piece I know what we share is love. She randomly sent a text one night saying she loves me. I freaked because it was only a few weeks that we reconnected. Then after a while I realized it's not a bad thing for someone to love me however she stated it being as a friend at first then later admitted it's more than friend love which I knew. I told her and tell her I love her. Our connection is real and it was real back then. But being grown and having more to connect on we have so much in common and our friendship aside from anything romantic is dope. I love going to her for advice. She changed somethings about me that I'm thankful for. But at any rate I told her that I'm interested in having a poly life style . I like the idea of being able to date more than 2 people openly. Us geminis get bored way too easy. Idk if that's a concern but I know she ain't feeling the idea of me fucking with any other women. I can give into what she thinks because then I'll be limited when I don't want to be. She's similar in wanting to do what she wishes.

How can anyone will be ok with their lovers fking with someone else ?



I'm logical and if she's gotta man I can still do me regardless lol. That's just my logic. If I can't claim you then yes I am single. I carry myself as such. But still feel drawn only to her. I found this meme that says "Sagittarius and Gemini have a connection that is out of this world. When they fall in love there is no falling out of it!" I truly believe that in the connection part and I can't seem me losing real feelings for me. I might have to suppress or front if and when she decides to marry him. But I just know our chemistry hasn't lost a thing.

What is her man sign?

She love you not him, I know this because I been there, and in my mind I always choose my gem over the other man -but the gemini didn't know about it...I think it will hurt him if he just know.

So u wanna go with other women but she refuse that, when she still with the other man ?? ?

Maybe you need to talk to her about what she really want ?

A lot of times, I don't know what I want...



Wow u sound like her lol she doesn't really know what she wants. When we first reconnected and she would talk about him she seemed so underwhelmed. I questioned her about if she was in love and said she's not. She said she's never been in love. From what I studied on Sagittarius women they aren't the type to go backwards. They keep it moving. And we are even more close than before. Idk her mans sign. But she's said he's a simple dude. There's no spontaneity with him. He does the dinner, movies, chillan. Her and I have went out to dinner for my birthday, danced the night away in a reggae club, had a workout date on FaceTime lol, actually spent 4th of July together without the intentions, I came to her crib after I worked and spend the night. We got plans at the end of the month to go to NYC and her bosses house for a game night. We love having fun. I can't be bored. We always find something to do when together. She told me on July 4th she could stay all night in my car with me just making out ? Mannnnnn I know she got it bad for me. her circumstances really suck. But it's her choice and I totally get that.

Yeah, its hard for me to know what I want, I need time...and sometimes help.

But when I made my mind, there is no going back.

You and her were together all in these important days...where is her man ? This is weird ?

I think she is waiting for you to tell her that you want her to leave him, she is afraid that you are just in love with this dangerous situation not really in love with her.

Try to talk with her, don't push her...just tell her maybe she need to think about what she really want .it helps.

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I told her that I'm not someone who competes in fact my actions are screaming lol. I had flowers delivered to her job today cause she's going thru something and I just wanted to bring a smile to her face. I wouldn't do that for just anyone. Only my family close friends and simply put people I truly love. I don't budge with her but I think when we get away to NYC I'll bring it up to her. Right now is definitely not the time to mention anything.

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