Saggitarius man pulled away and said he does not want a long distance relationship
This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Lenaanderson on Monday, October 9, 2017 and has 1 replies.
I met a saggitarius guy during my summer vacation in July. He is from Sweden, and I am from Denmark (distance is 8 hours away from eachother). He is 29, I am 19 (soon 20) and I am libra.
But yeah, in my vacation we met each other and we only had 3 days to be together, we just had that chemistry and I fell for him real quick.. He told me that he was in a relationship for not long time ago, they were together 4 years, but he didn't love her enough so he broke up with her, and the relationship just wasn't that good.. But the last day we were together, we kissed and it was so good. I get feelings so fast, I hate it...
When we got back home, we have texted seriously all day everyday! He told me that it was a long time ago he liked a girl that much, that he normally does not like younger girls but there is something about me. He asked to see me again, and we made a date 30. Sept. in Copenhagen. I really thought that we were like "meant to be", but after hmm 3 weeks he started pull away (a week before I waited everyday in 5 days for him to text me first... I dont know why... Normally we texted the first of us who woke up first you know). Yeah so I didn't say anything about it, he texted sometimes every other or every third day, but it was only like 'how are you", "what are you doing" .. It was like that in 3 weeks, I was thinking about it SO much and I began being so sad, because I didn't understand. Then after 3 weeks I said "I have noticed that you have backed of a bit", he said he was busy (I know he was moving into a new appartment). I said okay.. I waited a little over one week (he still texted), and asked if he still was busy. He said no, but he doesn't like being at phone that much. And next day I saw him posting on storys on Snapchat... (I thought he didn't like being at the phone 🤔).. Then again I said that I didn't understand why we used to text that much in the beginning and now that less. He said that it is normally when you meet someone, to text so much in the begining). Then I asked about our date, he said he would tell next day. I said "what is the difference?", then he said his friends could not do it, so he didn't know if he should come (he was going to take his friends with him, because I only could be in Cph one day that weekend). I said "then text me tommorow if you can. Goodnight". He texted he could not, and we should move the date, because he want to see me again. But he could not that day, because he friends could not come and it was a littl time for him to be with me only one day and he also was busy. Then after a couple of days, I texted him that I didn't want to be treated like en option, and I dont want to be a part of a game. That I have liked him since summer, and I thought he was serious because of his age. And if he dosen't want this, then we should stay friends. Because I know what I have been through before. He texted me "You need to understand that we will never have a real relation because of the distance. I thought you understood that, my mistake. Yeah I like you, but I can't do the distance relationship and trust me you won't either. It is okay you searching for more, but we do not have those prerequisites.... I hope you understand". Then I was soooooo sad, because he showed me so much interest....... i texted him "If you really like something then you can. I think you and I can do this. But okay, you have your opinion and I have mine". He said "then it will not workout". I said: "why have you told me you liked me that much, and why would you meet me again?' He said: "that was what I felt. I didn't exactly have some thoughts of why we should meet" he just wanted to.
And "you said from the beginning that we should only keep in toutch"
Then I asked "so we could not be able to be together in the future?"
He said "i dont understand why you think that much about it"
Then I said "but thank you" because I was so sad!!! I was crying so much, and I have been in a relationship with a sag guy for about 9 months ago, where he also made me cry so much. After an hour texted him "I understand we can't do long distance, so let us stay friends". He texted me "hahah that is good". We havn't heard from eachother now in 3 weeks. Have I dont something wrong? Should I fight for him to show him that I really want this? Will he think "she doesent even text me, she was lying about having a relationship".. I just dont know what to do. I am scared he will think that I haven't texted because I lie. I didn't text him more because I am so scared of being rejected and sad again.. What should I do? My birthday is 16. Okt., and I dont know what to do if he doesen't text me that day? ..
But yeah, in my vacation we met each other and we only had 3 days to be together, we just had that chemistry and I fell for him real quick.. He told me that he was in a relationship for not long time ago, they were together 4 years, but he didn't love her enough so he broke up with her, and the relationship just wasn't that good.. But the last day we were together, we kissed and it was so good. I get feelings so fast, I hate it...
When we got back home, we have texted seriously all day everyday! He told me that it was a long time ago he liked a girl that much, that he normally does not like younger girls but there is something about me. He asked to see me again, and we made a date 30. Sept. in Copenhagen. I really thought that we were like "meant to be", but after hmm 3 weeks he started pull away (a week before I waited everyday in 5 days for him to text me first... I dont know why... Normally we texted the first of us who woke up first you know). Yeah so I didn't say anything about it, he texted sometimes every other or every third day, but it was only like 'how are you", "what are you doing" .. It was like that in 3 weeks, I was thinking about it SO much and I began being so sad, because I didn't understand. Then after 3 weeks I said "I have noticed that you have backed of a bit", he said he was busy (I know he was moving into a new appartment). I said okay.. I waited a little over one week (he still texted), and asked if he still was busy. He said no, but he doesn't like being at phone that much. And next day I saw him posting on storys on Snapchat... (I thought he didn't like being at the phone 🤔).. Then again I said that I didn't understand why we used to text that much in the beginning and now that less. He said that it is normally when you meet someone, to text so much in the begining). Then I asked about our date, he said he would tell next day. I said "what is the difference?", then he said his friends could not do it, so he didn't know if he should come (he was going to take his friends with him, because I only could be in Cph one day that weekend). I said "then text me tommorow if you can. Goodnight". He texted he could not, and we should move the date, because he want to see me again. But he could not that day, because he friends could not come and it was a littl time for him to be with me only one day and he also was busy. Then after a couple of days, I texted him that I didn't want to be treated like en option, and I dont want to be a part of a game. That I have liked him since summer, and I thought he was serious because of his age. And if he dosen't want this, then we should stay friends. Because I know what I have been through before. He texted me "You need to understand that we will never have a real relation because of the distance. I thought you understood that, my mistake. Yeah I like you, but I can't do the distance relationship and trust me you won't either. It is okay you searching for more, but we do not have those prerequisites.... I hope you understand". Then I was soooooo sad, because he showed me so much interest....... i texted him "If you really like something then you can. I think you and I can do this. But okay, you have your opinion and I have mine". He said "then it will not workout". I said: "why have you told me you liked me that much, and why would you meet me again?' He said: "that was what I felt. I didn't exactly have some thoughts of why we should meet" he just wanted to.
And "you said from the beginning that we should only keep in toutch"
Then I asked "so we could not be able to be together in the future?"
He said "i dont understand why you think that much about it"
Then I said "but thank you" because I was so sad!!! I was crying so much, and I have been in a relationship with a sag guy for about 9 months ago, where he also made me cry so much. After an hour texted him "I understand we can't do long distance, so let us stay friends". He texted me "hahah that is good". We havn't heard from eachother now in 3 weeks. Have I dont something wrong? Should I fight for him to show him that I really want this? Will he think "she doesent even text me, she was lying about having a relationship".. I just dont know what to do. I am scared he will think that I haven't texted because I lie. I didn't text him more because I am so scared of being rejected and sad again.. What should I do? My birthday is 16. Okt., and I dont know what to do if he doesen't text me that day? ..
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