Sagittarians, could you please help me?

Hello everyone. First off, I'm a Gemini and I really like this girl who's a Sag. I know Gemini's and Sags are opposites and are attracted to each other. ect. but how do you go about telling a Sag that you appreciate her and that she likes you? Like, what does she like to be told? How can you tell when she's flirting? I've liked her for about a month and I put my all in relationships although Gemini's usually are all over the place...I've recently become her "drama counselor" and I love helping people with problems. She's extremely talented in singing. We go to school together. She's just so...what's the word? poised and gentle, kind. A few days ago she asked me if I could do her a chart and I did it for her. Luckily, I still have that chart which is this one:

Sun Sagittarius 11.41 Ascendant Leo 2.36
Moon Sagittarius 26.54 II Leo 23.33
Mercury Sagittarius 6.07 III Virgo 18.47
Venus Scorpio 4.31 IV Libra 20.03
Mars Leo 27.43 V Scorpio 26.10
Jupiter Scorpio 28.50 VI Capricorn 1.40
Saturn Pisces 6.12 VII Aquarius 2.36
Uranus Capricorn 23.59 VIII Aquarius 23.33
Neptune Capricorn 21.37 IX Pisces 18.47
Pluto Scorpio 28.32 Midheaven Aries 20.03
Lilith Taurus 26.46 XI Taurus 26.10
Asc node Scorpio 14.32 XII Cancer 1.40

I know a decent amount of what this means, but I'd like anyone to contribute please 🙂I also have my chart which is this one:

Sun Gemini 5.04 Ascendant Cancer 20.32
Moon Sagittarius 24.34 II Leo 10.30
Mercury Gemini 27.39 III Virgo 3.49
Venus Cancer 6.35 IV Libra 3.12
Mars Taurus 1.58 V Scorpio 9.26
Jupiter Scorpio 6.41 R VI Sagittarius 17.27
Saturn Pisces 11.47 VII Capricorn 20.32
Uranus Capricorn 26.04 R VIII Aquarius 10.30
Neptune Capricorn 23.06 R IX Pisces 3.49
Pluto Scorpio 26.28 R Midheaven Aries 3.12
Lilith Taurus 5.26 XI Taurus 9.26
Asc node Scorpio 23.56 XII Gemini 17.27

I've read my chart inside and out hahaha. If anyone could compare our charts and give any detailed information about the compatibility, the houses, any problems, good things, ect that would be much apppreciated! Thank you guys for taking the time for reading all this!

Ha! Lots of scorp and leo have fun with that....

Posted by Dynamite Parfait
Heehee.... 🙂

Well, you're a Gemini, so there's a pretty good chance she already knows that you like her. 🙂 Gems are cute when they're crushing on someone. And both Saggies and Gems can be pretty obvious when they like someone. For Sags- that will manifest itself with lots of eye contact and playful, flirty touching.

Also, if she really likes you, she'll want to spend time around you.

Sags are more about expressing affection through ACTION. Words are secondary. I think that's one of the big differences between Gems and us. Don't just tell her that you like her. SHOW her. I can't be more specific than that because I don't know her likes and dislikes. But just remember that words alone can often be hollow, but actions usually speak volumes.

Based on your charts- it looks like you two have a very good chance at compatibility! The only inner planet that's off is Mars. You might need to be a bit more assertive (Taurus mars) to take your interactions with her to the next level.

And moons conjunct each other = VERY GOOD.

Good luck with everything!
🙂

Haha. Thanks. I'm extremely happy, excited and nervous all at the same time. I'm extremely show making progress with people I like. Guess I can blame my Mars in Taurus and Venus, Ascendant in Cancer -___-" And thanks for the likes and things with Sags. I just need to take action which may be hard (considering the problems I just listed) And since I'm so shy, I haven't even flirted that much if at all cause I'm so scared of rejection (which I most definately need to fix)Sometimes I feel my Cancer Ascendent takes over my Sun sign which makes me annoyed why I care about everyone too much. Sorry I've been blabbing away xD Just I'm not really sure where to begin. o.O

Posted by Sagittarius89
Ha! Lots of scorp and leo have fun with that....

Well personally I don't have a problem with any sign realy. She's super shy and outgoing so I think it all balances. And as much as I love astrolgy, you can't base it entirely on someone :o

Well today was successful partially. We have 2nd period and we ran down the hallway acting retarded and we laughed a decent amount. I let her borrow her favorite tv show which I have on DVD and she was crazy happy and thankful. Then as the day progressed she seemed to pull away just a little or maybe I was trying too hard @__@ then the last class of the day we had and we hardly talked. I understand though she has other people to talk with. ect. I act myself which is I talk NONSTOP. and hm...who knows. I have a very small feeling of doubt present, but I might tell her sometime this week. Here's another thing for you guys to give input on. How should I tell her? Pull her aside and tell her? or a note? Phone call? Instant message? What do you guys think? Or do you guys still think I should wait like my stubborn slow self might do? When I talk I kind of mess up my words, but I think actually saying it to her might be best. >.

Well duh

You're so in the friendzoneeeeeee

Posted by brianafay
You're so in the friendzoneeeeeee

😱 Urgh...How am I in the friend zone? Sadly, I communicate flirting/conversing as the same thing so it might be hard for her to figure out, but we'll be spending a lot of time together cause we are in choir, we do the school play and we do band. Plus, I'm taking my time and building it up. It might start out as friends with her, but at least I'm starting somewhere. I never talked her before I was interested in her and I more than likely would prefer to start as friends cause I don't just want to jump into something. I like to have a backround on the people I date. I could tell her now and I don't know what that'd do. It seems to soon to me so I'm going to build it up. That's what I'm thinking. I know I won't have forever, but I'm going to put my all into it. No matter how long it'll take. 🙂 Blame my Mars in Taurus... and under-developed Venus in Cancer. hahaha.

Hm...well last night we had a band concert and I over heard her and her friends talking and she said she was interested in someone at a different school. :/ Also, I told 3 people I liked her and one of them must of told her best friend cause now the best friend knows. I asked her about it and she said she knew and she'd keep it a secret. Yet I doubt it cause she's a big mega gossiper...and I was contemplating whether to say anything today because I'd rather her know then hear through a rumor, but once again my fear of being rejected kept me from taking action... So I guess from here I'll wait until later in the year (School musical) and then we might actually have some bonding time then I might tell work it out then. Cause now, I can hardly get a conversation with her going without her being all detached or staring off into space. Seems I failed. For now at least. :/

It already got back to her that you told people you liked her.

That's why she's semi-ignoring you. That's just what we do...
When you two were just friends she was comfortable with you, now your relationship could be changing - or she knows you want it to change - and she's not sure how to act. Just act like you always have, she'll get over it.

try not to put real names.. they're googlable.. 😛

Well cause one of my main goals in life is to make sure everyone is happy. Bascially I'm a philanthropist. Any good I can do, I do my best to help. That plus her being the girl I love is like x5 for me. I want to go to college and have a double major in Therapy and Interpetation and translation. So yeah. Those are my goals hahaha. I feel like I have such big dreams for someone who's not even finished high school... Oh well. and I'd like to have someone with me while acheving them. .__. As would everyone else. I don't know why I'm being all physchological at the moment o.O

I'm dating a Gemini and it took us 6 years to actually get together.
The friend zone is no fun!
Also, I wouldn't worry about her semi-ignoring you.
She is probably feeling a bit self-conscious.
You gotta make the first move, though.
Otherwise in the friend zone you will stayy.

Have a guy friend, a gemini 🙂 who told me, like in words, that he was interested for months... and all those months i had no idea... when i thought few times he likes me i would pull pack on the conversation, so would he... so i figured he wasn't into me.. just a flirt... and his friends did suggest to me he does like me A LOT. But i did't believe them. I figured he would just come up and say... Remember this went on for months.
When he confessed i felt weird cause i did place him in the friend zone... Got to be straightforward with Sag.. if she doesnt like you she'll say it.. politely probably. Don't spend another minute acting as a friend! Cause you are not 🙂 you want more 🙂 ? right? 🙂