Sagittarius are you afraid of intimacy?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by VenusStar on Wednesday, May 15, 2013 and has 10 replies.
I have a Sag Moon and I don't like it when a love interest is too close to me emotionally. It has me looking for an exit with the quickness. I think it could be my virgo rising.
btw what do you think about a Libra Man with STRONG libra placements with a Sagittarius Mars
No, commitment maybe
Posted by Jahlia
Posted by VenusStar
I have a Sag Moon and I don't like it when a love interest is too close to me emotionally. It has me looking for an exit with the quickness. I think it could be my virgo rising.
btw what do you think about a Libra Man with STRONG libra placements with a Sagittarius Mars


Meh, not sure about Love intimacy but when it comes to friendships and other relationships, Sagittarius wants it to be deep and doesn't have much respect for superficial ones.
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To answer the topic question: hell naw I ain't afraid of intimacy!! Lol
i ain't afraid of shit.
if i don't want it, i don't want it
ain't nothin really there to be afraid of. u probably just ain't with da right person yet.
Being a sag, we naturally do not like to be tied down. But its not for the reason many think. We would love to be able to travel the world, do and see everything ever with someone else, but the problem is no one wants to do that with us. We are perfectionists, and therefore, if someone doesn't fit the puzzle (a complex one, usually) just right, we don't want it. It's not just people. I personally am like that with everything. Thats why I don't necessarily believe sags are impulsive. We spend so much time thinking about everything, its just that when we finally do it it's out of the blue. We are only scared to commit to the wrong person. Anybody should be. Life is too short to be unhappy. Now, we have no problem trying things with someone that we might know won't work...but we don't want to deal with the eventual drama that will happen when it has to end. So, we've learned to just avoid emotion until we know it can be done without regret (for the most part).
I have a Sag moon, Venus, and Mars. Yikes. I may as well be a Sag. But if a man gets too emotionally attached, too quick, and I have no interest in anything with him, really, it's a major turn-off for me. And yet the Scorpio sun, craves intimacy, and an emotional connection. It's a fine line that a guy has to walk with me. He has to give me that closeness and emotional connection that I crave, without going over-the-top.
Posted by JustaSag
Being a sag, we naturally do not like to be tied down. But its not for the reason many think. We would love to be able to travel the world, do and see everything ever with someone else, but the problem is no one wants to do that with us. We are perfectionists, and therefore, if someone doesn't fit the puzzle (a complex one, usually) just right, we don't want it. It's not just people. I personally am like that with everything. Thats why I don't necessarily believe sags are impulsive. We spend so much time thinking about everything, its just that when we finally do it it's out of the blue. We are only scared to commit to the wrong person. Anybody should be. Life is too short to be unhappy. Now, we have no problem trying things with someone that we might know won't work...but we don't want to deal with the eventual drama that will happen when it has to end. So, we've learned to just avoid emotion until we know it can be done without regret (for the most part).


Thanks for this! It makes sense!!! :-)
Posted by JustaSag
Being a sag, we naturally do not like to be tied down. But its not for the reason many think. We would love to be able to travel the world, do and see everything ever with someone else, but the problem is no one wants to do that with us. We are perfectionists, and therefore, if someone doesn't fit the puzzle (a complex one, usually) just right, we don't want it. It's not just people. I personally am like that with everything. Thats why I don't necessarily believe sags are impulsive. We spend so much time thinking about everything, its just that when we finally do it it's out of the blue. We are only scared to commit to the wrong person. Anybody should be. Life is too short to be unhappy. Now, we have no problem trying things with someone that we might know won't work...but we don't want to deal with the eventual drama that will happen when it has to end. So, we've learned to just avoid emotion until we know it can be done without regret (for the most part).


hear hear!
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