Sagittarius, friend..or more??

Hey everybody..
I have known this sagittarius man for almost 2 years. we went on a couple of dates back then, but it didnt turn into anything more.. I startet to see a leo man for a couple of months, who was a friend of the sagittarius man (I didnt knew they knew eachother tho) it didnt work out with the leo man.. and my sagittarius friend is starting to show more interest in me, inviting me to eat lunch with him, texting me almost daily to hear about my plans of the day. he is very funny and make me laugh.. and I am very attracted to him. a week ago he asked if I would go on a trip to Amsterdam with him for the weekend, I couldnt that weekend 😢 but I said that I would like to some other time.. I know he thinks Im beautiful and cute and all that, but I dont know if he is just being friendly, or if he likes me in a romantic way.... Either way Im taking things slowly, but Im curious... so what do you guys think?

His chart is:

Rising Sign is in 28 Degrees Aquarius
Sun is in 22 Degrees Sagittarius.
Moon is in 05 Degrees Leo
Mercury is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius.
Venus is in 03 Degrees Aquarius.
Mars is in 29 Degrees Virgo
Jupiter is in 03 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 20 Degrees Libra


My chart is:

Rising Sign is in 03 Degrees Sagittarius
Sun is in 05 Degrees Libra.
Moon is in 22 Degrees Sagittarius.
Mercury is in 00 Degrees Scorpio.
Venus is in 15 Degrees Libra
Mars is in 24 Degrees Virgo.
Jupiter is in 27 Degrees Aries.
Saturn is in 15 Degrees Sagittarius

He definitely likes you. No doubt about it. It should be very easy going relationship. Take things slow and be honest with him. Don't lead him on or play games. That'll make him run faster than Usain Bolt. Also, don't over think things or read too much into what he says or does.

By the looks of your charts, you two should be a pretty good match. But I'm no expert lol

I was engaged to a Saggie man a little over 10 years ago. And let me tell you, he was the best relationship I ever had! My problem was I was not mature enough and I could not handle his deployments (as you know, Saggies love closeness) so in my heart I knew I had to let him go.
I brok off the engagement and moved back to Chicago.
Looking back we had so much in common, complimented each other and would have stood the test of time. Even though our journey had to end (so I could grow) I am thankfull for our time together!
You and your Saggie have great charts and should be an even better match than we were! As beautiful soul said, "He definitely likes you. No doubt about it. It should be very easy going relationship. Take things slow and be honest with him. Don't lead him on or play games. That'll make him run faster than Usain Bolt. Also, don't over think things or read too much into what he says or does."
But being a Libra yourself-with Sag rising,YOU already know that! 🙂 🙂 🙂

Thank U guys :-)

We were together saturday Night, just chilling and talking... Ten minutes After i got home i Got a text from him saying "are we seeing eachother just As friend? Because i want more than that"... So i got an answer to my question right there lol

Do any of u know how sag men are in a relationship....I've heard they like the chase just like Leo. Seriously Im tired of these games. Am I supposed to play hard to get with the sag—


Btw we are going to Amsterdam together thursday... :-P

That's great! I'm happy for you 🙂

I'm a male Sag and I can answer some of your questions. By him saying that he wants to be more than just friends, he's being direct. Expect him to be that way. We often make our intentions clear so that we aren't misunderstood. If you like honesty, you've met the right person. We can, however, have a problem with expressing our feelings. Give him time in this area. Do not, I repeat, do not play games or try to manipulate him. This will make us run faster than anything. Value his thoughts and opinions even though you may not agree with them. It is one thing we look for in a woman. And expect plenty of opinions because we will express them. Let him teach you a few things and return the favor to him. Don't be clingy or needy. We value our space. It may seem at times that he doesn't care for you, but that's not the case. He has many interests outside of the relationship and likes to explore. So give him that freedom and space. He will come back. He simply looks for someone who is their own person. He's extroverted and it may seem like he's flirting, but he's not. We love people and getting to know them. Trust in the fact that you are the one he loves and there will be no others above you. He will adore you and treasure you, but he's not perfect. So go with the flow.

Make sure that you appreciate his efforts an he will return the favor. Don't mistake passion for anger. For more tips, read the "things that are misinterpreted" thread in the Sagittarius forum. Good luck and feel free to ask questions...we love questions lol.

Thank U Beautifulsoul74 :-)
I love that he is direct and honest, Im like that too.. we have only been on 5 dates so far, but Im meeting him tomorrow..

he is so hot, I have a hard time keeping my hands to myself, LOL... But sagittarius men like the chase, and girls that are hard to get, right?

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
Thank U Beautifulsoul74 :-)
I love that he is direct and honest, Im like that too.. we have only been on 5 dates so far, but Im meeting him tomorrow..

he is so hot, I have a hard time keeping my hands to myself, LOL... But sagittarius men like the chase, and girls that are hard to get, right?

You're welcome Love! As for the chase...it depends. We're pretty easy going and laid back. We go with the flow. It depends on how you make him "chase" you. Play with him a little, just don't play games. He'll take that as being dishonest and you trying to manipulate him. To us, manipulation equals control and that is something we definitely will not allow someone to do. Leave something to be desired, but don't "lead him on."

i agree beautiful soul; dont lead him on.

Posted by DMV
i agree beautiful soul; dont lead him on.

😉

I wouldnt lead him on.. we have been on 5 dates so far, I know he is attracted to me, but he hasnt kissed me or anything yet. Im used to Leos LOL, they are very fast at things like that.. But I actually like it with the Sag man, its very chill and we have alot of fun. I think Im getting stomach abs for laughing so hard LOL.. 😄

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
I wouldnt lead him on.. we have been on 5 dates so far, I know he is attracted to me, but he hasnt kissed me or anything yet. Im used to Leos LOL, they are very fast at things like that.. But I actually like it with the Sag man, its very chill and we have alot of fun. I think Im getting stomach abs for laughing so hard LOL.. 😄

We are a jovial bunch lol. What up Triple E?!!

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Electric eye, for the most part.
Outside of that, no much else, practicing photoshop/my art *does a foppish swoon*.

Lol, getting ready for fall weather over here in the States. Trying to keep my head on straight from law school.

@everevolvingepithet me? :-)

God sag men damn they're so hot!! The way they say to you " I want You" fucking makes me crazy...When an archer spots you better get ready for their aim baby.

you're a libra, just enjoy the ride love. your detachment ability is your ace since our our lovely sag men like their freedom.

Posted by libra08
God sag men damn they're so hot!! The way they say to you " I want You" fucking makes me crazy...When an archer spots you better get ready for their aim baby.

you're a libra, just enjoy the ride love. your detachment ability is your ace since our our lovely sag men like their freedom.

I want you

Posted by aquansidenout
A mature sag in a relationship is VERY loyal, consistant, sweet but not to sensitive, blunt, almost always happy and optomistic, not afraid to show you off, spoil you and love when the same is done to them (but definitely more of a giver...will give their last to those they love and trust). Tend to hold grudges but when in love a little more forgiving. Very supportive and a cheerleader for you even when the chips are down. When a sag man loves you all those closes to him knows it and he will introduce you to them all. They tend to like women are feminine but unique, smart, independent, a woman who respects their freedom. If you respect their need to sometimes explore new adventures on a whim they will come back just as faithful and loving as before. I think these men sometimes get a bad wrap either that or I have a diamond in the rough.

damn girl, you got sag men. yes yes yes.


they do like arm candy and to introduce you to his family and friends if theyre serious about u. i also remember you writing that they will call you if they like you. soooo true. if i answer your call or even call you, your in like flynn.

they like a women to show off her curves.

not only sag men, but also venus in saggi feels the same way.

Posted by libra08
God sag men damn they're so hot!! The way they say to you " I want You" fucking makes me crazy...When an archer spots you better get ready for their aim baby.

you're a libra, just enjoy the ride love. your detachment ability is your ace since our our lovely sag men like their freedom.

cause theyre a man's man. cave men with brains.

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by libra08
God sag men damn they're so hot!! The way they say to you " I want You" fucking makes me crazy...When an archer spots you better get ready for their aim baby.

you're a libra, just enjoy the ride love. your detachment ability is your ace since our our lovely sag men like their freedom.

I want you

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Stop that.. i bite 😛

Posted by DMV

Posted by libra08
God sag men damn they're so hot!! The way they say to you " I want You" fucking makes me crazy...When an archer spots you better get ready for their aim baby.

you're a libra, just enjoy the ride love. your detachment ability is your ace since our our lovely sag men like their freedom.

cause theyre a man's man. cave men with brains.

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Oh yeah. when they grab and kiss you and doesnt give a damn whose around watching as long as they get that oh so out of this world kiss .. thats like freakin orgasm O_O . . . After kissing one sag unexpectedly i smoked a cigarette and i hate smoking.

yesterday he texted me "what are u doing".. I replied - im at a caf? with a friend (male friend) and I think he got a little mad, he replied "yeah right a "friend" .. and he is just a friend. are sagittarius this jealous normally—

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
yesterday he texted me "what are u doing".. I replied - im at a caf? with a friend (male friend) and I think he got a little mad, he replied "yeah right a "friend" .. and he is just a friend. are sagittarius this jealous normally—

Sometimes we can be, but we have excellent instincts and intuition. We sometimes get that way when we feel that things are "out of place"

Posted by aquansidenout
A mature sag in a relationship is VERY loyal, consistant, sweet but not to sensitive, blunt, almost always happy and optomistic, not afraid to show you off, spoil you and love when the same is done to them (but definitely more of a giver...will give their last to those they love and trust). Tend to hold grudges but when in love a little more forgiving. Very supportive and a cheerleader for you even when the chips are down. When a sag man loves you all those closes to him knows it and he will introduce you to them all. They tend to like women are feminine but unique, smart, independent, a woman who respects their freedom. If you respect their need to sometimes explore new adventures on a whim they will come back just as faithful and loving as before. I think these men sometimes get a bad wrap either that or I have a diamond in the rough.

That's me to the point, except the grudge part. I'm older now lol.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by libra08
God sag men damn they're so hot!! The way they say to you " I want You" fucking makes me crazy...When an archer spots you better get ready for their aim baby.

you're a libra, just enjoy the ride love. your detachment ability is your ace since our our lovely sag men like their freedom.

I want you

Stop that.. i bite 😛

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Ooh nice lol

thanks for your answers guys..

havent heard from him since, kind of weird I think, its not even a thing to get jealouse over... But maybe he is just not interested anymore, and I wasnt even clingy and crazy as I usually get when Im dating someone, LOL. but thats ofcourse because we havent dated long enough... :-P

^^^ tbh, he's probably lost a bit of trust in you and feels that you are changing and or trying to manipulate him. Not saying he's justified but that's probably how he feels. Have you reached out to him? Did you two argue about it?

No we didnt argue at All.. I called friday casually just to say hi how are you...he didnt answer the Call and didnt Call back...it was my birthday yesterday and I thought that he Would at least wish me a happy birthday..

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
No we didnt argue at All.. I called friday casually just to say hi how are you...he didnt answer the Call and didnt Call back...it was my birthday yesterday and I thought that he Would at least wish me a happy birthday..

Hey, I remember you, a nice Libra girl🙂 Happy birthday to you! 😄

Sag usually has a busy life with a lot of friends...so a lot of things going on...

And also, Sags can be very forgetful...so don't get hurt because of this...protect yourself well.

If you want to be with a Sag, you must be *playful* & able to catch up with his high speed...

Good luck to you! 😄

Looks like he's upset about the male friend and probably feels like you're not telling him the truth. Did you tell him you were going out with this friend? Not to interrogate you. But men often get a little suspicious of male friends, especially if we never known of them.

Happy belated!!

Posted by luckystar007

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
No we didnt argue at All.. I called friday casually just to say hi how are you...he didnt answer the Call and didnt Call back...it was my birthday yesterday and I thought that he Would at least wish me a happy birthday..

Hey, I remember you, a nice Libra girl🙂 Happy birthday to you! 😄

Sag usually has a busy life with a lot of friends...so a lot of things going on...

And also, Sags can be very forgetful...so don't get hurt because of this...protect yourself well.

If you want to be with a Sag, you must be *playful* & able to catch up with his high speed...

Good luck to you! 😄

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I think this is something else. We never forget to call or keep in touch with someone we're interested in or are in love with. Not to accuse her of anything, but my guess is she's balancing the amount of time she's spent with him by distancing herself from him. He sensed her pulling away and thus chased her by contacting her more than usual. This turned her off a bit and she ignored him. When she finally talked to him she was out with her male friend. Upon finding this out, it made him suspicious and in his mind the guy is more than that...otherwise she would've mentioned the guys name. It's a very subtle way of arousing jealousy. Thus, he mirroring her and ignoring her back. He will contact her at some point and who knows what will happen. Just my opinion lol.

Sorry, I didn't read the whole story...I don't have much time here...

So my advice is just in "general". I don't think Sags like to play *games* in any relationship, we are pretty straightforward & honest. If a Sag man said "he like you" then yes...it is true...but it doesn't meant that he would like to give all his attention & time to you...

Being playful but not playing games......it is totally different!!!

Hope OP can understand what I am saying...that might help you to deal with a Sag easily.

P.S. @OP

It is the KEY......Sags can shut off themselves.....if they find out someone just playing with him/her.....OR he/she can play back with that person.....then finally, that person would get more hurt.

So please don't play any games if you really want to be with a Sag!!!

But being playful is another KEY to get more attention that you need from Sag...so do your best to be *playful*.

OK. I am down...no repeat...😉

I'm tellin ya...don't dood it! Lol -in my Bugs Bunny voice-

beautifulsoul & luckystar , thanks for the birthday wishes :-)

Im not playing any games.. and I dont think I need to explain myself to him about who my male friend is, the sag and I havent dated long enough for him to know any of my friends. I actually think he is seeing someone else, but why would you ignore someone because of that. I wouldnt ignore someone becaeuse Im seeing someone else..and I would wish him happy birthday too even if I was seeing someone else.

btw. I havent ignored him before. But Im kind of careful in the beginning when I date someone, I dont like to give my all

All you said is true. Early in my relationship with my Libra ex, we were chilling on my bed watching tv. My cell phone was laying there with the text screen showing. She asked about a specific girl who I hadn't texted in months and I didn't erase the messages. I didn't get mad or anything and I explained to her what happened and the messages bore out my explanation. I tell you that to say this, even though your friendship may seem innocent to you, sometimes you have to "give a little" in the face of what may seem like an invasion of privacy. To a mature individual, it builds trust and confidence. I've always done this with the women I've dated because I had nothing to hide and I don't assume they will always trust me. The only thing I can control is how I react in those situations. With my Libra ex, she in turn gave me access to her email address.

He may be seeing someone and I'm not faulting you for not telling him about your friend. Maybe he's just immature. Next time you talk to him, ask him if he is. It is messed up that he didn't contact you on your birthday. Sorry 😢

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
btw. I havent ignored him before. But Im kind of careful in the beginning when I date someone, I dont like to give my all

Sounds good...never give all yourself to any man...before you find your Mr Right.🙂

Anyway, you are free to date more than one guy as long as no sex involved...some relationship expert said that.

Good luck😄

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Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
btw. I havent ignored him before. But Im kind of careful in the beginning when I date someone, I dont like to give my all

Sounds good...never give all yourself to any man...before you find your Mr Right.🙂

Anyway, you are free to date more than one guy as long as no sex involved...some relationship expert said that.

Good luck😄

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Funny thing is most of those "relationship experts" are alone themselves lol

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Posted by luckystar007

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
btw. I havent ignored him before. But Im kind of careful in the beginning when I date someone, I dont like to give my all

Sounds good...never give all yourself to any man...before you find your Mr Right.🙂

Anyway, you are free to date more than one guy as long as no sex involved...some relationship expert said that.

Good luck😄

Funny thing is most of those "relationship experts" are alone themselves lol

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LOL...maybe the best relationship is just to be with yourself 😉

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Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by luckystar007

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
btw. I havent ignored him before. But Im kind of careful in the beginning when I date someone, I dont like to give my all

Sounds good...never give all yourself to any man...before you find your Mr Right.🙂

Anyway, you are free to date more than one guy as long as no sex involved...some relationship expert said that.

Good luck😄

Funny thing is most of those "relationship experts" are alone themselves lol

LOL...maybe the best relationship is just to be with yourself 😉

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I have a great relationship with myself 😉

Posted by beautifulsoul74

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Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
btw. I havent ignored him before. But Im kind of careful in the beginning when I date someone, I dont like to give my all

Sounds good...never give all yourself to any man...before you find your Mr Right.🙂

Anyway, you are free to date more than one guy as long as no sex involved...some relationship expert said that.

Good luck😄

Funny thing is most of those "relationship experts" are alone themselves lol

LOL...maybe the best relationship is just to be with yourself 😉

I have a great relationship with myself 😉

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U got it 😏 😛

^^^lmso

And now he keeps on liking my status/links on facebook and my pictures on instagram :/ he is Playing hard to get and have noticed that Im not gonna chase him or give him any attention... Why not just be straight forward

Have you always been straight forward with him?

He's testing the water to see how hot it is. If you ignore him, he'll do one of two things...come on stronger or bounce. If you really like this guy, talk to him and see where his head is at. I know he's been acting an ass, but its salvageable. It all boils down to whether you're willing to truly forgive...without punishment.

I called him once that friday i was talking about, Well he didnt Call me back, so i dont wanna Call him and be All desperate lol... I liked him, But situations like this really bore me :/

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Posted by aquansidenout
A mature sag in a relationship is VERY loyal, consistant, sweet but not to sensitive, blunt, almost always happy and optomistic, not afraid to show you off, spoil you and love when the same is done to them (but definitely more of a giver...will give their last to those they love and trust). Tend to hold grudges but when in love a little more forgiving. Very supportive and a cheerleader for you even when the chips are down. When a sag man loves you all those closes to him knows it and he will introduce you to them all. They tend to like women are feminine but unique, smart, independent, a woman who respects their freedom. If you respect their need to sometimes explore new adventures on a whim they will come back just as faithful and loving as before. I think these men sometimes get a bad wrap either that or I have a diamond in the rough.

damn girl, you got sag men. yes yes yes.


they do like arm candy and to introduce you to his family and friends if theyre serious about u. i also remember you writing that they will call you if they like you. soooo true. if i answer your call or even call you, your in like flynn.

they like a women to show off her curves.

not only sag men, but also venus in saggi feels the same way.

Hi DMV, yes definitely the phone thing. If he's not calling or texting you relentlessly from the start then his interest is not fully peeked. They zero in on their target and will not slow down until they've captured you and even after they've captured you they do whatever to keep. They will fight to keep you.....loyalty is a HUGE thing for them. Truly some of the best men when raised right.

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Very true

thanks aquansidenout, I agree with you.. he texted me today, I will text him back, but I dont want a unstable guy like that, so its just as friends from my side..