Sagittarius Men, possesive?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius Men forum by PhytoLilith on Monday, September 12, 2016 and has 6 replies.
Hello! Aries sun, Cap moon and Scorpio rising!


I have this great friendship with this Sagittarius guy. We are cuddle buddies and our conversations are always ignited with energy and laughter.


I don't have any expectations from them since they made it clear they don't really do relationships and prefer poly relationships, but lately he has been getting weird about me describing us as friends and gets possessive with body language when men are giving me attention.


I really enjoy talking to people in the right setting and my friend knows so there's no reason for them to be 'protective' especially when they are exceedingly polite.


He tries to be a modern gentleman and is communicative and takes strong feminist positionality so I find it confusing that he should be odd about titles and PDA (which I don't allow)


I'm an open asexual and he recently tried kissing me but found that it was surprising for me so I think he feels a little put off considering that I'm very affectionate by other physical gesture.


Would love to hear other peoples' thoughts and feelings, this is the first male sag Ive ever had as a friend so I really have no clue about how to deal with someone as mutable as me.
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I dont think he is lustful.or attracted to me, sexually so its confusing that someone would be possesive.
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He probably has his venus/7th house in another, more possessive, sign. Sagittarius is known for being the least possessive of the fire signs because they believe so highly in freedom and is more about philosophical findings/adventure than settling down which is why a lot are so in favor of open relationships. I'm a Cancer with my venus in Cancer, but my 7th house is in Sagittarius which is the house of partnerships. It makes me a lot more distant than most Cancers (but my rising is in Gemini and Moon in Aquarius so that probably has something to do with it too lol). Cancer is known for being a very clingy and possessive sign, but only when feelings are involved. But because I have my 7th house in Sag, so even when my feelings are involved, I am distant and like for my significant other to not only have their own life outside of me/the relationship but also be able to handle the fact most my friends are males and I spend way more time with them than with my SO. I also can't stand PDA. But one of my friends who is a Sagittarius is extremely into PDA and showing off sexual pictures/videos of his girlfriend to other guys because he likes to show off what he has. But he isn't possessive of her in any way either so I really don't think that is a Sag like trait.
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Canceraqua - how do you know whats in your 7th house? smile
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You can get your full chart if you know when and where you were born
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Okay where?
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