Shy or Outgoing

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Sea Siren on Monday, December 17, 2007 and has 6 replies.
Hey there, Sag!
I'm just curious. I've met some really great Sags in my life, but I've noticed that while most are outgoing and energetic, some are more quiet and creative. Which type are you? Do you know more who are outgoing or more who are more reserved?
Also..I think I've only ever met a Sag woman once in my entire life. Not sure why this is, I just thought it was weird. smile
I am outgoing, silly and fun once Im comfortable. Before I knew much about astrology, the outgoing trait was one I never identified with. Now that I understand my chart and being on the cusp of Cap better I can say its quite a normal possibility, to find a Sag who is more introverted.
The reason for the quiet side is a little hard to explain, but Ill try. First (I think this is a cusp trait, not sure) my need for depth and to be understood outweighs my desire to aimlessly socialize. And with my strong intuition, I can usually get an early feel for a connection with someone. I 'could' have many friends I guess, but I take very few people I meet to that level.
On the other hand! Comfortable (or tipsy/drunk)Im mingling, talking to everyone, noticeable, into all conversations, and lovin everyone. Did I mention Im moody?!
Girl thing? Men can be just as or more moody!
I like that I have proof, that way I can blame it on the stars.
"Oh, sorry.. Im just in a mood... its my highly mutable and firey Sag, the Cancer rising and Moon in Scorp, bear with me, it will change in an hour."
..See doesnt that sound smarter than "Im just a moody woman"?
"The reason for the quiet side is a little hard to explain, but Ill try. First (I think this is a cusp trait, not sure) my need for depth and to be understood outweighs my desire to aimlessly socialize. And with my strong intuition, I can usually get an early feel for a connection with someone. I 'could' have many friends I guess, but I take very few people I meet to that level."
You sound very much like my little brother. He was born Dec. 5th, and he's very shy and quiet around people he doesn't know, but once he does, he lets loose and is funny as hell. smile It probably does have to do with other placements in his chart, but he has Gemini rising, which was another reason why his quietness always confused me. lol Doesn't get more "chatty" than Gemini.
The Sag friends I've had always want to do something. Sags are very wise people, but don't use their wisdom to make the right decision sometimes or half the time.
Definitely Outgoing...
I can keep a conversation going no matter what the challenge...
There is never an uncomfortable silence with me...
I'm not creative at all though... lol... or organized...
Not at all.

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