so the sag guy is in love

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i saw him again last night and it did feel like a weight had been lifted. i cant say that im truly myself outside of the bedroom with him. i just find it hard to loosen up around him. pluto in the 1st is tough to communicate with. i think we communicate more when were close.


i spent all last night thinking it he were lying or telling the truth. i almost want to be lied to. the truth is alot to handle. i thought about how he used to just call me out the blue with nothing to talk about. or how he would want to cuddle before and after sex. i dont initiate with him because i keep my distance emotionally. but he is more gung ho about being close.

we didnt talk about what he had said the other night. if he wasnt going to bring it up, i wasnt.

i gotta do some more thinking.
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I said, "I love you!" to the driving instructor who passed me for my license. I seriously loved him for the moment, BUT...


no wonder DMV this Sag guy was guud in sexing you 😄

I think he is telling the truth.


He wouldn't come for more if he were not interested in you... forget about hearing the word love... men prefer hitting the highway and losing the girl before they can get their tongue around L O V E
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Posted by FUM
it looks like Sag guy is winning ... versus the Scorp guy who has his pride up his ass

like me actually




lol hey FUM. hows it going?

i am equally attracted to both men. good and bad qualities of both. However, i dont see either leaving their current situation for lil ol DMV.

the sag was more convincing when he said it than the scorp. its all in the delivery. u cant bitch me out for being a whore b4 i met you and then call me 20 mins later and say ILY.

sag guy is way more consistent.
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hi DMV 😄

I soooo miss my Sag. I went to the beach yesterday and just when I was leaving, I thought it was him in the distance, just standing a vertical distance, where I was stationed. I kept looking .. and looking again.. turning my head and looking again if the man was him. Later it dawned to me.. I should have just walked up and see for myself. But too late now.

So it appears I am thinking of him quite often lately.

I understand very well why you would trust your Sag man more. It's hard to resist their charm, while they can be so bluntly direct and so forward when one expects it the least. You just know, he will not SAY something to make you feel better, but he will try his best to make you feel better.
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yep, u should have walked up 🙂 time waits for no woman FUM.

i have actually have stopped seeing the Sag. breath of relief. there is no future there and certainly not the one that i want or need. im still in the midst of my saturn return and saturn is transiting my 5th and just is about to conjunct Pluto. last of 3 hits, the finale, endings. when i put my time table together, during my first hit, the Sag became the front runner. he was basically the only guy i was seeing. i wanted the best and he was the best. it was nice to see our ship develop and to watch out intimacy level develop. i loosened up.

but fast forward to now. there have been some events that have happened in his life where i took the role to be a friend to him. more than a lover. but i felt like i was being taken advantage of. Neptune is transiting my Sun, i have to look out for people who will readily take advantage of me. unfortunately he is one of these people. i dont DO NOT like having my feelings used against me or for someone elses gain.

so him saying ILY was a catalyst. forced me to really put things into perspective. dare i say, im growing up? i was sitting in the car about to go see him and something just told me to STOP dont even put the key into the ignition.

i kinda knew that something was going to happen when he said it. either i was going to run for dear life or embrace it. i only run for cover when something doesnt smell right.
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hmmm... that's an interesting angle of thinking. You are right when you (perhaps) think that Scorpio man is a more reliable and traditional provider. We like our security and once you are under MY (at least) wings, I will make sure my partner is taken well care of. That is not only financially, but pretty much in every aspect.

I belief Sag man is generous in giving too, but he has a different way of approaching a committed relationship. I don't think he likes to see the end of that picture of a committed relationship. Somehow you just feel he is only into you, but he doesn't make me (as a woman) feel secure enough. He certainly is not the traditional guy when it comes to a relationship, but he is fully capable of taking this on. You somewhat expect that he will come to you in his own time and most of the other times he is a hard worker. He also likes his outing time, but that generally doesn't happen with the woman he is with. He likes hanging out with his buddies. So his availability to you will be 1/3rd of his time, generously speaking. I think in reality perhaps that is 1/5th or less... anyway.
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I'm just brainstorming, DMV. What I wrote up there might be very limiting in analysis, if not narrow-minded. However, I do think there is a pattern with those I know in real life.

My daughter tells me not to write about her. I hope she doesn't see this post. She is Aries with Sag for the past 5 years. She lives in my house and he comes and goes. I love him and I let them be. What I realize is not only his love to independence but also hers. Just recently he rented a place for both of them to live together. Although my daughter is excited moving in with him, she takes her sweeeeeeeeeet time. She is planning on moving perhaps in a month... while he already has started living there.

See... and that is what I don't get.

I'd jump right in, live, cook, clean... like a domesticated wife already. I think.. leaving out the sex talk,...


I'm sure your SAG man is already confused as hell. lol But you can't ignore that intuition.
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I'm just brainstorming, DMV. What I wrote up there might be very limiting in analysis, if not narrow-minded. However, I do think there is a pattern with those I know in real life.

My daughter tells me not to write about her. I hope she doesn't see this post. She is Aries with Sag for the past 5 years. She lives in my house and he comes and goes. I love him and I let them be. What I realize is not only his love to independence but also hers. Just recently he rented a place for both of them to live together. Although my daughter is excited moving in with him, she takes her sweeeeeeeeeet time. She is planning on moving perhaps in a month... while he already has started living there.

See... and that is what I don't get.

I'd jump right in, live, cook, clean... like a domesticated wife already. I think.. leaving out the sex talk,...


I'm sure your SAG man is already confused as hell. lol But you can't ignore that intuition.



i am very much like your daughters' sag. i like m independence and give others their independence. everyone needs to have their own life.
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I wrote the SAG man if it was him. Stupid me, I should have just walked up. I'm such panic and shy when it comes to guys. I still feel like a girl in high school when it comes to getting guy attention. Not any guy... but the one I fancy. 😄



your not the only scorp to be a bit gun shy when it comes to saggis. do u guys find us intimidating? are we just a bit much sometimes?

i think you should have more faith in yourself and the bond youve created with your sag.

for example, the other night..guess who did his first pop up (that i know of)?