Tell me about this sag sun scorp venus

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by trashit0 on Wednesday, November 1, 2017 and has 14 replies.
Can anyone tell me what kind of guy a sag sun/Leo moon/ Aries mars/sag mercury/Scorpio Venus is like?

We dated briefly before and recently reconnected. He’s always sweet talking, saying the nicest things. he also seems to want to do everything, date-wise (I want to take you to this restaurant and this restaurant, let’s go golf, let’s take a road trip, come apple picking with me) right away. It’s our first date back and he’s talking about our potential as a couple already lol Is this normal? My aqua sun/ Libra moon/ cap mercury/gem mars doesn’t get the fiery way of going about things. Plus He can have any girl he wants and I don’t want to get hurt, my Pisces Venus needs protecting.

Have you expressed these fears to him?

They are valid imo.

People should view relationships like a job.

Would you keep a guy who can't come to work consistently?

So why would you date him?

Ask him why he dipped out and why he is back.

Make him accountable.
He is also fire Sun Moon and Mars. Moves quickly.
I cut him off because of a misunderstanding. I was recently out of a relationship and didn’t trust anyone. He tried to explain but I wasn’t having it. I dated others and I never found someone close to him, so I opened the lines of communication again. I realized it was a bit immature & petty to cut him off for the reason I did.

Hmm, I should tell him how I feel, just at the right time. It was the first night hanging out in forever & I just wanted to have fun lol he got a bit too tipsy and started talking about his feelings...that’s too soon to me. But you’re right, I will take your advice!
Posted by Capmercury87
I'm with a sag sun, scorpio venus but this doesn't sound like him at all.

Sag mercuries can talk up a good storm, but mine has a scorpio mercury (thank God) so there is no sweet talking and being slimy, which your sag sounds slimey. No offense. I have a cap mercury too.

Haha yeah he’s a talker, but I enjoy our convos. It’s just that I get suspicious when someone compliments me all the time. It’s ok no offense taken, I don’t really get a slimey vibe from him. I’m just thrown off because of how intense and how fast he wants to jump in.

This is me below:

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius

2 weeks ago Aqua broke up with me and I think for similar reasons as you're stating. We got back together and everything was going nice. I was being nice & sweet to her and did invite her to join me for some activities but all of them were far into the future.

I'm intense and I definitely wanted things to progress but I wasn't pushy, needy, clingy and was giving her plenty of space & time. In fact most of the time she was initiating conversations and I was just responding to give her time during her busy period.

Can you explain how you were thrown off?
Posted by trashit0
I cut him off because of a misunderstanding. I was recently out of a relationship and didn’t trust anyone. He tried to explain but I wasn’t having it. I dated others and I never found someone close to him, so I opened the lines of communication again. I realized it was a bit immature & petty to cut him off for the reason I did.

Hmm, I should tell him how I feel, just at the right time. It was the first night hanging out in forever & I just wanted to have fun lol he got a bit too tipsy and started talking about his feelings...that’s too soon to me. But you’re right, I will take your advice!
So many stories of the man running out. Lol

He must really like you to give you another shot.

Posted by HopelessRomantic2017
This is me below:

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius

2 weeks ago Aqua broke up with me and I think for similar reasons as you're stating. We got back together and everything was going nice. I was being nice & sweet to her and did invite her to join me for some activities but all of them were far into the future.

I'm intense and I definitely wanted things to progress but I wasn't pushy, needy, clingy and was giving her plenty of space & time. In fact most of the time she was initiating conversations and I was just responding to give her time during her busy period.

Can you explain how you were thrown off?
What the hell??!!

You let her do the initiating and you just responded??

Oh sweet baby.

This is repairable. You're going to have to put in more effort. Be consistently inconsistent yet unpredictable but predictable at the same time.


Posted by DMV


So many stories of the man running out. Lol

He must really like you to give you another shot.





I know right... did you see all my signs? Im flighty LOL. Yeah I kinda do see that now... I was expecting his Scorpio Venus to grill me or seek revenge. So do you think I should let my guard down already?
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Posted by HopelessRomantic2017
This is me below:

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius

2 weeks ago Aqua broke up with me and I think for similar reasons as you're stating. We got back together and everything was going nice. I was being nice & sweet to her and did invite her to join me for some activities but all of them were far into the future.

I'm intense and I definitely wanted things to progress but I wasn't pushy, needy, clingy and was giving her plenty of space & time. In fact most of the time she was initiating conversations and I was just responding to give her time during her busy period.

Can you explain how you were thrown off?
What the hell??!!

You let her do the initiating and you just responded??

Oh sweet baby.

This is repairable. You're going to have to put in more effort. Be consistently inconsistent yet unpredictable but predictable at the same time.


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When we got back together she was very busy with school. I didn't want to bug her for no reason and would only initiate text conversations when absolutely necessary. In lieu of that most of the time she texted me.

I've been putting in a lot of effort but my guess she saw me as being too nice. She couldn't even give me a reason and just changed the subject few times. What advice do you have?
Posted by HopelessRomantic2017
This is me below:

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius

2 weeks ago Aqua broke up with me and I think for similar reasons as you're stating. We got back together and everything was going nice. I was being nice & sweet to her and did invite her to join me for some activities but all of them were far into the future.

I'm intense and I definitely wanted things to progress but I wasn't pushy, needy, clingy and was giving her plenty of space & time. In fact most of the time she was initiating conversations and I was just responding to give her time during her busy period.

Can you explain how you were thrown off?
Wow can’t believe how similar your signs are to my sag. My guy isn’t pushy needy or clingy either, in fact, I wouldn’t mind it if he was more needy or clingy lol I think you should initiate more maybe

What throws me off is how sweet he is. I noticed a lot of sag influenced guys can be very corny and say a lot of cute and sweet things. But when it comes from a good looking guy, I start wondering “ok what are you trying to do here?” He complimented me all night. I called him on it and told him I’m flattered but he keeps saying all these sweet things, and he said that it’s how he feels. Coupled with the fact that he’s inviting me to do all these activities too, I’m like “what’s the rush? Let’s just enjoy this moment and not think of the future.” Then he started talking about our future together and how we’d be so good together. Then I start thinking, “hmmm no guy is like this, what is his deal? Is he trying to be a player?” Lol I know I have trust issues

Posted by trashit0
Posted by HopelessRomantic2017
This is me below:

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius

2 weeks ago Aqua broke up with me and I think for similar reasons as you're stating. We got back together and everything was going nice. I was being nice & sweet to her and did invite her to join me for some activities but all of them were far into the future.

I'm intense and I definitely wanted things to progress but I wasn't pushy, needy, clingy and was giving her plenty of space & time. In fact most of the time she was initiating conversations and I was just responding to give her time during her busy period.

Can you explain how you were thrown off?
Wow can’t believe how similar your signs are to my sag. My guy isn’t pushy needy or clingy either, in fact, I wouldn’t mind it if he was more needy or clingy lol I think you should initiate more maybe

What throws me off is how sweet he is. I noticed a lot of sag influenced guys can be very corny and say a lot of cute and sweet things. But when it comes from a good looking guy, I start wondering “ok what are you trying to do here?” He complimented me all night. I called him on it and told him I’m flattered but he keeps saying all these sweet things, and he said that it’s how he feels. Coupled with the fact that he’s inviting me to do all these activities too, I’m like “what’s the rush? Let’s just enjoy this moment and not think of the future.” Then he started talking about our future together and how we’d be so good together. Then I start thinking, “hmmm no guy is like this, what is his deal? Is he trying to be a player?” Lol I know I have trust issues

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I have no problems initiating conversations, like I said I was doing less in order not to bother her while she is in school.

I wasn't complimenting her all night and since we got back together I invited her to 2 things. Once I complimented her and said she was awesome at everything and asked if there is something she couldn't do and she said flying a plane. I have a friend who has a pilot license and has invited me to join him when he does weekend flights. I passed the invitation to her. I also invited her to goto Wild Horses tour in August 2018 and she was receptive to both. In fact I invited her to this tour right when we got back together via text and when I saw her in person I mentioned it again. It is a very limited tour with only 12 people that go every year (2 x 6). The first tour was already sold out and I was also planning on talking my sister who is a big animal lover too. When we talked about during our date my Aqua actually said my sister should have priority to go on this trip over her but I obviously want my partner more than my sister to accompany me. She never told me a word about me giving her these invitations and when she broke up with me she couldnt even give me reasons why. All she said was that she couldnt shake off an odd feeling that this relationship is reminding her of previous relationship. I asked her to explain and she couldnt, said everything she tries to say comes out wrong. She changed the subject to saying nice things about me and other nice guys that she've dated in the past. Like you I think she has trust issues, she was in 2 abusive relationships in the past. She also seemed a little bit insecure in the beginning since she kept saying "you might not like me" and I ended up liking her too much. As she was breaking up with me over text I told her that you cant tell me whats wrong and you cant face me in person. She replied that she will see me in person if that's what I want. Unfortunately as all of was happening I was in the process of checking out of hotel (I was on a trip) and within 15 mins had no cell reception. I got reception 12+ hours later and there was a bunch of text messages from her but still no explanation. I texted her that I want to take her on her offer to see me but she didnt respond. Next morning I had an accident and main casualty of it was my phone. It took me a week after coming back from the trip to get a loaner phone but there was still no text messages from her.

Posted by HopelessRomantic2017
This is me below:

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius

2 weeks ago Aqua broke up with me and I think for similar reasons as you're stating. We got back together and everything was going nice. I was being nice & sweet to her and did invite her to join me for some activities but all of them were far into the future.

I'm intense and I definitely wanted things to progress but I wasn't pushy, needy, clingy and was giving her plenty of space & time. In fact most of the time she was initiating conversations and I was just responding to give her time during her busy period.

Can you explain how you were thrown off?
So can you answer this for me: me and my sag vibe so well. We talk about the deepest of subjects of the world and were passionate about the same things. We have the same goals and visions for the future. Do you think that this info would make him go so fast like this?
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Posted by trashit0
Posted by HopelessRomantic2017
This is me below:

Sun Sagittarius

Moon Libra

Mercury Sagittarius

Venus Scorpio

Mars Sagittarius

2 weeks ago Aqua broke up with me and I think for similar reasons as you're stating. We got back together and everything was going nice. I was being nice & sweet to her and did invite her to join me for some activities but all of them were far into the future.

I'm intense and I definitely wanted things to progress but I wasn't pushy, needy, clingy and was giving her plenty of space & time. In fact most of the time she was initiating conversations and I was just responding to give her time during her busy period.

Can you explain how you were thrown off?
Wow can’t believe how similar your signs are to my sag. My guy isn’t pushy needy or clingy either, in fact, I wouldn’t mind it if he was more needy or clingy lol I think you should initiate more maybe

What throws me off is how sweet he is. I noticed a lot of sag influenced guys can be very corny and say a lot of cute and sweet things. But when it comes from a good looking guy, I start wondering “ok what are you trying to do here?” He complimented me all night. I called him on it and told him I’m flattered but he keeps saying all these sweet things, and he said that it’s how he feels. Coupled with the fact that he’s inviting me to do all these activities too, I’m like “what’s the rush? Let’s just enjoy this moment and not think of the future.” Then he started talking about our future together and how we’d be so good together. Then I start thinking, “hmmm no guy is like this, what is his deal? Is he trying to be a player?” Lol I know I have trust issues

I have no problems initiating conversations, like I said I was doing less in order not to bother her while she is in school.

I wasn't complimenting her all night and since we got back together I invited her to 2 things. Once I complimented her and said she was awesome at everything and asked if there is something she couldn't do and she said flying a plane. I have a friend who has a pilot license and has invited me to join him when he does weekend flights. I passed the invitation to her. I also invited her to goto Wild Horses tour in August 2018 and she was receptive to both. In fact I invited her to this tour right when we got back together via text and when I saw her in person I mentioned it again. It is a very limited tour with only 12 people that go every year (2 x 6). The first tour was already sold out and I was also planning on talking my sister who is a big animal lover too. When we talked about during our date my Aqua actually said my sister should have priority to go on this trip over her but I obviously want my partner more than my sister to accompany me. She never told me a word about me giving her these invitations and when she broke up with me she couldnt even give me reasons why. All she said was that she couldnt shake off an odd feeling that this relationship is reminding her of previous relationship. I asked her to explain and she couldnt, said everything she tries to say comes out wrong. She changed the subject to saying nice things about me and other nice guys that she've dated in the past. Like you I think she has trust issues, she was in 2 abusive relationships in the past. She also seemed a little bit insecure in the beginning since she kept saying "you might not like me" and I ended up liking her too much. As she was breaking up with me over text I told her that you cant tell me whats wrong and you cant face me in person. She replied that she will see me in person if that's what I want. Unfortunately as all of was happening I was in the process of checking out of hotel (I was on a trip) and within 15 mins had no cell reception. I got reception 12+ hours later and there was a bunch of text messages from her but still no explanation. I texted her that I want to take her on her offer to see me but she didnt respond. Next morning I had an accident and main casualty of it was my phone. It took me a week after coming back from the trip to get a loaner phone but there was still no text messages from her.

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Hi HopelessRomantic, sorry for the late reply, I wanted to get on a computer to respond to you properly. I have gotten out of 2 abusive relationships within the past year and a half or so. I know that I have a hard time trusting guys now. When you fall in love with an abusive person, you learn to give and give, and doubt your own perceptions because they make it feel like it's you're fault that they act the way they do. This kills your self-esteem and your ability to trust your own judgement. The lack of explanation could be due to the fact that when you're with an abusive person, you tend to walk on eggshells, trying to avoid the blow-up of anger. She may not feel comfortable to tell you the truth or give you the explanation you desire.

This isn't your fault. She shouldn't take her baggage into her relationship with you, but hey, easier said than done. I'm theorizing here...

If I were you, I would take her lack of responses as the only answer your need to give her space. Maybe reach out in the future to say hi, no pressure of any sort. Perhaps she can work through her issues, but you have to figure out if you want to really wait around for that.

When I let my sag go, I did a lot of soul searching and worked on myself. I came back to him. This might be what happens with you two. If not, something better will come along. It always does.

Good luck!