The Sagittarius finally broke me. I'm officially done with this bitch. Fuck her.

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Leo0807 on Monday, August 1, 2016 and has 47 replies.
Here's an excerpt from last night and today's text messages:


We were talking on the phone last night about, basically, about what we've been talking about on here. She had to go right quick and then told me to call her back in fifteen minutes. So I did. But she doesn't answer so this is what she sends in a text:


Her: Sorry, I am in a meeting right now.


Me: At 11? At night? I may be a dumb ass but my ass ain't dumb.


Thirty-seven minutes later, I text her back yet again.


Me: You weren't even in a meeting. You didn't even text that shit. You don't even text like that, period. It was probably one of those automatic text messages displayed for when people are too lazy to use the keypad.


No response from her until--


12:04 PM today


Her: Lol


Me: I was right though, wasn't I?


Her: Yeah u were


Me: Hey, do I not show you enough that I love you....is that why you don't completely and fully trust/believe me when I say it?


Her: Its not that


Me: It's because I do too much, isn't it? And if it's not then what is it then?


Her: Its this Sag guy


Me: I don't like this already, man. What the fuck. Just tell me. Where are you going with this?


Her: I been in love with him ....its complicated


Me: Wow.


It took me a cool minute to transfer all of that. I was a bit in shock.


Me: I honestly did not see that coming.


About seven minutes later, I added--


Me: I have to leave you alone. Like, I have no other choice but to stay away. It's bad. It's all bad.


Her: Alright J...wasn't trying to hurt your feelings


Me: Oh, I know. I still feel a little sick, though. But I will respect it.


Her: Have a lot on my mind ...speak to ya later


Me: Just outta curiosity, that "meeting" you were in last night....was he involved in it with you?


Her: Boy that was a automatic message i just hit that so my phone wouldn't ring...but no i wasn't with him


Me: Don't talk to me. Outta respect for the other Sag. I don't wanna get in the way.


Her: I guess


Me: Why didn't you ever mention this shit before? Why'd you have go and wait all this time just to tell that you were already in love with someone else? That's like two months of my time, wasted, that I'll never get back.


Her: Because its fucking complicated ...and i been tellin u that I'm not interested that's ur ass who kept on pushing


Me: Maybe perhaps telling me that there was another motherfucker in your life definitely would have stopped me from pushing on and pursuing you.


Her: Its whatever though ...he does him and i do me


Me: The day that I first asked for your number, you should've rejected the request and then told me why you did.


Her: Just leave it alone


Me: "Hey you know there's already kind of somebody else in the picture, although it's pretty complicated, but I don't wanna disclose my number out to you. Don't take it the wrong way. We can still be friends." Something like that would've definitely sufficed.


Her: All that's all we all is friends ....


Me: That sentence makes no fucking sense to me.
Me: You coulda told me this shit the SECOND fucking time I asked for your number. Why the fuck did you even give it to me for the second time, anyway?


Her: Lmaoo your mad for what ....when i been saying u can be my friend and that I'm not fucking with u like that ...how can u be mad and i have been saying the same shit to u for the longest


Me: You're right. And when you're right, you really are right. I'm glad this is happening. I can't do this with you anymore. You're fucking toxic for me anyway. Have a great, nice, positive and productive life. I swear on my mother's eternal soul that you will not ever hear not another peep from outta me. I will stay away from Me. Gray's class while you're in there. I'll give your work to Airen and will have her return it back to you for me. I won't go near your PBL classes, neither. It'll be like I never existed. And you are forever dead to me now. Fuck you. I seriously pray that you fucking die.


Her: Your a fucking weirdo lose my number please do ....glad i don't have to fuckin deal w/ u period i been saying idfwu so i could care less about what the fuck you do


Me: I'm not a fucking weirdo. I'm a limited edition. And you're an emotional sadist. And I know your dumb ass number by heart now, unfortunately.


Her: Fuck u ....bye


Me: You should see to it that you get a new number.


Few minutes later:


Me: I don't want you to die. I'm sorry for even saying that. I....I just don't get you. If this is a game, you can quit with playing it now. Even total and complete strangers on dxp told me that you were in love with me too. I just don't get it. What the fuck are you so goddamn afraid of?


Her: What the hell are u talking about


Me: The Sag who told me this:


"You're right. She is in love with you but is scared to tell you that. Scared you will reject her. Scared you wont be the man she wants you to be. She ignores you because she is in love. She's immature and being a bitch because she doesnt know if its safe for her to let her guard down

She needs a push in the right direction.


Go to her.


Find her, embrace her. Tell her that you love her and only her. Kiss her. Take her into your arms. Make sweet love to her. Feed her. Then hold her in your arms all night. Spoon and cuddle.


In the morning, Take a bath together. Ask her to be your girlfriend.


She will say yes. Then she will be yours to mold. She will hang on to every word you say. She will become clingy. Direct her to be a better woman.


In the end, she will thank you." Clearly, she didn't know what the fuck she was talking about.


Her: Smh ....i don't know what to say to that


Me: You Sags are a cold piece of work. Each and every single one of you.


Her: Stop talking shit J goddamn


Me: Goodbye


Her: I hate people i swear i do
Take this as your closure.
Posted by DMV
Take this as your closure.
I will. I mean there's nothing much I can do after that. But thank you for all of your advice, though.


wait you told her that. ?


Omg i was joking. I told you initially that she wasnt interested sotospeak. You didn't want to believe the truth, so i told you what you wanted to hear.


I even told this other poster on the sag board the same thing, almost word for word, same day.


Man, this is awkward

No is a complete sentence. No does not have to come with an explanation behind it.


Why does it matter that she gave you a reason as to why shes6not interested? I mean, looking at the text, she said she told you that plain as day.
Posted by DMV
wait you told her that. ?


Omg i was joking. I told you initially that she wasnt interested sotospeak. You didn't want to believe the truth, so i told you what you wanted to hear.


I even told this other poster on the sag board the same thing, almost word for word, same day.


Man, this is awkward

I knew you set me up for failure. I fucking knew it.


My post was dripping with sarcasm
Posted by mzmee
No is a complete sentence. No does not have to come with an explanation behind it.


Why does it matter that she gave you a reason as to why shes6not interested? I mean, looking at the text, she said she told you that plain as day.
But I cut her off for four and a half days. She came crawling back to me. And she did at one point, and I do remember mentioning this in one of my other posts, agree to be my girlfriend 2 days before the 4th of July.

Posted by DMV
My post was dripping with sarcasm
Do you think she saw it that way?

Posted by Leo0807
Posted by mzmee
No is a complete sentence. No does not have to come with an explanation behind it.


Why does it matter that she gave you a reason as to why shes6not interested? I mean, looking at the text, she said she told you that plain as day.
But I cut her off for four and a half days. She came crawling back to me. And she did at one point, and I do remember mentioning this in one of my other posts, agree to be my girlfriend 2 days before the 4th of July.

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Ok. I haven't seen the thread. In that case, let her ass be. Sound like the only reason she came crawling back was so she can keep stringing you along and you "kissing her ass". That's immature shit. Let dude keep playing her.


Posted by Leo0807
Posted by DMV
My post was dripping with sarcasm
Do you think she saw it that way?

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Idk
Saggis can be cowards in that we dont like to be the bad guy.


We just don't want to get stabbed.
Posted by exo
you texted her advice you were given from a dxper? really?
I thought it was genuine, though.
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Posted by Leo0807
Posted by exo
you texted her advice you were given from a dxper? really?
I thought it was genuine, though.
leo, dxp and real lyfe don't mix.


you divulged to this sag that you've been asking for advice about her on the internet. that's crazy. we try to be discreet with our crazy here.
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This is like my third day as a dxp member. I'm still new to the rules.

Posted by DMV
Saggis can be cowards in that we dont like to be the bad guy.


We just don't want to get stabbed.
The fucked up thing is, is that she's not going to leave me alone. I'm gonna receive a random text some time during the middle of the week from her asking condescendingly, "Are u still mad?" And then she's going to follow me around the campus asking and saying the same old stupid shit: "Why so serious"? "Oh, you're not talking to me anymore"? "How mad are you on a scale from zero to a hundred"?


She's lousy. Ghost her.


Ignore, block. She's dead 2 u
Its easy to ignore someone.


Block.her number. No more texts.


You see her on the street, ignore.


She keeps coming, embaress her in public. Tell her to get the fuck outta your face and get that rash taken care of.


Cmon leo. Dont be a punk.


Youre coming across like she has all this power and your some weak mofo
Posted by Leo0807
Posted by DMV
Saggis can be cowards in that we dont like to be the bad guy.


We just don't want to get stabbed.
The fucked up thing is, is that she's not going to leave me alone. I'm gonna receive a random text some time during the middle of the week from her asking condescendingly, "Are u still mad?" And then she's going to follow me around the campus asking and saying the same old stupid shit: "Why so serious"? "Oh, you're not talking to me anymore"? "How mad are you on a scale from zero to a hundred"?


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She cute lol.


Your problem Leo, you never mean what you say. Which is why she treats you like that.


You say "dont talk to me" but you yourself keep the conversation going.


Shes acting like a dude and you're acting like a girl.
Posted by Leo0807
Posted by DMV
Saggis can be cowards in that we dont like to be the bad guy.


We just don't want to get stabbed.
The fucked up thing is, is that she's not going to leave me alone. I'm gonna receive a random text some time during the middle of the week from her asking condescendingly, "Are u still mad?" And then she's going to follow me around the campus asking and saying the same old stupid shit: "Why so serious"? "Oh, you're not talking to me anymore"? "How mad are you on a scale from zero to a hundred"?


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Make her ass get the picture. Ignore the living Fuck out of her. Lol. Don't even entertain the slightest convo. You're stronger than that.


Posted by DMV
Its easy to ignore someone.


Block.her number. No more texts.


You see her on the street, ignore.


She keeps coming, embaress her in public. Tell her to get the fuck outta your face and get that rash taken care of.


Cmon leo. Dont be a punk.


Youre coming across like she has all this power and your some weak mofo
You don't know her at all. But lemme tell you one thing that really scares me about her....she's super fucking quick to fight. And I don't think that she ever intends on losing, either. Aries moon.
Posted by exo
you texted her advice you were given from a dxper? really?
I choked on my oolong tea when I read that he quoted DMV in his text. I thought it was clear as day that she was being facetious :O
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Posted by Leo0807


Her: I been in love with him ....its complicated


Her: Because its fucking complicated ...and i been tellin u that I'm not interested that's ur ass who kept on pushing


Her: Its whatever though ...he does him and i do me



She's into the other guy. Saggies are honest.


Sure, she withheld this bit of information until you asked what's up. Sure, she may have been a bit confusing since sometimes she gave you attention. But not disclosing information isn't the same as lying.


If she said she's into someone else, she means it. She's not screwing with you, she's not trying to get you emotional, she really means it. So what was all this about? She was bored, and you were fun to play with.


She's also into guys that aren't really all that into her. She enjoys the chase, the challenge. How do I know this? In her message she keeps saying things like "it's complicated", "he does him and i do me", "I been in love with him". This shows that she's into him, but he isn't into her as much, lmaoooo, priceless.


Give up OP, you don't have a chance with this one. Don't waste anymore time. And why did you continue texting her RIGHT AFTER you said you'd stop? You seem somewhat clingy/dependent on her. Go find a Libra/Cancer/Taurus chick or something, you'll be better off. Winking



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You know what's funny? When she told me what was going on and how the other guy was onto whatever he was doing....And I was like, so basically your crush is you and you're me in regards to your situation? And she was like, pretty much.

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just be like im rick james bitch and substite "lion" for rick james


ALSO you sound strraight up like a cancer


you sure your not on a cusp?
I have a soft spot for women. And for this one in particular.


Sad


you will heal. don't let it weigh your heart down too much. many have been there, myself included. it's never easy, but don't drown yourself in misery. that's more detrimental to you than the heartbreak/hurt feelings itself.
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Her: I been in love with him ....its complicated


Her: Because its fucking complicated ...and i been tellin u that I'm not interested that's ur ass who kept on pushing


Her: Its whatever though ...he does him and i do me



She's into the other guy. Saggies are honest.


Sure, she withheld this bit of information until you asked what's up. Sure, she may have been a bit confusing since sometimes she gave you attention. But not disclosing information isn't the same as lying.


If she said she's into someone else, she means it. She's not screwing with you, she's not trying to get you emotional, she really means it. So what was all this about? She was bored, and you were fun to play with.


She's also into guys that aren't really all that into her. She enjoys the chase, the challenge. How do I know this? In her message she keeps saying things like "it's complicated", "he does him and i do me", "I been in love with him". This shows that she's into him, but he isn't into her as much, lmaoooo, priceless.


Give up OP, you don't have a chance with this one. Don't waste anymore time. And why did you continue texting her RIGHT AFTER you said you'd stop? You seem somewhat clingy/dependent on her. Go find a Libra/Cancer/Taurus chick or something, you'll be better off. Winking



You know what's funny? When she told me what was going on and how the other guy was onto whatever he was doing....And I was like, so basically your crush is you and you're me in regards to your situation? And she was like, pretty much.

Lmao. Sorry OP, this must suck, but you'll move on stronger and find someone who's on the same page as you. Winking
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It doesn't suck. This won't be the last that I hear from her. But I'm completely done with her.


Man.. Just let it go. I know it's hard, but you have to.
Posted by arose32
Man.. Just let it go. I know it's hard, but you have to.
I am letting it go.


You do sound psycho. Sorry OP but the blame is on you, a girl will give you their number if pressured enouhh. But she told you from.the very beginning she wasnt interested but didnt want to be mean so she gave you her number. For you to KEEP pestering her after she very clearly says she is not into you, then tell her you dont want her to die, telling her people online said she loves you, just alll reads looney.


Even if you were good looking and with a cool personality, that shit would be a major turn off.
this was the most dramatic post I've read on here... Can u please ghost her and kill some on that ego. She seriously needs a reality check.


So your dipshit ego ignored the fact that she wasn't interested, you chased anyway, and now are mad you got burned?


She's not innocent either, but you're no victim here, either, fool. I can't fucking believe you'd bring up DXP and show her that snippet. You're kinda loony dude.


Fucking Leos. Such drama whores.
Posted by Se7en
@op

No offense Leo dude but you sound way too emo in the text messages. Dudes should never show that much emotion to a chick they haven't even banged which is what this looks like.I would have erased or blocked her number when she lied about being in a meeting, probably way before that tho. But then again, I'm not a Leo.
Man, several years ago, I had a Leo chasing me and that guy came off as a fucking psycho. He was nice and all, but was getting downright creepy.


This guy's response doesn't surprise me the least bit. Emotionally immature Leo dudes are creepers.

Technically that sarcastic bit of advice by DMV would have worked in the right situation.

Me personally saw a whole lotta leeway in the first post.. then the second post went into a downward spiral and fiery explosion. Sad
Lol @ all the vultures swooping in to pick at the lion carcass
Hey, better luck next time Leo.
That's Leo though. BITCH DISSED MY EGO. BITCH MUST SUFFER. *SWISH SWISH*. The swishing is important.


Leo buddy, you walked your ass right into that when you ignored the red flags. The point isnt to be mad at her, but to learn so your next hunt is more successful.


Also, picking emotionally available women would help.
Posted by Wynter
Lol @ all the vultures swooping in to pick at the lion carcass
Seriously right
Posted by Gennie
That's Leo though. BITCH DISSED MY EGO. BITCH MUST SUFFER. *SWISH SWISH*. The swishing is important.


Leo buddy, you walked your ass right into that when you ignored the red flags. The point isnt to be mad at her, but to learn so your next hunt is more successful.


Also, picking emotionally available women would help.
This. There was a Leo in the Libra forum awhile back who was chasing a chick who was clearly not emotionally available, but he insisted on chasing and ended up getting burned.


These guys have nobody to blame but their egos when they do this stuff, tbh. At least that dude used it as a learning experience...


This one's finger pointing and placing all the blame on her. Is the OP a youngin'?


Posted by Se7en

Leo's are cool in my book! But I've been in a few awkward situations myself. For example, on this anonymous site that I'm gonna name lol there was this chick that got super WEIRD. I don't mind weird but that shi.t needs to be in doses, don't get drench me in it. Chick hasn't even met, and doesn't really know me but started saying shi.t like "I love you." "Do you love me?" And other things that really turned me off!! I'm not good at shutting things down sometimes especially if I know it'll hurt someone's feelings. You get the feeling like if you shut them down they'll take it harder than it needs to be taken. I kinda just drag things along lol.


Oh shi.t I sound like the girl in the op lol.


I'm guessing that's what happened here. I even hate braking up with someone. It's like the worst thing ever! I have a lot of Leo friends so I understand how the op feels like he needs to mend his ego. My friends do it. I've seen Leo's even lie about a situation just to cover their ego.
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I'm generally okay with the guys. It's that fucking ego that annoys the shit out of me and makes me roll my eyes, but overall, I don't mind them too much.


Don't get me started on the women. I've met more psychotic cases than normal ones, which is kind of depressing because when they're normal, they're actually cool people. But it's like for every 10 crazy ones, I meet one normal one. :/


It's funny you mention the lying though. My brother's Leo girlfriend lies all the fucking time. She imbellishes the truth or outright lies. I also grow tired of her humble brags of people hitting on her. There was one instance where she was going on about some guy supposedly following her while she was driving because she wouldn't talk to him when she left wherever they were. But as she told me the story, it was clearly a case of them happening to go the same way, because he ended up turning right when she turned left or whatever.


"BUT HE WAS FOLLOWING ME BECAUSE HE HIT ON ME IN THE STORE AND I WOULDN'T ANSWER HIM!"


...sure. :/


Egos and insecurity = nutjobs.
I just can't with sag. They make great friends but I never feel connection beyond that. In my case I'm the one letting male saggies down more than once. I just can't. Idk why.. But oh well. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I guess I limit that kind of crazy to friendship chemistry lol
Saggies are amazing people, love em... Haven't dated any myself but constantly impressed with them and their spontaneity and positive outlook- it's definitely a hook hahaha

but maybe try connecting with an Aries next time... Just as a suggestion.

You might be craving that fire-link, I think Aries match us in terms of the pace and depth when we start falling smile

You did go a bit over the top with the Clinginess OP, but we live and learn every day- better luck next time.

To both you and the Sag Gal x
Oh sweet baby Moses, wth did I just read?....
Posted by DMV
wait you told her that. ?


Omg i was joking.

Posted by Leo0807

You Sags are a cold piece of work. Each and every single one of you.

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Saggies are amazing people, love em... Haven't dated any myself but constantly impressed with them and their spontaneity and positive outlook- it's definitely a hook hahaha

but maybe try connecting with an Aries next time... Just as a suggestion.

You might be craving that fire-link, I think Aries match us in terms of the pace and depth when we start falling smile

You did go a bit over the top with the Clinginess OP, but we live and learn every day- better luck next time.

To both you and the Sag Gal x
To be frank, I sometimes can't handle the Sag frankness. I'm all for negative reinforcement, but nonconstructive criticism, da fug?


It's like, "er, okay, thanks. Bye."
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Just for meh personally, I really prefer it. If it doesn't apply to my situation I shrug it off... the good thing is they don't take it hard if you are equally straightforward back like "no sorry that doesn't work or apply to meh thanks" LOL

But I know what you mean- it can be so blunt sometimesh.

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Oh sweet baby Moses, wth did I just read?....
Did you read his virginity loss thread?
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*tea in hand* On my way....

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Posted by wagtail
Saggies are amazing people, love em... Haven't dated any myself but constantly impressed with them and their spontaneity and positive outlook- it's definitely a hook hahaha

but maybe try connecting with an Aries next time... Just as a suggestion.

You might be craving that fire-link, I think Aries match us in terms of the pace and depth when we start falling smile

You did go a bit over the top with the Clinginess OP, but we live and learn every day- better luck next time.

To both you and the Sag Gal x
To be frank, I sometimes can't handle the Sag frankness. I'm all for negative reinforcement, but nonconstructive criticism, da fug?


It's like, "er, okay, thanks. Bye."
Just for meh personally, I really prefer it. If it doesn't apply to my situation I shrug it off... the good thing is they don't take it hard if you are equally straightforward back like "no sorry that doesn't work or apply to meh thanks" LOL

But I know what you mean- it can be so blunt sometimesh.

The best way I can describe it is like: someone that is colour blind telling you that the green caterpillar is red; then calling you a moron.
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Oh, well, I haven't experienced THAT

Go ghost & block all forms of communication. She's playing games with you.
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Posted by SofiaV87
Go ghost & block all forms of communication. She's playing games with you.
He said they made up and he lost his virginity to her ...

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Omg LOL

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