Posted by DMVI will. I mean there's nothing much I can do after that. But thank you for all of your advice, though.
Take this as your closure.
Posted by DMVI knew you set me up for failure. I fucking knew it.
wait you told her that. ?
Omg i was joking. I told you initially that she wasnt interested sotospeak. You didn't want to believe the truth, so i told you what you wanted to hear.
I even told this other poster on the sag board the same thing, almost word for word, same day.
Man, this is awkward
Posted by mzmeeBut I cut her off for four and a half days. She came crawling back to me. And she did at one point, and I do remember mentioning this in one of my other posts, agree to be my girlfriend 2 days before the 4th of July.
No is a complete sentence. No does not have to come with an explanation behind it.
Why does it matter that she gave you a reason as to why shes6not interested? I mean, looking at the text, she said she told you that plain as day.
Posted by DMVDo you think she saw it that way?
My post was dripping with sarcasm
Posted by Leo0807Ok. I haven't seen the thread. In that case, let her ass be. Sound like the only reason she came crawling back was so she can keep stringing you along and you "kissing her ass". That's immature shit. Let dude keep playing her.Posted by mzmeeBut I cut her off for four and a half days. She came crawling back to me. And she did at one point, and I do remember mentioning this in one of my other posts, agree to be my girlfriend 2 days before the 4th of July.
No is a complete sentence. No does not have to come with an explanation behind it.
Why does it matter that she gave you a reason as to why shes6not interested? I mean, looking at the text, she said she told you that plain as day.click to expand
Posted by Leo0807IdkPosted by DMVDo you think she saw it that way?
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Posted by exoI thought it was genuine, though.
you texted her advice you were given from a dxper? really?
Posted by exoThis is like my third day as a dxp member. I'm still new to the rules.Posted by Leo0807leo, dxp and real lyfe don't mix.Posted by exoI thought it was genuine, though.
you texted her advice you were given from a dxper? really?
you divulged to this sag that you've been asking for advice about her on the internet. that's crazy. we try to be discreet with our crazy here.click to expand
Posted by DMVThe fucked up thing is, is that she's not going to leave me alone. I'm gonna receive a random text some time during the middle of the week from her asking condescendingly, "Are u still mad?" And then she's going to follow me around the campus asking and saying the same old stupid shit: "Why so serious"? "Oh, you're not talking to me anymore"? "How mad are you on a scale from zero to a hundred"?
Saggis can be cowards in that we dont like to be the bad guy.
We just don't want to get stabbed.
Posted by Leo0807She cute lol.Posted by DMVThe fucked up thing is, is that she's not going to leave me alone. I'm gonna receive a random text some time during the middle of the week from her asking condescendingly, "Are u still mad?" And then she's going to follow me around the campus asking and saying the same old stupid shit: "Why so serious"? "Oh, you're not talking to me anymore"? "How mad are you on a scale from zero to a hundred"?
Saggis can be cowards in that we dont like to be the bad guy.
We just don't want to get stabbed.click to expand
Posted by Leo0807Make her ass get the picture. Ignore the living Fuck out of her. Lol. Don't even entertain the slightest convo. You're stronger than that.Posted by DMVThe fucked up thing is, is that she's not going to leave me alone. I'm gonna receive a random text some time during the middle of the week from her asking condescendingly, "Are u still mad?" And then she's going to follow me around the campus asking and saying the same old stupid shit: "Why so serious"? "Oh, you're not talking to me anymore"? "How mad are you on a scale from zero to a hundred"?
Saggis can be cowards in that we dont like to be the bad guy.
We just don't want to get stabbed.click to expand
Posted by DMVYou don't know her at all. But lemme tell you one thing that really scares me about her....she's super fucking quick to fight. And I don't think that she ever intends on losing, either. Aries moon.
Its easy to ignore someone.
Block.her number. No more texts.
You see her on the street, ignore.
She keeps coming, embaress her in public. Tell her to get the fuck outta your face and get that rash taken care of.
Cmon leo. Dont be a punk.
Youre coming across like she has all this power and your some weak mofo
Posted by exoI choked on my oolong tea when I read that he quoted DMV in his text. I thought it was clear as day that she was being facetious :O
you texted her advice you were given from a dxper? really?
Posted by SagiScorpYou know what's funny? When she told me what was going on and how the other guy was onto whatever he was doing....And I was like, so basically your crush is you and you're me in regards to your situation? And she was like, pretty much.Posted by Leo0807She's into the other guy. Saggies are honest.
Her: I been in love with him ....its complicated
Her: Because its fucking complicated ...and i been tellin u that I'm not interested that's ur ass who kept on pushing
Her: Its whatever though ...he does him and i do me
Sure, she withheld this bit of information until you asked what's up. Sure, she may have been a bit confusing since sometimes she gave you attention. But not disclosing information isn't the same as lying.
If she said she's into someone else, she means it. She's not screwing with you, she's not trying to get you emotional, she really means it. So what was all this about? She was bored, and you were fun to play with.
She's also into guys that aren't really all that into her. She enjoys the chase, the challenge. How do I know this? In her message she keeps saying things like "it's complicated", "he does him and i do me", "I been in love with him". This shows that she's into him, but he isn't into her as much, lmaoooo, priceless.
Give up OP, you don't have a chance with this one. Don't waste anymore time. And why did you continue texting her RIGHT AFTER you said you'd stop? You seem somewhat clingy/dependent on her. Go find a Libra/Cancer/Taurus chick or something, you'll be better off.
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Posted by bumboklattI have a soft spot for women. And for this one in particular.
just be like im rick james bitch and substite "lion" for rick james
ALSO you sound strraight up like a cancer
you sure your not on a cusp?
Posted by SagiScorpIt doesn't suck. This won't be the last that I hear from her. But I'm completely done with her.Posted by Leo0807Lmao. Sorry OP, this must suck, but you'll move on stronger and find someone who's on the same page as you.Posted by SagiScorpYou know what's funny? When she told me what was going on and how the other guy was onto whatever he was doing....And I was like, so basically your crush is you and you're me in regards to your situation? And she was like, pretty much.Posted by Leo0807She's into the other guy. Saggies are honest.
Her: I been in love with him ....its complicated
Her: Because its fucking complicated ...and i been tellin u that I'm not interested that's ur ass who kept on pushing
Her: Its whatever though ...he does him and i do me
Sure, she withheld this bit of information until you asked what's up. Sure, she may have been a bit confusing since sometimes she gave you attention. But not disclosing information isn't the same as lying.
If she said she's into someone else, she means it. She's not screwing with you, she's not trying to get you emotional, she really means it. So what was all this about? She was bored, and you were fun to play with.
She's also into guys that aren't really all that into her. She enjoys the chase, the challenge. How do I know this? In her message she keeps saying things like "it's complicated", "he does him and i do me", "I been in love with him". This shows that she's into him, but he isn't into her as much, lmaoooo, priceless.
Give up OP, you don't have a chance with this one. Don't waste anymore time. And why did you continue texting her RIGHT AFTER you said you'd stop? You seem somewhat clingy/dependent on her. Go find a Libra/Cancer/Taurus chick or something, you'll be better off.![]()
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Posted by arose32I am letting it go.
Man.. Just let it go. I know it's hard, but you have to.
Posted by Se7enMan, several years ago, I had a Leo chasing me and that guy came off as a fucking psycho. He was nice and all, but was getting downright creepy.
@op
No offense Leo dude but you sound way too emo in the text messages. Dudes should never show that much emotion to a chick they haven't even banged which is what this looks like.I would have erased or blocked her number when she lied about being in a meeting, probably way before that tho. But then again, I'm not a Leo.
Posted by WynterSeriously right
Lol @ all the vultures swooping in to pick at the lion carcass
Posted by GennieThis. There was a Leo in the Libra forum awhile back who was chasing a chick who was clearly not emotionally available, but he insisted on chasing and ended up getting burned.
That's Leo though. BITCH DISSED MY EGO. BITCH MUST SUFFER. *SWISH SWISH*. The swishing is important.
Leo buddy, you walked your ass right into that when you ignored the red flags. The point isnt to be mad at her, but to learn so your next hunt is more successful.
Also, picking emotionally available women would help.
Posted by Se7en
Leo's are cool in my book! But I've been in a few awkward situations myself. For example, on this anonymous site that I'm gonna name lol there was this chick that got super WEIRD. I don't mind weird but that shi.t needs to be in doses, don't get drench me in it. Chick hasn't even met, and doesn't really know me but started saying shi.t like "I love you." "Do you love me?" And other things that really turned me off!! I'm not good at shutting things down sometimes especially if I know it'll hurt someone's feelings. You get the feeling like if you shut them down they'll take it harder than it needs to be taken. I kinda just drag things along lol.
Oh shi.t I sound like the girl in the op lol.
I'm guessing that's what happened here. I even hate braking up with someone. It's like the worst thing ever! I have a lot of Leo friends so I understand how the op feels like he needs to mend his ego. My friends do it. I've seen Leo's even lie about a situation just to cover their ego.click to expand
Posted by DMV
wait you told her that. ?
Omg i was joking.
Posted by Leo0807
You Sags are a cold piece of work. Each and every single one of you.click to expand
Posted by LeDominoesJust for meh personally, I really prefer it. If it doesn't apply to my situation I shrug it off... the good thing is they don't take it hard if you are equally straightforward back like "no sorry that doesn't work or apply to meh thanks" LOLPosted by wagtailTo be frank, I sometimes can't handle the Sag frankness. I'm all for negative reinforcement, but nonconstructive criticism, da fug?
Saggies are amazing people, love em... Haven't dated any myself but constantly impressed with them and their spontaneity and positive outlook- it's definitely a hook hahaha
but maybe try connecting with an Aries next time... Just as a suggestion.
You might be craving that fire-link, I think Aries match us in terms of the pace and depth when we start falling![]()
You did go a bit over the top with the Clinginess OP, but we live and learn every day- better luck next time.
To both you and the Sag Gal x
It's like, "er, okay, thanks. Bye."click to expand
Posted by ButtWipePosted by PhoenixRisingDid you read his virginity loss thread?
Oh sweet baby Moses, wth did I just read?....click to expand
Posted by LeDominoesOh, well, I haven't experienced THATPosted by wagtailThe best way I can describe it is like: someone that is colour blind telling you that the green caterpillar is red; then calling you a moron.Posted by LeDominoesJust for meh personally, I really prefer it. If it doesn't apply to my situation I shrug it off... the good thing is they don't take it hard if you are equally straightforward back like "no sorry that doesn't work or apply to meh thanks" LOLPosted by wagtailTo be frank, I sometimes can't handle the Sag frankness. I'm all for negative reinforcement, but nonconstructive criticism, da fug?
Saggies are amazing people, love em... Haven't dated any myself but constantly impressed with them and their spontaneity and positive outlook- it's definitely a hook hahaha
but maybe try connecting with an Aries next time... Just as a suggestion.
You might be craving that fire-link, I think Aries match us in terms of the pace and depth when we start falling![]()
You did go a bit over the top with the Clinginess OP, but we live and learn every day- better luck next time.
To both you and the Sag Gal x
It's like, "er, okay, thanks. Bye."
But I know what you mean- it can be so blunt sometimesh.click to expand
Posted by sagiluvOmg LOLPosted by SofiaV87He said they made up and he lost his virginity to her ...
Go ghost & block all forms of communication. She's playing games with you.click to expand
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