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Posted by Cajunspirit
With my 2nd Sagittarian relationship I am becoming more and more familiar with your minds.
How you freeze up when questioned, hold your tongue when under pressure, say you will change when in the right mood yet go back to the old ways when in the situation.




i freeze up when being questioned...i hate being cornered
i also hold my tongue under pressure

i honestly do want to make changes, but in the intensity of the moment i often fall into old habits
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Posted by Mebs
And I don't like to talk too deeply about my soft side.

Good luck with your new Sag!



Thanks, it helps reassure others of your interest in a relationship this soft side. But you all always end up feeling stupid and vulnerable for doing so.

Justifiable for the bad men out there, but it pushes away the good ones too.

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Ok what changes do you want this one to make though?



My Sagi?
I just want as much communication as possible, it's when a Sagi girl stops talking, keeps things to herself, builds up resentment then explodes that things get bad.

Posted by SagGal70

Interesting...even after giving birth to 3 of Virgo's kids he did mention how tight I still was...Lol

...and apparently, due to comments from post-divorce romps in the hay, it still is 😉



Yum

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Oh shit I'm learning shit about myself by read this thread I need to turn my computer screen off. Cajun what happened to the first Sag—
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She was with a September 2nd before me, that's who she cheated on me with. Later on she started seeing a September 4th guy who I grew up and went to church with, her father had a relationship with him from training in one of the national services. We were together for 1 year and 1 month, my longest relationship ever, no intermittent break ups.

She grew cold towards me and I suspected something was wrong. She said she needed space and with no explanation it drove me to become even more weary. She dumped me shortly thereafter saying she wanted to be free, then I heard she was in a relatioship with him.

Fast forward 2 years later and she's married to him and gestating his 2nd child. I wish them the best, but I don't appreciate the way she handled it not to mention the lying. Her hypocrisy knows no bounds.
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She was with a September 2nd before me, that's who she cheated on me with. Later on she started seeing a September 4th guy who I grew up and went to church with, her father had a relationship with him from training in one of the national services. We were together for 1 year and 1 month, my longest relationship ever, no intermittent break ups.

She grew cold towards me and I suspected something was wrong. She said she needed space and with no explanation it drove me to become even more weary. She dumped me shortly thereafter saying she wanted to be free, then I heard she was in a relatioship with him.

Fast forward 2 years later and she's married to him and gestating his 2nd child. I wish them the best, but I don't appreciate the way she handled it not to mention the lying. Her hypocrisy knows no bounds.
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I see and yeah I'd wish them the best to and move on good that you think like this. Keep it up -winks-
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Posted by DMV
im a 1st decan....i love liqour but i shouldnt drink it...makes me do all kinds of crazy stuff that people try to make me remember and regret later.



Lol...It's not that I don't love the juice, my problem lies within the fact that I never know how my body will react to it. Sometimes I will puke off of 2 drinks, sometimes I will be drunk in 2, other times I can drink like there's no tomorrow and feel nothing. It's very odd...I prefer microbrews and wine myself...never was much for the hard stuff. I try and limit myself when I go out though due to unknown reactions I have...3 is typically where I stop.
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i dig you cajun spirit....



I dig you to you seem cool as shit.



Haha, thank you ladies 🙂

@cajun, my answer is under yours inside the qoute DXP is fucking with me again it seems -.-



I saw 😛

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Posted by DMV
....do you know your saggis placements?

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Of course

Hers
Sun Sagittarius 8.39
Moon Taurus 21.29
Mercury Sagittarius 28.54
Venus Sagittarius 15.58
Mars Gemini 4.09 R
Jupiter Leo 13.35 R
Saturn Capricorn 22.20
Uranus Capricorn 7.56
Neptune Capricorn 13.01
Pluto Scorpio 18.34
Lilith Sagittarius 13.40
Asc node Capricorn 29.17

Mine
Sun Virgo 16.18
Moon Leo 19.55
Mercury Libra 11.56
Venus Leo 1.21
Mars Aries 10.16 R
Jupiter Gemini 5.43
Saturn Sagittarius 26.00
Uranus Sagittarius 27.03
Neptune Capricorn 7.27 R
Pluto Scorpio 10.29
Lilith Virgo 13.04
Asc node Pisces 14.03
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Posted by SagGal70
Posted by littlearcher
i'm also a 1st decan



Could 1st Decan Sag = low alcohol tolerance? Hmmm...interesting little tid-bit.
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It is a curious bit... made more elusive by the Sagittarian nature to exaggerate for a better story.

Sag : "Yeah, I had a whole bunch of drinks!" /
"So many people thought this movie was good!"

Me : Really? How much?

Sag : Eerrrr

Me: 4?

Sag : Yeah 🙂

Me : lol

I find 1st Decans the most friendly and outgoing. Based on what I know and experience the alcohol tolerance does vary.

2nd Decans are more level headed, still thrill seekers and least likely to cheat.

3rd Decans are sometimish, often quiet until the right moment/mood. Highest alcohol tolerance.
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Posted by Cajunspirit
With my 2nd Sagittarian relationship I am becoming more and more familiar with your minds.
How you freeze up when questioned, hold your tongue when under pressure, say you will change when in the right mood yet go back to the old ways when in the situation.




🙂
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I am hyped up when she is gloomy, I disregard what she says in anger, I withhold questions until she is ready, I give her lots of attention, always try to make her laugh, keep a variety of activities going, pick her up when she is down, calm her when she is panicking.

Though I don't always understand her actions, which is what helps me most, I give her the space and time she needs to explain to me...

Dealing with "Time of Month" though... is quite a doozy....
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Posted by Cajunspirit
With my 2nd Sagittarian relationship I am becoming more and more familiar with your minds.
How you freeze up when questioned, hold your tongue when under pressure, say you will change when in the right mood yet go back to the old ways when in the situation.




🙂



I am hyped up when she is gloomy, I disregard what she says in anger, I withhold questions until she is ready, I give her lots of attention, always try to make her laugh, keep a variety of activities going, pick her up when she is down, calm her when she is panicking.

Though I don't always understand her actions, which is what helps me most, I give her the space and time she needs to explain to me...

Dealing with "Time of Month" though... is quite a doozy....
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You, young man, are the most level headed Virgo I have ever come across in my life. You seem to have a very solid understanding of us Sagi-liscous females and our inner tickings. Damn, if you were 12-15 years older, I do believe I'd consider giving Virgos another test drive...Lol... (ok, maybe not...but still take it as a compliment 😉 )
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Posted by SagGal70

You, young man, are the most level headed Virgo I have ever come across in my life. You seem to have a very solid understanding of us Sagi-liscous females and our inner tickings. Damn, if you were 12-15 years older, I do believe I'd consider giving Virgos another test drive...Lol... (ok, maybe not...but still take it as a compliment 😉 )



Haha, I appreciate it.

It took a lot of learning and research for me to reach this point. Many encounters and lots of studying.
It comes down to a matter of fighting "natural/instinctual responses".
"Knowing better" or so to speak and it is always a challenge, but one more than worthy of undertaking 🙂
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Posted by SagGal70

You, young man, are the most level headed Virgo I have ever come across in my life. You seem to have a very solid understanding of us Sagi-liscous females and our inner tickings. Damn, if you were 12-15 years older, I do believe I'd consider giving Virgos another test drive...Lol... (ok, maybe not...but still take it as a compliment 😉 )



Haha, I appreciate it.

It took a lot of learning and research for me to reach this point. Many encounters and lots of studying.
It comes down to a matter of fighting "natural/instinctual responses".
"Knowing better" or so to speak and it is always a challenge, but one more than worthy of undertaking 🙂
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...the key here is: you are willing to learn. I have yet to encounter, in my personal life, a Virgo without the "my way or the highway" attitude.
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Posted by SagGal70


...the key here is: you are willing to learn. I have yet to encounter, in my personal life, a Virgo without the "my way or the highway" attitude.



I think for a lot of people it comes down to people's view and expectations.

"If you loved me, (I assume/expect) that you would/would not do this" which I myself am guilty of every so often.

Not understanding why someone is doing or did something, really hinders my ability to relate to them, this rings especially true in a relationship.

Hence, it is through my study and research I believe just like they say a Sagi girl is just out to have fun.

She [generally] isn't going out with guys to do anything other than have fun, she doesn't mean to hurt your feelings when she is being blunt, she really has a problem controlling her mouth, she has a tendency to act on impulse, her feelings are strong and true and she doesn't want them to be taken for granted so she keeps them tucked away.

I think that's why Aquarian men tend to be the best choice. Their aloofness.

But sods like me fall victim to thinking there is more to the actions, to be ignited by jealousy, to give in to over-worry.

You ladies are so pleasant and unassuming, unaware of how your actions often impact the men that desire your hearts.
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i feel like life should be an eternal high. when its not...whomp whomp



I think deep down we all want and expect good things in life, it's when bad things happen that test our character.
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It is said that Sagittarians are the eternal optimists of the zodiac...what I find in myself true to sign is that even when things are at their worst, I still can see a bit of that light at the end of the tunnel and the situation doesn't completely drag me down...and if it does, it isn't for long and I am back bouncing around again.

A quote about Sag girls that I love:
"She'll always be a little outspoken, because she sees the world exactly as it is, even while she's wearing those ridiculous rose tinted glasses. It's not everyone who can apply clear, reasonable logic to every situation, and retain the happy faculty of believing things will get better or else deciding to accept them for what they are."

...not sure it directly applies to all Sag girls, but for myself it's dead on.
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...the key here is: you are willing to learn. I have yet to encounter, in my personal life, a Virgo without the "my way or the highway" attitude.



I think for a lot of people it comes down to people's view and expectations.

"If you loved me, (I assume/expect) that you would/would not do this" which I myself am guilty of every so often.

Not understanding why someone is doing or did something, really hinders my ability to relate to them, this rings especially true in a relationship.

Hence, it is through my study and research I believe just like they say a Sagi girl is just out to have fun.

She [generally] isn't going out with guys to do anything other than have fun, she doesn't mean to hurt your feelings when she is being blunt, she really has a problem controlling her mouth, she has a tendency to act on impulse, her feelings are strong and true and she doesn't want them to be taken for granted so she keeps them tucked away.

I think that's why Aquarian men tend to be the best choice. Their aloofness.

But sods like me fall victim to thinking there is more to the actions, to be ignited by jealousy, to give in to over-worry.

You ladies are so pleasant and unassuming, unaware of how your actions often impact the men that desire your hearts.
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It's true...I love Aquas!🙂 And you're right, we just wanna have fun. We are the poster children for Cyndi Laupers song 😉
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i feel like life should be an eternal high. when its not...whomp whomp



I think deep down we all want and expect good things in life, it's when bad things happen that test our character.



It is said that Sagittarians are the eternal optimists of the zodiac...what I find in myself true to sign is that even when things are at their worst, I still can see a bit of that light at the end of the tunnel and the situation doesn't completely drag me down...and if it does, it isn't for long and I am back bouncing around again.

A quote about Sag girls that I love:
"She'll always be a little outspoken, because she sees the world exactly as it is, even while she's wearing those ridiculous rose tinted glasses. It's not everyone who can apply clear, reasonable logic to every situation, and retain the happy faculty of believing things will get better or else deciding to accept them for what they are."

...not sure it directly applies to all Sag girls, but for myself it's dead on.
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where would the world be without optimism?
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Posted by DMV

i feel like life should be an eternal high. when its not...whomp whomp



I think deep down we all want and expect good things in life, it's when bad things happen that test our character.



It is said that Sagittarians are the eternal optimists of the zodiac...what I find in myself true to sign is that even when things are at their worst, I still can see a bit of that light at the end of the tunnel and the situation doesn't completely drag me down...and if it does, it isn't for long and I am back bouncing around again.

A quote about Sag girls that I love:
"She'll always be a little outspoken, because she sees the world exactly as it is, even while she's wearing those ridiculous rose tinted glasses. It's not everyone who can apply clear, reasonable logic to every situation, and retain the happy faculty of believing things will get better or else deciding to accept them for what they are."

...not sure it directly applies to all Sag girls, but for myself it's dead on.



where would the world be without optimism?
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Indeed!
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I am a Sagittarius woman.and I must admit when I was reading your statements about how we are it's sooooo true it was like I was reading me lol.
We will cheat when we feel unappreciated..we say what we want..we are hard lovers..happy bubbly people..aiming to please is why we live almost.we out ourselves aside to fit the needs of others.once we live you,there is no turning back because we will di whatever we have to to please our mate.we can be animals in bed if you can get us heated up right,we are freaks lol.

But I find it weird that I met this Virgo Guy in Dec 2011 and he just recently started acting weird july2012..he doesn't call or text.no hanging out or spending the night anymore.the first 4 months it was fantastic.he acted like I was his girlfriend without us making it official.we had great sex and at first he wasn't kissing me then he started tongue kissing me while having sex.I drove his car,meet his mom,dad,sis,dads mom and his moms sister and friends.he bought me expensive things and cooked for me whatever my heart desired.we showered together and even though they say Virgos don't open up he told me about family issues.he even gave me a nickname that means something special to him.but when I wanted to get serious and ask him what we were I noticed he started backing off.but when I tell him I'm going to leave him alone he always tries to do something to make me stay.
Could he love me and is scared to show it because he doesn't know how to tell me or am I looking for something that isn't there?? Or is it that he may like me and not love me yet? ?
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Okay! So I know this is super duper late, haha. But I am a proud 3rd decan Sagittarius female with the same birthday as your girlfriend! (Dec. 16th!) Anyway, I was doing a little bit of googling, looking for anything to give me a little guidance on a potential relationship with a virgo man. What you said about sagittarius women is 150% ACCURATE. I honestly felt as if you were describing me! (except my drink of choice is whiskey not scotch haha). As a fellow sun baby I will say that although you do not understand where your sag was coming from with the cheating I get it completely.

As a sagittarius we always have the desire to keep going, and moving, and exploring commitment can be absolutely HORRIFYING. I have only cheated once, almost the same situation as your girlfriend. It just comes from the panic of not knowing what you're getting into. As you have seen your girl's panic attacks you may be able to understand a bit.

But I also wanted to extend my thanks for giving me some hope in that a relationship between a virgo and sagittarius can work, as well as provide a virgo perspective on us sags.


But lastly whoever said that virgos are lackluster in bed have either never slept with a virgo, or just slept with a generally lackluster man who happened to be a virgo.
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Lol, I feel sorry for the schmuck who analyze Sag women, as if there is anything to them. Seriously, my father told me that it's the crazy women who serve you right in bed. Sag women, I have to tip my hat to them. They are probably some of the best lays I've ever had. But beyond that, you shouldn't be getting acquainted with their personalities too much. They're some of the most random people walking around these days. They just get as horny as most men do. So if you do them up right, they'll always use you as a means to get off. There are some men crazy enough to want to deal with them, but the key is that you need to be crazy to deal with them.



This was always my fave post 😛
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ALCOHOL
The only sign that can keep up with a Sagitarian drinker is a Virgo drinker. It is all too common that you find Sag women boasting about their ability to drink a whole bottle of Scotch by themselves. I don't really see that as something to be proud of but hey, they do... Looking into the astrology on Sag health, alcohol is the WORST thing they can consume. Yet they are so incredibly fond of it.

SMOKING
I really don't get it, I'm a health conscious person, very conscious. Sag girls and there love of freedom... They smoke! They smoke a lot if they want. It's terrible and sad really...

HEALTH
Based on the past two headings, it is clear. Sagittarian women really could care less about their health. As long as they are having a good time and pleasing those around them, they are seemingly happy.





i hate you.

my leo man hates to see me drink even though he masks it as a "don't like because you don't know what you are doing sexually".
now, i am a fucking machine AND a great drinker, so...idk

i am not an addict, but i always have cigarettes in my car, just in case. my leo knows nothing about it.
i clean up very well and don't do it enough to smell.
i do it because it is supremely rebellious and makes me feel like a bad ass.
but i am noticing a cough.
ugh.
of course, i am gonna not do it anymore...?
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Posted by Cajunspirit
ALCOHOL
The only sign that can keep up with a Sagitarian drinker is a Virgo drinker. It is all too common that you find Sag women boasting about their ability to drink a whole bottle of Scotch by themselves. I don't really see that as something to be proud of but hey, they do... Looking into the astrology on Sag health, alcohol is the WORST thing they can consume. Yet they are so incredibly fond of it.

SMOKING
I really don't get it, I'm a health conscious person, very conscious. Sag girls and there love of freedom... They smoke! They smoke a lot if they want. It's terrible and sad really...

HEALTH
Based on the past two headings, it is clear. Sagittarian women really could care less about their health. As long as they are having a good time and pleasing those around them, they are seemingly happy.





i hate you.

my leo man hates to see me drink even though he masks it as a "don't like because you don't know what you are doing sexually".
now, i am a fucking machine AND a great drinker, so...idk

i am not an addict, but i always have cigarettes in my car, just in case. my leo knows nothing about it.
i clean up very well and don't do it enough to smell.
i do it because it is supremely rebellious and makes me feel like a bad ass.
but i am noticing a cough.
ugh.
of course, i am gonna not do it anymore...?
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Don't smoke. It's bad. Eat pixie sticks instead. YUM. 🙂
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Posted by Cajunspirit
ALCOHOL
The only sign that can keep up with a Sagitarian drinker is a Virgo drinker. It is all too common that you find Sag women boasting about their ability to drink a whole bottle of Scotch by themselves. I don't really see that as something to be proud of but hey, they do... Looking into the astrology on Sag health, alcohol is the WORST thing they can consume. Yet they are so incredibly fond of it.

SMOKING
I really don't get it, I'm a health conscious person, very conscious. Sag girls and there love of freedom... They smoke! They smoke a lot if they want. It's terrible and sad really...

HEALTH
Based on the past two headings, it is clear. Sagittarian women really could care less about their health. As long as they are having a good time and pleasing those around them, they are seemingly happy.





i hate you.

my leo man hates to see me drink even though he masks it as a "don't like because you don't know what you are doing sexually".
now, i am a fucking machine AND a great drinker, so...idk

i am not an addict, but i always have cigarettes in my car, just in case. my leo knows nothing about it.
i clean up very well and don't do it enough to smell.
i do it because it is supremely rebellious and makes me feel like a bad ass.
but i am noticing a cough.
ugh.
of course, i am gonna not do it anymore...?



Don't smoke. It's bad. Eat pixie sticks instead. YUM. 🙂
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yeah...i am not gonna anymore. you're right.
plus i think my leo wants to get closer and i cant get found out.
btw, i only smoke in the car...with my music LOUD and windows down...so nice!
i don't like candy, but i could replace cigarettes with fried tofu sticks...yummoooooo!!!