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I will admit when fall and winter roll around I go into some kinda depressed mode where I wish I had someone to cuddle with.
Now that I've been cutting off guys (that I don't want to date or have a fwb with) I feel very much lonely. I hang with friends a lot, but it's not like it used to be where friends or family could help me... I just feel like I really need someone who will hold and kiss me.

Sorry just venting :/ Maybe someone else here feels the same way. Or maybe you're one of the other 50 billion people getting in a relationship at the time. I can't even think of anyone I'd get in a relationship with at the moment *sigh*
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Yes, I feel very lonely and am going through alot right now.

I'm having trouble connecting to my new scorp. I feel bad. It makes me feel lonely.

The weather does have an effect like that though sometimes doesn't it?

I'm sure you'll met someone new if that is what your wanting kits!

You a friendly saggie! 🙂


But yea what dvm said too, try to happy you things!
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Posted by DMV
try taking up a new hobby, something youd probably never do.

try a new nail color polish, something bright to put some pep in your step

play funny jokes on people, so everyone laughs...


*just some things that i do



Yeah I'm gna try to get into horse riding again

Everytime I think about my last good relationship tho, it makes me sad. Even when I'm with people.. Maybe I'm not lonely, I just need affection from the opposite sex
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try taking up a new hobby, something youd probably never do.

try a new nail color polish, something bright to put some pep in your step

play funny jokes on people, so everyone laughs...


*just some things that i do



Yeah I'm gna try to get into horse riding again

Everytime I think about my last good relationship tho, it makes me sad. Even when I'm with people.. Maybe I'm not lonely, I just need affection from the opposite sex
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i hear ya. we both have venus in the 7th. we both live for relationships especially from the opposite sex.

doesnt even have to be sexual...just playfulness and closeness from a man...testosterone.
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Yes, I feel very lonely and am going through alot right now.

I'm having trouble connecting to my new scorp. I feel bad. It makes me feel lonely.

The weather does have an effect like that though sometimes doesn't it?

I'm sure you'll met someone new if that is what your wanting kits!

You a friendly saggie! 🙂


But yea what dvm said too, try to happy you things!



its been raining for a few days and ive been home doing beauty treatments and watching comedies. i went to walmart and brought these different beauty masks to try out. i also took some of my own advice and got a new nail polish color.

so your not connecting with the scorpy? what do u think is causing the blockage...could it be the whole bun in the oven. i was thinking that would bring u guys closer.
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try taking up a new hobby, something youd probably never do.

try a new nail color polish, something bright to put some pep in your step

play funny jokes on people, so everyone laughs...


*just some things that i do



Yeah I'm gna try to get into horse riding again

Everytime I think about my last good relationship tho, it makes me sad. Even when I'm with people.. Maybe I'm not lonely, I just need affection from the opposite sex



i hear ya. we both have venus in the 7th. we both live for relationships especially from the opposite sex.

doesnt even have to be sexual...just playfulness and closeness from a man...testosterone.
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Agreed. I like me some man time.

Saw the sag at work again together... *sigh* really do miss that relationship. Wish I could have another with someone that affectionate/fun.
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Posted by happykitsune
I will admit when fall and winter roll around I go into some kinda depressed mode where I wish I had someone to cuddle with.
Now that I've been cutting off guys (that I don't want to date or have a fwb with) I feel very much lonely. I hang with friends a lot, but it's not like it used to be where friends or family could help me... I just feel like I really need someone who will hold and kiss me.

Sorry just venting :/ Maybe someone else here feels the same way. Or maybe you're one of the other 50 billion people getting in a relationship at the time. I can't even think of anyone I'd get in a relationship with at the moment *sigh*



Happy,
I want you to think about what you said.....
You said you cut off guys that you don't want to date or have a fwb(?)with.
But now you sound like one else will have you...
You have to stop and consider other people's feelings, too beside your own.
IF you don't want to feel lonely, then be a friend to someone who truly is.
This IS the lesson that many Sagittarians need to learn.
Try to visualize the life ahead of you: Do you want to be thought of as a cheap used car that's been WELL used—
Or a new car, well taken care of by the original owner?
Sure... sagittarians love their freedom but they need to learn that they CAN enjoy their freedom with someone
they love... in a lifelong companionship. Life is not about fun and games. You will always need someone to watch
out for you. Might as well make him your best friend.




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Posted by happykitsune
I will admit when fall and winter roll around I go into some kinda depressed mode where I wish I had someone to cuddle with.
Now that I've been cutting off guys (that I don't want to date or have a fwb with) I feel very much lonely. I hang with friends a lot, but it's not like it used to be where friends or family could help me... I just feel like I really need someone who will hold and kiss me.

Sorry just venting :/ Maybe someone else here feels the same way. Or maybe you're one of the other 50 billion people getting in a relationship at the time. I can't even think of anyone I'd get in a relationship with at the moment *sigh*



Happy,
I want you to think about what you said.....
You said you cut off guys that you don't want to date or have a fwb(?)with.
But now you sound like one else will have you...
You have to stop and consider other people's feelings, too beside your own.
IF you don't want to feel lonely, then be a friend to someone who truly is.
This IS the lesson that many Sagittarians need to learn.
Try to visualize the life ahead of you: Do you want to be thought of as a cheap used car that's been WELL used—
Or a new car, well taken care of by the original owner?
Sure... sagittarians love their freedom but they need to learn that they CAN enjoy their freedom with someone
they love... in a lifelong companionship. Life is not about fun and games. You will always need someone to watch
out for you. Might as well make him your best friend.




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Oh plz
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Dmv,

I'm still healing and he keeps asking to see me but I don't really wanna see him till I feel better.

I feel bad but I just kind of want to be alone.


You sound like your having a good time though! I love doing stuff like that.



i hear ya. this is something very personal. just know that he is suffering as well. even though its your body, the life was something u both created you know.

let him be there for you 🙂 your fortunate, most girls dont have that nice guy wanting to be there.
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Posted by happykitsune
I will admit when fall and winter roll around I go into some kinda depressed mode where I wish I had someone to cuddle with.
Now that I've been cutting off guys (that I don't want to date or have a fwb with) I feel very much lonely. I hang with friends a lot, but it's not like it used to be where friends or family could help me... I just feel like I really need someone who will hold and kiss me.

Sorry just venting :/ Maybe someone else here feels the same way. Or maybe you're one of the other 50 billion people getting in a relationship at the time. I can't even think of anyone I'd get in a relationship with at the moment *sigh*



Happy,
I want you to think about what you said.....
You said you cut off guys that you don't want to date or have a fwb(?)with.
But now you sound like one else will have you...
You have to stop and consider other people's feelings, too beside your own.
IF you don't want to feel lonely, then be a friend to someone who truly is.
This IS the lesson that many Sagittarians need to learn.
Try to visualize the life ahead of you: Do you want to be thought of as a cheap used car that's been WELL used—
Or a new car, well taken care of by the original owner?
Sure... sagittarians love their freedom but they need to learn that they CAN enjoy their freedom with someone
they love... in a lifelong companionship. Life is not about fun and games. You will always need someone to watch
out for you. Might as well make him your best friend.




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just when i thought u were cool 🙂

EVERYONE gets lonely and seeks out other people to fill a void. why would u lump saggis in a category like that?

Happy is a relationship oriented lady. she obviously happier in a relationship or having male company around.

to call a woman "well used" is not very nice. sure some saggis have been around the block, but we only read a snippet of Happy's life that she chooses to share with us. there more to her that meets the eye. used or pre-owned, any man would be blessed to have her and vice versa.

thats where some of YOU OTHER SIGNS really lack in life... thinking that it all serious all the time. LIFE IS FUN & GAMES. thats doesnt mean shes hurting people left and right and not taking other peoples' feelings seriously.
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Posted by happykitsune
I will admit when fall and winter roll around I go into some kinda depressed mode where I wish I had someone to cuddle with.
Now that I've been cutting off guys (that I don't want to date or have a fwb with) I feel very much lonely. I hang with friends a lot, but it's not like it used to be where friends or family could help me... I just feel like I really need someone who will hold and kiss me.

Sorry just venting :/ Maybe someone else here feels the same way. Or maybe you're one of the other 50 billion people getting in a relationship at the time. I can't even think of anyone I'd get in a relationship with at the moment *sigh*



Happy,
I want you to think about what you said.....
You said you cut off guys that you don't want to date or have a fwb(?)with.
But now you sound like one else will have you...
You have to stop and consider other people's feelings, too beside your own.
IF you don't want to feel lonely, then be a friend to someone who truly is.
This IS the lesson that many Sagittarians need to learn.
Try to visualize the life ahead of you: Do you want to be thought of as a cheap used car that's been WELL used—
Or a new car, well taken care of by the original owner?
Sure... sagittarians love their freedom but they need to learn that they CAN enjoy their freedom with someone
they love... in a lifelong companionship. Life is not about fun and games. You will always need someone to watch
out for you. Might as well make him your best friend.




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just when i thought u were cool 🙂

EVERYONE gets lonely and seeks out other people to fill a void. why would u lump saggis in a category like that?

Happy is a relationship oriented lady. she obviously happier in a relationship or having male company around.

to call a woman "well used" is not very nice. sure some saggis have been around the block, but we only read a snippet of Happy's life that she chooses to share with us. there more to her that meets the eye. used or pre-owned, any man would be blessed to have her and vice versa.

thats where some of YOU OTHER SIGNS really lack in life... thinking that it all serious all the time. LIFE IS FUN & GAMES. thats doesnt mean shes
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Dmv,

I'm still healing and he keeps asking to see me but I don't really wanna see him till I feel better.

I feel bad but I just kind of want to be alone.


You sound like your having a good time though! I love doing stuff like that.



i hear ya. this is something very personal. just know that he is suffering as well. even though its your body, the life was something u both created you know.

let him be there for you 🙂 your fortunate, most girls dont have that nice guy wanting to be there.
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I just wish I was married to my ex right now. Weird huh?
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I will admit when fall and winter roll around I go into some kinda depressed mode where I wish I had someone to cuddle with.
Now that I've been cutting off guys (that I don't want to date or have a fwb with) I feel very much lonely. I hang with friends a lot, but it's not like it used to be where friends or family could help me... I just feel like I really need someone who will hold and kiss me.

Sorry just venting :/ Maybe someone else here feels the same way. Or maybe you're one of the other 50 billion people getting in a relationship at the time. I can't even think of anyone I'd get in a relationship with at the moment *sigh*



Happy,
I want you to think about what you said.....
You said you cut off guys that you don't want to date or have a fwb(?)with.
But now you sound like one else will have you...
You have to stop and consider other people's feelings, too beside your own.
IF you don't want to feel lonely, then be a friend to someone who truly is.
This IS the lesson that many Sagittarians need to learn.
Try to visualize the life ahead of you: Do you want to be thought of as a cheap used car that's been WELL used—
Or a new car, well taken care of by the original owner?
Sure... sagittarians love their freedom but they need to learn that they CAN enjoy their freedom with someone
they love... in a lifelong companionship. Life is not about fun and games. You will always need someone to watch
out for you. Might as well make him your best friend.




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Did you mean to say "you sound like NO one else will have you" ?

I am a friend to people who truly are. I have friends. I even have guy friends. I'm not talking about a general loneliness tho. I just miss the affection..the intimate touching...I crave that from a guy. I want to find that one person I'm going to be with for the rest of my life.
Every guy I have dated has been my best friend and I will marry my best friend. Not literally my best taurus friend, but someone who understands me on a deeper level than most. I don't get in a relationship just because. I dot it with the intention of going on for the long haul.

I may be a sag, but my main influence is scorpio. I have dreams of finding my soul mate 🙂
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just when i thought u were cool 🙂

EVERYONE gets lonely and seeks out other people to fill a void. why would u lump saggis in a category like that?

Happy is a relationship oriented lady. she obviously happier in a relationship or having male company around.

to call a woman "well used" is not very nice. sure some saggis have been around the block, but we only read a snippet of Happy's life that she chooses to share with us. there more to her that meets the eye. used or pre-owned, any man would be blessed to have her and vice versa.

thats where some of YOU OTHER SIGNS really lack in life... thinking that it all serious all the time. LIFE IS FUN & GAMES. thats doesnt mean shes hurting people left and right and not taking other peoples' feelings seriously.



Aww thanks 🙂

Yes, I do take others feelings into account, which is why I cut off some ties because I don't want to hurt those I just won't fall for. I would rather someone cut ties with me then drag on something that would never turn into a relationship. At the same token I had to cut off some ties that were hurting me as well. I have to take care of me as well
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Dmv,

I'm still healing and he keeps asking to see me but I don't really wanna see him till I feel better.

I feel bad but I just kind of want to be alone.


You sound like your having a good time though! I love doing stuff like that.



i hear ya. this is something very personal. just know that he is suffering as well. even though its your body, the life was something u both created you know.

let him be there for you 🙂 your fortunate, most girls dont have that nice guy wanting to be there.



I just wish I was married to my ex right now. Weird huh?
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Which one? The old scorpio?

Wish I was married to my ex too...only I wish he was the way he'd been back when we were official. Oh how the times change people
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Uh oh.... conscience conversation:
MrFirebird... did you just get spanked??
Yes I did!
Do you think that you deserved it?
Yes I do!
Do you want to say you are sorry?
I'm sorry!
Not to me, you dimwit, ...to the ladies.
I'm sorry, ladies.... 😢

Please understand, I did not mean to sound offensive.
If anyone knows anything about "The Long Haul".... this trucker KNOWS.
Love, Closeness, Intimacy, Fidelity, Loyalty... yes, like gold.
I am like a new rig that got wrecked before it got sold.
I DID say she was accident prone.
Never did get put back together, instead, they put me out to pasture
by myself, me, myself and I, all alone... all alone....
where I wait for my love to return and claim me for free....
and to restore me for all her own.
To want to be with only me.

Ladies, I certainly hope that explains where I was coming from.




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Given the youtube link, wouldn't it be Self Conscious Conservation ? 🙂



Actually, .... possibly.
I just woke up.
Truth of the matter is, I actually survived a jack-knife. Both the drivers in that truck in the video above, survived
and the co-driver was thrown out of the passenger seat into the median.
Had he been asleep in the sleeper berth, like I was..., he could have been toast.
The jack-knife I was in, occured at night just west of Shamrock, Tx. We had switched out after my ten hour shift and
the co-driver said he was doin' 55 when hit the ice and the cab/tractor closed the knife on the trailer like in the video below. We were loaded with about 40,000 lbs of flammable liquid and were pretty fortunate that the trailer didn't get hit by another truck as it had come to rest perpendicular clear across I-40. traffic could squeeze by on the right shoulder.
My co- didn't wake me up... I heard a BOOM! but I didn't wake up to it. I woke up when that dummy thought he get out of the fix we were in by making the cab jump like a bronco. He had already dug in.
We were east bound, the cab was facing west bound and the trailer made for a nasty roadblock.
I've had back trouble since then. Clip below is another jk in action - It cuts short as the driver holding the camera
had to react for the passing truck about move into his lane.

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That's a good point though, do ghosts if they exist get cold ?
Do they feel the extremities of the weather seeing as the don't really have mass ?



What is a ghost? A ghost is a spirit, once bound to a body.
A thin ghost has little on his mind.
A fat ghost has much on his mind.

The question you need to ask yourself might be...
Can ghosts get laid?
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
That's a good point though, do ghosts if they exist get cold ?
Do they feel the extremities of the weather seeing as the don't really have mass ?



What is a ghost? A ghost is a spirit, once bound to a body.
A thin ghost has little on his mind.
A fat ghost has much on his mind.

The question you need to ask yourself might be...
Can ghosts get laid?
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If one can confidently answer, "Yes, a ghost can get laid", then that answer, in turn, should
answer the question as to whether ghosts can feel the extremities of the weather, particularly
when the female ghost is fridgid..
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I will admit when fall and winter roll around I go into some kinda depressed mode where I wish I had someone to cuddle with.
Now that I've been cutting off guys (that I don't want to date or have a fwb with) I feel very much lonely. I hang with friends a lot, but it's not like it used to be where friends or family could help me... I just feel like I really need someone who will hold and kiss me.

Sorry just venting :/ Maybe someone else here feels the same way. Or maybe you're one of the other 50 billion people getting in a relationship at the time. I can't even think of anyone I'd get in a relationship with at the moment *sigh*



Happy,
I want you to think about what you said.....
You said you cut off guys that you don't want to date or have a fwb(?)with.
But now you sound like one else will have you...
You have to stop and consider other people's feelings, too beside your own.
IF you don't want to feel lonely, then be a friend to someone who truly is.
This IS the lesson that many Sagittarians need to learn.
Try to visualize the life ahead of you: Do you want to be thought of as a cheap used car that's been WELL used—
Or a new car, well taken care of by the original owner?
Sure... sagittarians love their freedom but they need to learn that they CAN enjoy their freedom with someone
they love... in a lifelong companionship. Life is not about fun and games. You will always need someone to watch
out for you. Might as well make him your best friend.








Oh plz
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LMBO!!!!

Dang I thought he was saying something then all that saggi fire kicked in...Hell to NAW!!! Thats not how they roll Mr.
Firebird....

Gotta love these saggis! 🙂
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Well I guess Im going to have a slow and lonely season too since my saggi friend decided he wanted to be in a relationship with someone 3 wks ago....pissed me the f*** off with that shit but I wished him the best And moved on to a cancer and now libra. My first libra...hope I get to experience those sensual skills in the bedroom everyone talks about. 🙂



ooo a libra. nice 🙂

i was out to dinner with a libra yesterday but i was so turned off because he has bad breath.
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Well I guess Im going to have a slow and lonely season too since my saggi friend decided he wanted to be in a relationship with someone 3 wks ago....pissed me the f*** off with that shit but I wished him the best And moved on to a cancer and now libra. My first libra...hope I get to experience those sensual skills in the bedroom everyone talks about. 🙂



ooo a libra. nice 🙂

i was out to dinner with a libra yesterday but i was so turned off because he has bad breath.
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lolz
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just when i thought u were cool 🙂

EVERYONE gets lonely and seeks out other people to fill a void. why would u lump saggis in a category like that?

Happy is a relationship oriented lady. she obviously happier in a relationship or having male company around.

to call a woman "well used" is not very nice. sure some saggis have been around the block, but we only read a snippet of Happy's life that she chooses to share with us. there more to her that meets the eye. used or pre-owned, any man would be blessed to have her and vice versa.

thats where some of YOU OTHER SIGNS really lack in life... thinking that it all serious all the time. LIFE IS FUN & GAMES. thats doesnt mean shes hurting people left and right and not taking other peoples' feelings seriously.



Aww thanks 🙂

Yes, I do take others feelings into account, which is why I cut off some ties because I don't want to hurt those I just won't fall for. I would rather someone cut ties with me then drag on something that would never turn into a relationship. At the same token I had to cut off some ties that were hurting me as well. I have to take care of me as well
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no problemo. i mean he's right and all but just poor word choice lol.

saggis do be rackin up some miles, but that doesnt mean we are incapable of love and commitment. usually comes with age though.
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Well I guess Im going to have a slow and lonely season too since my saggi friend decided he wanted to be in a relationship with someone 3 wks ago....pissed me the f*** off with that shit but I wished him the best And moved on to a cancer and now libra. My first libra...hope I get to experience those sensual skills in the bedroom everyone talks about. 🙂



ooo a libra. nice 🙂

i was out to dinner with a libra yesterday but i was so turned off because he has bad breath.



lolz
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i was very close to gagging. no sex for him.
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Posted by DMV
are u starting to feel more upbeat?

venus is transiting scorpio, so you instinct to cut people off and search for deeper meaning sounds right on time.



Idk...my venus isn't in scorpio it's in capricorn.

I haven't been cutting people off, rather bringing them in. I cut them off a few weeks ago...burned a few bridges that quickly were built back up. I do that a lot tho.

I've actually felt more of a need to communicated with males lately. The females I've kinda stayed away from...too much stress to please, most are fake here and I just don't feel like putting in the effort.

Maybe I should try a Gestalt technique to get them to be more real 😛
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