Those darn Sag Boys.

This is kind of complicated so I'll try and make this simple. At work I met a sexy Sag. And in a weird twist of events I found out he was my ex boyfriend's neighbor (we broke up in June). I mentioned it to him and he joked with me saying "How could you date someone like that he's so weird and you're so......" he never finished it but he just said me and my ex were opposites and then asked how long me and my ex were together. After that whenever I saw him I was still nice, he was nice to me but never really made conversation with me. He flirts a lot with other girls ( I know most Sag's are flirts) but once I came to talk to talk a group of guys and he happened to be there too and he saw me and stopped talking and pulled out his phone and started fooling around with it. If I say something to him he won't ignore me but its like he's a lot quieter around me now. I used to make constant eye contact with him and sometimes he used to talk to me but not a lot now its like I don't exist. My friend at work thinks I'm reading into it too much and thinks he's just shy. I just feel like I get left out and he's nice to everyone BUT me. Did I do something wrong or is it in my imagination? I'm a Gemini/ Scorpiio Rising/Gemini Venus.

I think it is your imaganiation, Gemini sometimes think something when there is nothing to assume, I use to work with a Gemini and not to sterotype you all but she was blonde so everytime I did something dumb I would say (I just had a blonde moment) and she thought I was saying that to offend her or something but it was totally in all fun it was a common work place joke. Also if you didnt talk to her a certain way she thought you didnt like her it was crazy, dont take everything so serious....

Posted by scorpdiva
I think it is your imaganiation, Gemini sometimes think something when there is nothing to assume, I use to work with a Gemini and not to sterotype you all but she was blonde so everytime I did something dumb I would say (I just had a blonde moment) and she thought I was saying that to offend her or something but it was totally in all fun it was a common work place joke. Also if you didnt talk to her a certain way she thought you didnt like her it was crazy, dont take everything so serious....

Yeah I get what you're saying, thanks.

has he commented on your boobs yet?

Posted by DMV
has he commented on your boobs yet?

ironically no, thats usually the first compliment I get. 😛

Posted by WynterBourne
I would guess a Gemini with Scorpio rising would be hot for Sagi


err...change that to "he would be hot for the Gemini/Scorp rising" 🙂 😛

Thanks, I mean I talk to alot of guys at work but when I get around him I get shy. I'm trying to be more conversational.....

Posted by bassace
sags love to make associations (birds of a feather flock together). if you were in a relationship with someone he doesn't like, he might think theres a big part of you thats just like your neighbor. when he stopped in mid-sentence that one time, it was a typical case of sag trying to stop himself from revealing himself. considering where the sentence was heading, he prob likes you. i suggest saying something like you and your ex never got a long because you're so different. but thats just a suggestion, dont lie about it if you actually did get along and broke up for other reasons. just try to distance yourself from the personality of your ex. but dont bring it up randomly, try to just throw it into the convo at an opportune time. if hes anything like me, his expression will show how relived, and turned on he is. -sag male

Thanks bassace! He did question a while ago why did we break up and a bunch of other stuff I essentially told him he was 'too much' for me. I caught his gaze yesterday at work and he quickly looked away. I didn't have time to talk to him he was busy doing other things. 😢

He likes you.


When I first meet someone, and I'm not really interested in them yet, I totally relaxed with them getting to know them. I'll flirt my ass off, joke with them, alot of touching, etc.
But once I develop a little thing for them I get all weird. I'll be nervous to talk to them, I'll avoid them, try and play the aloof and cool act. I'll stop flirting.

This must be extremely confusing now that I think about it.

Posted by brianafay
He likes you.


When I first meet someone, and I'm not really interested in them yet, I totally relaxed with them getting to know them. I'll flirt my ass off, joke with them, alot of touching, etc.
But once I develop a little thing for them I get all weird. I'll be nervous to talk to them, I'll avoid them, try and play the aloof and cool act. I'll stop flirting.

This must be extremely confusing now that I think about it.

I think we do it because we're trying to figure out if you like us too....and we want you to show interest and pursue us. I think we avoid situations where we could be rejected. We care more what people think than it appears.

I don't like feeling like I'm chasing someone. I have a serious complex about it.
I'll show interest at first, then pull away and wait for them to pursue me. I will straight up ignore someone if I feel like they're not showing the same interest in me.