UGH!!!!

Sorry everyone I need to vent before I explode??_??_??_??_. I love my leo boyfriend I really really really do??_. Sometimes he just frustrates me sooo much??_. I am pretty laid back easy going nothing much gets me going??_. My man on the other hand can sometimes be a control freak I think??_ gets irritated with me if I am not rushing to complete things on his terms such as the morning routine with the kids, lunches, breakfast, meds yada yada??_ I try to help and feel like im getting in the way but then if I don't help he feels like the balance is off in the relationship and gets pissed at me for that. also frustrated that the quality time has gone down hill over the past few months so when I ask for a date he says UGH again with the date??_ well holy mother of pearl!!! Im a very awesome girlfriend I don't nag I don't complain I work hard and doing things his way because lets face it im a sag organized chaos is my thing however he has order and systems and I follow em implement them and am happy to do so cause im a loyal partner who wants everyone at home to be happy. But man on man if you want me to take the lead on things them give me a chance to if you have an issue with something im doing tell me so I can fix it instead of getting mad!!!! I don't understand why people can say whats on there mind at the time that it is why hold it in until it comes out in anger GRRRRRRRRR

Thank you for listening.

Cheers

my only boyfriend was a leo and i was done after a year...the dumbass in me stayed for 2 more years...


toooo damn bossy

LMAO.. funny thing is he says im bossy!! he is the bossy one.

all the fire signs are bossy imo and we all cant stand each other lol

I'm sort of flirting w a leo guy lately. We have been chat buddies pretty much and he never talks about anything sexual with me. Wow now that i type this I'm probably just flirting with myself. LOL sad. Dude is earthy as fuck tho. how could i know?

But anyway ur dude sounds PA! I can not deal with people like that. They can't even deal with their selfs. Good luck shorty!

Speaking of that my leo chat friend is probably PA too blahaha

Dont get me wrong he is awesome!! in 2 years of being together and living together with 4 kids between the two of us. this is honestly my biggest complaint and mostly cause i have PMS lol he is sweet, kind thoughtful supportive and soooo sexy and the sex is HOT!!

Posted by shorty1978
Dont get me wrong he is awesome!! in 2 years of being together and living together with 4 kids between the two of us. this is honestly my biggest complaint and mostly cause i have PMS lol he is sweet, kind thoughtful supportive and soooo sexy and the sex is HOT!!

do you guys feel the same way about each other?

Posted by shorty1978
Dont get me wrong he is awesome!! in 2 years of being together and living together with 4 kids between the two of us. this is honestly my biggest complaint and mostly cause i have PMS lol he is sweet, kind thoughtful supportive and soooo sexy and the sex is HOT!!

Oh you have kids? Like are you just boyfriend and girlfriend than? Or are you married? what? lol

LOL I have two kids from my pervious marraige. he has two from his previous marraige.. we live togther and share joint custoday of our kids. we are partners "boyfriend" and Girlfriend" yes not married we have both been down that road and dont care to do it again... we are partners for life by choice.

Posted by shorty1978
LOL I have two kids from my pervious marraige. he has two from his previous marraige.. we live togther and share joint custoday of our kids. we are partners "boyfriend" and Girlfriend" yes not married we have both been down that road and dont care to do it again... we are partners for life by choice.

Ah got ya

Yall just need to talk and have a heart to heart. You're going to have to learn to appreciate and work with/around each other's style and understand each other's way of doing things.

Sometimes as we make our way through the day to day operations of a household, we forget to do the little things for each other. I'd rather live separate and be the sexy girlfriend, than not married living in the same household (too much like a real marriage). I hope that made sense. Living separate makes you plan some romantic time. 😉
But that's just me.

Make sure he gets the attention he desires. Leo's need to feel like they are appreciated. What I mean is the romance might have to start with you doing some special lil things for him like a cute, sexy note somewhere where he'll find it, etc. Hopefully, he'll be inspired to pick it up and do some things for you like plan a date night or whatever.

All that to say, maybe he's not feeling appreciated.

i appriciate the hell out of him.. everything is always about him... i praise him like the king he is. sometimes i think to much but we did have a heart to heart. we do communicate very well always discuss our issues.... he has issues opening up to me.. fears of getting hurt He is the love of my life. During our heart to heart he said everything is fine.. he doesn't under why I would think he would be upset but he noticed I have been on edge the past week and wanted to know what he could to do make me feel better??_

That's good!

Do you guys feel the same about each other?

Do we feel the same about each other— dont know! he has his issues was hurt in the past says he doesnt think in the terms of "love" wont say the words wont even admit to loving me... says he lives his life that way to keep him self protected.. but he treats me like he loves me so im happy with that.

I was with a Leo for 6 years and...never again. 3 years on and I'm still trying to get rid of him to no avail.

What I would suggest is have a chilled convo with him and instead of saying what he's doing wrong (not saying you are doing this but you know what I mean), let him know what really makes you happy/what you'd like him to do more. If you start the convo with "I really love when you...(Insert)" he should get the message without feeling offended and may make more effort to support your needs as he knows he will be rewarded if he does it plus he'll get the attention he needs when he does.

Leos can be difficult to mediate with sometimes as they just want to run the show. I had, in the past point-blank refused to comply with his demands and I think secretly he respected it (although he never told me as such). But yah. Hard work those Leos. Good Luck.

So over this