Virgo male + Sag female...Can it work?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by VirgoC on Sunday, May 28, 2006 and has 20 replies.
A very warm hello to everyone in this forum! I am a Virgo male and I have been wondering whether Virgo male and Sag female can make an 'astrologically' successful couple. I have a good friend who is a Sag, and we have many similarities...but I can also see how we could differ in fundamental issues. For example, she always spends all her money on holidays, whereas I also worry about the future (sometimes).
Any input would be greatly appreciated smile
Thanks a lot for this branh smile
I am a Saggitarian who has dated a couple of Virgo's and I still think they could of worked out good if the Virgo male would of compromised and COMMUNICATED better. Any relationship you have with someone their has to be compromising on both partners. Sags are very adaptable to their surroundings and to the people they date. I'm extremely independant and very spontaneous. What I personally like about the Virgo Male is that they are down to earth and keep me grounded. I think I need that sometimes and I think they need to lighten up sometimes and just have fun. I am also extremely affection person and the Virgo males have had no problem with that whether it's in public or at home. I think they compliment each other very well. If a Saggitarian really cares about you they will do almost anything for you but if you play too many games with them they will get emotionally exhausted after a while and move on but their heart will always have a place for them. I will always be kind to my ex-Virgo's and I will always care about them and if they ever needed anything I would do my best to help them. I had good relationships with both Virgo males and we never fought but then again I have really never fought with anyone I dated. They usually will be mad at me for something I said. If I get upset about something I get over it real quick, I say what I have to say and I'm over it but that words that come out of my mouth are the truth of how I feel but the way I say them seem to come out wrong. The people that know me well, know that that is just the way I am and they don't take a lot of things to heart about how it was said. I even get into trouble with my face expressions.
Best combination - Boss is F sag w/ M Virgo & Best friend is F Sag & Virg Male
Decan:
I have always been a loyal Sag and I have found out the the Virguy that I dated couldn't had more drama in his life then I do and was way more emotional. I care about him and love him and would of done almost anything for him but apparently that wasn't good enough. The sad thing is, is that he dumped me because he thought I would get bored with him and that he thought I was too good for him. The one thing he wasn't good at was communication (he would shut down and block me out) We have had the battle of the witts before and sometimes he has won and sometimes I have but if I won he would find a way to make me pay for it later with some low ball comment. I am not revengeful at all, I might want to be sometimes but I never act on it.
No, I never told him that I loved him and he never told me either.....
I was in the beginning stages of dating a Virgo and it drove me nuts! He bored the shit out of me! He talked way too much also about stuff I didnt wanna hear about, like his job 90% of evey conversation. He was pessimistic and thats a BIG NO NO! with me. He was too serious and had no humor. I'm sure every Virgo isnt like him, I hope not.
Hope so. I am looking at a Sag woman right now. The thing that gets me though, is she is damn dang friendly all the time, she seems to send mixed signals to me. It is ahrd to know if she likes me in that way. Though sometimes I really feel she does. But she isn't talking!
Have to step easy with this one, and eventually I'll have to psit it out and ask her what's actually on her mind very soon here.
Yes this could be one of the greatest. However both will have to work at it. You have to give your Sag lady the space and make her feel that youre there for her but only when she needs you. She can really refresh and make you feel good overall. One thing you will stop worrying i think? Let her be herself around others and you be yourself too. She is a happy-go-lucky soul who in a relationship will do her best to keep you happy. You two can make a great pair.
I know many Sag-Virgo relationships, and many of them work splendidly, long-term marriages and so on. This is a very common pairing in real life (especially Sag female-Virgo male).
I am a female Sag and had a great relationship with a Virgo male. I think that the relationship can work!
Hello Fellow Sags. Im in a relationship with a male virgo and our love-making is so full of passion and tension we fight all the time!Well I do anyway,I'm the dominant one Sexy Sag accourse. I don't know if it will work we are friends so to speak but our love affair is so intense it's like we can't be with out each other we have soul ties! He's my Moon and I'm his Sunshine. He is compassionate with me but our communication is not dtrong because he don't express himself as much. He's very shy with me but he loves me like a Queen of the Nile. He is so loving and touch me in all the right places. As the brother said earlier the Lovingggggggggggggg between us is AWESOME!
Wow, this is an old thread. I think Virgo/Sag is a good match if the Virgo is more the flexible type. If he is too obsessive or critical, it doesn't work out. Some virgos are always cranky and can't seem to relax.
Posted by TheLadySagittarius
Wow, this is an old thread. I think Virgo/Sag is a good match if the Virgo is more the flexible type. If he is too obsessive or critical, it doesn't work out. Some virgos are always cranky and can't seem to relax.


How do you typically react when they get cranky like that? My little sister is a virgo and typically that would bring out my obnoxious side. Shed get cranky and Id start poking fun at her.
I actually get along really well with virgos, but never dated one. I think it's partially because most of my chart is capricorn tho. I think you'd need to look at both charts
Posted by FortunateOne
Posted by TheLadySagittarius
Wow, this is an old thread. I think Virgo/Sag is a good match if the Virgo is more the flexible type. If he is too obsessive or critical, it doesn't work out. Some virgos are always cranky and can't seem to relax.


How do you typically react when they get cranky like that? My little sister is a virgo and typically that would bring out my obnoxious side. Shed get cranky and Id start poking fun at her.
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Making fun of her is going to make it worse. Just say something sympathetic , see if she can talk things out with you, if not, leave her alone. She will come around.
Posted by happykitsune
I actually get along really well with virgos, but never dated one. I think it's partially because most of my chart is capricorn tho. I think you'd need to look at both charts


Cap moon, cap venus, virgo rising...I hear you...lol
I am a sagittarian and my boyfriend is a virgo. We have been together for almost 11 years. We have a daughter. My problem with this man is that he does not communicate at all. I like to talk and discuss things in our relationship, he says nothing. He never argues back. In the time that we.ve been together, he has never once asked me to marry him. He never brings up the subject either. If I do, I am dismissed with an "I love you and it will happen". If we go out, I'm the one making all the plans and the one who pays for everything. He always says he doesn't have any money because he doesn't get paid much. What I don't understand is that he has a Juris Doctorit yet he has chosen to do absolutely nothing with it. I mean am I being irrational in getting upset here and feeling taken advantage of?
Posted by Victoriam75
I am a sagittarian and my boyfriend is a virgo. We have been together for almost 11 years. We have a daughter. My problem with this man is that he does not communicate at all. I like to talk and discuss things in our relationship, he says nothing. He never argues back. In the time that we.ve been together, he has never once asked me to marry him. He never brings up the subject either. If I do, I am dismissed with an "I love you and it will happen". If we go out, I'm the one making all the plans and the one who pays for everything. He always says he doesn't have any money because he doesn't get paid much. What I don't understand is that he has a Juris Doctorit yet he has chosen to do absolutely nothing with it. I mean am I being irrational in getting upset here and feeling taken advantage of?


If you're upset and feel taken advantage of get out of the relationship and quit complaining. Obviously you make more money and you don't have a kid together so I don't see any reason why you can't just split.
It's very important that the two of you share the same vision in life. Or at least share the same value. Otherwise a toughie.

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