We still havent had sex yet

And I can't stand it!!!!!!

JUST KIDDING!

im actually kind enjoying this courtship thing. But I am going to fuck the shit outta him.

What color fishnets should I wear first? Old faithful, black or daring pink?

Hope he spreads those cheeks and sniffs

black. men are simple. and old faithful.

unless he has Aqua or Gem in his chart. then pink. or Tiger in chinese. or Horse.

Posted by DMV
JUST KIDDING!

im actually kind enjoying this courtship thing. But I am going to fuck the shit outta him.

What color fishnets should I wear first? Old faithful, black or daring pink?

Depends. Why fishnets?

Posted by DonJohnson
how many dates?

3, almost 1 month.

Posted by shaanslife
Hope he spreads those cheeks and sniffs

Mmmm me 2. I havent had a tongue in my butt in a while.

Posted by DwellingOnMove
black. men are simple. and old faithful.

unless he has Aqua or Gem in his chart. then pink. or Tiger in chinese. or Horse.

Snake. I just brought one a few months ago 2. Unopened. His favorite color is blue.

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Posted by DMV
JUST KIDDING!

im actually kind enjoying this courtship thing. But I am going to fuck the shit outta him.

What color fishnets should I wear first? Old faithful, black or daring pink?

Depends. Why fishnets?

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I feel like I can really unleash my sexuality and loose inhibitions in my fishnets. Costumes in bed turn me on. Like, it becomes okay to be sexual.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
I'd dress proper as fuck! But in a classy sexy way. No panties. Thin lace white bra. Simple yet classic black pumps with thigh highs, black colored with lace at the top. Put my hair in a bun so he can take it down as I morph from lady to seductress. Oh yeah.

Courting is SO SEXY!

sag venus/sun, cap moon, mars leo (r).

He is so supportive and actually has a vocabulary.

Posted by beautifuldiaster
I'd dress proper as fuck! But in a classy sexy way. No panties. Thin lace white bra. Simple yet classic black pumps with thigh highs, black colored with lace at the top. Put my hair in a bun so he can take it down as I morph from lady to seductress. Oh yeah.

Courting is SO SEXY!

oooooooo the bun move! I'm sold!!

I guess I could go for a simple white lacey lingerie set. Then unleash the beast later. Work up to the good stuff.

Then again, why not hit a home run right out the box.

Posted by exoskeleton
black fishnets. crotchless. i just bought some recently myself. 🙂

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Posted by DMV
JUST KIDDING!

im actually kind enjoying this courtship thing. But I am going to fuck the shit outta him.

What color fishnets should I wear first? Old faithful, black or daring pink?

Depends. Why fishnets?

I feel like I can really unleash my sexuality and loose inhibitions in my fishnets. Costumes in bed turn me on. Like, it becomes okay to be sexual.

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Go with black fishnet thigh-highs, crotchless panties then. Strapless bra. Tie your hair up (😉).

Posted by exoskeleton
black fishnets. crotchless....

Haha. Beat me to it.

Only 3 dates? How long do you usually wait

Girl, I dont even make it to a date.

Lol! Is it because you don't really want a serious relationship etc? I had wanted to wait a month with my boyfriend, but fuck it...it felt right after 2.5 weeks. Granted we had gone on dates nearly every single day during that time period and have known him since I was 16.

I was always told to wait if you want a relationship to form, anything else though have at it

Posted by Agentgem24
Lol! Is it because you don't really want a serious relationship etc? I had wanted to wait a month with my boyfriend, but fuck it...it felt right after 2.5 weeks. Granted we had gone on dates nearly every single day during that time period and have known him since I was 16.

I was always told to wait if you want a relationship to form, anything else though have at it

well i prefer to take a test drive before i invest my time. let me see if theres a sexual connection first, then proceed.

id hate to have invested this time and money and we dont connect sexually.

"test drive"

Based on theory I can see your point.
Based on practice + the fact I'm an accepting character -> I disagree.
Because anybody who was delicious to me on a platonic way and I saw no sign of not-sexiness in them was also good enough for sexual commmunication. Later diagnosed.

But I might have 50% of your sexual requirements. (reg. scorp and virgo in you) -> I don't matter.

On the other hand:
soon after divorce men are sluts. Wait a few years.
most of challenge addicted men think you are of high value only if you take much time to go there. Wait simply.

Gems are nerving but they know what drives most of the people. So it can help to listen to them.

The user who posted this message has hidden it.

you didnt have to hide that. i thought it was pretty good post. especially the part about Gems. 🙂

Posted by starlover
Did he not try to be sexual with you DMV?

weve kissed. He's thrown some sexual comments out there thats lets me know he's sexually attracted.

i think he just has a slow approach and wants to be a gentleman about things.

He did say he wanted to whip me 2x.

He has no idea who he's messin wit here. lol

He has no idea...

Nope. He said I needed a spankin tonight. Hes playing the best game, of all. Torturing me with suggestive sexual language, while giving me nothing.

The fatty in me totally gets your food comparison. It is worth it if that food is top notch. Like Chipotle. I will wait in a long ass line for a bowl.

ha! you fell for a Gem too..

Join the club 🙂 Im currently in the best/most erotic/sexual/intense relationship I've ever had, with a Gem girl. She even told me the L-word already!

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
ha! you fell for a Gem too..

Join the club 🙂 Im currently in the best/most erotic/sexual/intense relationship I've ever had, with a Gem girl. She even told me the L-word already!

GEM? Negative.

Posted by DwellingOnMove
"suggestive sexual language"

For Cats like me and as a moralist (sag late degree venus mars)
to me it's killing the degnity. he is still your date and not your man.

I had an aqua-scorp-mix who did this to me. it was 2012. I left the communication.

this kind of treatment is to find in every corner. Jackpot is the significantly different treatment.

But my opinion des not matter cause I have no better results to show. it's only words what I have.

Degnity?

I think its great to know that hes sexually attracted to me.

For a minute or 2, I felt like I was always in a business meeting with him. Loves to talk about work.

I should wear a business suit and do a strip tease, with fishnets under it.

Interesting, so youre not into verbal affirmations?

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Posted by DMV
Interesting, so youre not into verbal affirmations?

so, is he your bf now?

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why would you ask that?

NOPE

I was thinking about that today. Maybe the Eclipse will do something. All ive gotten from him is a peck on the lips. Im trying to not dominate and take control because I want him to lead.

so its been me and pornhub.

Posted by BlackNova

Posted by exoskeleton
you get the d yet? 🙂

You girls are so crass sometimes, we're not peices of meat, ok

LOL

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lol

so this is normal to wait this long?

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Posted by DMV
NOPE

I was thinking about that today. Maybe the Eclipse will do something. All ive gotten from him is a peck on the lips. Im trying to not dominate and take control because I want him to lead.

so its been me and pornhub.

LOL
women today...

lol

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we like some good lovin just as much as men. i can be very demanding in this department.

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Posted by exoskeleton
you get the d yet? 🙂

You girls are so crass sometimes, we're not peices of meat, ok

LOL

lol

so this is normal to wait this long?

good sarcasm. 😈
I think he wants girls not to talk that talk. Tell "get intimate" instead of "get the D".

This is the problem of pop/young language. To some it is still calling names to say "hoe", to others it can also be used to say woman, girl, bf, or the better half. Form vs. content.

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my question was actually serious. me and Exo have a good relationship where she can talk like that to me and i dont look at it sideways.

i actually thought Black Nova was a female tho

Posted by exoskeleton
showing a more intimate/sensual approach towards him may help though.

his cappy moon may be cautious. show him you can be consistent.

Ok. imma let the animal out the cage and see what happens.

Posted by exoskeleton
showing a more intimate/sensual approach towards him may help though.

his cappy moon may be cautious. show him you can be consistent.

heres the conumdrum I have. What about him showing consistency? I feel like I get caught in these traps where im the one constantly providing reassurance and being attentive but I dont get the same in return. I feel like I always get in a cycle where I have to win the guy over and I dont get the same.

Maybe its a generational thing.

Posted by exoskeleton
also, do you two have mutual friends that may influence his thoughts/feelings towards you?

Yeah

LOL @ this whole thread.

Oh no no no. One of his friends dated my friend and my virg gal friend is the s.o. of his friend.

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also, do you two have mutual friends that may influence his thoughts/feelings towards you?

Yeah

maybe it's my cap moon or my 12th house, but i prefer to date people completely outside of my social circle. and i'd never hook up with anyone that one of my friends had interest in. too messy.

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but yeah me 2. Venus in cap.