What language of love do sags love the most?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by foxtrot on Saturday, July 1, 2017 and has 13 replies.
My sag is with a libra moon, scorpio rising, venus in aquarius and mars in sag.

What language of love should I use for him? What do saggies like the most but never say that they do like?

I've tried communicating how much he means to me, giving him space, buying him gifts, cooking extravagant meals, standing out in his social circle, looking good for him at all times, suggesting and advising, top performance in bed, contributing wild ideas and constant mental stimulation jumping topic to topic daily, but no matter what I do there is no feedback!

I've pulled all the stops. I know he likes me and is interested in me and talks to me every hour on the hour, but the detached, deflecting, reserved, unemotional manner really grates on me sometimes.
Posted by Ganon
Posted by foxtrot
My sag is with a libra moon, scorpio rising, venus in aquarius and mars in sag.

What language of love should I use for him? What do saggies like the most but never say that they do like?

I've tried communicating how much he means to me, giving him space, buying him gifts, cooking extravagant meals, standing out in his social circle, looking good for him at all times, suggesting and advising, top performance in bed, contributing wild ideas and constant mental stimulation jumping topic to topic daily, but no matter what I do there is no feedback!

I've pulled all the stops. I know he likes me and is interested in me and talks to me every hour on the hour, but the detached, deflecting, reserved, unemotional manner really grates on me sometimes.
You're overdoing it. Let him chase you...Sag men (especially the young ones) love to chase.

You just be your cute self smile
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He's 27.

I'm a virgo sun, leo moon, leo rising, libra venus, mars scorpio. I need to shower with love and I like treating others how I want to be treated, giving a positive, red-hot and trusting environment.

My plan B was giving him everything and showing him a taste very early on---then withholding and letting him chase and give until I give him what he misses.

Posted by Astrology101
They like stuffs which are foreign. So maybe a new language of love.

Literally speak in another language

example: wo ai ni... i love you in Chinese.

My sag moon ex loved that kind of shyt.

Something new and different.
Novelty? Keep it fresh and unexpecting all the time? Always something new and engaging? Keep it at a comfortable pace then throw a (proverbial) wrench?

Haha, I speak another language fluently, I'll get to it with that idea, he's never really expressed caring about it when I do talk over the phone in Russian.

Posted by foxtrot
My sag is with a libra moon, scorpio rising, venus in aquarius and mars in sag.

What language of love should I use for him? What do saggies like the most but never say that they do like?

I've tried communicating how much he means to me, giving him space, buying him gifts, cooking extravagant meals, standing out in his social circle, looking good for him at all times, suggesting and advising, top performance in bed, contributing wild ideas and constant mental stimulation jumping topic to topic daily, but no matter what I do there is no feedback!

I've pulled all the stops. I know he likes me and is interested in me and talks to me every hour on the hour, but the detached, deflecting, reserved, unemotional manner really grates on me sometimes.
My advice is to just stop with all the "trying to be what he wants" thing...be you, if he already likes you then just keep being yourself because that's obviously what he likes. I know that I enjoy realness, not sure about all you other Saggies on here, but I don't enjoy people who press me for too much (of anything). Let it happen naturally and I'll be all over you. I hope this helps...smile
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Posted by Ganon
Posted by foxtrot
My sag is with a libra moon, scorpio rising, venus in aquarius and mars in sag.

What language of love should I use for him? What do saggies like the most but never say that they do like?

I've tried communicating how much he means to me, giving him space, buying him gifts, cooking extravagant meals, standing out in his social circle, looking good for him at all times, suggesting and advising, top performance in bed, contributing wild ideas and constant mental stimulation jumping topic to topic daily, but no matter what I do there is no feedback!

I've pulled all the stops. I know he likes me and is interested in me and talks to me every hour on the hour, but the detached, deflecting, reserved, unemotional manner really grates on me sometimes.
You're overdoing it. Let him chase you...Sag men (especially the young ones) love to chase.

You just be your cute self smile
He's 27.

I'm a virgo sun, leo moon, leo rising, libra venus, mars scorpio. I need to shower with love and I like treating others how I want to be treated, giving a positive, red-hot and trusting environment.

My plan B was giving him everything and showing him a taste very early on---then withholding and letting him chase and give until I give him what he misses.

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Very Leo of you
How do you know he likes you? Besides the talking a lot. That could be a sign, but I'm interested in knowing how else you know.
Posted by pinkbird03
How do you know he likes you? Besides the talking a lot. That could be a sign, but I'm interested in knowing how else you know.
He conversates with me constantly throughout the day starting when he wakes up and goes to bed, buys me gifts, pays for everything, if he acts or says something insensitive he immediately catches himself a moment after and apologizes, has been getting slowly more and more affectionate and romantic, albeit snails pace, spends his off days from work always with me, remembers things I mention liking silently, introduced me to friends, family.. though he did let me eat dinner with his dad on the second date..

We started as friends with benefits and we were doing way too much bf/gf things so I asked him if he wants a relationship, he said to ask him later and deflected me, I gave him a day and said were either together or I go on my way, he said yes be my girlfriend.
Posted by Leovixen89
Uhmmm i know sags don't like mind games and they sense it... And i do too. To be honest i got tired of reading after five sentences..... You are doing wayyyy too much. Let the man hunt you, push him to make an effort for you by being busy with your life and if he doesn't, well bye bye.
We usually see each other only twice a week on his off days so I try to make the time we have together as good as possible. I do a lot for him but it's not like a 24/7 down the throat thing. I can lay off if I knew what he liked the most but his main way of communicating is joking. I'm not sure how to play hard to get...other than not replying to him when he texts, canceling on him on one of the two days we see each other and withholding affections.. and all that seems a bit unfair for him.
Posted by Ganon
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Posted by pinkbird03
How do you know he likes you? Besides the talking a lot. That could be a sign, but I'm interested in knowing how else you know.
He conversates with me constantly throughout the day starting when he wakes up and goes to bed, buys me gifts, pays for everything, if he acts or says something insensitive he immediately catches himself a moment after and apologizes, has been getting slowly more and more affectionate and romantic, albeit snails pace, spends his off days from work always with me, remembers things I mention liking silently, introduced me to friends, family.. though he did let me eat dinner with his dad on the second date..

We started as friends with benefits and we were doing way too much bf/gf things so I asked him if he wants a relationship, he said to ask him later and deflected me, I gave him a day and said were either together or I go on my way, he said yes be my girlfriend.
So...what more do you want????

I'm confused..

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Haha it's not like that, I'm just wondering what language of love saggs like most. He doesn't give feedback and is emotionally reserved and when anything serious is brought up about relationship he's all jokes.

Is it words, gifts, touch, service, ect?

Just consensus.

I feel a little dumb posting now. Sorry!

Don't feel dumb, he's on your Mind...

I'm a Venus in Aquarius and Sag sun .. has he started withdrawing from you yet??
Posted by arose32
Don't feel dumb, he's on your Mind...

I'm a Venus in Aquarius and Sag sun .. has he started withdrawing from you yet??
Oh shit, I should expect that? Not that I know, he has been taking a long time to warm up to me so it's still pretty exciting to him to develop the relationship I would think. I have a lot still to show him about myself. He hasn't seen any bad parts of me, it's been stable. If I sense any withdrawal I tend to withdraw too...beating him to the chase.

How are your relationships? What motions do you usually go through? What do you look like in love?
Can you post his chart? Maybe that'll give us more insight smile
Posted by Yamanashi
Can you post his chart? Maybe that'll give us more insight smile
Yeah, my pleasure.

http://imgur.com/a/ryK2U