
cancerlady
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Posted by sweethearts_1969
gemgem: I am a sag female and I am basically all of those things. I'm not needy, I'm not real emotional, I'm not clingy, I have my own life, I don't pressure any man that I have dated. I give them space (probably too much) Yet, I'm still single. I have been told many times that men can not believe I'm still single. Then again, my sister told me the other day that I'm too independant and I have more power tools than most men I date and that probably intimidates them. I am an all around type of girl that can either dress up to go out or get dirty and fix my plumbing, electrical, build a carport, run an excavator, work on a car. I have alot of men friends and they always seem to talk to me about everything but, when I have dated a few, we found out it was better to be friends. I am always the cool one to hang out with and that they can talk to about anything and everything but, if we date, then they want to be the one to fix everything and not have a women do it for them or better then them. I'm not very good at pretending I can't do something and act helpless because I'm not and I'm finding out that men want to help and want to be needed in that way. Sometimes I just wish I was an emotional female that couldn't do anything and maybe I could find a partner but, I won't change who I am to do that so, I just might end up single for the rest of my life. Ok, this sounds depressing. Maybe I will get lucky and meet someone who can handle me. I like strong will men which will challenge me and put me in my place. Ok, I'm done know. I just realized I'm kind of screwed up.

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