Whats wrong with this SAG?????

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by thisLIBRAgirl on Saturday, February 12, 2011 and has 49 replies.
Hi all'
Im dating a sag man. and he is usually all sweet and all that. but lately he is acting kind of weird..
I was out with some girls last night, I texted him saying "if u are out, lets meet" and he was all cold and sh*t, saying "no im at home".. but still asking "are u drinking", and this morning "how was ur night" and when I text him back he ignores me. he is not this cold normally, I dont know whats wrong ..
beside that, we havent seen eachother in 3 weeks.. and he keep saying lets meet, when I say, okay lets do that, when do u have time?.. he says I dont know, lets see what happens..
I know he is busy and all that with his job. but its getting boring, and I feel like Im losing interest for him when he acts this way.
is this a SAG thing??? or what.... hmmm
BTW. his chart is:
Rising sign: Pisces (I dont know what time he was born, so I dont know if this is correct)
Moon: Leo
Mercury: Sag
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Virgo
Jupiter: Scorpio
Saturn: Libra
Uranus: Sag
Neptune: Sag
Pluto: Libra
N. Node: Cancer

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ooo mars in virgo...hes good in bed!

seems like around me people are breaking up left and right. i think its wholly due to the Venus in Capircorn transit; people are getting serious with their mates or breaking up.
can you ask him why hes been so distant? it could just be that he is busy.
*im not a phone person either.
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Sounds like my Sagg, and that Bullshit gets real old real fast, my sagg will go weeks without seeing me then when I try to make time he will then avoid me or say he can't make it. We are cool right now but that does make you loose interest espically when you are not seeing that person enought another can catch your eye. I am surprise your Sagg was so calm mine will loose his mind when I go out and tell me to sit my azz at home.
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This is what it's like when I try to make plans with my old libra friend. To me it seems like he doesn't want see.
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i think the moral of the story is that saggis tend to take "time off" more than we actually should. it hurts the other person who would love to spend time with us.
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he'd better bring some cialis
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venus in aqua isnt too bad. they just require lost of independence, freedom, and a seriously long leash.
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any relationship with a venus in aqua wont be a typical romance.
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Posted by kstarks2
Wow. Damn. Another Venus in Aqua guy giving the girl the blow off. Hate to tell ya but he doesn't really like you.
Hey I have a sag guy that won't stop calling/texting me...you want him? Good guy. very handsome. Great job. Lots of money. Lives in new york. seriously i can hook it up.


lol I know that he likes me, I can see it.. so no worries. I just dont understand why he's acting like this
keep your sag guy to yourself. If I want another, It would not be a prob, to find someone else Winking
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yep. my sister has a venus in aqua. and do does my bff.
they have a universal love
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Posted by DMV
any relationship with a venus in aqua wont be a typical romance.


What do you mean it won't be typical? Just pulled up the cappy guys chart and he has a venus in aqua
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Posted by kstarks2

Oh Honey Noooo...I'm mad all these Sags in here aren't telling you the TRUTH?? WTH? Shame on you all...LOL. Yall trying to spare her feelings or something?
I'm sorry to be the one to tell you but... he may "like" you but doesn't LIKE you enough to see you. If you're "losing interest" and "getting bored" times that by a million and equate that to how HE feels about you...I can guarantee you he lost interest 3 weeks ago (when you last seen him), you just haven't caught on yet.
"lets see what happens" sounds like he's politely rejecting you. He's not going to tell you straight up that he doesn't want you...he doesn't wanna hurt your feelings AND he wants you as an option....and why not, you're still hanging around...


I agree with this. Usually when I keep putting off hanging out with someone it's because they don't interest me enough to be around them.
Sagis don't like burning bridges, which is why he isn't telling you straight up he doesn't like you like that. I know I keep a lot of guys around even if I don't see them that way. Usually I'll only talk to them when I'm bored, but they usually contact me first.
I bet if you decided not to "hang around" anymore he probably wouldn't care because he most likely has a whole list of other girls or will build his list back up
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wooww.. I think its funny how you guys think that you know me or him. lol it MAY be that way with you, or the guys you know. but seriously it could be because of alot of reasons, and you guys dont even know the entire history between us.
He contacts me first, e-v-e-r-y time!
anyways.. thanks for your posts
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yeah "lets see what happens" couls sound like an rejection. But he asked me lets meet up, I wanna see you.. that doesnt make sense
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If you think you know whats going on and only you know your history then why ask for advice. We are being real with you. We're not gonna sugar coat it for you
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damn lol @ these posts.
Kstarks, came in her and totally flipped the script. i actually disagree with her. i think your sag still likes you, were just a moving target.
@OP, just chill out and go get a hobby or something. when the sag is ready, he will swing back around.
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Posted by happykitsune
Posted by DMV
any relationship with a venus in aqua wont be a typical romance.


What do you mean it won't be typical? Just pulled up the cappy guys chart and he has a venus in aqua
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http://www.selfhelpastrology.com/#/venus-in-aquarius/4514625345
this is the best description ive read about VIA.
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Maybe he just doesn't want to be emotionally attached to you. NOT that he doesn't like you.
I am a sag and I have a venus in aqua and I do this when I don't want to get more emotionally attached to someone.

It's just can weigh you down if you not good at it and thats all. I doubt it has anything to do with you. Things rarely have to do with us.
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DMV knows what she is talking about too
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@happykitsune Im not asking you to sugar coat it out for me.. Yeah its true I did not give alot of details, my bad..
the thing is. we had made a couple of dates already, after we met 3 weeks ago, but the time just wasnt right. Either I had to do something with my study group - or he had some work to do all of a sudden. So its not that we did not made plans earlier, it just didnt happen. and its not that he doesnt ask me either..
I randomly met him the other day when I was out shopping, and he was very glad to see me.. and called me when I got home, to tell me how beautiful I was when he saw me. that was wednesday, the same day he asked if we should meet, and I said when, and he said, lets see what happens, lets do it spontaniously - he was tired of all these appointments, and wanted to do it spontaniously. I said okay.. no problem for me.
It has been all good until thursday night.. Where he asked me what are u doing tomorrow night, and I said Im going out with my girl friend, I said you can come with us, and he said No I have football practice late, I think I'll be too tired to come, but I'll find out. I dont know if he expected me to say, okay we can go out saturday and then you can come with us. But friday he didnt contact me at all. I texted him saying, are u coming friday night.. And he was all cold saying no, Im tired at home.. and then he texted me, are u drinking and where are u...
Saturday morning he texted me again saying how was your night, did you have fun..
So I thought that I could text him last night.. I just wrote, Hi . How are you... and we texted for a while, but he didnt respond to my last text.
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Sorry my english isnt that good.
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That last post you made was a lot more helpful than your first. Sounds like he feels a lil rejected. I know for me I understand people have other obligations, but when I really like someone and they keep saying they are busy sometime I feel like they are rejecting me. And then Ill be a lil cold to them and won't text as much. You need to talk to him about it and ask if he's feeling that way
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Sorry to team up with the other Sags but I think they are right.
He likes you and probably thinks you are a very nice girl(that's why he gets happy when he talks to you and sees you) but he is not that into you, sorry to say that. But if he was you would know it right away.
That's the thing about us Sags, when we like you and want you you will be the first one to know it and we won't let you wait, why let 3 weeks go by when we could be spending them with you?
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Posted by silentdoll9
That's the thing about us Sags, when we like you and want you you will be the first one to know it and we won't let you wait, why let 3 weeks go by when we could be spending them with you?


i do agree with this. but i also need a break here and there.
i do loathe being ignored; especially when im persistent.
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^^^ Right
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Posted by happykitsune
That last post you made was a lot more helpful than your first. Sounds like he feels a lil rejected. I know for me I understand people have other obligations, but when I really like someone and they keep saying they are busy sometime I feel like they are rejecting me. And then Ill be a lil cold to them and won't text as much. You need to talk to him about it and ask if he's feeling that way


I also feel this way. He may really like you or more, but if he feels its not being reciprocated, he will pull away. We need reassurance in a relationship. I have done this, I have left men over this. Then they are shocked because they thought they had me in the palm of their hand.
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thanks for your posts guys.. ! smile
my sag guy texted me today.. he said that he misses me, and wanted to see me.. I think we are meeting this weekend.
Think I wanna take it slow.. Lets see what happens..
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IGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH: Im done with sag!!!!
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Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
IGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH: Im done with sag!!!!


What happened?
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we planned to meet in the weekend.. he texted me friday asking how I was bla bla... and I asked, are we going to meet tomorrow saturday.. and he said 'no Im sorry I have plans, what about sunday?' even tho he knows I work every sunday..
I dont know, I think the girls in here might be right, he just doesnt likes me.. he shows interest and then dont, back and forth all the time.. Im tired of it.
Funny you and him got the same sun, moon and venus Sagittarius89 smile
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Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
we planned to meet in the weekend.. he texted me friday asking how I was bla bla... and I asked, are we going to meet tomorrow saturday.. and he said 'no Im sorry I have plans, what about sunday?' even tho he knows I work every sunday..
I dont know, I think the girls in here might be right, he just doesnt likes me.. he shows interest and then dont, back and forth all the time.. Im tired of it.
Funny you and him got the same sun, moon and venus Sagittarius89 smile



Hmm well you never really can tell these days with people can ya?
Haha ya it is
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That's one thing other signs need to learn, just because we flirt with you and it looks like we're showing an interest doesn't mean we like you a lot. I mean if we really like you a lot we'll probably be hanging out all the time. I mean I still hang out with guys I think are cool, but I only see them as friends. I'll still flirt with them too. But as soon as I find a guy I want to date all flirting with other guys stops, I'll take it slow with the guy, sometimes be real lovey dovey and hang out with him as much as I can.
I'm sorry that happened to you :/ We can really do a lot of damage just because we don't like burning bridges, but in the end it really hurts the other person.
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Posted by kstarks2

Did i NOT tell you this already on page 2? You got all up in your feelings and said I didn't know what I was talking about.
and perhaps there lies your problem...You're feelings are way too invested and he see's that.
There is this game I learned a Sag likes to play...its called "Cat and Mouse"


Aww she can't help it, shes a libra. You have to understand they are very emotional, thats why they really don't make good partners for sagis unless the sagi is willing to commit.
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Really? I don't think she sounds emotional. She just wanted to know what was going on.

She said she knows now too. I don't think it's that big of a deal
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Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
IGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH: Im done with sag!!!!


I believe this is what I categorize as emotional. Then again I have a pretty good hold on my emotions so any sign of getting upset about most anything is emotional to me. Most of the time libras are happy, but when things dont go their way and people don't make them happy they can get pretty mean or upset
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Hmm
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Not all people. Some people actually have control over there emotions
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You have to let your emotions out of course. Some of us just choose not to subject others to our emotions. Personally I find it selfish to make someone have to deal with my bad emotions. That's why I will express them later, on my own, through art, video games, or music
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Im not emotionel and if I was I wouldnt show him that.. I just wanted him to be Real.. I wanted to know if h? is worth my time, but him playing the?_ games ruined it, and yes this is games ..
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Posted by happykitsune
That's one thing other signs need to learn, just because we flirt with you and it looks like we're showing an interest doesn't mean we like you a lot. I mean if we really like you a lot we'll probably be hanging out all the time. I mean I still hang out with guys I think are cool, but I only see them as friends. I'll still flirt with them too. But as soon as I find a guy I want to date all flirting with other guys stops, I'll take it slow with the guy, sometimes be real lovey dovey and hang out with him as much as I can.
I'm sorry that happened to you :/ We can really do a lot of damage just because we don't like burning bridges, but in the end it really hurts the other person.


Agree 100% !
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Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
Im not emotionel and if I was I wouldnt show him that.. I just wanted him to be Real.. I wanted to know if h? is worth my time, but him playing the?_ games ruined it, and yes this is games ..


Yeah we play games and dance around emotions we're not comfortable with. Sorry :/
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Happykitsun, you dont need to apologize, I Will survive lol smile btw I found out that his Moon and rising sign that I wrote here might not be correct because I dont know the time of the day h? were born....
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you dont need the time of birth for moon sign; only place and date of birth. time of birth is needed for rising sign and house placements. his moon, sun. and other signs may be more influential than his rising sign.
for example, my ruling planet is the sun in my chart and my ruling sign is scorpio; sag 2nd, venus in cap 3rd. also uranus is the most heavily aspected planet in my chart.
www.astro.com
extended charts selection
pullen astrolgy
walter pullen
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ok thank you DMV, I just read that somewhere.. so how do u find out wich planet is the ruling
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Posted by happykitsune
If you think you know whats going on and only you know your history then why ask for advice. We are being real with you. We're not gonna sugar coat it for you


I was about to write the same thing, LoL
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