When sag guy spends more on your present than you do on his.. awkward or OK?
This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by aj123 on Saturday, June 17, 2017 and has 30 replies.
Been seeing a sag man (early 30s) for a few months now - I am mid-20s.. we have our ups and downs but anyway, my birthday and his birthday were sorta close by so we exchanged gifts on the same day.. I usually spend as much as the other person will spend on pressies so it's fair but couldn't use that technique this time as we were giving each other the presents on the same day..
Anyway, I found out he had bought me a perfume for slightly over £60.. whilst I had bought him stuff that totals to about £9... I even made a big thing of telling him this as I didn't know the perfume would have been expensive until I googled it so thought £9 was a good amount to spend on him...
Now I feel really awkward and uncomfortable that he might have been secretly disappointed or annoyed to spend so much on me when I spent about £50 less than him on his pressies...
I know the traditional view is that men generally pay for more stuff for the girl than the other way (but I know modern approaches of equality might void this reasoning).. Also, he is the one and only person I have ever slept with and he knows this since I was a virgin when we met..
What would a sagittarius male think??
Anyway, I found out he had bought me a perfume for slightly over £60.. whilst I had bought him stuff that totals to about £9... I even made a big thing of telling him this as I didn't know the perfume would have been expensive until I googled it so thought £9 was a good amount to spend on him...
Now I feel really awkward and uncomfortable that he might have been secretly disappointed or annoyed to spend so much on me when I spent about £50 less than him on his pressies...
I know the traditional view is that men generally pay for more stuff for the girl than the other way (but I know modern approaches of equality might void this reasoning).. Also, he is the one and only person I have ever slept with and he knows this since I was a virgin when we met..
What would a sagittarius male think??
Seriously.....
This is a non friggin issue.
This is a non friggin issue.
I always value the person giving me the gift, rather than the gift itself. *it's the thought that counts*
I imagine other Sagis feel the same way.
I imagine other Sagis feel the same way.
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.
It's not about the money, it's about the gesture
It's not about the money, it's about the gesture
I can't even imagine my Sag Fiancé getting upset for something like that at all...he is thankful for anything and everything I get him.
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Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.
Posted by DistilledIt's purpose is to remember myself that women are evilPosted by TheSagFeels like it's waiting for the one.
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
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Posted by WhorpioI want the nudes first!!!Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.click to expand
Posted by LazyKJust give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.
It's not about the money, it's about the gesture
That was one moronic statement!
Posted by TheSagDon't you have returning option?
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Posted by TheSagLike WHY? She set the rule! Put up or drink that perfume without any nudes!Posted by WhorpioI want the nudes first!!!Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.click to expand
Posted by DistilledIt did! The damn cashier took way too long to do itPosted by TheSagWrapping a bottle-shaped ? Must've taken some time and effort.Posted by DistilledIt's purpose is to remember myself that women are evilPosted by TheSagFeels like it's waiting for the one.
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
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Posted by GemitatiIt's been almost 2 yearsPosted by TheSagDon't you have returning option?
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
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lol
Posted by GemitatiI WANT THE NUDES!!!!Posted by TheSagLike WHY? She set the rule! Put up or drink that perfume without any nudes!Posted by WhorpioI want the nudes first!!!Posted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.click to expand
Posted by DistilledNot really, I hate them both..Posted by TheSagLol she must've been an ?Posted by DistilledIt did! The damn cashier took way too long to do itPosted by TheSagWrapping a bottle-shaped ? Must've taken some time and effort.Posted by DistilledIt's purpose is to remember myself that women are evilPosted by TheSagFeels like it's waiting for the one.
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
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Posted by DistilledThe wrapper, that evil girl, emojis just like everyone!Posted by TheSagThe wrapper and potential girt receiver or the emojis?Posted by DistilledNot really, I hate them both..Posted by TheSagLol she must've been an ?Posted by DistilledIt did! The damn cashier took way too long to do itPosted by TheSagWrapping a bottle-shaped ? Must've taken some time and effort.Posted by DistilledIt's purpose is to remember myself that women are evilPosted by TheSagFeels like it's waiting for the one.
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
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Posted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.
I want the nudes first!!!click to expand
K gimme yo address
Posted by Whorpiowhat address? Send me nudes, damn it!Posted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.
I want the nudes first!!!
K gimme yo addressclick to expand
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Posted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.
I want the nudes first!!!
K gimme yo address
what address? Send me nudes, damn it!click to expand
I'm sending them in the mail!!
Posted by DistilledMmmmm...I can live with itPosted by TheSagNot everyone.Posted by DistilledThe wrapper, that evil girl, emojis just like everyone!Posted by TheSagThe wrapper and potential girt receiver or the emojis?Posted by DistilledNot really, I hate them both..Posted by TheSagLol she must've been an ?Posted by DistilledIt did! The damn cashier took way too long to do itPosted by TheSagWrapping a bottle-shaped ? Must've taken some time and effort.Posted by DistilledIt's purpose is to remember myself that women are evilPosted by TheSagFeels like it's waiting for the one.
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Perfume is sad if it's not sprayed around and just idle. Turns a yucky color.click to expand
Posted by WhorpioI LOVE you!Posted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.
I want the nudes first!!!
K gimme yo address
what address? Send me nudes, damn it!
I'm sending them in the mail!!click to expand
Signed Up: Mar 31, 2017
Comments: 2563 · Posts: 6340 · Topics: 139
Comments: 2563 · Posts: 6340 · Topics: 139
Posted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.
I want the nudes first!!!
K gimme yo address
what address? Send me nudes, damn it!
I'm sending them in the mail!!
I LOVE you! ❤️click to expand
Yo momma said that to me too...when I was between her legs
Posted by WhorpioOh really, but she is dead honey.Posted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.
I want the nudes first!!!
K gimme yo address
what address? Send me nudes, damn it!
I'm sending them in the mail!!
I LOVE you! ❤️
Yo momma said that to me too...when I was between her legsclick to expand
So what's wrong with you? First you talk about sending me nudes now you talk about my dead momma? Either send me nudes or shut up
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Posted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSagPosted by WhorpioPosted by TheSag
I don't care about getting presents at all
But I once spent 80€ on a perfume for a girl but I never gave it to her because she cut me off after an argument
The perfume is still covered in wrapping paper on my cupboard lol
Would you be interested in sending that perfume my way? I can send nudes in exchange.
I want the nudes first!!!
K gimme yo address
what address? Send me nudes, damn it!
I'm sending them in the mail!!
I LOVE you! ❤️
Yo momma said that to me too...when I was between her legs
Oh really, but she is dead honey.
So what's wrong with you? First you talk about sending me nudes now you talk about my dead momma? Either send me nudes or shut upclick to expand
You never gave me your address
Posted by GemitatiSo you can write in language other than gibberishPosted by LazyKJust give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.
It's not about the money, it's about the gesture
That was one moronic statement!click to expand
Posted by LazyKI can do anything if I chose to do itPosted by GemitatiSo you can write in language other than gibberishPosted by LazyKJust give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.
It's not about the money, it's about the gesture
That was one moronic statement!click to expand
Posted by GemitatiWell, do what u want & do me goodPosted by LazyKI can do anything if I chose to do itPosted by GemitatiSo you can write in language other than gibberishPosted by LazyKJust give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.
It's not about the money, it's about the gesture
That was one moronic statement!click to expand
Posted by LazyKDo yourself good! Know how?Posted by GemitatiWell, do what u want & do me goodPosted by LazyKI can do anything if I chose to do itPosted by GemitatiSo you can write in language other than gibberishPosted by LazyKJust give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.
It's not about the money, it's about the gesture
That was one moronic statement!click to expand
Posted by GemitatiCock pull on tongue between your teethsPosted by LazyKDo yourself good! Know how?Posted by GemitatiWell, do what u want & do me goodPosted by LazyKI can do anything if I chose to do itPosted by GemitatiSo you can write in language other than gibberishPosted by LazyKJust give him something expensive next time because we don't care about money?
Sagg don't care. Just save up and give them something nice & expensive next time around.
It's not about the money, it's about the gesture
That was one moronic statement!click to expand
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