Will he forgive me??

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Eyes84 on Wednesday, September 4, 2013 and has 25 replies.
Hello I am a female Leo and I fell for a very busy Sagittarius... We have been talking for a year long distance.. He has 3 kids and he said he fell for me but I could never tell a lot of times we would stop talking because he never made much time for me. If I was lucky I might get a call once a week.. It seemed when I became distant he pushed in on me harder But if i did the same thing it was considered chasing. He kept asking me to come visit him and at the time I just wasn't finically ready. Finally last month I came for a weekend to visit him and things got passionate quick.. Afterwards he gets a call and finds out his ex wife and kids got in go a car accident so he had to leave... I was very understanding but I will Admit I was bummed I didn't see him After that... When I got home I noticed he became distance. I saw him having convos with girls on fb and didn't even make sure I got home ok and I was livid... Things went down hill from there I started to become suspicious that there was no emergency that night and he was pissed he said i show you there was an accident and after that I don't want to hear from you again. He sent some insurance info to show me there was an accident. I felt bad now I would like to explain myself but is it too late to even patch things up??
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he'll get over it
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Not blaming you at all, but him keeping you on the back burner plus talking to other women fueled your anger and jealousy and that's understandable. The biggest lesson we Sag males have to learn is that love is loyalty. Can't just go charging off all the time when you know your lady wants your attention and then say she's jealous. You're the reason why. Either you invest or keep it moving and you can't get everything your way. If I were you I'd move on because he's not ready to settle down.
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You are right beautiful but even if he isn't ready u would still like to remain friends... I wanted to let him cool down a few months and maybe u will contact him again
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Oops I meant *i* would like to remain friends
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Posted by Eyes84
You are right beautiful but even if he isn't ready u would still like to remain friends... I wanted to let him cool down a few months and maybe u will contact him again


He probably still considers you a friend and is letting things cool off a little _??_ You'll hear from him soon enough
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Did you not read my message right?? I said I was bummed... His children come first I would of been pissed if he didnt go to him.. It was just unfortunate it happened at the time I came. The only thing I ever wanted from him was a little time most days I didn't hear from him but I still remained there got him. Wow real selfish of me..
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"For him" damn spell check
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And of course I asked about his children that whole weekend.. I didn't type my whole life story. Never Assume something without asking.. The nerve you call me selfish I'm pissed because you assume that and you don't know me.
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It was kinda selfish. Maybe you shouldnt date guts with kids. Especially 3 damn kids. I dont date guys w kids because I dont come first.
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Posted by DMV
It was kinda selfish. Maybe you shouldnt date guts with kids. Especially 3 damn kids. I dont date guys w kids because I dont come first.


DMV...how you gone contradict yourself? You call her selfish but then say I don't date guys with kids because I don't come first? I respect your honesty but I'm a little disappointed lol
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There is way more to this story I don't even have time to type.... He isn't all innocent in this either... Yes taking on a man with three kids might be a bit much for me.... Leo's need attention that's just part of the deal when you catch a lion.
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Posted by DMV
It was kinda selfish. Maybe you shouldnt date guts with kids. Especially 3 damn kids. I dont date guys w kids because I dont come first.


DMV...how you gone contradict yourself? You call her selfish but then say I don't date guys with kids because I don't come first? I respect your honesty but I'm a little disappointed lol
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I know that im a selfish person so I dont date men with kids. How did I contradict myself?
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Posted by DMV
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Posted by DMV
It was kinda selfish. Maybe you shouldnt date guts with kids. Especially 3 damn kids. I dont date guys w kids because I dont come first.


DMV...how you gone contradict yourself? You call her selfish but then say I don't date guys with kids because I don't come first? I respect your honesty but I'm a little disappointed lol


I know that im a selfish person so I dont date men with kids. How did I contradict myself?
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Well its simple. You can call her out for being selfish while you're also selfish and actually in the same way she is...if that's what actually happened. Takes away your credibility but you probably don't care _??_
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Posted by DMV
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Posted by DMV
It was kinda selfish. Maybe you shouldnt date guts with kids. Especially 3 damn kids. I dont date guys w kids because I dont come first.


DMV...how you gone contradict yourself? You call her selfish but then say I don't date guys with kids because I don't come first? I respect your honesty but I'm a little disappointed lol


I know that im a selfish person so I dont date men with kids. How did I contradict myself?


Well its simple. You can call her out for being selfish while you're also selfish and actually in the same way she is...if that's what actually happened. Takes away your credibility but you probably don't care _??_
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i think it would add to my credibility especially if ive been there done that.
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Not to speak for DMV, but i think that's where she was going with that. Making a distinction.


yeah thats where i was going.
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bwahahahahahahahahahah

rofl

#dead
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I'm sorry but there is no distinction in selfishness. What because you wouldn't get involved with a guy in the first place because you don't come first, selfishness makes you more morally right? I reiterate my original point. Selfishness is not lessened because the situation is different or one does/doesn't take action. I'm just being real about it.
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
I don't know what yall thinking, but them so tig ol bitties! Thick too....umph


Leave it to Pothead lmao!!
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm sorry but there is no distinction in selfishness. What because you wouldn't get involved with a guy in the first place because you don't come first, selfishness makes you more morally right? I reiterate my original point. Selfishness is not lessened because the situation is different or one does/doesn't take action. I'm just being real about it.


Sorry I dont get what trying to prove. I think your making a mountain out of a molehill.
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Those tig ol bitties probably have something to do with it Confused
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Posted by DMV
Posted by beautifulsoul74
I'm sorry but there is no distinction in selfishness. What because you wouldn't get involved with a guy in the first place because you don't come first, selfishness makes you more morally right? I reiterate my original point. Selfishness is not lessened because the situation is different or one does/doesn't take action. I'm just being real about it.


Sorry I dont get what trying to prove. I think your making a mountain out of a molehill.
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*sag shrug* ok
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Cool smile
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Posted by Wynter
Those tig ol bitties probably have something to do with it Confused



Dead... I can't!!! Lmfaooo!!
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Posted by Wynter
Those tig ol bitties probably have something to do with it Confused


Lol...I kinda eluded to that _???
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