2008 Resolutions...

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SouthernT
@SouthernT
18 Years

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"ScorpioBehindYou--->I think if you make a resolution to not make any resolutions. You'll find it to be more fulfilling."

yeah I understand what you're saying, but I cant agree with you on this one. If a person's actions are not getting them the results that they want, then that means that they need to make personal changes to get what they want.

Alot people loose someone that they love because they refuse to make adjustments and compromise for the sake of BOTH individuals involved. Then later on, that same person is saying "shoulda... woulda... coulda..."
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SouthernT
@SouthernT
18 Years

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"So ST...what are YOUR resolutions in those areas then—?
May I suggest avoiding Scorps until you can think with your intuition—?
Try Cancer instead...good ol mama's boy. Or even your polar opposite...a dreamy Pisces.
But please....please....dahling...don't wait a year.....k————?"

I have nooo problem at all sharing and admiting my faults. No hang ups in that department.
My resolutions:

For at least 12 months, I vow to simply hang out with guys and not have ANY expectations and enjoy their friendships. Just have a good time and take life one day at a time. Part of my problem is this mental image that I have in my head of the end result that I want: Marriage and kids. I have this HUGE fear that it will never happen for me. In fact, that is my #1 fear in life and as a person. That no one will love me enough to want to marry me. (regardless of how much I know I love myself) And it shows through my actions with men. Next year, I will let go alot sooner and be more cut-throat about letting go of a situation. Won't stick around where I'm not wanted or needed. No expectations...No intentions. No feelings.