3 way thing

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by H on Friday, March 22, 2002 and has 3 replies.
Just after I split with my ex I met a scropion. His guy was great and helped me greatly, he picked me up many times etc. My ex telephoned him day in and day out threatening him and then begging him to leave me alone. I know my scorpio told my ex that I didnt love him anymore and to let me live my life. Scorpio made me very happy but the constant hazzle from my ex was tearing me apart. I just couldnt cope and so ended it with my scorpio - but guess what we made up again - I didnt want to be without him. My scorpio had to go away on business for a few weeks and my ex tortured me physically and mentally over that time. When my scorpio returned I called it off again - I was totally washed out and couldnt take anymore. During this split my ex still hazzled him. My scorpio came to see me the day he was leaving (away long term on business) and ended up holding each other and promised to stay in touch (he wanted me to promise that I would met up with him but I didnt answer this question moreso because I wasnt sure that I could - my ex had been abusive and I was afraid of what he would do if he found out). Back to point I kept in contact with scorpio and he asked if I would met him - I didnt answer and I feel because I didnt he said he wanted out (ex was still hazzling him on phone and he told him he wouldnt contact me again). I think he felt I was putting my ex over him but I wasnt I was just so afraid. Now months later I can look back and see this and believe me I would met him tomorrow if asked (what a wonderful thing hindsight is). My scorpio did try once to contact me (the night of his birthday - probably totally out of it) but he has never tried since. I think deep down he has been hurt by all this but if I had of met him at the time I would of been bringing him into a situation where he would have had to stand up for me - my ex would have wanted to kill him. Did I do right or wrong, who knows, sometimes I feel that I should have just braved it out and met my scorpio. I believe my scorpio was prepared to live with the hazzle once he had me but I felt guilty about putting him in that situation. See what a mess! Do I contact him now - take a chance and see if he still wants to met? I think the thing that confuses me is did he feel hurt because I wouldnt met him and thought I put my ex first or did he just get fed up with it all and think I wasnt worth it. Everytime in the past I called it off as soon as we met well we just knew it was back on - we couldnt help it but now with being so far apart will it be the same over the telpehone. Has he decided to cut all ties and move on. Who knows but I wish I did know.
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Call your Scorpio! Tell him why you did what you did, out of fear and anxiety from the ex. I've been there and the fear can be a crippling thing. Get as far away from the ex as you can!!! Do whatever you have to do to get away from him. Abusers are bullies, sometimes just standing up to them and being determined not to take their abuse will cause them to back off. Again, call your Scorpio and cut all ties with the ex as much as possible.
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I've heard this story over and over and over again. Make a move. Do something. Talking about it again and again isn't helping you.
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